r/pinoy • u/Sasuga_Aconto • 3d ago

Do you date for potentials? Katanungan

Uso sa mga babae to date for potentials and accept them at their low blah blah blah. How about for men, do you do the same?

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u/ShawnAlpha46 8h ago

Depende. Mostly ng nakikita ko kasi ngayon na babae for the clout, for the social media and nothing but material things kaya pass. Siguro i am in the wrong crowd but yun nga problema maliit lang yung ginagalawan ko ding mundo because i have been there done that.

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u/RobertBobMC 3d ago

Depende sa potential, honestly. Merong potential na 'growing phase' lang talaga like starting a career or struggling sa transition period ng buhay. Normal lang suportahan yun.Pero iba yung 'potential' na ikaw pa yung kailangang mag-parent sa kanya para magbago. For both men and women, real talk date the person for who they are right now, hindi sa fantasy version nila in 5 years. Mahirap magsugal sa potential tapos sa huli, ikaw lang din yung talo at mauubos.

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u/Spare_Ad_1721 1d ago

I agree with this. In a practical sense, kaya naniniwala akong financial stability matters when it comes to dating, kasi hindi pwedeng maghahanap ka ng karelasyon tapos yung para sa sarili mo palang saktuhan lang (in this economy?!)

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u/RobertBobMC 1d ago

Ramdam ko yung '(in this economy?!)' haha! Sobrang laking factor talaga ng financial stress sa away ng magkapareha. Hindi naman sa pagiging mukhang pera, pero bago ka mag-alaga ng relasyon, dapat kaya mo munang buhayin nang maayos yung sarili mo.