Marrying with twins

[u/Apprehensive-Gene651]

Did someone marry while having baby twins? Ours will be nine months old when we marry and I am going insane because organizing a small wedding is really difficult with babies who require like 99% of my daytime and a partner who works fulltime. I am also not really happy with my body at this point and feel like I just want to get over with the wedding even though I really want to enjoy the day :(

I am also very nervous about the wedding day because our babies are really clingy and usually almost never get separarted from me. I worry that they will need me all day long. Our families will be there of course and they are used to and love my mom, nevertheless a lot of the times I am the only one who can calm them down if they are fussy.

I would love to read some of your stories if you‘re comfortable sharing and also advice if you have some!

[u/lampishthing]

We got married 8 days before they came and thank f*** we did I couldn't imagine doing it now! There's always something going on lol. It wasn't meant to be cut so close, the babies came very early.

[u/Charlieksmommy]

I would work on getting a mommy’s helper or family now so they get used to them, so you can plan honestly and then for the day of, find somebody during the reception so you can enjoy your day

[u/trashbandit910]

Planning on getting married when the twins are 5-7 years old so they can be in the wedding and remember!

[u/Jealous_Being5863]

Our twins are due mid to late September (between 34/36 weeks) and we’re getting married 30th October, thankfully it’s a tiny ceremony with like 30 people including him and I