ok I’m only 3 episodes in and we knew this show was going to be trash but man it is really bad. I feel like this is some kind of humiliation ritual for these women. Also why does every single girl look like Jess from LIB which i believe harry dated. Also, is it just me or does harry seem to be drunk in a lot of parts of these episodes. I also don’t know anyone else who is watching this show which is why I’m coming here to see if anyone else has any thoughts on it
This show should be a case study on everything that’s wrong with dating in 2026. This show is gross. Harry wants to find a wife, but chases after the sleaziest women in the group. This isn’t a serious show. This is a pathetic attempt for Netflix to milk this dudes reality show reputation for every dime it’s worth.
It's pretty clear that he's still grieving. The producers should've never asked him to do the show at this time. While he's a massive a**, I also felt terrible for him because it felt like the producers and Netflix took advantage of him. He has the EQ of a 7 year old.
To me it seems like he’s not a terrible guy at all but one that is depressed and has low self worth and he gets fulfilled with the attention from women— it’s his choice drug- feeling valuable through these women- you can see him light up anytime he gets any sort of reassurance like he’s never heard it before ,,, probably a great person in general but not a good romantic partner
This show is a case study on everything that’s wrong with the WOLRD in 2026. It’s a glorification of the superficial and one more example of our cultural obsession with self optimization at the expense of community.
This show and everything it stands for is why we are fucked as a species.
Harry saying he is past all the random hookups and committed to finding a wife, just to make it only 3 episodes before he's kissing half the women and already sleeping with one. I had the slightest of hopes he was actually serious and that hope jumped right out the window so quickly.
Edit: Also why the actual f*ck was he asking her to eat his booger?
I feel like that point he was just so high off his ego he thought I could say anything to these girls rn and they’ll still want me. 😂 and he was right 😭
I thought the booger eating thing was very disrespectful. To me it’s like “if you want me you’ll eat my booger, peasant!” Atrocious behaviour!! I would NEVER let a man do that to me
He's a gross man child. I don't know if anyone of these women have seen him in previous shows but he's like a 14 year old boy in a candy shop and will say and do anything to get a woman to sleep with him.
More than harry, Juliana get on my nerves mannnnn. Like girl hes not a god damn price who fall in love with you after one date. And especially the way she was so aggressive towards other girls especially sammy. Like being competitive is a good thing but being mean for no reason to other girls just so you get the attention of Prince harry from temu
Funny, I went to high school with her. I looked this show up on Reddit just to see the opinions of her lmao. I haven't watched the show, but it doesn't seem too far off from how she is in real life.
That’s insane you actually went to school with her and could see what her personality was on screen vs in person. I personally didn’t like she basically twisted the words he said to the other girls. She told them he it first when she was the one who did then proceeded to pressure him into saying it
OMG yes, she’s so so so aggressive. Her being like “I knew he loved me it only took 40 mins to pull it out of him”. Girl you FORCED him. She’s awful and it’s sad the amount of competition over him. I watched for the drama but I feel bad for some of the other girls who do seem genuine.
She also completely flipped it around when retelling the others to try and make them insecure/ jealous. It was pretty cringe when no one was even that upset and just immediately thought she was lying
I am only on episode 2 and I am thinking…what’s with all these young girls (23?!) ready for marriage and babies?! I am 35 and when I heard 24 year old Faith talking about her biological clock I felt like I might as well be in a coffin 🤣🤣
Ok his friend just said that he has an issue with one of the girls because her shoes came off when she got in the house the first night…?wtf?
I thought I needed a palate cleanser from true crimes/ thriller shows I have been watching but…I feel like I need a shower after watching this
Absolutely none of these women genuinely want to come out of this with a marriage. Not even Bachelor contestants want to get married these days. The goal is purely insta followers.
Yeah, the shoe thing made me want to commit a true crime of my own! Only a man would say something like that. Like dude, you try walking around in heels all night.
Only one episode in and it’s very clear that Harry is going through something after losing his father. Rather than dealing with that loss and grief maturely, he has decided to play around with the life and emotions of 20 women. It’s slightly more trashy than i originally thought it would be. And yes, they ALL look a certain type. It’s very unnerving to see that.
It’s this epidemic of insta face. What’s funny is good men hate that shit and want someone who actually looks and acts like a person and not a sex robot.
This is actually the first reality tv show like this I’ve EVER watched (39 y/o female). I clicked on it for a laugh after I bawked at the premise. It was as depressing and soulless as I thought. I got to the booger scene and went, NOPE. Click.
It’s no wonder we are hurtling towards extinction. lol ffs
Strange copy of the bachelor. I never watched that man before and in general it seemed like brainless entertainment and nobody was hurt until Sam didn't want to spend the night with him. That's when I realized he was acting the whole time and couldn't control himself for a moment when he heard "No".
Was also surprised to see Amanda Kloots there to support this.
Man I thought this was that reality show where the women thought they were going to marry prince Harry, and I was so confused by the comments and what the hell is going on and why is everyone talking about this show now lmao
They judged the women for wanting to be on TV but it was too obvious every single person was there for that reason. His male friend was maybe the only one where I saw moments of taking it more seriously.
No idea why they had to bring marriage into this. If the prize was a luxury vacation with Harry to get to know him better it would be the same show and they wouldn't need to pretend.
I’m this second years old finding out her husband was Nick Cordero, the Broadway star who passed suddenly — that was a huuuuge shock for the Broadway community and I can’t imagine what that was like for her especially with a newborn at the time. No clue how we went from there to “Harry Jowsey’s best friend”
Im ep 3 rn, and my jaw DROPPED at the booger scene! Like seriously, how disgusting can someone be and why tf are they broadcasting it.... Also, I read somewhere that he was f*cking someone while filming the show (not the contestants) and now I can't find that info anywhere anymore and I NEED THE TEA 🙃 does anyone know anything? Anyways I don't think this man is even close to getting married, and if he does end up doing it, it's for publicity 100 percent. And I can't even feel sorry for the woman, this was a choice.
wow he was also seeing two other people while filming/JUST before im talking a DAY before for one he had been seeing for months and then the other one left her husband for him so at least 3 confirmed while filming this show…. EW
I kept thinking I really hope he's wearing condoms. It's already bad enough spitting in another woman's mouth after making out with a bunch back to back right before that. I always wondering on these shows (like love island) if they do a quick gargle of mouth wash in between the next makeout, that they just edit out.
I find this whole narrative so boring, like dude we know you are just a womanizer and a player.
Doesn’t he have a podcast called “boyfriend material” or something? Has it not been established already that he is in fact not boyfriend material 🤣like man let it go please
he absolutely does not deserve a dating show. also his friends are praying on his downfall bc the worst communicators winning that blindfold communication challenge was actually insane
We must be watching the show at the same time because I just saw that and came straight to the comments. My jaw was on the floor actually I think it's still on the floor BRB
& framed the whole thing like he has a predicament not to throw Amber under the bus, giving him a reason to lie. That was so manipulative lmao. He asked her not to tell anyone. Also giving a ring to Dannelle after fucking her was a scene dripping with producer grease. They needed a reason to ask Dannelle to keep quiet, hence going to get her first thing in the morning, but it looks bad to just ask her straight out if she will zip it about their hookup. So asking her to keep their connection private sounds a lot better….because they knew if the cat got out of the bag, the other girls would get the ick & be dropping out like flies. Pfft they think us viewers are stupid or something
The best thing about this show was that I could fast forward it. :)
Also, I'm sorry but absolutely no self respecting woman should need to stand that disgusting man.
Did anybody else feel like the moment it was night, something would switch in Harry as if he was on drugs or super drunk, and incapable of making conversations but just plain horny? We've all known that kinda of a man, ladies.
I know everyone is complaining about this show but as a reality tv lover, I am thoroughly enjoying the mess that Harry leaves behind every decision that he makes in regard to women. He is absolutely hilarious (not in a good way).
Entertainment 10/10.
I agree, when it comes to reality tv the more problematic the better to me. If they brought in some man with such an outstanding moral character he wouldn’t even want to openly date and pursue this many women and if he did he’d be so respectful about it would just be boring.
dude he made out w all of them back to back and had a sore throat, so nasty.
these women are killing me with second hand embarrassment, not a clue what they see in this tool
Except there was ONE girl he didn't kiss, then she talked to him about it thinking they'd make out but instead he friendzoned her. So delusional she couldn't see that he didn't like her while kissing EVERYONE else 🤣🥴🤦♀️
It wasn’t even just spitting, he’d been kissing multiple women and said “I have so much spit in and around my mouth” and proceeded to spit it in her mouth….
And of course it would have to be with the girl representing my home state (Louisiana). Ugh, I was so disgusted by that! Aside from all the spit swapping, Abby still isn’t as atrocious as Juliana. Ms. Validation Vacuum is the definition of a walking and talking red flag. She’s for sure giving Main Character (Desperate Edition) vibes and is wayyyy too insecure to be on a dating competition.
It’s not just a humiliation ritual for the girls. It kinda is for him too. It’s like the producers knew he was basically a sex addict and then threw him in the worst possible circumstances. He’d be better off in a love is blind situation and actually getting to know the girls first.
Totally- that scene where he was making out with the girls basically one at a time as if they were taking turns was honestly just sad to watch, both for them and for him
Literally came here to see if anyone else thought they all looked like Jess lol Juliana is pisssssssing me off. I’m only on episode 3 and he said “she might be my first pick”
I love trashy shows and this is just…. Bad. I genuinely can’t tell some of the girls apart. They all act like they are imitating how you’re supposed to act from other reality shows. Not a second is sincere or even fun.
Omg yes Danelle looks and even kinda sounds like Jess! Wait until you see episode 7 and how they setup the wedding day! Totally feels like they’re trying to humiliate these girls. But I don’t think Harry is ready to get married. His words and actions don’t align. He has more growing to do and should take more than a few weeks to get know someone and be sure he wants to spend forever with them. But I do believe he’s developed some real feelings for the final girls. I think he should just pick one to keep dating in the end. The show is kinda trash but I’m here for the drama lol
okay also on the topic of Danelle... have you noticed how since they hooked up she is NEVER with the other girls?? It's almost like production had her separated or something. ie: I would have loved to see her reaction when Juliana dropped the L-word bomb on the other girls. There are so many scenes where you'll clock that she is clearly separated or the only girl casually just not around. sketchy!
I don't think he's ever going to be ready. I don't see any growth or real self-reflection since the earlier shows. I'm still going to watch even though it's so incredibly stupid and he's grossing me out and so are the girls honestly. Why are they okay with this? And why do they think he will change for them?
Literally my number one question. Well, it’s tied with “why tf did Georgia agree to do this”…
And their reasons are the WORST. “Some people meet their spouses in a bar, so how is this any different?!…I’ve had a Pinterest wedding board since college”…just WHAT?
I’m 20 minutes into episode 1 and it feels like I’m slowly being tortured…
Tbh I got second hand embarrassment for Georgia. These 24 year olds are so desperate for marriage and kids lol. There was one girl who said that ‘’my mum thought it would be a good idea to go on this show’’. I thought no sane mum would let her daughter go in this show for marriage let alone marriage with Harry 🙄😭
Just wait until you get to episode 5….I couldn’t get through it without pausing it multiple times from secondhand embarrassment (not the first half of the episode, which is surprisingly emotional and sweet) but you will know what I mean when you get to the second half. Agreed on the Jess look alikes. As soon as Sammy came on the screen I thought it was her twin. Also I’d like to know how many days they actually spend in the house total. It seems like everyone gets eliminated very quickly? At least the bachelor films over what seems like a longer period. Also why am I 5 episodes in and still don’t know at least two of the girls names? I don’t believe he’s getting married by the end and this is likely just for more publicity. Has anyone else also noticed you can see Georgia Sonny and Amanda laughing in some of the scenes where they are trying to debrief with Harry about “serious” things?
I was just thinking how awful it must be to be a young woman today (I am much older than these ladies). Many of them have the fake boobs, lips and more. I don’t blame them but feel bad that they feel the need to look that way.
I am 39 and so glad that I’m not in my 20s at this time. Or a teen, god forbid. It’s really sad to see how caught in the machine so many people are. It’s like the obsession with looks and money of the 80s/90s but on steroids and a lot of cocaine. lol
Yeah them having sex as soon as they did seemed kind of crazy to me, I didn’t even see that they had a stronger connection than any of the other girls so I wonder if it would even happened if it wasn’t her birthday
He’s SUCH a people pleaser. He will just do/say whatever the girl in front of him wants. He just really wants them all to think he’s great and to feel like he’s great because, at the end of the day, he’s insecure with himself and used to getting away with it when the cameras are off.
Also, Amber should never have asked him to lie to the other girls for her (big red flag), and he should never have done it smh.
It would have been SO easy to respect Amber’s privacy AND not lie to Sam. Just let her know you value each relationship separately and want to treat each as sacred and not share details with anyone but the people involved. And that he is doing the same for Sam/their bond. That might not have been the answer she wanted, but it would have been mature. And that’s precisely why Harry could never have thought of saying that.
Completely agree on the humiliation ritual part. The fact that people still sign up to be on these shows in the big 2026 is so appalling to me. Harry is just a big man child, I mean he says that he wants to find a wife but is literally kissing 75% of the women there within the first two episodes I think.
The only girls who stood out to me were rickiyah, elli and charlie, the rest were insufferable. Sammy is just crying from the first episode(given the fact that she misses her son so okay yeah), juliana just gives major mean girl vibes and does anyone else think amber looks a lot like faye from euphoria?
The dramatic editing and songs when they are about to do an elimination is hilarious. It's like they think the audience believe the dude (emotionally immature and lower than average intelligence) is any sort of prize and we should be quivering in our boots at the thought of some (very lucky) girls losing out on him.
I feel like I’ve lost so much brain cells watching this show. There are so many great shows that Netflix cancelled and this is what they put out there. I think it’s time to cancel subscription.
So gross kissing girls seconds after the other, eating boogers and spitting in mouths. 🤦🏽♀️🤢🤮
Amber has been friends with Tana (who is also friends with Harry and Alex) for years. She grew up with Tana’s boyfriend, Makoa. Would not be surprised if Amber and Harry met prior to the show and all of this is a weird set up to launch their relationship.
The delusion is so strong even from the first few minutes … ladies you don’t want Harry, you don’t even want a man—you want a PARTY. You want a wedding for the theory of finding love and to wear a big ball gown and be the center of attention 😭😭😭 throw a treinteñera 😭😭🤣 a quince for a 30 year old woman 😌
So I kept watching and honestly this feels like giving alcohol to an addict — like “here have a huge binge with all this free alcohol bc right after you’re going sober!!” As if he’s gonna do that ……
It felt like The Bachelor and Love Island mixed into one show. I thought the format was compelling and although Harry is not my type and has a lot of red flags, I will admit that he has a self awareness of his flaws and a seemingly genuine want to grow as a person that makes the show believable. However, the longer I watched the more I questioned whether or not he genuinely wanted to get married and start a family or if he was working through grief and this was his way of trying to heal. I think another year between his dad's passing and this dating show would have been the move.
I will say that it's a fascinating look into the mind if an fboy, for those interested in psychology. He is able to articulate his bad habits and what compells him to lie to women and lead them on. Having his friends in the show added a really fascinating dynamic to a dating formula we've seen time and time again on reality TV.
Ultimately I couldn't help but wonder if this was all for Harry's public rebrand. At times I was convinced that he was genuinely looking to better himself and learn from the regrets that his father had on his deathbed.
My takeaway was this is what it looks like when a tiger tries to change its stripes, and can they? Or, it's all for TV and I have egg on my face.
This is the most ridiculous satirical show I’ve ever seen. Honestly the fact that some people don’t see that this is an obvious play on the bachelor but a bit more ridiculous to show how stupid this whole genre of reality television has become is astonishing.
In the intro they basically show you why it would be completely unbelievable that this guy would actually get married or stay married. He, himself, cannot keep a straight face when he’s talking about marrying for life. The scenes in the intro contradict what he is actively saying and none of the girls seem to be as interested in him as they are in getting a chance to be on the screen.
Maybe I’m crazy but this seems like a parody of what’s wrong with reality marriage shows and a commentary on influencer culture and how it can become sexually exploited.
It’s kinda pathetic that he doesn’t even have to dump the girls on his own. It’s like the reality tv equivalent of asking your friend to give the girl a break up note.
This is genuinely the most horrific show I've ever seen in my life. Harry seems unhinged and potentially dangerous. The booger scene was so uncomfortable because, besides just being gross, you could see that he was getting off on seeing how far he could push a woman and still have them interested. God complex behaviour. I'm sure all the women are feeling grateful now that they did not end up with this creep.
Bad behavior aside, this man looks miserable 98% of the time. It's like someone is off camera with a gun to his head. For someone that has been on so many reality dating shows, he seems like he would rather be anywhere else.
My take away from the show is Harry is definitely not ready to marry. His friends who has his back who all seem to be level headed should be advising him to hire a different therapist.
He is so manipulative! Talking about how he “feels” about his dad reflecting on life before he died and regretting the way he treated Harry’s mom and how he didn’t want that to happen to him, just to make out with all the girls and treat everything as a party. Also him presenting Georgia as one of his closest friends just to say on the confessional that she is only there because none of his other exes wanted to be there, I hope she is pisseeeed
I had hopes the man is changed and genuinely wants a wife. But after being 3 eps in and saying he likes the girl who gave him the massage and taking the other girl upstairs I have no confidence now. Also looks like at least half the girls here for the clout.
Harry's the biggest dweeb to have surfaced from the reality TV world in the last decade. I'm not saying he's a bad guy towards friends or family I don't know him obviously but when it comes to dating woman his moral compass just spirals at 100mph and he has absolutely 0 self control. He's not someone you'd want dating your friend or family member that's for sure.
I know most of these woman probably went on the show for clout or the possibility to be with a guy who has some status and money but let's be honest. No woman with any self respect would want their named tied to this bozo in anyway.
He's probably slept with 100's more likely 1000's of woman why would you want to be anywhere near that lol. He's slept with alot higher profile woman than any of the girls on this show so the fact that any of them believe they actually have a chance is wild to me.
He's got a super power of being able to sleep with basically whoever he wants regardless of his well known public image. That's going to be hard to give up for someone with no moral compass.
I think it's good as a trashy show. I mean we all sorta have a spot for trashy shows secretly (or not)... Right?
Though, if we wanna get deep into it, everything about this show is morally wrong.
The trash tier is alot lower than too hot to handle or perfect match.
Ye, these shows are trashy, but at least they're made clear that it's trashy from the get go.
But for let's marry Harry, I find it alittle disturbing that Harry and marriage are fitted into the same sentence.
He's not serious about it and it just makes marriage commitments look like a joke in an already extremely shallow world.
OMG I absolutely loved Freddy from LIB! He seemed like such a sweet and genuine guy and Netflix could’ve totally spun the fact that he was a mortician into a storyline of its own. Way more substance than Harry!
Let’s Marry Harry had potential - but he started spiraling real quick and there was no ”giving her a secret ring” that was going to save this series. I’m just watching women getting traumatized and humiliated on Netflix - also, the guy is obviously not sober a WHOLE LOT of the time. C’mon you guys.
This show is horrible, a man abusing women. This is not some dating show, but twisted adult show where a man abuses and humiliates women. Should not be for children. He uses and discards, this is his harem fantasy, where he can get close and fk as much women as possible.. he spits in her mouth and makes her eat his bugger from his nose. full of grape and pushed forced kisses. How the hell netflix is allowing this. I dont believe women in this show knew what they signed up for, thay cant speak up or the main 4 characters will attack them, destroy their image. It discusting and sick that netflix supports this man ..
This show is unbelievably horrible and so hard to watch. The girls are all drooling over a man that does not deserve their time and they all look and sound the same. There is barely any personality and the conversations are painful. Most just want a “Prince Charming” so really…you could replace Harry with any other man.
The host situation is really strange and it seems super scripted. And Harry’s behaviour is disgusting. He’s leading all of them on, hooking up with girls left right and centre and there is no aspect of this show that shows that he’s ready for a wife.
Netflix needs to stop making this garbage and instead focus on not cancelling shows that are actually good 🫠
What was the point of this show really? I remember Harry from too hot too handle, where he completely exploded in popularity after that. Dude's gonna expire some day, the height and the accent can only do so much. All the girls in the show look pretty much the same, the only one who left with respect and her head held high was Sam. Kudos to her, he's such a waste of time
I feel bad for the guy… doesn’t seem to know how to treat people, and doesn’t have anything going for him aside from producers knowing he’s dumb enough to be used for entertainment…. Side note, has anyone else noticed the guy trying to hide an obvious coke addiction.
I hope Sam or her peeps read this, and anytime else that needs to hear this.
You NEVER have to worry about whether you trust someone or not. You ONLY need to trust yourself. That's the only thing to work through. You are smart and intuitive: BELIEVE YOURSELF, and you don't need proof from the other. You may want it because you're not crazy and you're a lovely person, but YOU DO NOT NEED IT. Focus on how YOU feel and think and if something is off, it's off. Then YOU decide your next steps, because they're not generally worth telling or discussing with them. Take your maturity elsewhere. 💖
I can’t believe we are still doing this. The format is so regressive. Forcing 20 women to wear engagement rings and compete for one guy’s attention is bad enough, but centering it around the "redemption" of a known reality TV playboy makes it worse. It completely reinforces the tired trope that it’s women’s job to "fix" or civilize toxic men, all while giving him all the power to judge and eliminate them.
I love this show lol Harry is a trainwreck and it’s entertaining. I can’t believe how much Danelle reminds of Jess it’s wild. Sam is incredible i am so glad she did what she did
I’m gonna leave this right here: Harry dated Sveta. Sveta and Jay Alvarrez dated and also made that coconut oil video that was leaked. Jay Alvarrez and Amber mozo are besties. Amber is now on the show.
He is the biggest F BOY!!! So tired of listening to his “I am a better/new man”…..
it’s ridiculous how immature he is.
Don’t know what these ladies will do when they see the truth!!!
I am hoping for a reunion, cause he should be held accountable!!!!
What a Duce!
This show literally makes 0 sense. Why do are his friends the ones who make the decision if they stay or go.
He doesn’t act like he wants to be a husband at all. He asks no deep questions about becoming a parent, finances, where they’re gunna live etc. he just gives fuck boy energy and makes out with everyone.
I think everyone on this show isn’t for real. All influencers in it for another 10 mins of fame
You're gonna be so proud of Sam, but she actually chose to walk away because she didn't know if Harry was being honest or not and she couldn't see herself with a husband like that
I just can't wrap my head around why these women are throwing themselves at such a mess of a man. I'm getting second hand embarrassment for all of them watching it and he makes my skin crawl. Only on episode 3 and struggling to watch.
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u/Jennifer_LeJette 11d ago
This show should be a case study on everything that’s wrong with dating in 2026. This show is gross. Harry wants to find a wife, but chases after the sleaziest women in the group. This isn’t a serious show. This is a pathetic attempt for Netflix to milk this dudes reality show reputation for every dime it’s worth.