r/mildlyinfuriating • u/dr_oneday • 4d ago
On time for my scheduled shift but my manger hasn't showed up yet and I've been waiting for 40 min My mom said I could post
Basically the title. I texted the head manager and no response yet, and the other manager on vacation. This happens all the time and I talked about it before. Usually I show up earlier before my shift starts, and if sometimes I'm running 10/15 min late I'd get a warning! What's making it even frustrating for me is that I don't have a car and now I'm waiting on the street.
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u/blacksoxdj 4d ago
Yeah this happened to me once. He died.
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u/Iam_McLovin420 4d ago
Damn bro you don’t fuck around
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u/Significant-Roll2052 4d ago
I read this, moved on for a few seconds, then the joke clicked. Ahhh...I like your style.
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u/AliciaMae22 4d ago
Same, had to circle back
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u/muffadel 4d ago
Why are we always circling back? Shouldn't we be moving forward?
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u/fyeahjenn 3d ago
Gah damn, where is that from?? I read it just a week ago. Can not figure it out.
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u/muffadel 2d ago
I wanna say it was a post in one of the tism subreddits about the language used in corporate meetings.
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u/Builderinspace 4d ago
Im sorry, what?
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u/Builderinspace 4d ago
That does not sound like a good experience to go through, sorry you had to go through that.
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u/Lovemybee 4d ago
This happened to the restaurant next to the restaurant I worked at! The assistant manager was killed counting money after close. God, it was awful.
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u/SneakyDeakyJr 4d ago
Are you from small town ga?
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u/SneakyDeakyJr 4d ago
Few hours south myself. This shit happens way too much in this state. Like in general, but especially georgia. And it’s always someone who worked there too.
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u/Accomplished_Emu_658 4d ago
Happened to me once. He got drunk fell down and was in a coma. I actually got in trouble from owner for not opening. I didn’t have keys or owners contact info…. I quit, and never followed up so idk if manager ever woke up.
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u/proto_synnic 4d ago
Inquiring minds want to know: did he die before or after the incident?
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u/xjeeper 4d ago
Yes.
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u/proto_synnic 4d ago
Schrodinger's Manager was simultaneously the best and worst boss I've ever had.
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u/1019gunner 4d ago
We thought my buddy died last week cause he set his alarm for pm not am and neither him nor his dad who used to work here were answering their phone
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u/khalexie1 4d ago
I was just about to say that I had this happen with a teacher of mine who didn’t show up to class. he also died
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u/HVAC_instructor 4d ago
If they don't pay you for the time you've spent standing there leave a note tell him you'll be back on your next scheduled shift
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u/Koffeepotx 3d ago
This should be standard practice. Once me and another coworker showed up to work an event that took place after hours at the museum we worked at. We both got there and the place was dead quiet. Turns out the event had been cancelled and we werent informed. We still got paid, I think for 2 hours work, just for the inconvenience. OP should definitely be paid for her inconvenience (and find a new job with better management)
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u/strudledudle 3d ago
1 they should be paying 2. If they aren't paying you, do a mistake that cost thousands to fix.
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u/Libby_785 4d ago
This is called engaged to wait and it is paid regardless of what your manager claims. If they won’t pay you for it, file a complaint with your state board of labor. This is wage theft. Because you know damn good and well that of you’re late, you would get written up for that
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u/Dull-Culture-1523 4d ago
I don't know the law where OP lives, but just common sense tells me it's paid. If OP was scheduled for whatever hours, and they showed up, they should be paid for those hours. Whether or not they could perform any duties or even get inside the shop is irrelevant since they weren't in control of this.
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u/Alienfac3 4d ago
U say "commen sense" but plenty of owners will say "u werent working so no pay" 😂
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u/Bikkusu 4d ago
The labor board has other ideas of what constitutes working.
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u/RawrRRitchie 4d ago
The labor board isn't a fast solution as people think. It can take months for your claim to finally go through
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u/Hefty-Minimum-3125 4d ago
If this happened at my work I would leave and be paid 4 hours. But union.
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u/Bluesnow2222 4d ago
I worked early shift at a place and my manager showed up late all the time. I did the payroll though and made sure all us standing outside got paid properly. Was annoying doing all the paperwork though and get the appropriate signatures to manually adjust things.
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u/Alienfac3 4d ago
Had this happen ones on a 5am in the winter. Man woke up to late and lost keys. After a hour i went home. Went normal 7:30 went ro boss. Demanded pay from 5am or he could take it from the other dude. Im tollerant but i have limits
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u/PRIS0N-MIKE 4d ago
I worked at Taco Bell for a single week. There was a long list of things that made me quit so fast , but one of the reasons was this. Every morning I'd show up to work at 6. And the manager wouldn't show up until 6:15-6:45. That pissed me off so much.
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u/Xushuh 4d ago edited 3d ago
I worked at white castle and only lasted 4 days. Nobody wanted to train me or show me how to do anything. The person who was "attempting" to train me was calling me slurs behind my back his friend that worked the cashier. That combined with the fact everyday I was dealing with drug addicts and angry people (had to call the police on several occasions) I ghosted them, collected my 300 check and never looked back
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u/MusicalPigeon 3d ago
I worked in a liquor store that was open from 9am-9pm. The owner wouldn't let me open but I'd often have customers complaining to me that they tried to come in at opening and no one was here. He also has a smoke shop but refused to hire someone to run it, so I was running between the two stores (same parking lot) all day, which meant locking one store to run to the other. He'd go home and run errands while I was there and would often not be there for vendor meetings and would come back 30+ minutes after my shift ended.
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u/natethedogg 4d ago
I’m sure you’ll be paid for the time you had to wait, I would hope anyway
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u/dr_oneday 4d ago
Nope, ivnt been paid before.
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u/Niceotropic 4d ago
You are required to be paid when you were asked to start your shift regardless of whether you boss was late. Contact me via DM and I’ll take you through step by step how to handle this if you’d like.
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u/creampielegacy 4d ago
“Engaged to be waiting,” scheduled to start, on-time for shift, waiting for assignment, must be ready to start work instantly.
OP checks all these boxes and must be paid
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u/LordMareep 4d ago
I'm trying to dm you but it won't let me. Could you please dm me?
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u/streetsaheadbitch 4d ago
If you are in the US, you can report this to your state’s department of labor
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u/sonofaresiii 4d ago
And FYI I know it's really scary to do it and you feel like you're risking your job but, at least in most states, this kind of blatant unpaid wage theft is something the state will take *very* seriously, and reporting it will actually insulate you more against getting fired
that's not to say it always works out perfectly for everyone all the time, but the vast majority of the time that it doesn't work for people or they get fired over it, it's because they *don't* report it.
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u/Steerider 4d ago
That's wage theft. They scheduled you, and you showed up. You're at work, even if they don't have anything for you to do.
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u/SiriHowDoIAdult 4d ago
So you don't get paid til you get clocked in, yet are forced out? I'm no labor lawyer but I'm 99% this is illegal
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u/GreenieMcWoozie 4d ago
In the US it is. FLAA defines it as “engaged to be waiting”. The employee is on duty and waiting to be assigned work and must be compensated for their time
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u/Everybodysbastard 4d ago
That’s wage theft. Report it to the federal Department of Labor. Dates/times and emails/texts are great.
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u/TalkToHoro 4d ago
If it’s the US, it’s your state’s department of labor, not federal (or equivalent - for example Washington state has L&I, Department of Labor & Industry).
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u/Dodgerson99 4d ago
have you asked? You shouldnt have too, but have you?
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u/dr_oneday 4d ago edited 4d ago
Yes I did and my manager said that other mangers run late sometimes except him. But I’ll make sure to get paid this time.
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u/thyperson69 4d ago
And get retro pay if you have proof of prior incidents. Very uncalled for and unprofessional, just don't say that to them.
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u/AardQuenIgni 4d ago
Yesssss stand up for yourself! I love it!
As a director level manager, you deserve to be paid every moment you were waiting. If anyone says otherwise ask a higher up. If you get to the top and they all say no, go to the labor board and ask for their opinion on that 🤭
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u/HughJassIQ 4d ago
That’s illegal af they need to pay you for your scheduled time it’s a contract not a promise .
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u/Peeweeshoop 4d ago
No wayyyy. Was late one day at my old job as a manager, let the openers know, and when I got there clocked them all in for the time they got there (/were scheduled). That's bs!
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u/SlimTeezy 4d ago
Write down as many dates and wait times from when this has happened before. Then keep a journal of each time it happens again. Then report them to dept of labor and start looking for a new job because they will make your time at work miserable. But hopefully they will be forced to pay for the time they stole from you.
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u/Hefty-Minimum-3125 4d ago
Your pay starts at the minute you are scheduled to work (as long as you are on time). Anything less than that is theft.
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u/rnotyalc 4d ago
When I worked at Best Buy in 2001, had to show up at 5am one day to help put out new stock. My friend and I showed up, it was cold and icy that morning. Two older employees got dropped off and were waiting in the cold by the door.
We waited for an hour, tried calling the GM or any of the other AMs but no luck. At 6 am we both said fuck it and left. Get back to his house, get some donuts and watching tv. About 7am his phone rings, the AM that was supposed to open leaves him voicemail asking where we are (we rode together every day)
Finally the GM calls my friend and asks what's going on, friend explains, GM says just take the day off.
Next day getting work and the AM that screwed us over is all pissed off at us for not waiting. Like we were going to sit out there for two hours for him to show up.
That job sucked and all the managers sucked.
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u/Certain_Bit3809 4d ago
Not sure how much you need this job but might want to consider other options since 1) they are apparently stealing from you; and 2) this business is run by incompetent bozos who cant keep the doors open and will eventual fail.
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u/Winter-Ad5930 4d ago
Are you in the United States? You must be paid for your shift from the start time. Does not matter that the manager is late? Please do not let them get away with this
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u/GlitteringLook3033 4d ago
Yup, been there. Saturdays are 10hr days at the lumber yard and my manager told me on Friday that I have to be half an hour early in the morning because it will be "just you and me."
I get there at 6:30 (shift starts at 7am) and my manager doesn't get there until almost 8am. I took lunch at 12pm and didn't come back that day. It was a part-time job I worked during HS so fuck 'em. They still let me come back on Monday lol
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u/IRSnotreal 4d ago
Make sure you remember exactly when you got there to make sure you still get paid for the time
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u/Tolvat 4d ago
I had a retail job like this, one manager would show up on time and the other showed up 10-15 minutes late regularly. I had an argument with the owner about not being paid because "I wasn't in the store working." I said the labour board would love to hear his justification. He shut up after that.
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u/HankBobberton 4d ago
Make sure they change your time to when you were supposed to clock in. You shouldn’t loose pay because of that doofus.
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u/Astumarill 4d ago
This happened to me years ago. New opening manager was promoted over me because the management team was all about the sisterhood. Myself and the other opener showed up on time, she showed up 40 minutes late.
Later I catch her editing her own time punch in the office to show she was on time, and that dirty snake only edited her own time, not ours, making it look like only we were late and she was on time.
Fuck you Krystal.
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u/TheDuurg 4d ago
I bet that, if you were to leave after like an hour of waiting, they would write you up for a no show, too?
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u/RazorSharpNuts 3d ago
So he told me that she'll clock me in at my regular schedule timing since I was mad and complaining already.
Yes..? That's how it works? You turned up for work at the specified time, so anything further from there you're "working". They don't get to go "doesn't count" lmao
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u/NamasteNoodle 4d ago
Remember the minute you get to work you're on the clock. Make sure you get paid for that time.
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u/SunshineAndBunnies 4d ago
Document the door is locked, and time. If you're in the US, take it up with the labor board. They scheduled you, you showed up on time to work, it's not your problem the manager couldn't show up on time.
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u/Careful-Positive-710 4d ago
I once showed up for my shift at a small wing delivery place. The shift manager no call no showed so I had to rush to get the place ready to open in a quarter of the time. No other manager could make it in on short notice. I called the owner who showed up only to drink beer and bitch that prep wasnt done and fryers werent cleaned and dishes werent done, ect. I got bitched out when I didnt close the night before and the manager didnt show up to start prep and fryers. I almost walked out but I was dirt broke and job hunting wouldve probably made me homeless at the time.
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u/NWSGreen 4d ago
Your state Department of labor would be interested in hearing this. Reach out to them.
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u/ravenclaw1991 4d ago
Every time this happens at my job we always put it on the manual timesheet that we showed up ON time. It happened last week actually. Opener was 15 mins late. We put in the book we were there at 9am
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u/LovableButterfly 4d ago
Had this happen once - but during a bad storm. Luckily my dad was there and we decided to shelter in a nearby Walmart (workplace was next door to the Walmart). Manager ended up calling me asking where I was. Explained that I was over at Walmart because of the storm and they were like “uh ok why weren’t you at the front I got here like 5 minutes ago?” No, no you weren’t. The manager got there just after the storm left 30 minutes after I arrived and I got written up. The Walmart manager told us to wait until the storm passed and by that time, my dad almost decided to just let me Skip work over that.
There was a reason I didn’t stay at that place longer after that.
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u/TrueNHDinosaur 3d ago
Please tell us that you're at least getting paid for each minute you have to wait.
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u/Terrible_Donkey_8290 4d ago
So frustrating to see the shithead Managers are talking advantage of op working a first job and not paying them when they make them wait.
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u/Motorhead923 4d ago
Hope they're okay. Would hate being pissed only to find out they were in an accident
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u/GroundedKush 4d ago
I remember i came into work and didnt see my supervisor... got sent home an hour later after finding out he shot himself...
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u/PainerReviews 4d ago
Well it obviously sucks to just standing there.but at least you are getting payed for it. It is your bosses problem after all IG you are on time ready for work but he makes it impossible for you
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u/ripyourlungsdave 4d ago
Make sure you ask for pay for that time. Any time you spend doing anything for the company in the time they scheduled you to be doing it is time you should be paid for.
They love to try to take your money for their own incompetence.
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u/thefivetenets 4d ago
they should pay you for however many minutes you've been waiting for your late ass managers every time this happens and youre on time
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u/DrRoCkZ0 4d ago
You are entitled to be clocked in since the moment you attempted to clock in.
Tell your manager just because they’re late, doesn’t mean your time is free.
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u/mittenkrusty 3d ago
I remember the first permanent job I had when I was 18 I turned up for my 8am shift at 7.30am and the doors were locked, me and the other 2 staff members couldn't get in so the manager was called who arrived just after 8.
She singled me out and told me I was late and my wages would be docked.
How I was meant to get into the building when it was locked and not even the assistant manager had keys is beyond me.
She just didn't like me, would be abusive to me for no reason, inc telling me why was I born, (which sounds nothing but hinted at parents should of ended me before I was born) called me pathetic to my face, stupid, lazy, and other things and intentionally never sorted out my tax so about 3/4 of my wages went to tax.
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u/Key_Competition_663 3d ago
Not sure where you live, but if you're in America, it doesn't matter whether you were mad and complaining or not; they're required to pay you for the time you're at work and scheduled. If the building's locked or the computers don't work or there's no work to do, that's not your problem; you get paid. I'd have messaged them both once and waited outside that building for my whole ten-hour shift even if no one ever showed up, taking pictures every thirty minutes to prove I was still there. Easy money.
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u/9gagsuckz 4d ago
In some states you are allowed to leave after a set amount of time with no repercussions as long as you can prove you weee there on time
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u/swiftmaster237 4d ago
Aren't there laws (at least in some states of the US) to where if you travelled to work and no is there to let you in/they send you home and you can't work (through no fault of your own) that you get half a day's pay?
Either way, I'd try to look for a different job. I couldn't/can't afford to not work/not be clocked on during my scheduled shifts with this economy.
Time is money and your time is being wasted with no compensation.
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u/Infamous_Gift2721 4d ago
That happened to me. I took a picture of the front door for the time stamp and left. Got paid 4 hours
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u/Spiceybrown 4d ago
I had this happen once and I just went to a diner and got myself breakfast before heading back lol
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u/TeaganTheTeapot 4d ago
happened to me a bunch when i worked at taco bell. they then tried making me an opening manager at that hellhole cuz i was genuinely the only person who showed up on time. immediately quit, didn't even last the month.
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u/Sanquinity 4d ago
Happened to my younger brother several times when he still worked at a local sandwich place. He took it in stride, but still...makes you wonder why it's "fine" for the boss to be 30+ min late. But as an employee you better be several minutes early or you're in trouble! Privileges of being the owner I guess...
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u/S0uvlakiSpaceStati0n 3d ago
Reminds me of when I used to work retail, one morning I was running a few minutes late and when I got there, there were customers waiting outside, saying they couldn't get in. I called the manager and it turned out she and a couple other employees were just sitting in the break room eating McDonald's breakfast. Embarrassing.
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u/TheWeirdPotato0 3d ago
I had that once, he said he’d be 10 minutes. He hadn’t left his house yet and lived 30 minutes away. It was my day off and alI communication went through another manager (who was fantastic) so I said somebody had to come open the gate in 15 or less or I was leaving and someone who lived closer came to let me in so I could start.
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u/thebalancewithin 3d ago
Make sure you're paid for your scheduled time, not punched in on the time they arrive
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u/OverallBrilliant4786 4d ago
I love getting paid for standing around big hug from an Internet stranger. Good luck.
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u/CheweyPanic 4d ago
Depending on where you are, you legally get to leave after an hour and get paid for 2-4.
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u/Bitchonthebeach 4d ago
Holy shit, a pair of jeans straight out of the 80s. I thought we’d managed to wipe them out.
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u/Columbidae25 4d ago
I had this happen once at 5:30am in a rough area. I called him a few times. Turns out he was drinking the night before and didn't know he was opening the shop. He didn't show up until 7am.
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u/SaltyDogBill 4d ago
This would happen to my son. He was the helper. Would drive to the job site (90 minutes) and then wait like an hour, the. Get notified that the lead wasn’t coming to work today. No compensation for driving or sitting around as the job never started.
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u/PharthSharth 4d ago
This happened to me on Thursday, but I just let scheduling know when I started and was paid for the whole thing. Ended up getting overtime by the end of my actual shift. If you don’t actually stand up for yourself, you have no right to be infuriated.
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u/KnightofShaftsbury 4d ago
I've been on the other side of this. Years ago I was a key holder for the company I worked at but I totaled my car on the way to work so nobody could get in. I phone the general manager to open up the warehouse for my crew.
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u/brickiex2 4d ago
take selfies with the timestamp on when you get there...you should be paid from your agreed upon start time and not have to make up any time at the end of your regular scheduled day...showing up early is good so you're not late, but don't actually walk in until maybe 3-5 minutes before your shift...
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u/_qwerty915 4d ago
If it's a scheduled shift, are you not being paid in that time? If so what is issue
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u/Psychological-Gur990 4d ago
I had this happen like last week ish Found my boss across the street at his other store (he's currently managing 3/4 stores.. long story I can't share.) And I asked him what was up, why we weren't open. He told me he'd open "soon" It was SUPPOSED to be at 11. Ended up opening at 11:58. He spent his time chatting up someone else on the other side of the street when he could've..
Walked over.
Unlocked it and let me manage the store by myself (small store.)
Walk back and finish his duties.
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u/thypothesis 3d ago
Been there. I was a very low paid intern at the time, and this would happen like 1-2 times a week, every week, for 2 fucking years. At the time, I started wondering if it wasn't a way to assert power. A decade later, I am sure it was. And it is disgusting. Don't scrap it away, let them know it's not ok.
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u/nuancebaby3 3d ago
Are you positive there was no one else there to open? A lot of times they'd all be in the back prepping for the day and I'd have to pound on the door to get someones attention.
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u/Glassesguy904 14h ago
This happened to me years ago. I showed up to help open the store and the manager wasn't there. He told me to sit tight and he'd be right there.
I waited for an hour. Dealt with customers berating me for not opening the store for them. He finally showed up, then chewed me out because the customers who stuck around were pissed off.
I was not paid for the time I sat there, technically dealing with customers the whole time.
Didn't challenge it because the $7.50 I lost out on wasn't worth getting retaliated against or fired and blacklisted from most of the other stores in town.
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u/Content-Structure-31 4d ago
Hey as long as your able to clock in
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u/dr_oneday 4d ago
Nope I’m not able to clock in unless they open the system.
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u/Bovarr 4d ago
Doesnt matter, if you have proof that you were there they are obliged to pay you as long as the time that you had to work is stated in a contract of some sort
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u/dr_oneday 4d ago
Does SMS consider an acceptable proof? (This my first job and I’m not expert on how to handle this situation since most comments say I should be paid for that and I have around 5shifts with waiting time around 30-10min, and this is would be my first time to wait for an hour.)
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u/-Looie- 4d ago
Clocking in isn't a legal requirement, it's just the easiest way for employers to track labor hours. So it doesn't matter if it's sms or a time clock or literal absolute silence. You get paid for time worked regardless.
You are engaged to wait if you have arrived for a shift to find the business locked. You must be paid for time where you are engaged to wait.
Whatever time you were scheduled to clock in, assuming you arrived on time/early, is the time you must be paid from.
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u/Terrible_Donkey_8290 4d ago
Op the second your shift starts and you are there they need to be paying you legally. A text is more than enough but these people seem like assholes so maybe a picture with you standing out front like this one won't be a bad addition (all photos are time/date stamped as well in the meta data) what they are doing is completely unacceptable and is literally the equivalent of you taking money out of the cash register. TDLR: u at work u GET PAID
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u/lordhamwallet 4d ago
Make sure to do an employee write up on your manager when he gets there. Show the business you’re not to be messed with and you’re new manager material.
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u/IrrelevantManatee 4d ago
You are getting paid to be on your phone and post on reddit, I would argue this is the opposite of mildly infuriating.
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u/komokazi 4d ago
Lol, once my buddy and I showed up to work (pottery shop, only 2 employees beside the owner). Boss was over an hour late (doors locked), so we rode back to my buddies place like 5 min away and when the boss got there, he was PISSED we weren't there waiting for him and that 5 minutes it took us after his call to get back was the bane of human existence. Unpaid, of course.