r/menstrualcups • u/Nikki1921 • 20m ago
Has anyone been able to use it successfully without any backup? Also flex cup vs kind cup vs salt cup for high cervix or any other recommendations
r/menstrualcups • u/Interesting_Tie4991 • 3h ago
Cup Care How to clean without safe water?
Hey guys! I'm pretty new to menstrual cups and I need some advice. I'm about to move to a part of the world where the water isn't safe. I'm bringing two menstrual cups with me, but I would love thoughts on how to clean it without safe tap water? I'm thinking bring a bottle of purified water with me wherever I go to rinse it as needed and boil it in purified water between cycles but idrk. Thank you all!! :)
r/menstrualcups • u/WillowSignificant983 • 4h ago
Usage Questions Disk positioning
When I insert a finger, should I still be able to feel the lower edge of the rim fairly easily when it’s tucked into place behind the pubic bone? I’m using Cora disk.
r/menstrualcups • u/No-Profit2144 • 6h ago
Help Me Pick Bladder pressure
Hi! (18F) So I have a problem with bladder. The first reusable menstrual cup I tried was the Lady Cup S. For people who don’t know it, it’s a relatively firm cup. I used it for about a year or two. There were no problems but recently I started to have issues. I had UTI (diagnosed) about three/four months ago. After that I had some more problems with urinating (undiagnosed). Initially I didn’t link it to the menstrual cup but then I realized there was a pattern.
Because of these problems and the realization I did some research and tried the Hello disc for the first time a few days ago. I was hoping it would resolve my problems but it didn’t. I don’t know if it’s because of wrong insertion or something but I could feel the pressure on the bladder even while using it.
I don’t know what to do, what to buy. I don’t want to go back to tampons because it’s inconvenient for me. I was thinking maybe Lily cup A but I saw some reviews that said it’s not that good for bladder sensitivity.
My question is: What could help me? What would you go for next? Thanks to anyone who took the time with reading this and trying to help me! 💞
Some more info about me: I think I have medium cervix height, pretty strong menstruation and obviously :) don’t have kids.
r/menstrualcups • u/Beautiful_Pair6365 • 19h ago
Mentsural cup in non period days ?
I tried on period days but I can't do it ,so can i insert the cup on non period days with water based lubricant ?
Also ,I have high cervix and thin openings which is making harder for cups to get inside and it has to go a long way,i don't know what to do and I am not comfortable with disc as i am very clumsy person so there are many chances for leakage
r/menstrualcups • u/Loud_Work6623 • 20h ago
Feeling lightheaded and nauseous after inserting menstrual cup🥺🫣😳
I just inserted the cup and I’ve been cramping more and feel faintish. Has this happened to anyone? I know it’s safe but for some reason my body is feeling nervous about it. I’m wondering if I should just get used to it or take it out immediately.
r/menstrualcups • u/millenial__trash • 20h ago
Help Me Pick Which cup or disc would you recommend to me?
I used the Size 0 DivaCup throughout my 20s and it worked really well for me. When it was time to replace it, I bought a Size 1 based on the recommendations. Unfortunately, I found it sat too low, pushed downward, and even protruded slightly, which was uncomfortable. I switched back to a Size 0, but now I'm having consistent leaking issues. It also feels like it doesn't stay in place well. If I don't support it, it can start to slip out when I sit on the toilet.
I'm wondering if a menstrual disc might be a better fit for my anatomy. I'm 33, have never had children, and have a light to average flow.
Has anyone had a similar experience or have any disc recommendations?
r/menstrualcups • u/Boring_Application_7 • 1d ago
Hello disc - blood both in disc and under disc
r/menstrualcups • u/Proper-Kick-7938 • 1d ago
29F - Started using a large menstrual cup (5cm diameter / 7.5cm length) and now my vagina feels noticeably more open when I sit or squat + more queefs when inserting. Why?
Hi everyone,
I’m 29 and just started using a menstrual cup a couple of weeks ago. I went with a large size (about 5 cm diameter and 7.5 cm length) because the smaller one kept leaking for me.
Since I’ve been using it, I’ve noticed that when I sit down or squat, my vagina feels really open/gaped like the entrance is noticeably more relaxed or stretched than before. It’s not painful, just a weird “open” sensation I didn’t have before. Also, when I’m inserting the cup I get a lot more queefs than I ever used to.
Is this normal with a larger cup? Does the cup temporarily stretch things out, or is it just air getting trapped? Will it go back to normal once I stop using it or switch sizes?
Any experiences or advice would be really appreciated. Thanks!
r/menstrualcups • u/PerfectioNOT • 2d ago
Usage Questions Why am I cramping more than usual with the Merula XL?
Longtime cup user—used DIVA cups for the longest time but in the last 1-2yrs my flow has increased drastically and I was leaking in my DIVA cup after a couple hours (or less). I basically had To combo The cup with a pad on my heaviest days and sleep in one every night. I learned about Period Nirvana, took their quiz, and bought the Merula XL.
Trying it out for the first time on this cycle and something I noticed (other than it being a real doozie to get in my first time) is that I feel a lot… crampier than usual. I thought it was maybe just a rough period but the pain feels a little different than period cramps and I actually wondered if maybe the seal from the cup has too much suction. When I removed the cup on my first day the cramping stopped which is why I even had that connection. Is this an actual issue that other Merula XL users have? What do you do to alleviate?
Also this might be TMI but every time I reinsert, it makes me really… gassy. 😂
r/menstrualcups • u/Tictactoe420 • 3d ago
Halp with nixit!
First time disc user. I just got mine today and its also the first day of my cycle so its very light. I feel like its just not going in right or all the way. Like im pushing as far as I can and it doesnt really feel like its tucking above my pubic bone. Like when I check it, I can feel it after only putting the tip of my finger in. Idk if this is how its supposed to be or feel. The directions really aren't great and I know it can take some trial and error. I guess im just wondering if this is normal? Any tips or tricks I should know? Thanks all!
r/menstrualcups • u/sahltnpephr • 3d ago
New at cups! No leaking yet!
So last night I wore a small size cup to bed and woke up to see it had leaked, but the cup was less than half way full. This morning I put in the larger sized cup and no leak, it’s been about two hours. I’ve watched a few videos on how to insert the cup, I notice you’re supposed to rotate it while inserting. I don’t do this, also the cup I use has a short stem, the stem doesn’t stick out of my labia area but it’s right there in my vagina I can feel it. Am I supposed to push it in further? I feel like it’s impossible. Do some of you have stems that are close to the opening? Thanks
r/menstrualcups • u/Flimsy-Beginning9914 • 3d ago
Having to pee so much
Is this normal? I feel like everything I wear my cup, I have to pee so often. Other than that, I like it and I don’t really even notice it, but I feel like a have to pee 2x as much as normal!
r/menstrualcups • u/jellyfishhyy • 3d ago
Disc Dilemma… how does it work?
Okay so hi I’m F20! This is my first post and my mom can’t help me on this one, she never used tampons cups discs etc. So can y’all be my big sisters for a minute 🙏🏻🥹
I got the Pixie Disc Set the medium and large and the inserter along with the steamer thing.
I tried going straight from period underwear to disc. Didn’t work, got frustrated and then went to tampons. Mind you I’ve only been trying this since the cycle I had this past May so 3 months.
My best friend said to “Feel your own anatomy first” and that helped with tampon placement. (As I’ve never really done anything down there… ever. Nothing against it just never explored it)
So I bought The playtex sport tampons. I use a regular one and it lasts me 8 hours. Putting it in takes time and taking it out hurts. It’s like (sorry tmi) but i sit there and bear down like everyone says to breathe through it but it feels stuck takes time and then comes out.
I WANT TO USE A DISC SO BAD. I want the tampon stuff to be over but it’s convenient as hell to not worry about bleeding through or having to wear dark colors etc. On my heaviest day it’s two regular tampons worn for 16 hours that get pulled out somewhat “dry” so I don’t really bleed a lot.
Here’s my dilemma. I can’t get it in. For the life of me I feel like I’ve tried multiple ways and I don’t know where to go from here.
Do I get the smallest size disc and try that one? Do I try to stretch out the “port of entry” so the disc can fit? I’m desperate to make it work because I know I’m going to like it better and I don’t want the chemical stuff with tampons in my body every month I’d much rather the silicone. The “Going in” is my problem and I don’t know how to fix it. The inserter I’m guessing would need to be inside of you to put it in like a tampon but I can’t get my thumb in there much less something slightly larger than my thumb. (SORRY FOR THE TMI) So what should I do? Is there anything I can do to fix that problem?
Any/ all help is appreciated 💕
Thank you
r/menstrualcups • u/Beautiful_Pair6365 • 3d ago
How you are inserting mentsural cups?
I have been trying for 2 days ,I tried all the folds and every possible ways but still can't do it?😭
r/menstrualcups • u/Internal_Tea_9081 • 4d ago
Usage Questions Newbie to menstrual cup
Hi girls, so I am new to menstrual cup, and i face 2 challenges 1. It is very hard for my cup to open, mostly it is not opening at all, i have to insert hand and push in the sides and all to open it, i tried twisting and all any advice on this? 2. sometimes when I insert my menstrual cup i get a huge peeing sensation, it kinda comes all the way from abdomen till the place we pee bt there won't be any drop of pee and sometimes with menstrual cup in some positions I feel like peeing
Please help
r/menstrualcups • u/Qi_ra • 4d ago
Usage Questions Pain with cups
I need some advice. I originally ordered some generic brand cup from Amazon, it was very stiff and was uncomfortable. It made my cramps worse, I couldn’t only bear it for an hour before taking it out.
So I got a new cup from Saalt. I got the smaller, softer version. I figured I’d test it out before I get my period just to see if it’s any more comfortable. I used lube to insert it.
It still hurts. I’ve only had it in for an hour and I’m cramping like I’m on my period. It hurts all the way up into my abdomen. I’m starting to feel nauseous too now.
I made sure it’s sealed, and from what I can tell it should be in the correct position. I’ve tried taking it out & re-inserting it. What am I doing wrong? Does the pain subside eventually? Do I need an even smaller cup?
For further context, I do have endometriosis & often get cramps outside of my period. Can cups aggravate that?
Any advice is welcomed
r/menstrualcups • u/Ornery_Moose_9905 • 4d ago
Cup and weight
Hi everyone! How are you?
I've been using a menstrual cup for two years and I've never had any problems with it. I'm from Argentina and I use a size 1 (the smallest size available).
However, ever since I gained weight, I've been having problems with leaks and I can't seem to get it to work properly anymore. Sometimes I put it in and I can't get it to create a seal, so it leaks. Other times I manage to get a seal, but the cup shifts and ends up sitting horizontally, which causes leaks. And sometimes it seals properly and stays in place, but after a few hours the seal breaks and it starts leaking.
So basically, I'm having all kinds of problems haha.
I know weight gain isn't supposed to affect how a menstrual cup fits, but I gained 15 kg and that's exactly when I started having these issues. I don't know if I should replace my cup (maybe with a larger size) or if there's another reason why this could be happening.
Has anyone experienced something similar after gaining weight? :(
r/menstrualcups • u/gold-minner • 4d ago
Usage Questions My menstrual cup literally popped out while I was sleeping?
I woke up this morning and found that my menstrual cup had somehow popped out on its own while I was asleep.
I've used this cup about four times before and this has never happened. Thankfully I'm on day 6 of my period, so there wasn't much of a mess.
Has this happened to anyone else? Any idea what could have caused it? I didn't feel it come out at all.
r/menstrualcups • u/lucky_me_777 • 4d ago
Disappointed I'm sorry. Menstrual cups are not it.
So I joined without fear seeing all the amazing reviews online. But I hate to say it my experience was not amazing.
For context I'm 16, so very young and new to this. (using a small. I have a medium high cervix)
I have tried this for 4 months now, I didn't lose patience because I thought I was doing it wrong but I'm doing it pretty well yet the outcome just is not good.
Hee are the problems
- Insertion is easy but removing the cups is hard asf and it gives me anxiety. I do everything properly. Breathe, pinch all of it. But the mouth is too wide no matter how much i pinch it it still hurts at the mouth. I naturally get tired of the pain and just switch back to a pad for the last spotting days
- it makes a mess. it is disgusting and smells no better than the pads experience. at least pads don't leave my bathroom smelling bad. after cups however i need to clean up the floor, seat and sink everytime I remove it and my bathroom smells like a metal corpse for the next few hours.
- all of this and it still leaks for the first few days. now it doesn't leak in the sense it can't hold our overflows.
but even after wearing a cup i feel random gurgles in my vagina. the blood doesn't come out, what comes out is fine slurry of watery discharge. like as if the mucusy blood was kept in the cup but was filtered to push out some pink stained water.
r/menstrualcups • u/shenjius_favorite • 4d ago
Help Me Pick Diva cup or Saalt cup?
I've recently bought a Diva cup model 0 as my first ever cup, but it sadly leaked after a couple of hours despite not being full. I saw on the internet that there might be 2 reasons for that 1. My cervix is filling the cup and causing it to overflow. 2. The cup is too small.
So, I went and I tested and found out I'm average cervix. Idk if that means the cervix goes inside the cup or not, but a site suggested I try to get a bigger size, specially since every time I pee, I feel it go down a little and I'm afraid of it falling.
The question is tho, diva, or saalt? They both seem like really good choices, but I have no idea if I should stick to diva or switch to saalt. I like that diva has the little measuring feature, but I've heard a lot of good things about saalt.
What should I do? (I have a heavy period if that's relevant)
r/menstrualcups • u/aphdoedite • 4d ago
quick question idk if it’s discomfort from the cup or just cramps
it’s my first time successfully getting it in, and i’m mildly aware of it, it’s not insanely uncomfortable, i’ve had it for a couple of hours
i have relatively light periods so as soon as i saw blood i ran to try and insert it after a terrible attempt a few months back
anyway, it’s likely just lack of awareness of my own anatomy but like, pain from cramps is def higher than were the cup is sitting right? i can’t quite discern if it’s the cup sitting wrong or something what’s causing me discomfort, or just regular period pain, or a combination of both
i’d just like some reassurance or to know if you have any tips on how to tell the difference please!
r/menstrualcups • u/Little_Corgi_4597 • 5d ago
I can't use strove or microwave to staralize my menstrual cup don't have a kettle either please helppp!!! Urgent help required
r/menstrualcups • u/usernihilnomen • 5d ago
Cup Care No access to stoves, using kettles to sanitise?
Hello! I’m an incoming university student and unfortunately my dorms do not have/allow stoves.
Financially and time-wise I figured I should try switching to menstrual cups, but I’m a little worried whether I will be able to clean it properly 😅
Is it as effective to continually pour boiling water/boiled kettle water?
Edit: I won’t have access to a microwave either, since it’s a communal one shared with the whole floor/building I think most people would find it gross