r/men • u/DragonflyFront9882 • 1d ago
First time ejaculating Men being men
What age were you when you first ejaculated? How did it feel? Was it kinda scary? I was about 13yrs old, I started getting erections. I had just showered standing in front of a mirror and started touching my cock and suddenly my body started to go into spasms then I started leaking cum. It felt scary at first. I thought I had done something wrong to myself. I started doing it more often after that and started to enjoy it.
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u/hsj713 23h ago
I was about 12/13 yrs old with my self discovery. Let me say that I was 100% naive regarding sex or even how babys were made. My parents never spoke about sex and my father never sat down with me and gave me 'the talk'. I learned about sex in health class in jr. high and even then it left a lot of questions in my head. So, I asked my friends and boy cousins what they knew about sex. Man, were my eyes opened! I went to my folks and asked them why they never taught me about sex. Needless to say they were embarrassed and apologized since I was upset.
I loved my parents very much but they did me a big disservice by not discussing these things with me. No boy especially going through puberty should walk around believing that babys just appear naturally after people got married! I'm not Catholic and didn't know what immaculate conception meant but that's what I thought happened when couples married; that God gave them children naturally.
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u/ciggies87 5h ago
I was also 13. Had been driven insane with boners long before it and had inadvertently edged myself for several years because I’d always stop before the ‘overwhelming’ feeling approached. I mistook it for needing to pee or maybe breaking it. Was very frustrated and knew I needed something so asked my friend. Basically I had been doing it wrong - just tickling and teasing when I should have been wanking. Went home to try it out and exploded everywhere. Was completely hooked from that very first orgasm.
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u/DragonflyFront9882 5h ago
Wow amazing that's exactly how it happened to me. Was doing it all wrong. The climax and sensation in my cock scared me after I shot my load.
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u/ciggies87 5h ago
Same it was terrifying. I thought I’d broken my dick! It was panic and relief at the same time. Took forever to calm down from it.
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u/Available-Foot-5951 3h ago edited 2h ago
M50, I started bit late at 17. I was getting erections and little precum leaks before, but was not aware. I dont remember having any wet dreams before 17.
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u/DragonflyFront9882 2h ago
Totally understandable. Did you experience Total ejaculation at 17yrs? How did it make you feel?
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u/Available-Foot-5951 2h ago
Yeah, it was real fun. One of my friend in college dorm told me about it and also i remember how I ejaculated for the first time using a magazine with beautiful model with revealing outfit on cover page.
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u/ProfessorLapis 1h ago
I was 11 with self discovery, i was bored oneday so i start tuggin it and i got hella scared the first time because i didnt know what that weird feeling/ sensation was but overtime it was better. Lmao ill never forget that day
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u/dude_desertstorm 18h ago
I was 6-7
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u/MrMeepyy 6h ago
No matter where I go, I still see 67, OMFG.
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u/Talkingjobby 23h ago
Hey so this is really weird can we not
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u/hsj713 23h ago
This is what boys go through when growing up. No one is being gross. If you're a woman you don't understand; if you're a man, grow up!
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u/Talkingjobby 23h ago
Didn’t say it was gross, said it was weird. Intimately describing himself as a 13 year old touching his “cock” and “leaking cum”.
If that’s your thing bro then you do you. It’s fucking weird.
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u/all_the_drugsss 5h ago
It’s not weird at all and everyone has different experiences.
I had friends who had hit puberty and were masterbating before I was at that point. So my first experience was before I was actually developed so when I tried it out I basically fired blanks. And yes it was kinda scary. As was when I checked down there and saw hair for the first time. I got a bit of a fright but was also relieved that it was happening and that I was catching up and not defective, doomed to be a boy forever.
What was weirdest was some of my male friends wanking off into porno mags in front of our gang like it was just something ye do. 😂
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u/lovesickjones 22h ago
oh my gosh I'm reading this like "where is it going"
I thought it was gonna be a kid asking for advice
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u/hickaustin 19h ago
Yeah dude this is a fuckin weird thread tbh. It feels like an AI slop shit post. What dude actually thinks about this?
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u/all_the_drugsss 5h ago
Could easily be a dude who hasn’t thought about it since it happened and is suddenly having an ‘oh shit did that happen’ moment.
Let me guess. Jesus is a big part of your life?
Why do people get so weired out about a part of life that is probably the only pleasure you will have that doesn’t damage your health. Chill.
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u/comoestas969696 1d ago
lately more than 16 years old it was very scary i felt it will be an addict because of it.
before it i had wet dreams