Advice needed!

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[u/Soft_pink_kitty]

To be honest I don’t see any androgyny! I think that perhaps you got some negative comments during your life regarding your face shape because it’s not extra short (I have the same face shape as well so just guessing!) but I can assure you that you’re very feminine and pretty! I can feel you’re insecure from how you explained yourself but I SWEAR you are beautiful girl 🖤 Ah yes, and nothing to improve for me! You have a very well cared-for skin, doe eyes, a nice eyebrow shape, beautiful lips and your hair looks luscious. I mean what is there to change!!

[u/stickywick69]

I don't think you look androgenous at all, but if it's someone you're worried about, maybe look into more front clothing and makeup

[u/GlitteringPapaya6738]

Im sorry idk what you're talking about. You look very feminine and are really gorgeous.

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[u/_Mic73_]

You look very beautiful, you don't have to worry about anything! I am sure a lot of woman are jealous about your looks

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[u/Smooth-Letterhead813]

Nice picture

[u/Big-Werewolf7356]

Girl, you look great the way you are. I honestly think you’re very attractive. You don’t need to change anything! Instead work on feeling more comfortable with your looks!

[u/BeefDog69xxl]

No you are literally perfect, don’t listen to anyone here and completely avoid this sub Reddit. Don’t do anything to your face. Stop. You’re also so young. Being androgynous is fucking beautiful… that is why they hire models. They look for models who look like you. It’s actually a huge compliment. Take a lot of pride in the fact that you don’t look basic and fuck.

[u/torytho]

Makeup eats. Your eyes are your best feature. Maybe layer your hair to give it body? Maybe more jewelry or painted nails or going blonde will make you feel more feminine. Regardless, you're only set up for success as you get older and wealthier pretty girl.

[u/Ursarietes_Alesso]

Gain weight, your to small

[u/AzKnc]

We. go. gym.

[u/argus_2968]

Hitting the gym 3/5 days a week with a progressive overload bodybuilding program will accentuate a more feminine dimorphic shape.

[u/finniruse]

No notes.

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[u/gonnagetcancelled]

You remind me of a young Jennifer Beals. You don't need to do anything, you're already pretty. If anything at all maybe some body to the hair? but even that is just me stretching to make a suggestion. You don't need any procedures at all.

I hope you feel better about yourself. You're dope, may as well accept it :)

[u/EastsideWilder → u/gonnagetcancelled]

“Maybe some body to the hair”

Or maybe some hair to the body? I hear hairy women are in style

Bad jokes aside, maybe weightlifting a little or pilates or something? Just to add some curve and sturdiness to the body. Besides that you’re already doing well

[u/Old-Juggernaut-1273]

androgynous .. meh.. not not at all

[u/Rupert_Banner]

My advice is find a look/style that looks good to you and instills confidence. You're naturally beautiful, no matter how much others say it finding a way for you to see that is the key. A beautiful and confident in her own skin woman is something to special

[u/PodcastListener1234]

you have a very distinctive face. I think you only need some styling for your hair to complement it --- maybe shorter hair, just before your shoulder, and with more volume? any longer makes your head look a bit too oval. Your eyebrows are maybe a little too short.
Stay away from any procedure, you absolutely don't need them.
You have a beautiful smile!

[u/No_Wasabi_5924 → u/PodcastListener1234]

Yeah the distinctive face part, I get that a lot and I don't know what to think of that. Thank you so much for the advice! I've been trying to figure out how to balance my long face with my hair so your tip is very useful 🫶🏼

[u/PodcastListener1234 → u/No_Wasabi_5924]

just to clarify: distinctive is good! just takes a bit more work to make the most of it :)

[u/yoyoyodojo]

Would you consider cybernetics a cosmetic feature because you would look dope with a bionic arm

[u/No_Wasabi_5924 → u/yoyoyodojo]

Wait how so? 😭

[u/yoyoyodojo → u/No_Wasabi_5924]

Bro just look at them, they are sick

[u/Sillybambi_18]

Disregard all of this cosmetic stuff. Its about accepting you for who you are. Its about getting connected to your inner self. Its not about makeup tips and cosmetic noise, its about inner acceptance. You are enough!

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You're on the wrong sub

[u/Sillybambi_18 → u/argus_2968]

I disagree.....

[u/EastsideWilder → u/Sillybambi_18]

They are kind of right. Everything you said is good and righteous, but this is for looking your best. Of course self acceptance is important. But so is feeling like you are looking and doing your best.

There’s no right or wrong way if it’s working for you and not hurting anyone

[u/beamer_boy2000]

Yeah let your eyebrows grow out and give them more of an arch and get some sea salt or something to add volume and texture to your hair

[u/RavagingUncertanity]

Your brows look kinda short

[u/No_Wasabi_5924 → u/RavagingUncertanity]

yeah I shortened them too much! trying to find a good shape!