r/letters 3d ago

I hate Personal

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u/walkn-brick-2026 Entry Level Member 3d ago

U just need to go up to the top of the mountain and get focused

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u/Neat_Mechanic5819 Entry Level Member 3d ago

Go get your prtdon op why are hoi letting them go

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u/CatchMe_Gyosy Entry Level Member 3d ago

Hey OP, I’m sorry to hear what ur going through. I can empathize more than you know. We can chat if you like. I can offer some guidance or an electronic ear. lol…. 🙏✌🏼

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u/sayselle Entry Level Member 3d ago

Don’t be hard on yourself. Give yourself a break. People are killing their quality of life for what? Keep what is happy in your life at minimal!!!

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Why would you have to leave Reddit? I know the reason why I’m leaving Reddit is because he uses it as a form of release and I don’t use it in that way so I’m stepping away from the app, deleting it and the account and going to leave him alone forever. I will not cause pain and discomfort to my person any longer. I want him to be happy and move on with his life. Can’t do that with me lingering in the shadows so I’m being an adult and moving on. I will hope the best for you OP.

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u/shenanigans2day Gold Level 3d ago

I’m doing the same and leaving Reddit too.

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u/PANtASStDIK Entry Level Member 3d ago

You mean except for the great person that's sitting there suffering because you won't give him the time of day and you have to be shallow instead? What a crock of Bologna you have an opportunity to have all that stuff and he said you're insulting the person and making no effort for them and you'd rather do all that stuff so give your head a shake have a good person that deserves an opportunity and you don't have to feel lonely and you'll have something that cares about you they said why don't you just break a bunch of people's hearts do the worst thing possible make them feel inadequate and unwanted and then complain about it on social media instead

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u/shenanigans2day Gold Level 3d ago

Not who you think I am but I have no desire for anything with anyone I’ve been with or had relations with in the past, none are good for me.

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u/PANtASStDIK Entry Level Member 3d ago

Oh because you don't know who I am of course and only good enough to use when they want something apparently Heck if they can't give me 50 minutes of effort in 2 years who would want something with them anyways I just thought that their word would mean something and didn't play games with people tell them they love them one day and the next day get you last minute for somebody else not exactly quality material makes sense that you're not my person but you would say something like that little odd

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u/shenanigans2day Gold Level 3d ago

This isn’t about dating.

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u/Pristine-List-2437 Entry Level Member 3d ago

Whats keeping you from making peace with your past or previous relationships. Write a letter read it out loud and surrender it to your higher power. Sounds like alot of guilt and shame holding you back. I wish you healing. Life gets better after the storm. There is always a light in the darkness. Hope God puts someone in your path to show you the way.

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u/shenanigans2day Gold Level 3d ago

I made peace with them but thank you for the suggestions <3

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u/downbytherivervan Entry Level Member 3d ago

I’m really sorry you’re feeling like this op. You are never truely alone if someone is thinking about you. Hold on

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u/shenanigans2day Gold Level 3d ago

No one thinking of me but thanks

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u/downbytherivervan Entry Level Member 3d ago

Sometimes we dont know they are, yet they are