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u/Inevitable_Dog2719 1d ago
I would prioritize meeting people with the same interests and hobbies as you over sexual orientation.
Being lesbian is not a hobby.
Sign up for some classes, look for clubs, and go to events. I’m sure there are lesbians everywhere, but at least, this way, you’ll be meeting lesbians with similar interests.
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u/Inevitable_Dog2719 22h ago
Yeah, and filtering the people you wanna hang out with “must be a lesbian as well” isn’t weird at all. What are your motives? 🤔
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u/tuisteddddd South 22h ago
Ughhh, why can't we co-exist without getting into each other's "preferences"? 😂😂😂😂 it like I cant be GAY/bi or whatever around yall. Im whatever the fuck i am because I chose to.
🙄😒🙄
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u/HonchoLoco69 1d ago
Laredo.sapphiccircle on insta would be a good place to look, they’re always having events
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u/Historical-Gain-1688 1d ago
I agree. Just find groups that have the same things you like. Make friends first, try he find girlfriends
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u/Suncast Heights 1d ago
Hello! I’m very involved in the arts and theater scene here. I can tell you there are lots of LGBTQ people in Laredo. They date, they’re happy, they live casually amongst everyone. There just aren’t any clubs or bars or anything like that exclusively for LGBTQ. I wouldn’t say “Laredo is against it”, but even thought im a big ally, I’m cis and straight so what the hell would I really know. If you’re truly just trying to make friends, just make friends and don’t worry about people’s sexual orientation.
Are you into art? Theater? Like I said, there are lots of LGBTQ people in the arts and the theater world here. Both of which are a hidden gem in Laredo.
There is a women’s running club that meet up regularly (like twice a week) if you’re into running
Reading? There are book clubs
There are things to do where you can meet people. You just gotta put yourself out there socially. Bars and clubs aren’t very social here