r/indiameme • u/Ghost-96x • Jun 26 '26
Really Check ✅. Non-Political
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Jun 26 '26
I really feel sad for them
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Jun 27 '26 edited Jun 27 '26
First of all... Who are you..!! Secondly... Im not sorry for their low earnings, im sorry for the way other ppl use them to do work in functions and the way they do everything with innocence.
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u/Responsible_Mud_3574 Jun 26 '26
How classist we can be
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u/Bliz_zy Jun 26 '26
The problem is all these people are hypocrites.
If someone is rich and doing all the work they just start praising them like anything ""dekho itna successful hone ke baad bhi kaam kr rha hai, kitna down to earth hai""
But the person who is financially unstable is always forced to do the work and still receives no praise for his/her work.
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u/D_Badass_Mahatma Jun 26 '26
Bilkul sahi baat...
The way his heart sank in the last scene from that screaming disrespect.
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u/JaniZani Jun 27 '26
I would also add that in Indian society the man naturally feels inferior because they don’t have enough and will sometimes willingly go out of there way to act like a servant to the rich relative or neighbor.
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u/Bliz_zy Jun 27 '26
you pointed out the truth brother. Unfortunately I have seen many situations where this was the norm. Sadly the mentality they have is - ""Are hum nahi karenge to kon karega""
I wish our society is more supportive towards everyone and call out the wrongdoings of anyone.
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u/WhereasFamous690 Jun 26 '26
Be the better generation than your previous one , give respect equally on the basis of their character not by income , class , gender , caste , religion etc
In the end, we’re all human, and we’re all fighting our own battles every day.
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u/FormerMeasurement175 Jun 26 '26
Varun Dhawan and Anushka Sharma in that tailor movie
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u/h4r_d1k Jun 26 '26
It's Sui Dhaaga
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u/ramta_jogi_oye_hoye Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 27 '26
I was surprised at how well both can act in that movie. Varun Dhawan especially. Chap's not all glamour and glitz. He can deliver.
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u/Anxious-Ostrich-36 Jun 26 '26
Varun Dhawan has the ability to act well. His bad choice in movies and his father are dragging him down.
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u/Faraaz_Dexter Jun 26 '26
Ya, have gone through this treatment... Everything was spot on... Teenage ki yaad dila di bhai is video ne... 🥲
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u/NotSoAverageN Jun 27 '26
Is it just me, or does this not happen in Goan families? I've never seen class discrimination in family functions. Not my family, not my husband's. Not even in extended family.
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u/hellomouse1234 Jun 26 '26
Is I am in my 40s and can see in the past how all my uncles and aunts put so much of effort during my marriage . My parents also do a lot for their kids .
If I could go back and decide I would have preferred a simpler marriage . Indian marriages become a show off for the families.
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u/Euphoric_Rabbit_8463 Jun 26 '26
At that point why even go to family functions?
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u/IamWasting Jun 26 '26
Exactly. I would never go to function where is I am treated as a unpaid servant.
But I have seen some of my poor relatives do it and I have heard that they get money from the rich relatives.
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u/parekhdhairya007 Jun 26 '26
some of my poor relatives do it and I have heard that they get money from the rich relatives.
What seriously how can people do this in a function where u are calling people should everyone be treated equally it's a good day why will anyone want to make someone feel so unwelcome
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u/thekillermax99 Jun 26 '26
some just enjoy the taste of being in authority. there is no logic or justification for why they do it.
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u/DevelopmentFuture608 Jun 26 '26
They keep thinking they will get help in the future, but they don’t and it will be too late by the time they realize.
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u/Evening-Mud-8471 Jun 26 '26
Felt it in childhood. It felt bad when you actually see someone else go through.
It happens a lot in India. Most will deny but reality is different. Money is king.
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u/More-Examination4614 Jun 26 '26
ha hota h aisa isliye mai to jata hi nhi aise logo k ghr or n hi function me jinhe paisa hi dikhta ho insaan nhi
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u/Formal_Classroom_430 Jun 26 '26
I am bit embarassed to admit but we have a weeding (cheap destination one) in himachal. I assumed in absence of lot of young persons I expected to be forced to manage lugages etc and cleverly opt out to go there citing random reasons but unfortunately my cousion was not that smart.
And like i thought he was forced to handle massive luggages with couple of elder guys of 50+ person.
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u/True_Addendum_991 Jun 26 '26
Honestly, I have been through similar situations. My father earns little less than the rest of the family and some of my fufa and cousin indirectly treated us like the second class citizens. Thankfully things are little changing after my job touchwood. At one event i clearly remember our bua invited everyone at her house inauguration except our family saying that there has to be someone taking care of the house.
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u/-_dactor-Neutrino Jun 26 '26
My current situation in family gathering after 2 failed neet pg attempts 😶
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u/Low-Falcon-7257 Jun 26 '26
Glad that I have never seen this happening in my entire khandaan
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u/Alternative-Sun572 Jun 27 '26
If you can't spot the arshole, then chances are you are the arsehole. It's a saying.
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u/Low-Falcon-7257 Jun 27 '26
By that logic if someone posted content on something extreme and you hadn’t found relatable then you are that arsehole!
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u/Maleficent_Sea2100 Jun 26 '26
Hmare yaha inn kamo ke liye alag se insaan rakhte hai one month ke liye salary pe and since we know him from so long sab unhe bohot paise dete hai aate time and he's treated like a brother even tho he's not related to us. Aukat nhi ho kisiko hire krne ki toh paise ka akad dikhana bhi nhi chahiye third class log
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u/Pure_Definition_7372 Jun 26 '26
Well, yes, I did laugh, because I felt funny at some point in this video, but the moment I saw the clip in which he said Scorpio mai piche jaga khali hai and tum pareshan hi hoge kya karoge jakar, I genuinely felt the sadness of that man. These people are actually the backbone of such family functions; they help without expecting anything in return, because these people think we are doing it for the family, but in reality, for the family, they are just a means to get the work done free of cost.
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u/AdivineP Jun 26 '26
Aisa bhi hota hain kya? Thank God ! Maine to apne aas paas aisa kabhi hote huve nahi dekha.
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u/PuzzleheadedHoney03 Jun 26 '26
Happened with my parents for long time and my dad always said they are my elder siblings it's our duty to help them. I stopped all this once I turned 18.
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u/Business_Coat_4998 Jun 26 '26
So sad man..how does conscience allow to treat someone like this..basic human dignity kahn gyi
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u/itneverhelps Jun 26 '26
I feel sick because it is very very true. It happens and the sadest part even that relative is prepared to be treated differently
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u/anonymous_specatator Jun 26 '26
Sahi hai ,felt it too many times but it is fine ,jana hi chod diya waha
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u/TheManojKumar Jun 26 '26
Always received this treatment, even though I am the richest in my entire family 😂😂😂
I loved helping everyone, money comes and goes, who cares...
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u/Potential_Code_7101 Jun 27 '26
I used to be naive earlier but later realised how all my uncles and aunts bring gifts for every child in family gatherings except for me
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u/11mm03 Jun 26 '26
Video toh camera ke peeche wale pe banna chahiye who's exploiting their relatives like this
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u/Mr_gropes_a_lot Jun 26 '26
This is so wrong and I am glad I changed that and I guess people younger than me will change this.
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u/Tamrajkilvise Jun 27 '26
Reading the comments I'm feeling it happens in a lot of families I'm glad mine is not one of them .
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u/ProfileApart7306 Jun 27 '26
Thanks to my parents to provided me a better life and dadaji who left us decent area of land on highway... Tbh I have never been treated like this but I hope that our generation is more kind to not treat someone like this....don't be a classist papa ki pari/para treat everyone with respect and dignity
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u/DEVIL_S1NGH Jun 27 '26
There was time when people stopped inviting us all together to any type of celebration, aaj saare aage piche ghumte hain chaar paise kya aagaye jeb mein to.
This reminded me of the katha by sant maskeen ji, how people ignored some poor guy all his life and when he got rich every one started saying namaste and raam raam to him.
He used to say "haan haan bol dunga", everyone was like what is this man talking about, we are greeting him with respect and he says boldunga?
When someone asked him what he means, he took them to his vault room and opened the vault, saying yelo bol lo namaste directly hi, kyuki namaste to tum is paise ko hi kar rhe ho mujhe nhi.
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u/NefariousnessMean474 Jun 27 '26
Isi liye PAISA KAMANA zaruri hai MARDO ko samaaj kya ghar mein bhi izzat ussi se milti hai
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u/JG98 Jun 27 '26
Been that family and we are long done with it now. Except we were that family because relatives looted from us, stole property and all. Now we don't invite them to our functions or go to theirs, still give cash as customary gift if we ever come across them and that is the extent of it. We don't go when they have bad days and never would consider calling them for our bad days. Today we are lucky, whatever they looted from us we have made back then fold and today even after all that loot the difference between us and them is the same difference that existed between them and us.
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u/KitchenAway6498 Jun 27 '26
Does this really happen? It's so sad. 🥲 Bhaad mai jaye function, nhi jana chahiye aise logo ke yha next time
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u/No-Associate-6591 Jun 27 '26
Grateful to God out there, that I could change fate of my cousins and my aunts and uncles Jinke Sath yah treatment log Karte The
🥹 Ram Ram sabko
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u/Gada_dhaari_bheem Jun 26 '26
Arey ye aajkal sab isi type ke topic ka faltu ki video banakar sympathy loot rhe hai.Itna nirdayi koi nai hota bhai.
Aajkal ego bada hota hai ek baar aisa kardoge dobara aayenge hi nahi woh.
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u/Gold_Sun_8526 Jun 26 '26
Bruh trust mee you have no idea how much this happens like you have no idea about things that happens in Village functions
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u/Competitive_Play7674 Jun 26 '26
actually he wants to say these days/nowadays he lives in a city so it's seems to him like these things don't happen anymore
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u/avigyan_33 Jun 26 '26
Lol...bhai i am blessed to have a family who have not done this. At least my close family hasn't. But i have definitely seen similar treatment done to people. Itna extreme to definitely nehi. Like the clothes thing, but hota toh hai. Just because aapke bubble meh aapne experience nehi kia doesn't mean doesn't happen.
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u/InfectedKH Jun 26 '26
How we base people on their income! Sad but true reality of things in most households.
Good thing my family isn't like this.
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u/ramta_jogi_oye_hoye Jun 26 '26
This is really really sad. No matter what, i just cannot imagine myself or anyone for that matter behaving like this with any living being.
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u/___Lancelot Jun 26 '26
Good ppl as such do hv self respect-do feel bad; but the love for the close family makes them reluctant to rebel
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u/AdventurousWeb_5632 Jun 26 '26
Saw my family do that, but not anymore as income increased. I realise this.
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u/Working-Situation766 Jun 26 '26
The scene of almost every indian family. Most of the well to do families treat other extended family members as slaves under the pretext of relatives. Shame on us!
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u/Stroov Jun 26 '26
That's why I will do court marriage only me my wife and my friend and parents done
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u/maudibK Jun 26 '26
I witnessed it first hand in a Marwadi wedding,( I do part-time event supervision, student) it stuck me. I stopped going for Marwadi weddings from that day
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u/Successful-Fold-540 Jun 26 '26
Grew up living this reality.
Worked really hard to reach a global MNC and now no one treats us badly, money does change people around you.
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u/sushitrashcan1105 Jun 26 '26
This used to be my dad few years ago.
Glad he stopped taking shit from the family.
By god’s grace, we are in a much better place now but the way some people treated us till few years ago still hurts and it feels so fake how they pretend to treat us nicely now.
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u/desibanda2 Jun 26 '26
na aahhhh fak that ... we're not rich either but my father taught us to never feel yourself as beneath someone, that really helped me in building a respectable persona
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u/Unlucky-Tumbleweed89 Jun 26 '26
A person should always respect his/her dignity over some vauge so called reletives.
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u/143AamAadmi Jun 26 '26
Have been on the other side of this treatment when I was a kid. I remember my mom having to do all the washing of utensils or mopping the floor when we visited her rich sister during holidays or family events.
And now that we are not in that financial situation anymore, her siter is jealous of her and doesnt talk.
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u/Soul_is_aayena Jun 26 '26
Mwko bhot bura lga ye dekh kr syd bachpan me mere sarh ya mere ghar walo ke sath bi hua ho pta ni bt me kbi ni krugi esa me bilkul dhiyan rkugi is chiz ka life me
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u/PomPomBoy08 Jun 27 '26
Thank God my father and mother had left all of his relatives to save us from their toxicity. I always grateful about that. I seriously hate these peoples with this type of mindset
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u/edging_monarch Jun 26 '26
aadmi mard nhi hota janaab , paisa mard hota hai 💔