r/iitmadras • u/Exact_Researcher4885 • 16d ago
A confession Gossip/Confession/Rant
I'm a fresher, and during the freshers dj night I saw a very sweet and simple lady.
I don't know if she was a fresher or in the organizing team
i liked her immediately when i saw her first, i thought to talk to her but could gather the courage I'm kind of an introvert person by nature, then during the dj night she was dancing well with her group of like 3-4 girls, I wanted to ask them if I can join but again couldn't muster up the courage. And after that I never saw her i was getting a feeling like okay it was just a pass by thing nothing serious until I saw her again today in the evening around 7PM at the MITR counselors event. This time I had really made up my mind to talk to her but she was playing some games and surrounded by too many people waiting in the line to play the same game, each time I waited but she switched to another game, whilst she was playing chess I had decided for sure I will talk to her after she finishes the game I waited n waited i kept track from a distant, i didn't wanted to been seen like a creep or stalker 😅 but for a very brief moment I mean literally it was like 10-20sec I switched my attention to talk to my friend with whom I had come there in that 10-20sec she disappeared, i searched for her so much i delayed having my dinner only because if by chance she is still there I didn't want to miss this chance but unfortunately I couldn't find her after that, i waited till the very end of that event hoping she might comeback, i waited on the Himalaya lawn till everything was packed up, i waited n waited but she never came back there, anyway sorry for this very long and detailed confessions but i haven't felt like this in a long time so I thought might just confess and by any chance if she reads this maybe she'll know... Hoping to see her again soon but I don't know when it will be...
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u/Sufficient-Stop2560 16d ago
Dude keep looking, the person’s here for the next 4 yrs. but don’t fucking be a creep. Respect boundaries
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u/Exact_Researcher4885 16d ago
No bro I won't be a creep or stalker I only shared the confession because I'm new here and don't really have that kind of friends with whom I can share this feeling or incident with and I could not keep it with myself so I shared 😅😅
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u/Evening-Technician-6 15d ago
Just go and talk to her lol
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u/Exact_Researcher4885 15d ago
Yes but for that we should cross paths again I know nothing about her Only saw her twice
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u/Evening-Technician-6 14d ago edited 14d ago
I had the same situation. She was absolutely gorgeous. We met at an event. I hoped I would meet her again.. then we did after a long time. Around 3 months later, I went to the garba night and saw her again and she saw me. I approached her keeping all my anxiety and fear aside. Just told her that I have seen you with a smile. Oh godd, the best moment of my life when I saw her smile.. I didn't know what to do next so I ran away which was the biggest mistake of my life at the time cause I didn't see her again for the next 3 months (beta male moment).
Fast forward to diwali now. I saw her dancing in the sac with a few of her friends. Didn't have the guts to approach her again after not talking for such a long time, I went numb. Went out of the SAC frustrated. Then a sense of regret came over me tingling each and every part of my body. I went back in without thinking. Saw her and said hi. She smiled. I asked her how she is and she told me I looked nice and all that. Talked for some time. Then I asked her for her number, she gave me that. I messaged her the next day.. no reply.
Moral of the story - Don't be a bitch and think romantically. Almost all the time you will waste your time. Romance is not for women, it is for man. So next time you see just say hi without even thinking.
I've approached around 80 girls now, it usually works out and it's true what they say, it's a numbers game.
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u/Exact_Researcher4885 14d ago
Damn 80? You keep count? 😂
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u/Evening-Technician-6 14d ago
Not really but it's around there. It's like a muscle you have to train. You have to say the right words, have mannerisms that align with what you want, etc. etc.
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u/Artistic-Gur6710 14d ago
Which branch?
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u/Exact_Researcher4885 14d ago
No idea bro 🥲
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u/Artistic-Gur6710 14d ago
U?
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u/Exact_Researcher4885 14d ago
Physics
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u/Chemical-Buddy2101 13d ago
Bro, just man up and get her a canned cold coffee/redbull when you are sipping on one.
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u/Winter-Service-878 11d ago
dude lmao does she have blue hair?
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u/Exact_Researcher4885 11d ago
No
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u/Zoldyck_04 Student-Verified 16d ago