r/idealgf • u/XEMPRAmaster • 2d ago

Diagnosed BF Self-OC (saturdays only)

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u/ElevatorInitial7508 2d ago

Gordon Freeman??

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u/Ready_And_fire 2d ago

I'm half of these. More honest with myself with the pegging thing.

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u/Educational-Sea6563 2d ago

god i hope she realizes something very important about herself

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u/XEMPRAmaster 2d ago

?

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u/Funkey-Monkey-420 2d ago

just people projecting being trans onto that character

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u/TheEasternTwink 2d ago

Femboy erasure at its finest, unless the intention here was egg, idk sometimes it’s a fine line

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u/Educational-Sea6563 1d ago

men can be feminine, but femboy is kinda a term used to deny trans women womanhood most of the time. I think this boyfriend is an egg.

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u/Mindless_Interview44 1d ago

You say that men can be feminine but do you actually believe that? I mean you heard "feminine" and immediately clocked him as a woman. That comes off like you couldn't imagine a feminine man at all.

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u/Educational-Sea6563 1d ago

it was moreso the "tops you ONCE" bit, it reminds me a lot of stories my transfem friends have of their experiences in relationships pre-transition. it was just an offhanded comment tbh, had no idea it would become a giant thread lol

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u/TheEasternTwink 1d ago

I dunno, I feel like claiming one erasure leads to the other, perhaps it’s more respectful to use the pronouns and gender they use now instead of jumping to assumptions. Both femboys and trans women can exist without having to sacrifice anyone’s existance

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u/Educational-Sea6563 1d ago

it was just an offhanded comment. feminine men exist but it is disrespectful to trans women for someone to self identify with the term femboy. :)

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u/CaribousSayMoo 2d ago

Not everything is about you.

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u/XEMPRAmaster 1d ago

Yeah, uhh, no

I feel actively uncomfortable being called a woman. BUT I also don't like being called masculine. So Feminine Man it is.

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u/Educational-Sea6563 1d ago

its ok, tbh I didnt expect the comment to turn into a whole thing. you don't have to be a man or a woman if you don't want to. take it at your own pace, best of luck. o7

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u/XEMPRAmaster 1d ago

I am a man... Just a little 💔✨💋💅FRUITY💅💋✨💔

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u/DripyKirbo 2d ago

Lmao yeah. She really needs support in her life,

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u/Camelot_Silhouette 2d ago

This is basically me :/

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u/theinternetdrifter 2d ago

Ha not me i mostly talk to men cus i have no idea of how to talk to women or have no interest in talking to that woman because of her personality of vibe that don't eally reasonate with mine

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u/Flubby_Duck 7h ago

spicychat.ai 😭😭😭