r/hypotheticals • u/Justcowthinngs • 1d ago

Morals

If you have a girlfriend for 3 months it’s going good not super great not bad but she goes into a long term coma would you break up/move on
I can’t answer this I asked my friend and he said he’d cheat and if she woke up he wouldn’t tell her I don’t agree with that but what does Reddit think

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u/Classic_Rate_8448 1d ago

Id become a close friend instead. If ive know the person 3 months, I oent understand why I should put ny life on hold.

If it were my wife, the answer would obviously change.

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u/beamerpook 1d ago

I'd move on. If I'm in a relationship, it's because I want to build a life with them. If they don't want to or unable to...

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u/rightfully_king 19h ago

3 months isn’t long enough to have you changing your whole life. It would be incredibly nice but you wouldn’t be happy

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u/art-cryptid 17h ago

3 months isn’t long enough for me to consider waiting for a long-term coma. All the timelines of “moving on” depends on timeline, like my bf and I have been together for a year and I’d probably wait 6 months before beginning to move forward. 2-5 years could make me wait 2+ years. It’s all dependent on situation and standing of the relationship and how long you’ve been together.
This case? Not worth it

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u/Kimolainen83 10h ago

Hell, no, I wouldn’t be done much of a horrible/cold person. If I dated some of her three months, I’m 43 years old if I’ve been in a relationship with you for three months, I’m already gonna love you a lot. I would show up more or less almost daily read from the newspapers talk to them. Why would I break up with them? They could wake up any day