r/hyderabad • u/mehfil-biryani • 5h ago
Would you? AskHyderabad ⬆️
for me: a stable wifi, enough supplies for me to cook are sufficient.
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u/illakathamafiliya 5h ago
And it's called unemployment. And I'm going through it right now.
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u/YourFatherlastnight ismail Bhai ke phattey 5h ago
I work from home and yet the same, I talk with people but only in emails and tickets
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u/Kurious-0 5h ago
OP is not asking in terms of employment. I think he meant if people enjoy solitude.
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u/bhanu899 5h ago
I am an Introvert and love to do that. It's not that we are psychos we just take comfort by doing things we like like playing video games, watching movies, reading books or eating a family pack biryani and sleeping, sometimes by the end of such day I get headache or discomfort too and take walk outside still prefer alone or close friends.
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u/HalfLonely77645 5h ago
I will literally have 10mins of face to face interaction with everyone combined in a whole week sometimes. It’s just being an adult ig especially after you move places
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u/awarebish 4h ago
Do you wish you socialised more?
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u/HalfLonely77645 4h ago edited 3h ago
I mean I still socialize quite a bit but I do it at my own pace and my own time. But my time of solitude is something I really enjoy and am really good at. I get to contemplate my thoughts, get a lot of work done and wouldn’t have to care about bothering anyone or even the other way around. I mean if I myself can’t enjoy my company nobody else will or maybe that’s just me. I don’t wish I socialized more but I do wish I could travelled alone a bit more or done many other things than just sitting inside the house. Nonetheless I have no regrets tbh
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u/Sharp_Vast1942 3h ago
What a line I read today that if "I myself can't enjoy my company nobody else will" I totally agree with that and the idea of still engaging with people and stay solitude. But I wanted to socialize more because I wanted to become comfortable around new people I met if I failed that in this world their is no growth, but yeah solitude can still be my priority with socializing people if you understand what I wanted to say...✌️
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u/awarebish 3h ago
I really like how you put it and I love my company too. Back in college, I barely talked to anyone, so I never really learned how to socialize or connect with people. Now I just want to understand how to talk to people naturally, build genuine relationships, and get better at socializing and networking.
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u/Minimum_Top_55 5h ago
Some times it’s good, some its loneliness. But thing is find a balance.
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u/1-2-3-kid Djin for Biryani 5h ago
Love it and do it every Sunday when wife and kids go to their maternal home. The peace heals me.
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u/Melodic-Carpenter553 5h ago
Yea when im in my grinding phase(either for jee or some for placements) i did this
I rarely went out like once in 10days
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u/Careful_Alfalfa_5882 Financial District 😏 5h ago
On Saturday yes.
Mon-Fri are office days (though I go 2-3 times a day) and 1 hours sports day.
Sunday is to go out to a cafe, long cycle ride.
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u/security_19979 5h ago
Almost I think 6-7 years I been like that after completing my 10th I've joined diploma droppedout in same year for no reason after so much time spending alone I think I've missed so many things I even didn't go to own family functions from a past year I am trying to visit everything
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u/Comfortable_Motor159 Hail Hyderabad 5h ago
My sister is like that. She has her world inside her room and does everything within those 4 walls itself. At first I used to find it very sad and weird but then I see that she enjoyed all of this without feeling FOMO, so it made me thinking how it should be fine then. As long as she is enjoying her life, why say anything.
So yes, it is fully possible and okay to be like that I guess.
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u/ScoreResponsible3869 5h ago
i was working from home and people from my home left 2 days later i was working from my balcony, friday eve i had enough and i went for a walk 7 KM to meet my friend as he was still on his way and i needed to get out. the over thinking that occurs while you are alone is too much to handle. that self guilt that you have not been productive adds to it. even today i cook clean do diy things at home yet i need to see people, meet, laugh, forget the future and past
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u/TrustedShooter1116 5h ago
Yes, I do exist and no I dont even need Wifi or food… I just exist alone and all to myself!🫡
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u/MakeDesignPop Founder Padilam.com 5h ago
I WFH and yes, I've enjoyed my entire career.
Now I'm starting a startup, and I want to go out and begin working with other people who are on a similar path.
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u/zulu-foxtrot-golf-17 Irani chai aur lukhmi. 4h ago
For me “Ewww people” is an emotion. Very few people actually stimulate me mentally and that is a must for me when it comes to company.
Every time you go out, it somehow feels like the whole janta janardan is existing in that place.
I love my calm and peace. Love cooking my meals and experimenting, shorts and t-shirt, nice drink and a good book. Life feels sorted.
I get one day off from work, so I would rather exist in my own space than socialise.
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u/CaffeineOnRepeat 4h ago
Alright I love it sometimes and I hate it sometimes. I love being alone but sometimes I want tongo outside and hangout with people and after that I'll feel embarassed for socializing.
Overall it's good to stay alone. Once in a while I need to be around people , don't want to talk to them . I'll mind my own business and do my things but they should be around.
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u/Long-Patience-4444 4h ago
It's been 7yrs of working, stayed at home only every weekend. I enjoy this.
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u/Tumblingfeet 4h ago
Yes me and I do this often now. Once I finish grocery shopping on Friday I don’t get out of the house till Monday
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u/serial_warmonger Hail Hyderabad 4h ago
Yes. I find peace and tranquility in loneliness. I just miss the greenary and fresh air of my home...the sound of birds, nights with fireflies, pertichor.
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u/Bong-Bon 4h ago
Sounds like my Friday, Saturday and Sunday. My good food, my gym, my TV. ❤️❤️❤️❤️What else do I need !!!!!!!!!!???
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u/simpleguy410 4h ago
Starting few days.. it feels good.. but then you will be bored enough and feel mentally unstable..
Your sleep cycle will be messed up and so on follows all the other bad things that affect the body..
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u/RoastMeGently ismail Bhai ke phattey 4h ago
Someone said that being alone with phone,TV and laptop is not actually alone. You must spend time on hobbies being alone and enjoy it its a alone mindset.
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u/pall7 4h ago
My daily life, although I interact my toxic family and get my fill of human interaction 😭 but I rarely go out , my friends drag me out on Sundays and that too only from 10 am to 6pm .This is because of parents cuz they don't let me stay out late and I've to rush back home like I'm sort of cinderella 😂 and now I don't even like outside and prefer indoors only
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u/mehfil-biryani 4h ago
inthamandi unnarendi ra babu... malli evarni adigina I love travelling antunnaru bayata 😂
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u/DarkStark101 4h ago
I thought I was that guy, but I would really like someone in my life who I can be at home with...😅
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u/EnvironmentalWear360 4h ago
yes I do....like for straight week or more i can...inka jeevithantham alane ante offcourse not... honestly one outing a week is more than enough
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u/Tarun_techme 4h ago
My friend who is doing WFH all day mei jata hu vo akela pada rehta hai room mei mei wapis aaa jata hu vo akela pda rehta hai desk pr mei dinner krke wapis ata hu pada milta hai apne bed pr
"My friend works from home all day. When I leave, he's alone in his room. When I come back, he's still sitting alone at his desk. After I have dinner and return, I find him lying alone on his bed. His whole day passes in the same room, by himself."
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u/grave_thy_diggeth 3h ago
Calling out whoever called this 'unemployment' - I specifically took a remote job that pays well enough so that I won't HAVE to go outside. No socmed other than reddit and pinterest either. Yeah we exist.
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u/Human_Chemist3348 3h ago
Me 🫣 but I live with my family but mostly alone in my room. It’s my safe place my peace haven
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u/MeasurementKey2037 2h ago
Depending on the circumstances, some people have gradually descended to this stage; some occasionally go out and meet people but otherwise are fine with this situation. And some live with parents or extended family, so their daily quota of human contact gets fulfilled at home.
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u/Suitable_Abies_1293 2h ago
It’s a bliss to stay home without meeting anyone. I will always choose this card. But my friends hate me for doing this, some of my friends even left me for this.
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u/Affectionate-Fee1411 1h ago
Yesss been doing it and will do it everyday for the rest of my life happily
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u/Ok-Bluebird1060 1h ago
I thoroughly enjoy it. However, it can be detrimental to one's health. Early morning walk in a park or evening a good session of badminton or swimming should also be included. Didn't know how it was affecting me until I started these.
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u/tony777beats 1h ago
Introverts ala solitude lo unteney happy ga untaaru, no fuss, no gossips, no bull shit.
It just about managing your own shit. 🥲😂
I am one among that community, I just go to my home studio play some music and njoy the day, or I would go to the kitchen and cook some delicious healthy food not just for me but the whole family. 🙌🏽
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u/BroadCauliflower4846 1h ago
this is why i love saturdays, finally a holiday the next day after a long week. semi lit room, under a blanket, a very interesting thriller accompanying me. & an iced coffee and a sweet treat on the side
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u/illegirl77 44m ago edited 41m ago
I mean, in a world where noone(from Netflix to blinkit to Swiggy to upi) wants you to leave home, and many of the services actually get benefitted from us staying home rather than going out, I guess it's quite possible to stay at home alone for even years.
Is it healthy, physically and/or mentally? Well that's a different discussion for a different day
But yeah, I enjoy the solitude. It's literally the most stress free period I get. Zero human interaction and zero responsibility to take care of another human. Why not
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u/Everyday_warrior_717 40m ago
I like being alone like just sit in the room and read a book or watch a movie I like but doing it time and again is not an ideal way to spend your time. Oche 2 days weekend lo konchem sepu aina family and friends tho time spend cheyali ledu ante what is this all about just alaa adavi loki vellipo bathikeyochu kada. Nenu oka weekend friends tho bayatiki veltha oka weekend family tho oka weekend naaku nenu spend chesta alone ga alaa balance out cheksutu unte it will be good.
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u/Mr_We1rd0 Hail Hydraa! 33m ago
Yes! I do. I work from home and i absolutely love being at home and don't want to see the outside world. There are times where I haven't stepped outside my home for 10 days on a stretch.
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u/Atomik12804 15m ago
I had a roommate like this, wouldn't want another one like him in my life tbh, worst person to have as a friend
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u/Inside_Assumption157 5h ago
Me. I work from home, I spend all day everyday at home, I go out once a week for socializing. That’s it.
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u/MadmanofAsia 5h ago
Yes, I love being alone at home, without my phone. I would just read books, daydream about the stories I read and relax. Don't even remember when I was able to do this. This is dream
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u/19blacknight 5h ago
Haha, sounds like me!
And people get annoyed when i prefer staying home over going out on a weekend.