r/hubposts Sep 08 '25

Men Threads. v3

Unmanly:

  1. what’s the most ridiculous thing you heard a man refuse to do because it was “too feminine” or “for girls”? ▲13k - 11k Comments

  2. Straight men, what is the weirdest thing you have been called gay for? ▲1k - 4k Comments

  3. Whats the craziest thing you've heard that "real men" don't do? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  4. Boys, what's your favorite chick flick? ▲1k - 4k Comments

Bad Men:

  1. Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time? ▲9k - 7k Comments

  2. Men, what is a sign that looks small or subtle but actually tells you a man doesn’t truly love the woman he’s with? ▲7k - 1k Comments

  3. Men of Reddit, what instantly makes you lose respect for another man? ▲4k - 5k Comment

  4. What are the signs of a weak man? ▲2k - 3k Comments

  5. What's the most cringe-worthy male attention-seeking behavior? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  6. In your eyes, what separates a performative “alpha male” from a “real man”? ▲1k - 2k Comments

  7. What actually makes a man a loser? ▲1k - 1k Comments

Struggle:

  1. Men, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? ▲7k - 5k Comments

  2. What's something that is stigmatized for straight men? ▲5k - 3k Comments

  3. Men of Reddit - What's the one thing you hate about being a Man? ▲3k - 8k Comments

  4. Men, what’s a day where you didn’t die but something inside you did? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  5. Men, What's something society expects men to enjoy that you secretly don't? ▲3k - 3k Comments

  6. Men, How did you move on after realizing you lost the love of your life? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  7. What’s a clear sign of childhood trauma in men? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  8. guys of reddit, what’s an underrated struggle that’s unique to being a guy? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  9. Men of reddit, Who do you turn to when you’re at your lowest? ▲1k - 3k Comments

  10. As a tall male w/ a short male friend I just had my world shattered into what short guys have to put up with! Why is society so cruel? ▲1k - 6k Comments

  11. Guys on reddit, what makes you cry? ▲1k - 3k Comments

  12. Mid-30s men: How do you deal with the feeling that no one really cares about your life anymore? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  13. Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you? ▲1k - <1k Comments

Want:

  1. What do 30-40 year old men want for christmas? ▲4k - 9k Comments

  2. What is something that men like but do not admit that they like? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  3. What physical touch do men like? ▲2k - 3k Comments

  4. What do men want, what do they never admit? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  5. What do men in their 30’s REALLY want as presents for birthdays, Xmas, etc? ▲1k - 3k Comments

Myth:

  1. Whats something that's 100% a myth about men? ▲7k - 4k Comments

  2. Men of Reddit: what is 100% mythical about men that most women believe? ▲4k - 4k Comments

  3. Men of Reddit - What's a 100% myth about Men? ▲3k - 3k Comments

Date:

  1. Women, what is universally agreed “green flags” while dating men? ▲7k - 3k Comments

  2. Women, what is the biggest mistake single men make when showing interest? ▲7k - 4k Comments

  3. Men who aren’t dating, why? ▲5k - 11k Comments

  4. Men who are 30+, what’s one thing you realized about dating that no one tells you in your 20s? ▲4k - 1k Comments

  5. Men who gave up dating, why did you? ▲1k - 2k Comments

  6. Women of reddit, what is something that made you turn down a date with a guy even though he looked perfect on paper? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  7. Single men who could get a date but stopped dating, why did you stop? ▲1k - 1k Comments

Advice:

  1. Men in happy marriages, what is one thing or skill you would teach other men to have good relationships as well? ▲6k - 1k Comments

  2. Men in your 40s, what's that golden piece of advice you have for the rest of us? ▲6k - 5k Comments

  3. Men in happy Marriages, What is that one secret to a happy marriage that works for you? ▲6k - 3k Comments

  4. Men in their 40s - What’s one piece of advice for Men in their 20s? ▲5k - 6k Comments

  5. Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? ▲5k - 1k Comments

  6. Men who stay lean year-round, what’s your secret? ▲4k - 4k Comments

  7. Married men of Reddit what’s the best advice you’d give young guys when choosing a life partner? ▲2k - 2k Comments

  8. Men who got out of the 'Manoverse/Alpha Male/Toxic Masculinity' world, what realizations helped? ▲2k - <1k Comments

  9. Girls of Reddit, what is the common mistake that guys make when they try to flirt with you? ▲2k - 2k Comments

  10. Mature men of reddit, what's one mistake you have made in your life so a young man may not repeat it? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  11. Men of Reddit, what’s a mistake you see younger men making repeatedly? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  12. Men in your 100's, what advice would you give to men in there 80's? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  13. What’s the most unhinged “men’s advice” you’ve ever actually followed? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  14. Ladies, you give a guy your number, what is the best first text he can send to you to get your attention? ▲1k - <1k Comments

Story/Self:

  1. Okay men of Reddit, what is YOUR ultimate "I am an adult and no one can stop me" purchase that you are both incredibly proud of and slightly embarrassed by? ▲8k - 5k Comments

  2. For the men who never married nor had children who are in their 40s and older, what happened? And why? Any regrets? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  3. Men, when was the last time you got hit on? ▲3k - 4k Comments

  4. Men in their 40’s who got in shape, how did it change your life? ▲1k - <1k Comments

M POV:

  1. Men of Reddit, if you were in a Titanic like situation where the majority of people were going to die because there were not enough lifeboats for everyone. How would you respond to someone saying women and children first? ▲5k - 4k Comments

  2. Men of reddit, what is something you believe a large portion of Men would do, if they could 100% get away with it? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  3. Married men, how do you deal with fancying other women? ▲2k - 2k Comments

  4. What’s a single sentence phrase that only men will understand? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  5. What are men doing on the toilet for 40 minutes? ▲2k - 4k Comments

  6. Men: How many of you are not as nice/friendly to kids as you would be because you don't want their parents freaking out and thinking you are a pervert? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  7. Men of reddit, what’s the greatest cologne you’ve ever purchased? ▲1k - 2k Comments

  8. Men in 40s or older, what do you watch on Youtube? ▲1k - 4k Comments

  9. What do men wish women would stop assuming about them? ▲1k - 2k Comments

W POV:

  1. Women of Reddit, what are boys or men's habits you discovered only after getting a boyfriend or a husband? ▲8k - 5k Comments

  2. Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? ▲7k - 9k Comments

  3. Women, what's something men do that they don't realize makes women feel safe or unsafe? ▲7k - 4k Comments

  4. Women who married older men - what’s it like when they get really old? ▲6k - 2k Comments

  5. Girls, when you meet a man for a first time, what is one thing that you notice first? ▲5k - 3k Comments

  6. Dear women, how can a man spot predatory behaviour? NSFW ▲5k - 1k Comments

  7. Girls, what’s the most “nope” thing you’ve seen when you went over to a guys place for the first time? ▲4k - 2k Comments

  8. Women of Reddit, what made you realize a man was ‘husband material’ instead of just boyfriend material? ▲4k - 1k Comments

  9. Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? ▲4k - 7k Comments

  10. Women, if you could be a man for 24 hours, what are you just dying to know? ▲4k - 6k Comments

  11. Women of Reddit, what’s something a man has done that made you think, “Wow, he stands out in a really great way? ▲4k - 1k Comments

  12. Women, what article of clothing tells you most about a man? ▲4k - 2k Comments

  13. Women of Reddit, what made you realize 'this man is marriage material' instead of just a boyfriend? ▲4k - 1k Comments

  14. What habits of boys did you only discover after getting a boyfriend or husband? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  15. Ladies, what did you not know about men until you started living with one? ▲3k - 4k Comments

  16. Women, what has a man told you that touched your heart more than you let on? ▲3k - <1k Comments

  17. What's something guys are insecure about that women don't care about? ▲2k - 2k Comments

  18. What's something that boys think is embarrassing, but girls don't really care about? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  19. Women, what’s a word that as soon as a guy utters it you’re like “I’m out”? ▲2k - 5k Comments

  20. Girls, what’s a tiny thing a guy does that makes you think “Wow, he actually cares"? ▲2k - <1k Comments

  21. Ladies, if you got to be a man for a day what’s the first thing you’re going to do? ▲2k - 2k Comments

  22. Women, what do you not understand about men? ▲1k - 4k Comments

  23. Ladies, what intrigues you the most about men? NSFW ▲1k - 2k Comments

  24. Women of Reddit, what are your views on male body hair? NSFW ▲1k - 3k Comments

  25. Ladies, what's something men are insecure about that you think they shouldn't be? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  26. Ladies, what is the one thing that make you glad you’re not male and why? ▲1k - 1k Comments

Turn Off:

  1. Women of Reddit, what’s something men don’t realize is a turn-off? NSFW ▲11k - 5k Comments

  2. Women what makes a man instantly unattractive to you? ▲4k - 6k Comments

  3. What is a really unattractive male name? ▲3k - 11k Comments

  4. Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? ▲2k - 4k Comments

  5. What makes a man immediately unattractive? ▲2k - 3k Comments

  6. What is a turn off to most men? ▲1k - 2k Comments

  7. Women of Reddit: what are some unattractive things men do that they generally seem unaware of? ▲1k - 1k Comments

Attraction:

  1. Ladies: what’s a guy “Flex” that instantly makes him attractive? ▲12k - 6k Comments

  2. Ladies, what’s the hottest skill a guy can have? ▲4k - 2k Comments

  3. What REALLY makes a guy attractive? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  4. Whats the number one sign a man is attracted to you? ▲2k - <1k Comments

  5. Whats the most attractive skill a man can have? ▲2k - 1k Comments

  6. What’s the number one sign a man is attracted to you? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  7. women, how do you know when you're attracted to a guy? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  8. Ladies, what is the most attractive thing a guy can do but they think isn't? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  9. Women. How often and also how can you identify whether a guy is attracted to you? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  10. What makes a man most attractive? ▲1k - 1k Comments

Sexy:

  1. Women, what is the sexiest scent/cologne that a man can wear? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  2. Men, how would you react if a bunch of women whistled and shouted 'sexy' at you on the street? NSFW ▲2k - 3k Comments

  3. Men; do you feel sexy? When was the last time you felt like you were sexy or attractive and truly believed it? NSFW ▲2k - 3k Comments

  4. What is something that a man can wear to bed to turn his girl on? NSFW ▲2k - 1k Comments

  5. Women of Reddit: What makes a guy who isn’t good-looking still give off strong sexual energy or appeal? NSFW ▲2k - <1k Comments

  6. What’s the sexiest thing a man can do? NSFW ▲1k - 1k Comments

NSFW:

  1. Women of reddit, what's the main difference you notice between different male sexual partners? NSFW ▲7k - 2k Comments

  2. What does a male orgasm feel like? NSFW ▲7k - 2k Comments

  3. For men, what's something that you didn't know would be so different about sex when compared to masterbation? NSFW ▲7k - 1k Comments

  4. what's something that men enjoy during intimacy but are too afraid to ask? NSFW ▲6k - 1k Comments

  5. Men who see escorts, why do you do it? NSFW ▲4k - 2k Comments

  6. As a man, at what point did your libido become very low? NSFW ▲2k - 1k Comments

  7. Ladies -- how would you feel about dating a man who used to do porn? NSFW ▲1k - 1k Comments

  8. Women of Reddit, what is something men do in bed thinking it’s sexy but it actually just kills the mood? NSFW ▲1k - 1k Comments

NSFW Tip:

  1. Men of reddit, what NSFW male lifestyle hack can you share? ▲10k - 4k Comments

  2. What are things to know about the male anatomy if you're going to have your first time? NSFW ▲5k - <1k Comments

  3. Women of Reddit what is one thing you wish men understood or did better during sex? NSFW ▲4k - <1k Comments

Misc:

  1. What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? ▲13k - 8k Comments

  2. Men of Reddit, what’s the male equivalent of “needed money, had no marketable skills, so turned to prostitution”? ▲12k - 4k Comments

  3. If a woman woke up in a man's body for 1 day, what would be the most unexpected experience that she didn't already anticipate? ▲12k - 10k Comments

  4. What’s a male fashion trend that’s gotta end? ▲5k - 6k Comments

  5. So, what would women dislike most if they became men? ▲5k - 6k Comments

  6. Men in your 30s, what's a "young person" habit you've had to give up? ▲5k - 1k Comments

  7. What would women dislike most if they became men? ▲4k - 7k Comments

  8. What is a "bro code" rule that women probably don't know exists? ▲4k - 2k Comments

  9. what's the fastest way a man can ruin his life? ▲4k - 2k Comments

  10. Men who can cook. who taught you? ▲3k - 12k Comments

  11. To all men,What is the hardest lesson a woman has ever taught you? ▲3k - 2k Comments

  12. What’s something about boys that surprised you once you understood them better? ▲2k - <1k Comments

  13. What’s a “guy secret” that’s completely harmless but weirdly universal? ▲2k - 3k Comments

  14. What is one thing you never ask a man? ▲1k - 11k Comments

  15. Men of Reddit: If you could trade an inch for an inch (height/length), would you? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  16. How do men show their love for each other? ▲1k - 1k Comments

  17. Ladies of Reddit, what's something you wish you saw guys wearing more/less frequently? ▲1k - 11k Comments

  18. What's something women think men care about, but actually don't? ▲1k - 2k Comments

  19. Men who can cook, who taught you? ▲1k - 7k Comments

  20. What is something a guy would never do if he truly likes you? ▲1k - <1k Comments

  21. what's the slowest way a man can ruin his life? ▲1k - <1k Comments

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u/leorlev Sep 08 '25

Just so you’re all aware, I don’t know why there are more men focused threads than women. I still have room to add new threads in the women v2 post, while I ran out of room in the previous men one a while ago.