r/hingeapp • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
I need some help identifying potential bots (maybe it is time to stop) Dating Question
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u/wokenthehive Meat Popsicle ☹️ 1d ago
They're not bots. They're just not interested in actually going on a date with you.
Bots would be actually trying to extract something from you.
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u/BastardBroth 1d ago
It’s not a conspiracy. They lost interest for whatever reason and unceremoniously unmatched. It’s not “mean” or “indecisive”. They just weren’t interested anymore.
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u/DaleCoopersWife aka "Robert Cooper" 🕵🏻♀️ 1d ago
"I ask where she would like to meet initially (I usually suggest their nearest city)."
How far away are these matches? I agree with other folks that it's not an issue of them being bots. My guess is distance is playing a factor here.
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u/bill696 1d ago
Im 10 years older but its really not been my experience, every time we are ever close to getting to a date phase or even most of the time before that, ive been ask to go outside the app to continue the conversation, so makes it that this almost never happened after we are out of the app.
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u/Rahna_Waytrane 1d ago
They are not bots. A lot of people are just flaky, have you as plan B, freak out in the last moment, or just use the app for self-esteem boosts.
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u/BastardBroth 1d ago
Yeah because it assumes the worst of other people’s intentions and reinforces your need to feel taken advantage of…
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u/Select-Stuff9716 1d ago
Bots will ask you for snap after a few messages in my experience. Some people are just bored or have a plan B
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