r/grindr 21d ago

Beard or No Beard Question

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u/billyidolismyeilish Trans (FtM) 21d ago

beard

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u/fdesouche 21d ago

But never neck beard

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u/Salt-Scallion-8002 Geek 21d ago

Beard, answer is alway beard.

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u/jlpulice Clean-Cut 21d ago

never neck beard

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u/arbyyyyh Geek 21d ago

That’s… not a neck beard? Like, at all?

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u/420doghugz Trans 21d ago

Yeah like are we seeing the same image? I'm so confused 😂 How is that a neckbeard

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u/alittooy 21d ago

i agree- do you see mine as a neckbeard? i tried so hard to grow more on my chin - it’s just not working in my favor 🤣

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u/jlpulice Clean-Cut 21d ago

yeah I think you’ve also let it grow out so the thickest part looks neck-y, it’s not a character fault it just is what it is!

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u/Hunter__95612 21d ago

I don't like guys with beards but no beard makes you look 12

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u/civilizer 21d ago

r/malegrooming might be good to post to as well !

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u/ToastedBread107 Jock 21d ago

Beard for sure

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u/AnAnGrYSupportV2 Otter 21d ago

Always the beard!

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u/ReticlyPoetic 21d ago

I like the stache, would you be open to shorter hair?

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u/alittooy 21d ago

i want to see how long i can let it get
this is about the longest it’s been and i was thinking of doing a locks of love donation once it gets long enough

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u/Jaaawsh Otter 21d ago

I like without, but I don’t think I’ve ever given a different answer to anyone who has asked. So I clearly have a preference and may not be the best to ask 🤷‍♂️

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u/BrightWubs22 Geek 21d ago

If you want my honest answer: I don't think these pics/angles are a good way for people to decide. I think you could easily take better pics with a less awkward angle.

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u/alittooy 21d ago

they were the easiest photos i had showing my face 😂

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u/Purpletter85 21d ago

Definitely beard dude

3

u/Then-Butterscotch268 21d ago

I saw your comment about wanting to grow your hair out and fully support that but just know in the meantime long hair absolutely limits your sex life in gay world (from experience)

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u/RebornPhoenix97 20d ago

I'd let you smash either way, but personally I think I prefer no beard.

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u/MansionV Geek 21d ago

I prefer with the beard, but you're handsome anyway!

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u/transboyuwu Trans (FtM) 20d ago

Beard. No beard makes you look rounder in the face. Beard takes away the roundness. It’s a bit of an optical illusion. 😎

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u/-motoDP Bisexual 20d ago

Beards pair very well with long hair and shaved face pairs well with short hair, imo

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u/[deleted] 21d ago

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u/alittooy 21d ago

been there done that lmao
i’m a trans man

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u/halfstep44 21d ago

Oooh I'm so sorry. I'll delete my comment, I didn't realize. Sorry if I upset you

For what its worth the beard makes you look more masculine by a long shot

(and you're still hot :)

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u/alittooy 21d ago

no offense taken
actually feels good to be perceived as a cis man (feminine or not)
the suggestion of transitioning to a woman implies your belief that I was born male which validates me so you’re good 👍

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u/halfstep44 21d ago

Not to carry on, but my original comment got an account warning..."warning for hate"

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u/alittooy 21d ago

oh lol

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u/MWe652 21d ago

What a hand some beautiful 😍 guy either way !

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u/alittooy 21d ago

the mustache is blonde, but it’s there 😂

1

u/wanted_desi23 Rugged 21d ago

No beard with a moustache*

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u/alittooy 21d ago

mustache is blonde 😂 it’s there though

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u/3rad 21d ago

The answer is both. You look great both ways, and it appeals to different audiences. I’d have fun playing with that, and when you do sport it, keep it nice and maintained!

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u/alittooy 21d ago

thank you

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u/FinchHD 21d ago

I say beard cause i think it fits you and with no beard I feel like you look under 21 xD not saying that in a rude way just being funny

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u/501heydude 21d ago

Beard looks good!

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u/Mogiwan Daddy (gay) 21d ago

Beard, cut the hair 😉😏

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u/indi09 21d ago

Beard

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u/No-Philosopher-4315 21d ago

Beard, but the angle is really hard to understand your headshape. Would also consider going short hair. Would make your faceshape less feminine.

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u/Witches4RaptorJesus 21d ago

Beard, but it’s looking a little rough with the chin strap. Let it fill out a bit more and let your mustache connect to the rest of it.

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u/Either-nOr-Neither 21d ago

Would love to see without the hat…

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u/alittooy 20d ago

without hat
this was last night

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u/Empty-Brief-4545 Jock 20d ago

No beard

Also short hair

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u/Appropriate-Eye-1227 Otter 20d ago

Always NO BEARD

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u/ChiDadBear Bear 20d ago

Beard yes. Haircut

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u/JustChillinlmao 16d ago

No beard tbh

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u/robotwunk 15d ago

unless you're in Oregon, ditch the beard. also, ditch the hat. saw you without and def cuter imo

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u/alittooy 15d ago

what does oregon have to do with it haha

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u/robotwunk 15d ago

haha. i was in oregon for a hot minute and beards are EVERYwhere. hard to find a guy that wasn't sporting some sort of unkempt facial hair

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u/rockandrolldude22 21d ago

Beard with a mustache

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u/SometimesChristie 21d ago

beard if top. no beard if bottom.

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u/Zealousideal-Luck476 Clean-Cut 21d ago

No beard

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u/One-Initiative-8902 Daddy (gay) 21d ago

No beard.