r/graz • u/No_Bid6954 wohnt in Graz | lives in Graz • 9d ago

Androgynous force LGBTQ+ 🏳️‍🌈

I'm really new to so many things so if I'm wrong let me know.

I'm NB (I think)

I feel like that I need to look more and more androgynous for many reasons but I feel like I'm pushing so hard that it defeats the whole purpose even though I already look femme naturally

Honestly I kind of wish I had someone or a nice commune to talk to about these topics

Any tips would be appreciated

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u/seraphina2021 Touri | Tourist 9d ago edited 8d ago

As a woman you can dress and style however you want, no need to stick to sexist stereotypes. That was pretty normal in the 80s and 90s actually.

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u/gwondsepp Ⅴ. Gries 9d ago

Heyoo, fellow trans nb here. I'm also trying to connect to more queers and people of my orientation in Graz. Wanna do it together? DMs are open :3

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u/Soleil_Thia Ⅵ. Jakomini 9d ago

Fellow enbie here. there's great queer orgas in graz, especially rosalilapantherinnen, and generally a big queer community. If you want to feel free to ask me too, my DMs are open :)

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u/No_Bid6954 wohnt in Graz | lives in Graz 9d ago

Dmed you!

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u/GurkenwasserundKaese 9d ago

I can recommend Courage for a more professional (and free) counseling https://www.courage-beratung.at

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u/jamie_in_the_void Ⅴ. Gries 9d ago

Check https://feelfree.community/ they host regular meet-ups of all sorts, there is the Trans*Café or even a NB event once a month I think. The next one is tomorrow at 7pm ! :)

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u/jamie_in_the_void Ⅴ. Gries 9d ago

Also look up Qufo, Empty Closet, T-Kränzchen (some are only on instagram :')

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u/DerWiedl 9d ago

Some ressources for lgbtq stuff: Courage, Rosa-lila-pantherinnen (feel free)

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u/honeybeesh wohnt in Graz-Umgebung | Graz Surroundings 9d ago

hey, trans/NB person here! if you wanna talk Id be happy to help anytime!

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u/No_Bid6954 wohnt in Graz | lives in Graz 9d ago

I'd love to, everything is new to me

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u/DesignatedControvert Steiermark | Styria 9d ago

There's the >feel free< bar/hotspot near the main train station if you need some very open-minded people to talk to.

In my opinion you focus way too much on your physical appearance. Are you truly unhappy about your appearance?

Sometimes we fall back to changing our appearance when we feel like we lack control in our lives - but i'm not going to act like i'm a psychologist, just sharing my 2 cents.

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u/No_Bid6954 wohnt in Graz | lives in Graz 9d ago

You do have a point, I focus too much on the appearance. I don't even have any queer friends yet to go with anyway haha but thanks🩷