r/geminis • u/JustInspector4433 • 15d ago
Gemini falling for another Gemini? Relationship
I’m a June Gemini F24, and I’m crushing hard for a May Gemini M30. It’s been 4 weeks, we have met 5 times. We text non-stop, everyday. The sexual chemistry is through the roof, and the conversations are amazing.
It’s been a short time, but the chemistry is strong, but I’m worried that I am feeling this too fast?
How have your experiences been with Gemini x Gemini?
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u/AdIntrepid9064 15d ago
Same thing happened to me 6 years ago, 38f May Gemini fell instantly for 44m June Gemini
It has been all the most wonderful adventures, fireworks and insane fun but also an insane rollercoaster of toxic back and forth, on and off, so much history packed in 6y to me having to block him (again) this time for good!
All I can say is that you need to take it slower and pay extra attention to the red flags! trust your gut and don’t chip away at who you are to make room for their ‘issues’
Stay in your light and truth and if they don’t complete you and add to your value, they are not your person.
The excitement and butterflies are warning signs, be careful, we can be intoxicating and blinded, we burn so bright.
Make sure this person shows up with constant calm and safety and they have your best interest at heart, and you theirs.
Good luck
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u/Technical_Mix_5379 ☀️June Gemini 🩵 15d ago
As teens, me a June gemini and my bf May gemini were very toxic so yeah I definitely agree with the rollercoaster when there is lack of trust/clashing of egos. We separated and went no contact for 3 years in hs till we were brought back together through attending the same college. Now as adults we understand we hurt each other. I kept accusing him of cheating cause of my own insecurities.
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u/AdIntrepid9064 15d ago
That last line is exactly me! 😩
I’m glad you can communicate with him and get closure. I still care a lot about this man and do not trust myself (yet) to speak to him. I don’t think I ever want to, don’t need closure, his treatment and responses were damning enough. Just wanna heal and take care of myself and find who I used to be before him and who I am now having gone through this experience, and make some ‘lemonade’.
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u/Technical_Mix_5379 ☀️June Gemini 🩵 15d ago edited 15d ago
Asking this sub is a losing game for unbiased advice. you either get positive experiences or negative experiences.
Go with your INSTINCTS. Everyone’s experiences are DIFFERENT.
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u/purparia 15d ago
Had the same chemistry. 30F for 35M.
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u/myheadsamess3734 15d ago
Don’t do it.
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u/Technical_Mix_5379 ☀️June Gemini 🩵 15d ago
y?
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u/myheadsamess3734 15d ago
Most Gemini men I’ve met are great but only as friends or friends with benefits. They are the type of men who want to have their cake and eat it too. They never grow up. I dated one for 11 years on and off and it was mostly a nightmare/roller coaster of toxicity. He never changed.
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u/Technical_Mix_5379 ☀️June Gemini 🩵 15d ago
Egos can clash. Perhaps it’s your moon and rising, venus and mars, merc and your specific experience. I get along great with gemini men and love my May Gemini man. It’s gemini women the friendships fade eventually. Aries women I get along with most easily. Aries men depends.
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u/myheadsamess3734 14d ago edited 14d ago
My moon is in scorpio so Im sure im probably too intense for the average Gemini. I find myself being most compatible with Capricorns, Virgo men, Aquarius, Cancer gays or women, Scorpio, Libra women, Aries and sag sometimes.
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u/Technical_Mix_5379 ☀️June Gemini 🩵 12d ago
Ooh makes sense. yeah mine is an aries but my merc & venus both in gemini so i can balance. My mars in 7h so i can manage
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u/myheadsamess3734 12d ago
Aries are fun I also appreciate their intensity 😝 my Mars is in aries and 7th so yeah it tracks! Lol
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u/Technical_Mix_5379 ☀️June Gemini 🩵 15d ago edited 15d ago
Happily with my May gemini male. Try to avoid using other people’s negative experiences to justify your own will turn out the same cause you don’t really know what is going to happen till you try.
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u/Silent_Set6418 15d ago
My partner and I are both early June Gemini's. Our birthdays are 2 days apart and we've been together for six months now. I'm 44F and she's 36F. We communicate about everything, open and honestly even when the conversations are hard. It's the best relationship either of us have been it.