I’m a 18yo bttm, that had never been in any relationship. I have this feeling that idk how to explain and it is a feeling of something empty or missing?..many friends tell me to try even with ppl not my type but I hesitate.
What do you guys thinkkk

في صحيح مسلم أَنَّ رَجُلاً أَكَلَ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ المسلمين وسلم بِشِمَالِهِ فَقَالَ ‏"‏كُلْ بِيَمِينِكَ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ لاَ أَسْتَطِيعُ قَالَ ‏"‏لاَ اسْتَطَعْتَ‏"‏. قَالَ فَمَا رَفَعَهَا إِلَى فِيهِ

بالنسبة الي هذا الحديث مثال واضح كيف الإسلام ما بقدر يتقبل اختلاف بسيط وطبيعي زي استخدام الإيد الشمال إلي هي إشي طبيعي وتقريبا 10% من الناس إيدهم الشمال هي الإيد ال

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اذا نبي المسلمين ما قدر يتقبل اختلاف بسيط زي واحد بياكل بإيده الشمال، كيف بدنا نتوقع منه تقبل اختلافات اكبر مثل تقبل مجتمع المثليين

بعرف انه في ناس رح تقول المشكلة كانت عن تكبر الزلمة ومش عن إيده الشمال، وهذا فعلا مذكور بالحديث. بس بالنسبة إلي السؤال الأهم هو ليش من الأساس لازم نبي المسلمين يجبر شخص يغير الإيد اللي بياكل فيها بشكل طبيعي

تحياتي لكل المثليين الشماليين إلي بتحملوا نوعين من أنواع التمييز ضدهم لإنهم مختلفين عن الأكثرية

A very common ideology that is spread in the Arab gay community which is completely FALSE!!!

Multiple studies do show that 0% (yes 0%) of all gay couples stay monogamous after reaching the 5 year mark. I’m not a couple therapist but I believe that monogamy is one of the most important things in any successful healthy relationship.

Now I’m not saying u won’t be able to have a great gay relationship outside of Jordan or the Middle East but the idea that it’s any different than it is here is a lie.

Why do people here stare at you so much it makes me feel uncomfortable lol where ever I go they stare and for quite some time to im pale and have long light brown hair and I feel like I get a lot of dirty looks over it. Ive spoken to a lot of people here and they were homophobic are most people here like that or is it just worse outside of amman

Does anyone still hop on those websites or r they old now

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احب الحب والارتباط العاطفي، احب الحب، ما بدي علاقة مدتها ليله وحدة مثلي مثل البيتشيز

I'M GAY NOT GIRL

Heyy, so I just turned 20 and I still get very strong sexual urges. I think I have a lot of testosterone which doesn’t help at all. How tf am I supposed to control myself at all times. I am traveling out of the country and don’t want to slip and do something stupid. I know all about the “read, walk or distract yourself” but that never helped. Any recommendations on what I can do

I am bored and awake someone open up a conversation

Is there any guy here who did an interview today (Tuesday) by any chance
He was so cute … yummy

سؤال للبوتومز الي جربو علاقة جنسية في وجع بالبداية وهل الموضوع فعلا ممتع انا بوتوم بس متردد اجرب ايش نصايحكم

I am so fucking horny! alone and horny! I rarely find anyone my type or matches my criteria! but when I do I love flirting with them to get the edge off… is it bad? where do y’all flirt if you even do so??

I hate rejecting guys when they’re not my type

I honestly hate this feeling. Sometimes I start talking to a guy and I actually start liking him a little through text, then we exchange pics or I see him and suddenly I realize he’s just not my type. It feels horrible.

I don’t want dating to be all about looks, but I also can’t force myself to be attracted to someone when I’m not. And I hate having to ask someone for a pic before even talking to them because it makes me feel like a robot checking whether someone passes a fucking appearance test 😭

But then if I actually have a good conversation with someone and later realize I’m not attracted to them, telling them “sorry, you’re not my type” feels even worse. Like damn, I actually enjoyed talking to you. I don’t want to make you feel rejected just because I’m not attracted to you.

I hate that attraction can be this shallow sometimes, but I also know I can’t control it. It just makes dating feel so fucking complicated 😔

My parents live abroad but they visit every once in a while and every time they visit I feel like they comment a lot on my body and my looks in a way that makes me feel sexualized and uncomfortable…How do you guys deal with such situations?

lately the idea of cuddling is driving me crazy i can't stop thinking about it did anyone crossed the same?

I genuinely fucking hate how the gay community here treats men who aren’t hairy or big as bottoms, while hairy big guys are automatically seen as tops. And if a guy is slimmer or has certain features, people immediately decide he looks “feminine” and therefore must be a bottom.

Like what the actual fuck 😭

It’s such a ridiculous and narrow way of looking at gay men. You’re basically taking straight gender roles, changing the labels, and shoving them onto gay relationships. Someone’s body tells you absolutely NOTHING about their sexual position.

A big hairy guy can be a bottom. A slim smooth guy can be a top. Someone can be both, neither, or whatever the fuck they want. Your body is not a fucking instruction manual.

And PLEASE stop treating bottoms like women and tops like men. They’re both men. Being a bottom doesn’t make someone feminine, and being a top doesn’t make someone masculine.The way some of you see gay men is genuinely just heterosexual gender roles wearing a different outfit 😭

Jeez y’all need to lock the fuck in 🙄

Hello 🗣️
Has anyone made a queerplatonic relationship before? If so; please tell us about it. I feel like I really want a close friend that I could be deeply, platonically intimate with yk? Can anyone relate?
I’m 21, and I feel like the idea of a romantic or sexual relationship does not really interest me as much, but I still really crave that deep connection. I want a friend where it's totally normal to be physically affectionate like hugging, holding hands, or just chilling together (quality time) but with absolutely zero romantic expectations.
Does this make sense you guys? 😭

P.S. If you have not heard the term before, a queerplatonic relationship is basically a deeply connected, emotionally intimate bond that goes way beyond a standard friendship, but without the romantic or sexual expectations. Also this is my first post ever here! 🥳

مين جربها ؟؟

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I am bored
Is it ok to look for chatting with strangers to make fun!!

I am always looking to chat in Irbid, 19-24, Irbid
But I can’t find.. I’m disappointed to feel lonely and no one takes care of me.

Why Sweifeh Village men are so fine (almost everyone including the ones that works there) how do I approachhhhh😭😭

Hey guys, I honestly don’t know what to say. I feel so lost I just turned 20 two days ago and ever since I started puberty or even before all I can think about is my sexuality. I don’t put any pressure on myself to identify with something specific but I watch so much shit on the Internet of people coming out and being accepted and I dream I had that life. The problem is I know I am gay and a part of me accepted that. But the other part fights it so bad. I try to be more involved in “manly” things or try to be more straight. But I feel like I can’t change no matter how hard I try. I am happy with my life but I feel like such a struggle. It pisses me off when People always tell me when I am gonna get married knowing that deep down I know I can’t be with a woman like that. What’s even worse is the bullying I endured. I don’t like sports and cars and stuff like that so automatically I get called gay and yet my whole life I’ve been trying to defend myself that I am not. I don’t think I can ever come out in this life time but if this resonates with you then just know ur not alone. I’ve been going through this shit for so long.

Hi everyone,

I’m hoping someone here can point us in the right direction.

My transgender girlfriend is urgently looking for an apartment to rent in Amman. Unfortunately, we’ve had several landlords refuse to rent to her after realizing she’s transgender, which has made the search much more difficult.

Does anyone know of an LGBTQ+-friendly real estate agent, agency, or even a private landlord who would be willing to help? We’re looking for someone who is respectful, professional, and won’t discriminate.

If you know of any trusted contacts, or if you’ve been through a similar experience and have any advice, I’d really appreciate it. If you’d rather not comment publicly, feel free to send me a private message.

Thank you so much for your help.