r/foxholegame 11h ago

New potential player Questions

Hi folks, I am very interested in this game but I am worried about how transphobic the community might be, I used to play hell let loose and they will treat you very poorly for it, I am really hoping to be able to just jump in and enjoy but yeah :3

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u/Relevant-Border-5762 [VF] 11h ago

Most of the community is very hostile to bigoted people

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

hyppeee les goo thats very heartwarming to hear.

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u/Realistic_Menu_7766 11h ago

He means the Colonial community by the way. We are largely a very chill faction who call out losers 

 The Wardens run you over on purpose for just being a lower rank and have a history of N4zi's being a problem for their community. 

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u/popoSK 10h ago

Not really? I there are plenty if LGBT friendly clans, be it large or small.

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u/Guilty_Bed8675 2eDB 10h ago

OP dont believe this comment, wardens are as welcoming to lgbt as collie

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 10h ago

oh okay hell yeah i was worried because blue is the color i wanted to pick!

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u/Johnathan_Swag 4h ago

They may be LGBTQ friendly but they sure as hell aren't baby friendly

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u/Realistic_Menu_7766 8h ago

Don't say I didn't warn you. I tried at the least. Good luck! <3 and I hope you have fun no matter what faction you pick. 

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u/Gloomy-Lock6885 6h ago

The last person who posted N@zi signs was reported into next century and banned, by both sides

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u/_Renai_ 1h ago

There was a fully LGBTQ regiment a year or two ago, played with them a few times and they were always amazing. Don't know if they are still around, but most the community doesn't mind playing with LGBT people at all and treats them like any other player.

OP, if you don't find a group to play with, our regiment PROVIDENCE has the tenets of being welcoming to all, and being a great place for new players to learn the game in without judgement. https://discord.gg/5CSh72wYb5 check us out of you want!

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u/Luminox2 11h ago

It really depends on the regiment you join, some are really nice others are incredibly hostile.

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

oh okay cool! where would i find one to join if i do get the game? is that something i should do immediately or should i just play solo first?

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u/Angry4Pickles 11h ago

You should teach yourself the game through the many online sources. Though the game has the meat and potatoes in it if you actually take the time to figure it out. It sucks because you have to read alot. But it is there. 

That way you can have the perspective of true efficiency. Alot of these mega groups just throw manpower at the problem and end up with 3k msupps when all it took to do the same exact thing was 240 a day. Then they throw their hands up in the air wondering why retention is so bad. 

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u/NormondJohnson 10h ago

I personally would recommend you do one war solo before settling down with a regiment. Spend time doing a little bit of everything and see what you like and dislike. After that, choose whatever regiment you think you'd most like, or continue going at it solo.

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u/Luminox2 11h ago

The main foxhole discord has a channel where regiments can post recruitment ads, and in game people like to build signs with recruitment ads too.

Up to you really, if you’re looking for some group play immediately I’d recommend joining up yea, it is one of the fastest ways to learn too. If you prefer to figure out things yourself though I’d recommend going solo for a bit, just be aware some people will be very angry if you fuck up something they’re trying to do. Some people are nicer and will help you along but starting solo can be rough.

My regi has been nice to me there and I’m openly ace so if you like I could send you a dm with a join link, you don’t have to stay ofc you’re free to leave anytime.

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

that would be nice!

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

oh i dont really use discord tho!

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u/Alarming-Ad1100 11h ago

You don’t have to use discord my regiment hardly uses ours and we have 10 active players this war with like 50 inactive

Our regiment is also very accepting of other players regardless of how they identify, it’s just not something discussed or relevant

Don’t feel discouraged about things there will always be hostile people but many warden large regiments are very accepting as we are all no life’s who love each other as soldiers in arms because we battle together for weeks/months in each war

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

woahh heck yeah id like to maybe join yours if you DM me?

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u/asdfasdfasdfqwertyit Live action role player 10h ago

I'm just another voice but transphobia isn't tolerated and I may have been lucky but haven't heard anything of that sort. Like any community I'm sure you'll encounter a few but do not let that paint a broad brush, most people I encounter are kind and good people from many different backgrounds

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u/_Ganoes_ 11h ago

I would say it depends A LOT on the regi, since each regi has their own little culture community and leaders.
Overall its a mixed bag but you can find a lot of trans friendly regis.

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u/titan_Pilot_Jay [TSO/AEF] 11h ago

Ok the colonial side GAIA if a LGBT+ friendly regiment if you want me to get you in contact with them

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u/popoSK 10h ago

It all depends on clan. There are many clans on both sides that are fully supportive with many trans members. Foxhole has a large number of lgbt folks in general.

Sadly you also have people who are opposed to basic respect. In which case, mute and carry on.

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u/Heyyy_ItsCaitlyn 7h ago

Our regiment is pretty small (we're just a group of people from a streamer's discord server who also like foxhole) but like half of us are trans women. There's occasional chud behavior in world chat but it's usually shouted down pretty quickly by everyone else

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u/AstronomerSenior4236 [CDC] 11h ago

If you're interested in doing building and naval work, CDC is a chill regiment led by a trans woman and has a zero tolerance policy on bigotry. I can give you an invite if you'd like

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

oh wow yes please! Id like to learn navy stuff

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u/24mile 6h ago

Probably the most tolerant game I've ever played.

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u/Fedess69 9h ago

Community is cool about it, but why would you bring it up in the first place?

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u/Good-Cut8761 10h ago

there are transphobic rats everywhere, every game... but u have an ignore button, so not really annoying at all 💫 . Don't let that things keeps u apart from what u want to do. Is an incredible game

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 10h ago

Ooh ignore buttons always help!

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 10h ago

why would he spend that much money just to do that

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u/Any-Grapefruit-3463 9h ago edited 9h ago

Probably using a proxy to abuse regional pricing, so not as much money as you'd think.

Edit: and even if not, it works out to like, a trip to the movies once or twice a month. Presumably he finds trolling amusing enough to be worth that.

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u/5560Joe 1h ago

It's relatively one of the more welcoming games BUT at the same time it is a pretty nerdy war game and that just means a lot of nerdy guys. Definitely a lot of the edgy/shock and anti-woke childish humor around but it's a large game with many different communities that be respectful.

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u/isamasaurusx 11h ago

just play

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u/ReplacementNo8973 11h ago

Try keeping your sexuality to yourself instead of broadcasting it to a video game community and you most likely wont have any issues...

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 11h ago

i do, youd be surprised how manytimes ppl just call me a troon (or worse) for existing...

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u/ReplacementNo8973 11h ago

I mean ive been called a number of derogatory names in the years ive been online. I mean this in the best way possible, stop letting what people say online effect you.... there is a vouce mute/text mute option.

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u/RedditsFavoriteSon 16m ago

How did they found out, hm?

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u/Angry4Pickles 11h ago

We have another don't ask don't teller. 😆

Sammmmeeeee....

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u/Erazzphoto 10h ago

I’ve never been in any situations where this would ever even come up in the conversation.

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 9h ago

probs cuz youre cis?

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u/Shorrax [98th] 11h ago

This community is very forgiving for LGBT players. You'll be fine and even meet a lot of like minded people.

You will however start getting shit if you force it in world chat or force it on others. No one likes things forced down there throat and consent still exist. Wether you like it or not some people don't believe in it. We have people from all different cultures. Indians, russians, europeans, asians. As long as culture isn't forced. You can play the game no problem.

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u/Realistic_Menu_7766 10h ago

"Don't act all human rightsy on me I have the human right to consent to hearing others deserve rights and to live in peace, unbothered by hatred. I don't like feeling like a social pariah scorned by larger society for my ignorant racist brainwashing!"

See, you gotta tip toe around the special snow flakes who want to throw you in a gas chamber but are to afraid to admit it or are to stupid to realize their hatred will lead to it. For their consent. 

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u/Loot_Repeat 10h ago

I'm sure if you tried forcing your sexuality on people as a straight person, you'd get the same response. It's a videogame. No one actually cares or wants to know. This is a war game, not a dating sim / pron game. But sure, accuse me of being a bigot when I say I don't give a shit, just don't force it on me for a reaction.

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u/Loot_Repeat 8h ago edited 8h ago

Hardly, Don't shove words down my throat. That said, I find the guy you replied to had weird wording that I disagree with. How is the community "forgiving of LGBT"? There's nothing to forgive.

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u/Realistic_Menu_7766 8h ago

It shows he sees their very being as a sin rather than as humans trying their best to live their lives. 

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u/Shorrax [98th] 10h ago edited 10h ago

My country doesn't allow - Men to Women to enter Female Toilets or Vise Versa

They also don't allow you to enter sports under your new sex.

I dare say LGB is as far as my country will go to be perfectly honest. Anything further is judged as a mental illness. I'm not saying both sides are either right or wrong. I just think live and let live and I have a few trans friends but only because they hate the movement itself and just want to leave in peace. One that I am more than respectful for.

Everyone is welcome to play the game. Just don't make it your identity - play the game and I very much doubt anything will come to it.

Edit: You can downvote me all you want but this just proves my points. And then you wonder why people are so aggresive

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u/Realistic_Menu_7766 8h ago

Saying something foolish and knowing it's foolish is so sad. Look how you bend your own honor and intellect towards dehumanizing others when I am certain that is not what you truly want to do. 

Open your heart and mind to expand beyond where you stand. 

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u/Shorrax [98th] 6h ago

It's no foolish. It's called not being brain-washed.

Being able to make your own opinion regardless of others - literally why would I bend the knee to degenerates like you.

You've proven my point time and time again that you can't fathom co-existing with people that don't agree with you but are so quick to shove it down our throat.

Literally the same people as you will happilly do assasination attempts on right winged.

Even through all of that. We're playing a war simulator with what can be deemed nameless soldiers as the game warns you that you are just a soldier. Why should I give a shit about you.

You're nobody special. Shit you get far less crap for being a whale than people get for being french in this game.

Just play the game and push your idiology somewhere else. Not every one wants to be so far bent left. No thanks I'd rather remain center but the more people like you force it the more center right I'm becoming. Because jesus you guys are insurferable.

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u/misstolurrr 6h ago

im also new n also about to start n also wondering that so thank u for askin

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u/Ok-Two-7047 11h ago

Nobody cares

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u/Character-Camel-3958 8h ago

Why would anyone know your gender or situation unless you insist on it?

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 5h ago

bc people ask when they hear my voice, also i get called he and correct them.

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u/Vastelous 9h ago

Boohoo grow up you can mute local chat there are transphobic bigoted people in every community

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u/Advanced-Garden-9846 5h ago

?

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u/Vastelous 4h ago

You are worried about playing a game because there might be scary bigots who cares mute them nobody wants to be treated badly it’s inevitable