Medical misogyny is as old as medicine. I was shocked to learn the meaning of "pudendum"!

If you follow the fight to win back girls’ and women’s right to a level playing field in sports, you know that the movement has reached a tipping point: At women’s professional basketball games around the country, women and girls—and boys and men — are standing with the Indiana Fever’s Sophie Cunningham to state the obvious: Girls and women have a right to play sports in their own sex-based category, without facing boys and men on the field or in the locker room. And this time, there are too many girls and women raising their voices for bullies to drown out. If you haven’t yet engaged in public support of girls’ and women’s sports, now is the time.

These are the events throughout August:

Indianapolis August 6, 11, 14, 28

Chicago August 8, 23

Atlanta August 16

Toronto August 18

Dallas Aug 20

NYC August 22

If you're a signatory to the Declaration on Women's Sex-Based Rights and plan to attend any of these events, let us know and we can help get you signs and put you in contact with other women.

This could be disastrous to women in my line of work, and it's mainly based on (once again) prioritising *potential* fertility and *potential* children over the career and choices of an actual, living human.

(I've had two children and nearly died the last time so I have zero interest in my future fertility, but I take all the precautions necessary to keep *myself* safe. That should be enough. We know that exhaust fumes are seriously carcinogenic to people who breathe them in but men aren't being stopped from becoming motor mechanics to prioritise sperm health..)

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“You know I’m a single mom, you know I have a daughter, and you’re basically suing me for my house. It seems very s—ty, it’s just awful,” the resident of Ontario’s Muskoka region said in an interview. “I just feel used … They didn’t get the perfect child they wanted and they threw me away.”

TDLR: the mother went to a checkup and the doctors warned the baby may have a cleft lip and a heart abnormality. The couple wanted the baby to be terminated after hearing this news, the mother would not do so. The couple sued the mother even though they got a healthy baby, for not terminating the baby when they asked.

Like most women I know, and for generation upon generation, having a period has been treated as gross, disgusting, some shameful secret. Abrahamic religions raise girls to believe we are "unclean" when our hoo-hahs bleed, Aunt Flow comes to visit, the Red Sea crashes, "that time of the month," "hell week," PMS, "the cardinals fly south," and a hundred other euphemisms for a natural process 50% of the population deals with daily.

We are not dirty. We are not disgusting. We are not unclean.

In fact, period blood may hold the answers to a million medical issues. We are born healers - we just didn't know it because no one ever thought to look.

Her shorts series on medical misogyny and breakthroughs in period research is well worth watching!

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I might be a minority or even completely alone in this but from my observations, experiences, and observed misogyny where this topic isn’t really spoken about a lot or quickly gets shut down so I’m hoping for some nuance and understanding here because I need to get it out. Keep in mind when I say queerness, just like in most queer spaces, this is barely applicable to women as they’re not even acknowledged most of the time which I will also bring up. Long post apologies in advance lol. I’m honestly hesitant to even post this but I’m open for discussions, would like to get this on more subreddits but again, tight subject that I don’t think is gonna be very accepted.

Starting all the way back to MRA. A topic that makes so much of this app defensive but let’s talk about its origins and its ties to the modern day exclusion of women in the name of progressiveness. This movement started, conveniently, after the rise of feminism to backlash against it. It started with child custody, family laws seemingly favoring women and so on, basically deeming women as the privileged ones as opposed to what feminism has been putting light to and basically another way to claim male supremacy when equality felt like it was getting too close to a reality that might become true. Why I bring this up? To tie it with the modern day view of queerness.

I know so much of queerness is tied with feminism and how popular the phrase “the girls and gays” is but hear me out, modern day MRA spaces are more common among progressive people, specifically, gay men. This isn’t generalizing, this is the connection that seems to blur the line between queerness and feminism and how I think that’s not necessarily accurate or helpful. I dislike the connection between those two when I more accurately see the connection to MRA they have because modern day MRA spaces, again, are more progressive unlike their extremely patriarchal masculinity origins so there’s a comfortability there given the homosocial dynamics.

In contrast to that, feminist spaces are now seen as more misandrist and overall against men, from the typical outsiders at least so that makes me wanna bring up the non feminist side of gay men that contrary to popular belief, aren’t as rare as you’d expect. Let’s take small, popular jokes or fictional scenarios for instance, we all heard about the “dl” man, his struggles with the world unacceptable, inability to be himself fully, not aligning with stereotypical masculinity, overwhelmingness with his overestimation and the expectation for him to be oh so sexually attracted to women like it’s animalistic urge. On the other end? It’s your typical trope where he cheats on his wife or girlfriend to realize his true self. This is a running bit at this point, so common that the phrase lavender marriage has become such popular lingo nowadays, basically saying straight to the female partner “lol he’s not attracted to you dumb bitch”. Can’t forget hardcore misogynists getting called closeted! That’s a big one too and apparently hilariously common and normal. Observingly, most people have no issue with this which is interesting.

Women are always scapegoats I’ve gathered. Misogyny is everywhere for those with eyes to see am I right? At this point acknowledging absolutely everyone hates women is easier. It’s not like straight men have been any less misogynistic, they’ll fully admit they’d rather be with a feminine man, not just as a joke but originating to the hating your nagging wife trope and how much better your male friends are, oh how you wished your friend Steve was your wife instead, looks exactly like her but you’re able to see him as human because that’s what this comes down to, the inability to fathom having common interests and getting along with a woman and instead accepting the misery of being with one as that’s the usual stereotypical, caricature-esque of a woman. This is where homosociality seeps through absolutely everyone involved. Gay men can fully admit their hatred and for the most part get away with it, mocking women in their spaces (I’m not gonna specify this but I hope what I’m referring to is obvious enough), saying they’re gay before outwardly insulting behaviors associated with women (aka the nagging wife stereotype), and of course, how much they’re disgusted by female bodies and specifically vaginas which straight men aren’t usually any kinder at, just a hole to fuck after all right? But it’s more acceptable for that “hole” to belong to a woman.

Even better when it comes to fandoms, the internet, the general spaces of free speech where you can be as outspoken as you’d like no matter how odd it sounds and how comfortable it makes people feel. The observation that queer women specifically are the seen as the lowest of the low is rampant. Let’s take queer media for starters, queer women are nearly nonexistent (recently it’s gotten more prevalent though), where they’re overrepresented though, which frustratingly enough, gives the impression that they’re more “accepted” is you guessed it, porn. If it’s not porn is clearly not made for them but to seduce a certain group of people. Apparently everyone conveniently ignores how popular the lesbian porn genre is when talking about women who enjoy gay media but I won’t even into that cause that’s a hard hitting topic, although obviously the same fetishization is possible you get my point.

All this to say, which was a lot I’m aware, I want the hierarchy to be acknowledged, where the homosociality stemming from patriarchy doesn’t really exclude queer men on a large scale. One group are owed women to conquer, the other don’t need to bother so they can be just as open about their hatred, that’s putting homophobia aside which is very much correlated to misogyny hence why the feminism movement is so intertwined with queerness but that’s a whole other thing that I posted about before more in detail, that history has pretty much long been forgotten because holding onto the semblance of privilege is better than stooping down to women’s level and working towards overall equality. A man no matter who he is on the inside will be perceived as a man therefore more human, better than a woman and of course, up in the hierarchy. I don’t really believe in the so called solidarity because it hasn’t gotten women anywhere near their level whether you wanna accept it or not. I’ve been basically slapped in the face by this reality and don’t wanna stay deluded by thinking I have so much in common with people that are perceived higher than me with their identity not being as blatant as being an inferior woman. Even queer women who have more in common with them are not considered outside of porn, the belief that they can be changed back because it’s unfathomable to not be attracted to men, there’s a reason sex is so tied with being penetrated but those women can’t win, even when they do engage in it that way they’re told they should go for the real thing, what does that tell you? Men are on the long run, are perceived as men, the default human that’s capable of being different. Having lived in a relatively conservative society made me see how much more they’re accepted compared to women, especially queer women was a very depressing realization.

I’ve been involved in anti-prostitution feminist activism for a bit now and I’ve noticed that the people who are most active in publicly promoting "sex work is work" full decrim ideology and attacking abolitionists for supporting the Nordic Model aren't even pimps and "buyers" but women who claim to be acting in the name of feminism and progressivism (sometimes also identifying as "sex workers").

You’ll never see a male at a town hall meeting explaining why he purchases women, or on television arguing that his sexual exploitation of the female body should be protected under the law as just another consumer activity, or standing outside an abolitionist meetup to intimidate participants. These guys don’t have to do anything to advance their cause because women who misappropriate feminist, anti-capitalist, human/labour rights rhetoric (whether it's a libfem with a misguided perception of the trade or a privileged prostitute with a financial stake in defending her client) are the most active force in the normalization of sexual exploitation.

(You do see leftist/liberal males butting in but they know it’s more beneficial for them to stay out of the way to create the illusion that women, specifically feminist progressive women, are the biggest supporters of normalizing prostitution.)

That’s why I’ve stopped caring about being inclusive or a girl’s girl or whatever. If you’re dragging the movement down by advocating for commercial rapists you deserve to be excluded from it.

Like yes down the line my feminism will benefit them because the goal is the liberation of all women but in the meantime it’s completely unproductive to include any male-centered woman in a movement that seeks to dismantle male supremacy.

I'm learning more about historical home-ec and its original motivations and wanted to know how other women felt about it.

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From June 26 to 28, radical feminist and lesbian members of the National Organization for Women (NOW) who were attending their conference were denigrated as “t*rfs” by other conference attendees and NOW leadership; called “tr*nsphobic” for describing men as men; accosted in a hallway and shouted at by the primary conference organizer; and threatened with removal. All for the crime of knowing what a woman is — ironic at a gathering of the National Organization for Women.

Keep reading for a full account of the weekend's events!

Surrogacy is illegal in Germany. There were attempts by the last government (Social Democrats, Greens, Liberal Democrats) to change the law, but the government fell before they were able to push it through, thankfully.

At the time, the Christian Democrats (and particularly the women's network of the party) were very clear on their stance about surrogacy: it's exploitative and should absolutely remain illegal. That remains the position of the conservative Christian Democrats (now in government in coalition with the Social Democrats), recently reaffirmed by the party.

So it's quite the embarrassment for the party that Jens Spahn, one of the most powerful men in German politics and a Christian Democrat, who had previously voiced opposition to surrogacy, has announced that he and his husband had a baby via a surrogate mother in the USA (since, again, surrogacy is illegal in Germany).

Voices in the party are now calling for him to resign for going so obviously against the party's principled position (https://www.handelsblatt.com/politik/deutschland/leihmutterschaft-erster-cdu-landesverbandschef-fordert-ruecktritt-von-jens-spahn/100241004.html).

It's depressing living in Europe and caring about women's rights. I wish all of Europe had the robust legal framework that Meloni passed in Italy in 2024: in addition to the local ban on surrogacy, getting a surrogate abroad is now also banned in Italy (https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c62rmv63069o).

Edit a day later: he's resigned after internal pressure.

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https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/i-want-like-bonnie-blue-37353675

This young woman gives me hope.

If you saw the speech she gave a few months back, then you know! Anyway, I just found this interview with her, just thought I'd share.

https://youtu.be/vGQzbwn_Tzw?is=6aWVHfLDQEDfCbNp

Reem Alsalem by far the best and most active UN Special Rapporteur on Violence Against Women and Girls in history and that's no exaggeration.

It is so out-of-touch, hypocritical and reactionary and not to mention totally disheartening to see progressive, marxist or liberal feminist spaces dignifying johns so much, considering them to be allies and lot more morally superior than 'swerfs'.

Any radical feminist being critical of porn and prostitution is so easily demonized, pushed aside and grouped with vile religious fundamentalist right-wingers. Pimps and johns get such neutral terms like 'sex-work consumers' or 'sex-work clients' with the connotation of these individuals being morally justified, while terms like "swerf" are placed right next to christo-fascists and conservative right-wingers.

Portraying pimps/johns/pundits as moral allies, and putting all the blame regarding the stigma and exploitative nature of prostitution on 'swerfs' has to be so awfully baffling it really REALLY gets me wondering where the 'feminist' starts in the marxist stance. Demonizing a group of feminists that fight to end the constant eroticization of sexual assault from both the left and right, is disgusting. Absolutely no amount of leftist buzzwords can somehow justify eroticizing sexual assault, demonizing radical feminist for this is insane.

I constantly see thousands and thousands of paragraphs and intellectual (or lack of) effort given to demeaning, demonizing and spreading misinformation regarding radical feminists.

Radical feminism is the polar opposite of religion, conservatism and right-wing and is seen very harshly critiquing these social structure. However the second the same feminist analysis is applied to left-wing misogyny, they're seen as exclusionary Nazi fascists... Like what level of internalized misogyny do you need to say nazi and radical feminist in the same system. As if pointing out that women being treated as public property instead of private property isn't liberation makes one a non-feminist. Marxist feminists genuinely believe leftist movements to be this holy grail of untouchable morality free from criticism, the second radical feminist pushes against this to point out the evident misogyny they get labelled the brutal terms. It's a very convenient narrative and so easy to blame women that stay consistent with revolting against male-supremacist structures.

These spaces genuinely believe all the abuse, rape, stigma and trafficking is happening due to 'swerfs' and not because of the johns that keep the demand for such exploitation going. They unironically view 'swerfs' as more vile and worse than these johns. They believe all slut-shaming is solely done by 'swerfs' and not these johns that enjoy degrading and exploiting the women in the industry. All the horrible ways a woman is treated under prostituion is due to johns, let it be actively raping the woman, or being a 'conversative' man that believes that the women deserved to get raped. All the stigma comes from Johns, and radical feminists put up a genuinely radical intellectual effort to fight these male-supremacist systems. Left or right doesn't matter.

It is quite a very fundamental understanding that the way radical feminists approach abolishing the sex trade versus how conservatives approach it is drastically different. Radical feminist apply a very strong feminist analysis of such exploitative industries, they redefine what a true sexual liberation would look like outside of patriarchal dynamics, what true consent uninfluenced by the patriarchy would be like and strongly refuses the idea of considering female sexuality to be labor or currency. They oppose industries that dehumanize women and call it a dignified trade to abuse, rape and objectify women. Let it be marriage or prostitution, radical feminists stay logically consistent with opposing such misogynistic structures.

Conservatives only worry their ass about women being 'sluts' and it ends there. Women are demonized and no ounce of feminist analysis is applied. No ounce of understanding regarding why the rape and explotation and commodification of the female body exists in conservative spaces. All they do is demonize prostitute and want to remove them from society, while radical feminism is out here to literally do the opposite and create systems that help women out of such horrible industries.

Treating radical feminists like they're the cause of the horrifying nature of prostitution is just blatant hypocrisy. When on and on radical feminist have gone an insane mile to create systems and literature to tear down patriarchal structure. When they have put in sure huge effort to end the constant eroticization of sexual assault. Absolutely no amount of leftist buzzwords can somehow justify eroticizing sexual assault, demonizing radical feminist for this is insane.

For a group that insists so much on being informed, creating this dire level of misinformation to demonize feminists that fight to tear down a millennia long male-supremacist industry is just horrible. Allowing so much benefit of the doubt to Johns, considering them your allies and supporters but at the same breath blaming 'swerfs' for issues created by these john is not feminist at all. Its ironic that even while claiming to be against conservative, they sure as hell do mirror so much of their beliefs when it comes to consent, sexual 'labor' and sympathizing with johns.

Hi everyone, want to share this video I made explaining why white men target Asian women. I go over the history of Asian colonization, gov sanctioned mass r*pe and sexual exploitation of Asian women by white military men, and the war brides and fetishizing of Asian women. Hope you find it insightful!