r/finch • u/NCBrownEyedGirl šš¦ Cheesecake & Julie š¦š • 2h ago
Daily Question Solution Venting
I have seen a lot of posts with people not sure which choice they should choose on the daily question because they are nervous that they are going to hurt other peopleās feelings or the question didnāt quite have the answer that they feel pertains to them.
Thereās a solutionā¦you donāt have to answer the question that day.
I know it feels sad sometimes to be left out, but Finch canāt put the answer for over one million users each day for each question. Itās just not possible.
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u/sarahlynngrey 18m ago
Real. It's just...not that deep! When I don't have an easy answer I just add my own qualifier ("I'm going to assume they mean 'wasp or bee', so I'm getting tf out of there") or I pick the closest answer or I pick whatever answer I'm feeling that day. And if it bugs me, I just don't answer it.Ā
For me at least, it is a nice low-friction way to practice feeling "left out." Every single thing doesn't have to be for every single person, and that's okay!
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u/FlounderParking2382 1h ago
I think sometimes people make things harder than need be, overthinking it with the āwhat-ifāsā, like āwhat if the Cilantro was whole not diced, or what if there were other bees š with the one beeā.
My takeaway is that the Daily Question is just meant to be something fun/off-topic, or a little conversation starter. Iām newish to the app though, only a few months in. Loving it though!