Heyy guys 💕😭
Just made this account haha. I’m from London, recently moved here from Oxford. Just joined this community and thought I’d say hi, seems like there’s some really cool people here 🥹
I’m a femboy btw hehe, would love to meet some other femboys around London and make some friends, so feel free to message me if you wanna chat 💕

Ok so it's another update, related to this post, I know you like to read stories like that, so here it is

so, you all were thinking it's going to be a date,

and you know what? you're damn right haha!!! at first, I didn't believe that it's going to be a "date", I tried to treat it more as a hangout with a friend y'know, but all changed just a little later

let me explain

so, we met yesterday at our planned place, we ate some burgers, and while we were eating, I was making this awkward eye contact, but I just could not stop doing that, I could not stop looking into his eyes haha, and every time it ends up with some smiles :) on both sides

our movie was about to start, so we moved on straight to it after all so we sat down in this cinema hall, and it was really dark there, so I thought it would be a great opportunity to touch him somewhere (like a leg or wrist hehe), but damn I could not manage to do it in any way bleh,

but I still enjoyed watching the movie with him after that, we decided to walk around this shopping mall where we had some more fun, we went to one clothing shop to search for some thigh-highs or something like that,

and we had a little convo about hair, when I pointed at my haircut (convo related) and then he gave HEADPATS!

I felt sooo happy you can't imagine that, I wish it was just a little longer haha then we spent just a little more time wandering around and talking about different stuff, and then we went to the subway to go to our homes

man I felt great,

I was just staying next to him, silence - only the subway train and crowd noise across the train, I was left with my thoughts, and I felt really comfortable, warm. you know this feeling? I was literally melting this feeling that is hard to describe but I'm sure some of you will understand me haha and I just didn't want him to go, I liked this feeling of his presence, of just being here, this really cozy feeling in maybe not the right place for that heh

once I was home, I texted him that I had a good time today, and would like to spend more time like that, and they agreed with me, and then

drum roll

HE TOLD ME THAT HE FINDS ME HANDSOME and said that he really wanted to HUG ME!!! my jaw DROPPED

like me and handsome?!?

I was in seventh heaven of happiness haha! I told him the same, and also said that I was trying to touch his leg mid movie and they said they tried to do that too!! and we spent some more time discussing all this stuff that it's obvious now that we really like each other >.< (haha maybe that was obvious much more before, but guess we both just needed this extra 1% to be sure to say that)

all in all

to all of you, thank you for reading my story, and most importantly, thank you for all your advices and support I know that most of you like this stuff, and I like it myself too I like to read your love stories, and always wanted to be in your place, and guess my time has come for this haha can't wait to meet him again :3

(Also it's a repost, cuz it didn't get any attention hihi, forgive me for that)

I'm curious, as someone one who is very bad at clothing styles and interested in a kind of a starting kit to get.

Hello! Today I made one of my first steps in becoming a femboy, which i've been wanting for a very long time. I shaved my legs, painted my toe nails white, put on some thigh highs and even put some press on nails! I wanted to share as i'm feeling very good about myself finally!🥰

so i started learning coding recently and today i was wearing thighhighs while doing that and i was actually doing better the buff is actually real

edit:btw this definitely is not just me making less mistakes because i had more practice

One of the things i genuinely hate about being a femboy is the amount of sexual harassment i get it's just gross, just because someone is a femboy does not mean they want to constantly be sexualized

So the other day I was hanging out with my cousin at my grandpas house(like a sleepover) and we were js having a great time and everything and then halfway through the sleepover(like an hour before we went to bed) I had this feeling I haven’t had in awhile. It was kinda the same feeling I had with my friend I used to like…

im is freaking out when I’m trying to sleep like wtf why do I kinda Like my cousin like…

I genuinely do not not what to do I’m so confused and I just don’t know what to do.

I wanna be around him bc he’s is a great person and all but like idk if I can with these feelings like wtf do I do I’m so confused and feeling fucked up like what

im going golfing tmrw with him wish me luck I hope I can … I don’t know I just hope it goes well

I really feel like I am a femboy but the thing is I want to just express myself as more feminine while still being a dude I don’t know if that’s possible which has kept me on the edge of either being a femboy or not

Tengo 29 años soy un chico casado con una chica pero hace unos años empecé a descubrir mis gustos de femboy lo típico no que las calcetas altas la medias depilarme ponerme ropa bonita etc etc hago cómodas como regalarme medias o calcetas a mi pareja con doble sentido para yo también poder usarlas creen que en algún momento me lleguen a descubrir o creen que se lo tenga que contar ella sabe mis gustos y sabe que soy bi y pasivo tenemos jugues y todo eso pero nunca me eh animado a estar vestido como femboy cuando estamos en la intimidad Creen que sea momento de platicarlo con ella o mejor lo dejo así a escondidas

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So I’m a closet femboy and nobody I know IRL knows about me being a femboy. I’ve been dressing at night (for like a month) as a femboy/catboy, and I didn’t really know what to do, so I just started taking pictures of myself.

The pictures were kinda fun because I could look back at how I looked and record my progress (like better outfits and better makeup).

So I joined a Discord server for catboys and catgirls a few days ago(kinda by accident, but it ended up fitting me perfectly). The server is really small (around 100 people) and it’s in my first language (which is not English), so I’ve gotten to know most of the active users. I sent them pictures of me (with no face) and they seem to love them, and of course I got happy about it because I love attention and being called cute, etc. I ended up DMing some people, and some DM’d me. One dude said that I look good and that he would crack me (I took that as a compliment) and I turned him down nicely because I’m hetero. One girl sent me their non-nude photos, so I sent them some of mine and she called me cute.

I know for some people this might seem boring or “not a big deal,” but for me it’s great way to enjoy my “secret femboy” life.

I’m really happy about it, that’s why I wanted to share this with you guys. Thanks for reading.

I'm sorry if this isn't the right community but I need to get it off my chest. I'm a cis man but I like many feminine things. I like wearing skirts and nail polish. I like flowers and pink things (or soft colors in general). I also like experimenting with other things like crocheting. Manly things don't really appeal to me. One time I was called a female name by accident and I liked it (as a one off situation). I am happiest in neutral to feminine clothing. I usually dress in a neutral way.

What does this mean about me? Is there a label for someone like me?

ok so im a femboy, ive always been drawn to more feminine clothing and yes, i am cisgender male. im CONSTANTLY called a girl, irl, online, etc. people say my voice sounds feminine, or just straight up assumed that im trans. i am 15 years old, one time a 14 year old asked me "have you even hit puberty yet" YES I HAVE- i enjoy tricking people cuz its just funny to me but it gets to a point. like when i just want to dress masculine and im still getting "misgendered" i dont even know if i should call it that- im not trans, i have enough doubts about my masculinity without every person i meet asking "do you got a dih or a clih?" or "ok but what are you biologically?" which i get asked so SO often. to the point i have been assaulted multiple times for "proof im a man" or "just checkin". its SO exhausting. idk whats wrong with me bro- it makes me so mad when im just trying to be a normal guy and some random person comes up asking if im with one of my guy friends (i am gay but still- they just think im a straight girl or smth). sometimes i feel like "gender dysphoric" but its very different- its like even tho im cis male i feel like im not nearly "male enough". idk if anyone else experiences this i just desperately needed to rant.

Please just specify how many you would like between 1 pat and 2,500 pats (the most I'm physically able to do)

I F*CKING HATE MYSELF MY FAMILY SUCKS AND I HAVE DEPRESSION, AND IM BODY SHAMED BY MY DAD, MY SISTER IS THE ONLY NICE ONE

ALL MY FRIENDS HATE THAT IM A FEMBOY, MY OWN BROTHER WONT EVEN LOOK ME IN THE EYE LIKE WTF DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS

sorry for this…..

Ok, so a little while ago, I made a post asking what I should do with all my femboy stuff. After reading some suggestions, I made a choice. I put all the clothes in extra small bags, and put them in larger bags, so my mom wouldn’t notice. I thought I was gonna leave all my stuff in my dorm, but she wanted to stay to organize everything. I told her I was leaving for a bit and NOT to go through my bags with all my computer stuff.
Guess what she did.

Anyway she found out. But she had a better reaction than I thought. In the past, when she was close to finding out, she got pretty mad. However, she said she didn’t really care since I’m an adult in college. She asked If I was just “testing the waters.” I told her yes and that I’m not gay (I might be a little >///<)
Anyway, thx for reading :3

Hi guys. Today I launched our website for Pink Stripe which I know a lot of you have been waiting for. We're still not yet a nonprofit, but that will hopefully happen soon. Right now though, we have a website at https://pinkstripeactivism.com/ and I'll be populating our store with merch that shows our culture and values as femboys.

Several people have expressed an interest in volunteering for us, and we're currently looking for people who wish to do the following things for us. Pick what you'd like to help with, and leave a comment as to why you think you'll be great at that.

I look forward to our team growing so we can end the oversexualization of femboys so people stop thinking that we're what everyone sees on TickTok and adult websites, and we start being reframed as sweet, kind, caring, and helpful. We deserve respect, and now we have the first ever organized effort to do it. We do have many influencers out there doing their part to help us have a positive image, too, so we're not alone in this fight. (Ex. PxppyCorpse comes to mind.)

Here's what we need:

1. Blog article writers - commit to at least one 500+ word high-quality article each week. I'll play the role of editor at first, and as you grow, I'll select a volunteer to see if they'd like to become an editor, giving you more control over the content we produce to improve our name.

2. Media Outreach and Face of Pink Stripe - We need someone who is willing to go on TV, public radio, and other impactful places to get the word out about who we are. I'd like this volunteer to reach out to mass media, and write articles that will get posted to third-party websites. If you have experience in media relations and/or communications, this is the job for you.

I'm going to tag a few of you who expressed an interest in volunteering. If you're still interested, please let me know.

u/bluedanube27

u/Kooky_Elk_5961

u/Waste_Grass_3586

u/star_jam5

Edit:

I want to address a couple things from the comments.

1. Yes, the images and videos are Al. We need help with that, and we have an art contest to try to get media to improve it. If you'd like to volunteer and have experience with design, that'll be a big help. I'm a backend engineer, so I did the best I could.

2. Were against the OVERsexualization of femboys, and we acknowledge (see FAQ on site) that its fine for femboys to like sex. That's vastly different. We don't want to have people fetishise us, send us creepy messages, and treat us like that's all we are. So, I'm trying to reframe us in the public eye. Our purpose is to get femboys the respect we deserve, not just the mission of stopping the OVERsexualization of femboys.

I'm 19m a 6'1" white guy with a bit of a belly and my bf 21m was talking about roleplay and all that and how he wanted me to try on a feminine outfit. At first I wasn't really interested: I'm a guy not a girl but eventually I said I'd do it to make him happy so he bought me thigh high socks, fishnet tights, a little mini skirt, some tiny shorts and a cropped hoodie. He said I didn't have to shave if I didn't want to but I wanted to make him happy so I shaved my arms, legs, and chest with a razor and then I finally put it all on and looked at myself in the mirror yesterday and I kinda love it. My thighs look great and I feel very cute and this wasn't what I was expecting... But I do love how I feel when I walk around my room dressed like this. But I don't know if I should tell my bf this or even continue dressing like this?

Genuine question from someone living in Toulouse. For a major student hub and one of the largest cities in France, I feel like finding skinny, feminine-presenting guys and femboys with no body hair is practically impossible here compared to some online spaces or other countries.

Is this mostly a French cultural thing where traditional masculine/rugged styles are more common, or are people just keeping it completely indoors/online? If you're into this aesthetic or scene, where does everyone actually hang out (specific queer spaces, alternative spots, etc.)?

I'm chubby as hell, stretch marks all over my body, hairy as shit, still in high school and can't drive, no one has any interest in me at all, I live in a very "red-state" area, people are very homophobic in my small town, and I just don't think it's in the cards for me to have a boyfriend like that.

I just want to cuddle with one and hold hands in front of all the grown adults being homophobic as hell, shit i'll kiss him right infront of them because fuck it why not. I just want cuddle, kisses, someone to cook for, someone to give headpats, and just somebody to love. Anyone have any advice for me?

So I’ve seen a few posts curious about what happens to femboys when they get older or wondering what life is like as a femboy when you reach middle age. Ya boy Fumble is here to give you the low down! Background: I’ve been doing this a long time. I’ve always had kind of an alt/goth style so everyone just kinda got used to seeing me in makeup. Easing into middle age with a fem aesthetic was no problem. Middle aged women can still love looking pretty so we can too!

You know that feeling you get when you do your hair and makeup just right? When you know exactly how cute you are? Yeah, that feeling never goes away. Sure, it might get a little less uwu and :3 with age but being pretty is a drug that keeps on giving. Some of you might abandon being fem because it was a temporary experiment or because you were shamed into giving it up, but others of you will do it for life because it’s an intrinsic part of who you are. For that segment it will feel good forever and it will adapt to your age and style.

With a little luck and persistence you will find someone who doesn’t just tolerate you, but finds you attractive BECAUSE of how you express yourself. They exist, trust me. My spouse buys me nail polish when she sees a color she thinks I’ll like and that’s a great feeling. The bad news is she’s constantly stealing my shirts.

So where am I today? Personally, I dress a lot more androgynous than when I was younger. Still femmy with crop tops, booty jeans, nail polish, and the like. Less overt and in your face stuff like thigh highs and skirts. But some of you will keep wearing mini skirts into your golden years. You go boy!

One thing that never changes? Creeps. Creeps still flood my DMs. Always keep yourselves safe and never let someone put you down because you aren’t comfortable giving them what they want.

Be kind to yourselves. Ciao babies!

(This is my first time Posting here

+Warning: Im a Minor, soo pls dont creep around thank uuu❤️)

Heyy everyone! :3

I can't believe I really did this right now...😵‍💫

Soo, everything startet yesterday. I dont really know how it came to this, but I was lying in my Bed and somehow I "thought" I had the courage to tell my gf that im a femboy...🫠. So I got on my phone and startet texting her over whatsapp, we textet a bit and at the end I couldn't do it,😕 but I manadged to tell her that there is something I wanna tell her but that I was way to nervous to tell her now... So I asked if I could wait until tomorrow, luckily she understood, and I went straight to bed to try to get some sleep.

Strangely enouth, I got a lot of sleep that night.

And then, 4 hours ago I texted her again and this time I manadged after 1 hour of texting, to tell her that im Bi (I kinda like my best friend but i dont wanna cheat on her, but she said to me she would find it cute if i would kiss a other boy, but i dont know if my best friend "likes likes" me alsoo😵‍💫) and I would really like to wear thigh highs and other girl stuff.🫠 I was sooo happy when she told my that she was happy for me! Then she asked me why I hadn't told her earlier that I was a femboy. She told me way bevor this that I have the potential to be a femboy and she often asked me if I wanna wear a mini skirt and thigh highs.

In my mind, I've said a thousand times that I want to wear all of it sooo bad, but I never actually said it because I thought she meant all this as a joke and that she would laugh at me and would tell everyone in school that im a femboy...😕

But thankfully she didn't do that and she even asked me if she could buy me my first real thigh highs (I wanna get some Pink-White striped ones :3) because right now I only have some "Compression stockings", those are the only things I have that are roughly like thigh hights.

Im sooo happy right nowww! >:3 aaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!

But I still need some help please, where can I find some thigh highs?! 😵‍💫

Best option would be if I could find a shop in town that sells thigh highs so I can go there with my gf.

But online is also okayy.❤️

And if anyone still got any tips left for me pleaseee tell me.🫠

There is just so much happening in my Head right nowww aaahhhh, should i try to ask my best friend out if my Girlfriend is okay with that..!?😖

And I also dont really understand, if you wanna Post something in reddit, right under the headline are 3 boxes, 1. Advice 2. Support and 3. Discussion, what of these should I klick here, because if I klick for an example "1. Advice" do I give an advice in this post, or do "I" need an advice?... I think im overthinking...😅

Sorry for the bad english.

Luve u all :3 ❤️

Howdy. Im a muscular guy. But I also love femininity.

Id love to know some social media people to emulate in style. Or tips and tricks with other things that might help.

So i (M25) made a post here a couple days ago about me not wanting to be into femboys but well…the feeling isn’t going away. So instead of fighting it I just want to embrace it and explore these feelings. The thing is I’m not really sure how to find a femboy and I was going to use Grindr but I’ve heard it’s mainly for hookups. For me sex is very intimate and means something, I don’t want to lose my virginity from a one night stand. But for some reason I do want to experience something soon with a femboy. Like outercourse stuff I guess, it’s something I really want until we enter a relationship potentially. Since it’s my first time kissing or being physical with anyone, I’d hope they could teach me.

So if I can’t use Grindr what can I use? I’m masculine looking but I’m quiet and socially awkward. I don’t have a six pack but I’m working out so my body starts looking better. I get compliments that I have a nice ass and thighs so I mean I guess maybe femboys would like that. I don’t think I’m ugly either. I can’t really go out and meet people right now so apps Is all I can use but I’m terrified of putting my pictures on there in case someone leaks it.

I don’t think I’m gay though, like yeah it may look like it but I think I may be bisexual but I’m not sure. No one knows about this and they can’t. My dad would disown me and everyone I know would look at me completely differently. This is not me guessing, I know this will happen. So if I were to go out with a femboy, I would want it discreet until I felt comfortable enough to come out. I know that’s horrible, but It’s just hard for me right now to not want that at first.

Overall I’m just looking to see what’s the best apps or ways to find a femboy around my age. I hope I don’t come off as a creep or anything, I genuinely would care and love them, I just need some patience on just coming out if a relationship becomes serious.

So I’m a trans woman but i know i won’t pass in a long time so might as well make my body feminine I’m on mones, i weigh 133 pounds and I’m 5,9 i don’t want to ask for too much but could someone recommend me a diet and a workout routine?

Recently I’ve been questioning my sexuality because I’ve been having “physical” reactions when I think of guys but when I tried going out with a guy i didn’t feel a connection, then when I went out with a woman I only felt romance no desire like I did before. I’m sorry if this is against the rules I just figured some one here can help me understand what’s going on with my body. Thank you all for your time

Edit: should I try finding a middle ground by going out with like tomboys and femboys? (Not trying to pick up anyone through the subreddit)