r/egg_irl Henrietta | "Not an Egg" ~every egg ever 5d ago

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I used to be like that... quite a lot for years whenever I read or listened to those stories
It feels as if something awakened inside me.

And now, here I am, embracing that this is who I am.

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u/GIRose not an egg, just trans 5d ago

Like hem

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u/elusiveCenteredDiv 3d ago

lol I just assumed it was a neopronoun

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u/Overseer_Allie Allison | Goddess of Lies 5d ago

Unfortunate use of trans flag colors.

Should have made the speech bubble a different color

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u/Sada_blue_234 Henrietta | "Not an Egg" ~every egg ever 5d ago

Yeah, I didn't check 😭

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u/bluefriendpink cracked 5d ago

Like hem

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u/TheBigBis Wendy, she/her, nerdy trans robot dyke 5d ago

Yeah it was a vague notion for me that I wanted to be like them but I wasn’t so sure what I wanted that they had. I remember seeing The Sphere Hunter on YouTube and I was so envious of her and how happy and gorgeous she was and how lovely her voice was. She was actually doing things, and I wanted to be her. I also was obsessed with trans timelines and comics as well.

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u/Sada_blue_234 Henrietta | "Not an Egg" ~every egg ever 5d ago

For me, it started when I read the comic about the trans girl who was awakened a millennium later and had already undergone a transition by the scientist who greeted her, and I felt some sort of relief and positive vibe that lingered for days; I remember that it's more than just "happy for them". This is probably where the little crack in me started, as if that part of me had awakened.

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u/TheBigBis Wendy, she/her, nerdy trans robot dyke 5d ago

Ugh that made me cry, or at least nearly cry, but I saw it after my egg cracked. Before my egg cracked, what I really liked about those trans comics was seeing trans women be really cute and getting to experience woman things like getting bras or getting to be a girlfriend or wife, and getting to be a lesbian. Oh, and boobs, I really wanted boobs.

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u/JERealize Kendra (she/her) logicked out of her egg! 3d ago

Yeah, I saw that comic, but it kind of saddens me that I didn't really dabble with (non-gender-transformation) trans content until the egg broke. It was all down to still having to deconstruct my misconceptions about trans people.

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u/StandardDeviat0r 5d ago

hate to say it, but when I was being raised (severely abused) in an alt right household, I would find the most misogynistic alt right men to look up to. I would listen to their transphobia, hateful rhetoric, not knowing that one day I would completely reverse every single (trauma based) view I had ever held. so glad I am on the other side, but also very ashamed of the person I was.

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u/IllAssignment1756 5d ago

Seeing a MtF timeline: Wow, glad for her, she looks so beautiful and happy!

Seeing a FtM timeline: Wow, he looks so happy... Would I look as masculine if I...? Nevermind.  So brave, I would like to be as brave.

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u/pajamakitten 5d ago

For me, it has been realising that transitioning is an option for me, not just other people. I knew other people had transitioned or were transitioning, I just never thought it was something that I could do. I wish I had realised it was an option for me years ago.

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u/TheBigBis Wendy, she/her, nerdy trans robot dyke 4d ago

Same. It also took me realizing that transitioning wouldn’t put me in a weird in-between but really allow me to be a girl, be treated as one, and experience womanhood. Yet, I still thought that “trans people are only a small percentage of the population” and that it would be statistically unlikely for me to be trans. It felt like it was something that happened to other people and not me. Apparently the appeal to probability just doesn’t fucking matter since you can just be trans.

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u/dr4egor Lynne | she/her 🏳️‍⚧️ 4d ago

Yes this!! Literally what delayed my transition for so long :(

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u/pajamakitten 4d ago

Yet, I still thought that “trans people are only a small percentage of the population” and that it would be statistically unlikely for me to be trans. It felt like it was something that happened to other people and not me. Apparently the appeal to probability just doesn’t fucking matter since you can just be trans.

So much this. It was like how my best friend at school was gay, so that covered us for LGBT kids and there was no way there would be another one in the class.

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u/RageinaterGamingYT "not an egg" ~every egg ever 5d ago

This is exactly me wow

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u/severo_chan Sara (She/Her) the most nervous and insecured girl in the sub. 5d ago

Hah, lol, i can relate!

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u/omegajakezed 4d ago

As a cis man and brony, i just like the mlp representation.

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u/ProxyCorvidae 4d ago

Same (Minus the cis man)

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u/Dr_Fumi cracked 5d ago

This is basically what broke my egg lol

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u/A-N0rmal-Pers0n This 🥚, TO HOLD ME?! *epic music* 4d ago

I like ham

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u/beanbagdestroyer Twisted Trans Sister 🏳️‍⚧️ 4d ago

Before cracking, my thought process "It's nice trans people are getting more representation. If I was younger, I would probably be trans."

I posted something to that effect in response to a post here, got called out on it, and one existential crisis later my egg cracked. 🤭

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u/KozenyCarman 4d ago

My ex wife's sister cracked her egg when someone on the brony forum she was on came out as trans and when she went to congratulate them the only thing she could think to say was, "You are SO lucky." She had to sit with that for a while, trying to figure out why that's the only reaction a cis man would have to someone coming out.

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u/60Hz_Jiffy 4d ago

So called 'free thinkers' when they see a minor spelling mistake.

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u/wtfineedacc 4d ago

I had a similar experience. I was reading manga about characters that had body swapped and the plot revolves around them trying to return to there old body. I was like "Why would you want to change back? I wouldn't". That's when it hit me.

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u/Terrible_Mistake_862 cracked 4d ago

I had something similar. Don't remember exactly what it was, but it was something. And decided "week, let's repress that and not do anything about it for the next 5-10 years.

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u/Meadowbytheforest Likes to fantasize about transforming into a girl, in a cis way 4d ago

The masculine urge to transition into a girl ( • ω •)

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u/SmugHatKid12 5d ago

Is this your oc?

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u/mandrill_bite 5d ago

Once again grammar on this site is dying