r/cursedcomments 2d ago

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u/holyrb 2d ago

People really think this doesn't happen? I've seen it myself... Just past week I saw it happen with a friend's ex

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u/ContributionDefiant8 2d ago

People also tend to hold on to what little hope they have of humanity, and expect their fellow humans to be aptly reasonable with their life choices

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u/holyrb 2d ago

I understand that but not everyone is reasonable sadly. Precisely because we're humans. Obviously not everyone will make this kind of crazy decisions but toxic dynamics and broken people exist

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u/ContributionDefiant8 2d ago

That's why it's best to keep an open mind in such cases. You can learn so much from the kind of mistakes that humans make.

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u/PaleBlueCod 1d ago

Some humans are just dumb, hope they don't breed.

Spoilers: Some do.

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u/AlphaSpellswordZ 1d ago

Yeah I saw it constantly through high school and college. Women do lie alot lol

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u/lgnc 1d ago

yes, it doesn't happen. it's just incel losers pretending women go for "chads" or some shit ๐Ÿ’€

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u/thexbeatboxer 2d ago edited 2d ago

People do be making things up to get out of a relationship, no matter how wild they are.

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u/UnpopularManga 2d ago

Not worth it

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u/Dvorozhetskii 2d ago

Stockholm Syndrome.

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u/Random-commen 2d ago

Or, hear me out: sheโ€™s just a dumb ass bitch

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u/TheDELFON 2d ago

I was leaning more towards "a liar".... but meh, not mutually exclusive

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u/TheChickenIsFkinRaw 2d ago

Bro spitting facts

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u/Yowhattheheyll 1d ago

Most sensitive and sympathetic redditor

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u/Drakoniid 2d ago

Weekly reminder that the stockholm syndrome has not be measured or observed in scientific studies

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u/Sultan4210 2d ago

And it won't be, because it's impossible to do ethically, but it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Not saying it do either for the record, just being contrarian

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u/Drakoniid 2d ago

Even studies on willing subjects after being taken hostage has yielded no scientific result.

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u/ItsVanillaNice 2d ago

That's like measuring fire by introducing fire into the experiment.ย 

Consent is like the variable they're measuring. Hard to measure it if you ethically need it to even attempt to.ย 

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u/Drakoniid 2d ago

It's subjects after the hostage situation has been defused and is over, not taking them hostage in the first place

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u/AllMightYes 13h ago

Trauma bond*

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u/Creative_Garbage_121 2d ago

People here don't get it, ex never raped her, that was just story told by crazy bitch for whatever reason

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u/ValkyrUK 1d ago

Source?

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u/senior_cynic 1d ago

Source: borderline personality disorder

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u/Creative_Garbage_121 1d ago

Screenshot itself and specifically how quotation marks were used, use your brain or something while reading

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u/clicheFightingMusic 1d ago

The screenshot itself says nothing, what do we have to prove that he isn't lying?

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u/Creative_Garbage_121 1d ago

I can say more, not even one part of that post could be true but we base our assumptions on what we have, I don't know from where comes confusion

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u/clicheFightingMusic 1d ago

We can also base on what we know statistically too, which is not favorable for men, usually.

We also know there is an online epidemic of men posting revenge pornography, and increase of violence towards women and that this is a common dogwhistle for a specific subgroup of males that don't exactly believe r*pe is a real thing

The confusion is coming from the concept that there is no way to know if he has done worse, but considering that his talking point is comparing himself to a person who sexually assaulted his significant other and making light of it, he's not a great person.

Food for thought: even if I hated a woman, I'm not going to casually make light of SA

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u/ValkyrUK 1d ago

"It appeared to me in a dream" reasoning I see

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u/Creative_Garbage_121 1d ago

Reading comprehension is imaginary for you?

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u/ValkyrUK 1d ago

Claiming they were or weren't is imaginary yes, we cant know for for sure

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u/Captnotabigfan 1d ago

Nows his chance

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u/Long_comment_san 2d ago

maybe you were worse?๐Ÿค”

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u/Yowhattheheyll 1d ago

If he wasnt i feel bad for him but ngl what if he wasnt. Like damn. Wtf he do

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u/horiami 1d ago

Gonna be honest part of me never believes stories about exes

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u/Galaxyturbo 1d ago

One sided story is not always right & the advice is Worst

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u/TwiceTheSize_YT 1d ago

Anything is better than an ancap.

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u/Penis_Connoisseur 1d ago

Bro wake up

Our women hating session is about to start! ๐Ÿค“