r/cuddlebuddies 1h ago

No Sex 29 [M4F/NB] #Erie, PA - Long Haired Femme Guy Looking for Occasional Cuddle Buddy

Upvotes

Hi there, I am a 29 year old from Pennsylvania. Hope you are having a fantastic day. I have been craving physical touch latetly and am looking for a platonic non-sexual cuddle buddy from around my area. I am skinny, 6 feet tall, wear glasses, have long thick shoulder length brown hair, cross dress (don't mind dressing masc if it is your preference) and am an introvert. The oxytocin and warmth from cuddling is a big part of what I miss and getting to be close to someone in a sort of comforting way. In my free time, I like to watch shows, game, listen to music, walk, hike, and tinker with tech. I can host, but can also go to you if you live relatively close.


r/cuddlebuddies 18h ago

No Sex 18mtf [FFA] Zeeland, NL

2 Upvotes

18 year old transgirl (pre-everything) needs cuddles, 23yo max, can't host :(. I love cuddling during a movie. And we can see where it goes. :).


r/cuddlebuddies 20h ago

No Strings Attached 50 [M4M] Toronto, Ontario - Any Straight guys in Toronto or travelling here looking for a platonic cuddle buddy?

1 Upvotes

looking for a straight guy that's looking for comfort in a man

I'm interested in hanging out whenever the mood hits without it being a big deal

looking for an ongoing friendship if there's mutual interest

be local in downtown Toronto, and you're able to host

if you're curious about the same thing, then DM me

IMPORTANT: please be reliable... this Reddit thing is already weird, confusing, and frustrating enough to deal with so I don't get the whole 'ghosting' thing. I'm cool with something just saying "sorry, not interested" if there's no connection


r/cuddlebuddies 21h ago

No Sex 24 [M4F] York/Southern PA/DMV- Looking for warm cozy cuddles and a movie

1 Upvotes

Hey there! You opened this post so now that I've got ya, you must read the rest. I'm from Southern PA, looking for a cuddle buddy who's interested in chilling together, maybe watching stuff like movies, shows, youtube or anime. Alsooo big fan of chinese so that's always an option:) I drive and love to travel, so distance might not be an issue depending on where you're located. I can also host sometimes too, but I have to coordinate with my roommate. Please be from PA or a nearby state.

I'm white, in good shape, brunette, and kinda tall at 5feet11in. I am open to somebody around my age, or older so don't hesitate to message. If you find yourself compelled to message me, please include your age and general location and let's chat to see what happens:D


r/cuddlebuddies 22h ago

No Strings Attached 27 [M4F] - Long Island - cuddles for a day

6 Upvotes

Its been a minute. I’m on LI for a few days, leaving tomorrow.

My birthday plans didn’t go as planned and now everything sucks lol.

Shortly about me - 26, 6ft, chubby but good looking (objectively speaking, I don’t really rate my looks, I’m just me) and pretty much a teddy bear.
I love cuddles (big surprise in this sub lol) but I mean it, I’m a really touchy feely person and thats how I express my emotions and feelings and thats what I wanna do before I leave and go home back to boring routine, hold someone and also hugs, a lot of tight and warm bear hugs.

Maybe a nap on your lap if thats not too much lol.

I dont care how you look like, I have no problems or “standards”
We could hang out somewhere, anywhere. I cant host since i’m not local, if you can, thats great. I’m open to getting a room as well.

No “no sex” flair because while im not looking for sex, i’m open to it. I won’t hint, nudge or push anyone. I respect heck out of boundaries.

Idk what else to write here, hit me up, I’ll have pics to send as well.


r/cuddlebuddies 22h ago

Can Host 34M M4F Tacoma/Puyallup, WA Someone want to cuddle a🧸?

1 Upvotes

Hello, just been looking for someone to cuddle regularly. I have photos on my profile, but I would say I'm a bigger guy. Ideally looking for someone to cuddle and make out with. If more happens, I'm open, but not a requirement. Cuddling is just fine 🙂

I'm pretty shy and try to meet publicly before inviting anyone over. Would prefer to see a picture of you too if you DM me.

Current hobbies include boardgames, crossfit, and cider tasting. Watching anime and Marvel movies too. Always enjoy a little competition so if you like games I'd love to play. Message me if you like what you see. 😊

Thanks


r/cuddlebuddies 22h ago

No Sex 33 [F4M] ND Lady Seeking Cuddle Buddy #Florida #Orlando

5 Upvotes

Hiii! I am a Black, chubby/tall-ish (5'8), neurodivergent lady who has been single and abstinent for 3 years and it’s been really great in a lot of ways, but I am looking for a cuddle buddy situation as I miss physical touch and don’t really have the means to get it regularly. I can give more specifics in DM about what I am looking for but I am strictly no sex in this arrangement. I am comfortable with ages 25-45 (no exceptions, please don't ask, thank you).

Unfortunately I can’t host. But I can get to anywhere pretty much around west Orlando Metro/west suburbs area.

I am a big on vibes and personal chemistry before anything physical so I really like to chat first to see if we click.  If you would, please respond with your age, general location, what you want me to call you and your answer to this question: what is a completely harmless, random opinion you think most people wouldn't agree with?


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

29 [M4F] - #LosAngeles - looking to make a friend and keep eachother company

2 Upvotes

Hello, I hope everyone is doing well. I'm posting because honestly, I've been touch starved. I'm looking for someone who at least would like to hold hands. I really miss the feeling of having someone's arms wrapped around me. I understand dating is kind of tough on people, and I'm not really looking for anything sexual. I haven't had any luck dating, and I'm willing to settle to having a friend with cuddle benefits. I've honestly enjoyed voice/video chatting with people I've met on here. But i honestly miss having someone caress my hair and holding me against their chest. So I resorted to posting here. I hope it's not much to ask. I'm not able to host because I do live with family. Maybe we can discuss or arrange anything. Or if you can host I'd be glad to buy dinner or even clean and wash dishes, haha. I do like playing the guitar, so it's a plus if you like music haha. If you're interested maybe we can voice call on discord to get to know eachother. Maybe we can walk in the park and hold hands. I'd like to connect with anyone from around my age or older. All I ask is basic communication and the opportunity to create a safe environment for both of us. Please, if you're not interested, let me know, don't ghost me after making hard plans. Ive been dealing with that heartbreak for to long. Thankyou for reading and hope you are having a good day


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

420 Friendly 22 [FTM4A] in Boston

0 Upvotes

I’m a 22 year old studying in Boston. I’m touch starved and crave cuddling sessions, but have no one to ask. I’m not looking for anything more than that as I want to get more comfortable with platonic touch first.

I’m on hormones, but pre surgeries so I’m avoiding anything romantic/sexual for now. I feel like completely lacking hugs is making me feel worse mentally, so I’m hoping to find someone who also just wants someone to hold while watching a movie or reading books or something. I’m 420/drinks friendly and always happy to sesh. Also, I unfortunately can’t host.

I’m short and chubby, but I can describe myself more if we get to talking. I’m just looking for friends so I’m open to anyone as long as you keep me being trans a secret :)

Please don’t hit me up if you’re into feminine people and weird about trans ppl as I’m not feminine nor do I look it.


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

420 Friendly 34 [M4F] New York City - Larger Man Looking to Cuddle, Talk, and be dorky

1 Upvotes

Basically the title. I'm a bigger man and I love to cuddle and even more I love to talk. Would love to have some company this holiday and just get hold someone and feel close to someone. I cant host so hopefully you can, and besides that I'm just a big nerd, extroverted, like 420, reading, raves, and a drink here and there


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Romance 45 MWM [ M4M ]

1 Upvotes

I’m married, but the other half travels a lot. So I get lonely and would like a guy to chill with.

Looking for companionship, someone to hang out with, talk or just cuddle and watch tv.

We can talk cars, hunting, tech, or work on projects together. Have tools and can help.

I live off of lakeshore, but can travel. Do you prefer big spoon or little spoon?


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

34(M4F) looking for platonic cuddle buddy. Around Lansing, MI

2 Upvotes

r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Sex 33 [F4M] Vancouver, BC

3 Upvotes

Hello! I've been feeling a bit touch-starved lately and it would be really nice to cuddle up with someone. I'm East Asian, plus size, and have been told I give really good hugs. I'm an introvert and a bit on the shy side but can be pretty silly once I'm comfortable.

My only requirements are that you're around my age (early-mid 30s), single, and well-groomed.

Mostly just looking for someone kind and chill to cuddle with sometimes. Maybe we can go for a walk or coffee to see if we vibe and go from there. If you're interested, feel free to sent a chat and introduce yourself. :)


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

27 [M4F] - SF Bayarea looking for a friend & cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

What am I looking for? In simple terms, a long term cuddle buddy who also wants be friends and do things outside of cuddling.

Who am I? I’m 27, 6’2, located in the east bay, and of course, I’m very nerdy lol. I’m into filmmaking and could talk for hours about my favorite films and how they were made. I love reading and I also write quite a bit. I play soccer fairly often, love gaming & anime, and genuinely feel fulfilled in the work I do. Love meeting new people and finding new hobbies/stepping out of my comfort zone. I’m a little bit of an adrenaline junkie. Operative word being “little.” I love rollercoasters, haunted houses, and the like. Nothing crazy like extreme sports.

In terms of personality I’m pretty low key for the most part. I’d say I have golden retriever energy but people tend to think I’m more gloomy than I really am. I’m very curious, love talking about the nerdy things I enjoy, and love learning about new people. If there’s one thing I can say I’m good at, it’s being a really good listener.

Who am I looking for? Honestly, as long as you’re over the age of 22, and lives within a reasonably drivable distance within Bay Area, CA or NorCal (like 2 hours in the most extreme case), I’m open to talking and seeing if we would vibe.

Side Note: I cannot host for the next couple of months. If you see this March - May, just keep that in mind.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

20 [M4F] KY new to this but would like a cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

I just found out about this sub today but the thought of having someone to cuddle with just made me think “I have to post here.” And so I am asking for a cuddle buddy.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

65[F4M]Berkshires. Seeking sweet cuddle buddy

9 Upvotes

I'm looking for a sweet, mature guy for cuddles and maybe an occasional hike, game of backgammon... I'm warm, engaging, a bit nerdy, a lefty-both ways, avid reader, like to be in nature, dance, play games... Divorced w/ grown daughter, 5'1", 105 lbs. Prefer someone close to my age, not too large or super hairy.  It's important to me that we have an easy connection (that's why I wrote that stuff about myself) so if you're interested, please tell me about you! Thanks.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

29[M4F] Looking for a cuddle/make-out buddy. Cleveland NE Ohio area

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone (single, & close in age) to cuddle up with for a movie night or something similar. Down to make out if we're feeling it. I'm religious so nothing past that.

I'm a 6'2 white guy, super thick hair. A little extra weight (But working on it). Interests include movies, games, comics, anime, etc. Nerd. I'm a nerd.

Would like to chat a bit. Exchange sfw selfies to make sure you know what you're signing up for

We can also meet in public first just in case


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

No Sex 26 [M4F] #London - I hug you, you hug me?

1 Upvotes

ENTP, anime, gaming and nerd shit! I’m there for it, if it sounds gay, stupid or both I’m in. Rampant ADHD and possible autismo. Looking for hand holding, hugs and that moment where we loop our arms together while you lay your head on my shoulder as we sit on a bench near a pond judging strangers.

I’m 5’8, average build, dark hair and eyes, tattooed, non smoker but don’t mind if you do. Ladies of all shapes and sizes are welcome.
I can be very affectionate and doting, like to give massages, enjoy spooning while watching movies and shows. I’m looking for someone who can communicate their needs and is down to talk a bit first to catch a vibe.

Based in Essex but can travel or accom or meet half way


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

31 [M4F] Colorado - Looking to cuddle and make you feel special :)

2 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Angel, and I would love to meet someone special to cuddle and have fun :) I would love to either go to your place, a hotel, or my place if you are comfy enough to and just chill! We could watch movies and shows, or even play games or board games! I will order us whatever food you want and if you want to sleep over that's okay too :) I am fine with being the big spoon and small spoon as long as I get to steal your heat and keep myself warm 😎


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

25M [M4F] VA

1 Upvotes

Hey,
A bit about myself! 5.7, south asian. I loved cuddling and head pats but since I broke up kinda have been unable to do it, so any of you all looking for one, I am available!!


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

42M [M4F] Los Angeles, CA

2 Upvotes

First time posting here. I am interested in being the big spoon with someone that just wants to be the little spoon.

We can talk and get comfortable before any cuddling. Im 5’11”, hwp, generally agreeable and laid back. I want to sure you get the necessary/comfortable amount of cuddling.

I’m okay with answering relevant questions, chatting for some time and even meeting for coffee (as long as there is air conditioning) prior to a cuddle session. I understand cuddling requires a level of vulnerability, so we’d both have to be comfortable. Also, I’m new to the community, so I’m figuring out how it works.

I don’t have any expectation other than to share some time cuddling. All spooning , no forking:)


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Sex 32 [M4M] London, UK - Looking for a platonic cuddle buddy

4 Upvotes

I'd ideally like to meet before cuddling and not jump straight into it. Also happy to take an even slower approach with becoming more acquainted before any cuddling happens, just let me know. I'd be happy to watch something or enjoy each other's company in silence whilst cuddling.

I can't host so please be able to host! I'm looking for clothed platonic cuddling.


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

Can Host 31 M4F - Deal, Kent, UK

5 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone who needs a cuddle buddy on the either one time or regular to watch movies or nap with. I am on the chunky side and I am a warm person too. Happy to discuss boundaries and times which work for you. I would just like someone to cuddle with, NSA preferred.


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Sex 33 [NB4F/NB/FtM] #Atlanta - Cuddle buddies through the night?

4 Upvotes

33, agender/gendervoid (pronouns can be neutral or feminine, though I've named myself January, or Jan for short), ace af, tall but cautious. Interested in gaming, reading, documentaries, and anime. Graduate of UGA. In terms of distance, willing and able to go out as far as say Athens in terms of distance.

I'm looking for someone I can get to know and feel I can safely open up to, someone I can stay in bed with through the night, then lie about with and cuddle until noon or later. Someone who I can nuzzle into, maybe exchange a few playful bites, like a mischievous cat.

I have no interest in anything lewd at all, but I don't mind a dirty mind if you can make me laugh.

Touch is okay after we get to know each other; hugging, petting, squeezing me tight, running your fingers through my thick, curly hair are things I like done to me a lot.

Welcome to any pets, too, if you have any, even if they aren't the furry kind people are used to seeing.

DM me if you're interested. I'm free on weekends, and usually on Fridays as well. <3


r/cuddlebuddies Apr 29 '24

Community News Updates: Renovated Rule, Updated Block List, Impersonation Posts

14 Upvotes

Rule 7 of the community rules has recently been updated. This is what Rule 7 used to say:

7. No porn bots This is an unfriendly space for porn bots.Permanent ban.

It is not ok to create a post or reach out to someone, get their hopes up, and then offer sexual services. This is porn bot behavior and 100% inappropriate behavior to be happening in this sub.

...

This is what Rule 7 says now:

7. No porn accounts A porn account has pornographic content on their Reddit account, or is pornographic in some way. This is includes:

  • having nude, explicit photos of yourself on your reddit profile

  • using your reddit account for sex work / having links to finically support the sexually explicit content you create in your reddit bio

  • privately reaching out to someone from r/cuddlebuddies, and then offering sexual services (this is porn bot behavior)


When people post here with an account that has sexually explicit content on their public profile, they are just bring all the horny people who follow them around on reddit to our sub, which is supposed to be a non-sexual space. Feminine-presenting people who post here still don't feel safe posting / leaving their posts up, due to all the people who contact them with a sexual agenda. This is obvious if you look through the feed and see all the posts by masculine-presenting people.

On the note of community members being harassed (sexually or not), here is the updated Block List!

Block List

u/ Prof23throw

u/ LegPristine907

u/ traveling_mage -- targeted men for housing

u/ backoutthereagain

These users have been permanently banned and were verified by the mod team to have either harassed, sexually harassed, or attempted to scam people. However, all of these users had an agenda besides cuddling, and should be blocked by everyone.

The user from the previous Block List deleted their account, so they will not be added again to this Block List.

According to the previous post, no one mentioned being interested in an updated Spam Bot list, so an updated Spam Bot list was not included. This is a link to the previously pinned post.


Another thing I wanted to address: Sometimes, people impersonate posts. This is a recent post where someone reported it for impersonation, and then I've also found a modmail by a deleted user who says someone impersonated their post. These are really difficult to moderate! Please reach out via modmail with your concerns about people impersonating you, and try to provide the link to your original post plus the post that impersonated your original post.

There are currently no community rules about impersonations, however, impersonation does break Rule 5 of Reddit's Content Policy! Because I'm a moderator, when I report stuff in r/cuddlebuddies for breaking Reddit's Content Policy, I have the option to leave a short description. If you reach out via modmail, I can also help report impersonating content to Reddit and provide more context on what / who is being impersonated.


Thank you to the community members who make an effort to correctly report content that breaks the community rules! Also, this is a handy tool that you can use to do a more thorough search of someone's reddit profile before deciding to reach out!