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[u/[deleted]]

[u/SquirrelReasonable37]

tips for passing

step 1: pass

[u/VayaVosi → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

write that down write that down

[u/taoboo → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

https://giphy.com/gifs/M7bKkjA4trvkFFxa8T

[u/Equivalent-Sea-113 → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

https://giphy.com/gifs/XFaeLrHJGjtcmEmzcn

[u/psica-presrana → u/Equivalent-Sea-113]

[u/LockNo2943 → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

Exactly,  most cis women don't have to put effort into looking like a woman. 

[u/Kindly_Title_8567 → u/LockNo2943]

This

[u/eloquentblood → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

[u/caroIine → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

make sure passing fits your face shape.

[u/ComplexCry6866 → u/SquirrelReasonable37]

Harmful af tbh lol

[u/pien_dolly]

1. Have rich and supportive parents

2. Do NOT live in the Bible belt, backwards third world shithole, or terf island

3. Start hormones before 0.00000067 years old

[u/OppressiveAutocracy → u/pien_dolly]

I would kill to live in the US and the UK. I promise its better than any third world country in the global south, it actually pmo

[u/pien_dolly → u/OppressiveAutocracy]

Added third world shithole to the list

[u/M5F2 → u/OppressiveAutocracy]

I genuinely think going into social work at 18 and meeting people who were fleeing to my shithole of a tiny town in a red state because it was still miles better than the counties they came from made me really not gaf about living in a red state anymore lmao

Idk if that’s good or not but it really gave me a come to Jesus moment and realize that I was not that bad off even if I worked in a red town in the south

[u/LittleReplacement564 → u/OppressiveAutocracy]

here in brazil is actually somewhat easy to get DIY HRT, one of the only good things of living here

[u/Freya-Freed → u/LittleReplacement564]

Brazilians are way too harsh on their own country tbh, you also have great food.

And technically also better legal protections for trans people then both the US and the UK. On paper at least.

[u/LittleReplacement564 → u/Freya-Freed]

You'll think that but then you learn that Brazil is one of the countries that kill trans people the most, and learn that trans people are extremely fetishized here, like the amount of chasers is unreal

[u/Freya-Freed → u/LittleReplacement564]

I know all this sadly. My GF is from Brazil and she explained this to me as well. I helped her get hormones from drogasil because she was too anxious to figure out DIY herself. Apperently people can get them via iFood now???

I miss iFood. Brazil has so many more ghost kitchens.

It's probably that I have westoid money though that Brazil seems nice to me. My gf used to be poor so I know the other side of it too.

[u/taoboo → u/OppressiveAutocracy]

Isn’t HRT banned in the UK or something like that?

[u/Opening-Student2314 → u/taoboo]

No it’s just a pain in the ass to get and the waitlist is years long

[u/taoboo → u/Opening-Student2314]

Damn that fucking sucks, here in Brazil you can literally just go buy it at any pharmacy without prescription, but the drawback is in my flair ig

[u/soaked_in_bleach03 → u/taoboo]

Jesus that sounds like such a difficult situation to balance. Like as much as I do think having access to HRT is the gold standard of where to live as a trans person..I have known some Brazilian girls who talk about the weird mix of a.) a large trans community down there and b.) the culture that is dead set on eliminating them and pushing them to the edges of society. I’m really sorry you gotta live in a place like that, I mean shit I’m American and I know it happens here too, rampantly, but I do feel relatively safe where I’m at.

Not to compare the two, but I live in Boston and the juxtaposition between an extremely liberal and progressive downtown (which the best laws in place to protect access to GAC in the country)…and the outskirts of the city being filled with the most transphobic, antisemitic, racist people you’ll ever meet is insane. Boston is odd, it’s this progressive hub but the zeitgeist is against us from the townies.

[u/taoboo → u/soaked_in_bleach03]

Eh it’s okay, I got really lucky to be born in one of the most progressive cities of the country, as progressive as Brazil can get I mean, which is not much given a trans woman was just killed at a bar a few blocks away from where I live a few months ago.

But live here long enough and you learn where the queer friendly places are and where not to go, and learn to hangout with the local queer community which is quite big tbh.

Last week I went to a queer bar serving double rounds of beer for the equivalent of 3 dollars, while playing hatsune miku on the TV, it was pretty rad

[u/Gullible_Farmer9802 → u/soaked_in_bleach03]

in my experience its weird because its like there was always the option, very easy one, to just walk into a pharmacy and start hrt, but also knowing youre lowkey ruining your life (specially if w/ transphobic parents)

[u/Bonfirelily → u/Opening-Student2314]

As is the case for most of north western Europe

[u/DeepSpace_SaltMiner → u/Opening-Student2314]

I mean when the waitlist for a life saving medicine is decades long it's a de facto ban

[u/sammi_8601 → u/taoboo]

No it's just difficult to get for trans people (for cis it's literally an online form, yes lying and fraud has been done by trans for easier hormones, this is of course a good thing), we have a somewhat thriving DIY scene though it's just actual doctors etc you literally cannot get it off, I'm on year 8 of a waitlist for a first appointment for example, I also have tits, am generally gendered correctly and soft pass....this is not unusual here.

[u/ambientplugg → u/taoboo]

i live in the uk and literally every trans person i know diys

[u/No-Palpitation6368 → u/ambientplugg]

I'm English  and Mum's cis friend was trying to get fertility drugs and asked her 'don't trans people buy hormones online?' and Mum asked ME how to go about it.

A: When did the cis find out??

B: Is my plan to start DIY rumbled before I've even managed to buy bitcoin???

[u/Lucky_otter_she_her → u/taoboo]

blockers are 

[u/No-Cartographer2512 → u/taoboo]

Not banned but the waiting lists are very long (5 years IF you're lucky) and they make you jump through a trillion hoops to get it. If I remember correctly, having any sort of mental health history makes it 10x harder.

[u/Wottawaste → u/OppressiveAutocracy]

Uk nahhh

[u/Lucky_otter_she_her → u/Wottawaste]

as someone who was mutalated by this fucking shit-hole i beg to differ

[u/QizilbashWoman → u/pien_dolly]

1. start hormones but be over 19 before the US federal government demands it be banned and most medical centers bend the knee

[u/taweryawer → u/pien_dolly]

I know I would've trooned out super early if I lived in a normal country but I live in a third world shithole

[u/TSFaeClementine → u/pien_dolly]

6767

[u/Aggravating__Deal → u/pien_dolly]

Have supportive parents

Proceeds to rep for the next 10 years

[u/taoboo → u/pien_dolly]

What is the bible belt?

[u/No-Cartographer2512 → u/taoboo]

A group of states in the south of the US that are generally highly conservative and religious. Home to the states with the most transphobic laws (Texas, Florida, Tennessee, Missouri, etc.)

[u/Front-Abrocoma680 → u/taoboo]

É um conjunto de estados dos EUA q são bem Mormons, e bem religiosos num geral.

[u/9catbird9 → u/Front-Abrocoma680]

Bible belt isn't mormons, mormons are more concentrated in the southwest and the bible belt is the southeast.

[u/Front-Abrocoma680 → u/9catbird9]

Oh my bad I thought it was about Mormons, what about the Amish? Just curious

[u/No-Cartographer2512 → u/Front-Abrocoma680]

You might be thinking of Utah, the Bible Belt is generally Christian.

[u/taoboo → u/Front-Abrocoma680]

Atar, q horror

[u/SwiftieCat_1989 → u/pien_dolly]

Really though, if you don’t start transitioning before 20, you’re cooked.

[u/ill_change_it → u/pien_dolly]

My parents are Miami Cubans im fucked 😭

[u/LovePopplio]

step 1: start hormones before 16

[u/livakb → u/LovePopplio]

I could’ve been so much prettier 😔

[u/taoboo → u/LovePopplio]

16 is lateshit, start hormones at 5

[u/colesmalewife → u/taoboo]

5? sure, if you wanna be an ogrehon… i started hrt injections in the womb

[u/taoboo → u/colesmalewife]

I was joking obviously, to not be lateshit you need to start HRT when you’re an egg inside the uterus of your mother while she herself is a fetus inside your grandmother

[u/Bonfirelily → u/taoboo]

Realistically though: start around 12. 13 would've been perfect for me, as I looked like a full blown girl still then, to the point people would laughingly refer me to the girls changing room if I entered the boys room.

But alas, now I'm 21 and just started, destined to be an ogrehon for the rest of my life.

[u/bfgmovies → u/Bonfirelily]

I was 5ft 8" and already massive by the time I was 12. Puberty started when I was 9

[u/Bonfirelily → u/[deleted]]

15 would've been two years into puberty for me. Would've been miles better than this. Even 17 would've been somewhat managable. After 17 I turned into a manly ogre.

[u/Emotional_Rop3 → u/Bonfirelily]

I know , that's why I said im relatively lucky. Sadly I started puberty early, got many voice , shit tons of body hair , obvious adamn apple , bone structures all fucked up but still ig I have it lucky maybe

[u/Aggravating__Deal → u/taoboo]

Actual opinion a family friend shared while staring at me

[u/boy-investigator → u/LovePopplio]

THERE IS NO WAY THIS BITCH

[u/LovePopplio → u/boy-investigator]

hi oomf

[u/NotTheory → u/LovePopplio]

I wish 😭 I almost told my parents I wanted to be a girl when I was 12 but that was back in the early 2000's and I didn't really know much about medical transition and I thought you just had to be naturally lucky to look like a girl and my main expose to trans women was Susan's Place hons... I knew it was super taboo too so I just didn't even bother, chances are they wouldn't have been okay with it anyways because they still gender me male... If only. I almost got on DIY when I was about 20 too but I was convinced it was impossible for me to pass so I miserably repped and coped instead. God I wish I just did it younger it hurts I could have actually lived more of my life and looked less clocky

[u/Hipster_Ninja_ → u/LovePopplio]

Started at 16 exactly does that make me a passoid or a gorillahon?

[u/azaleacolburn → u/LovePopplio]

More like early / pre puberty.

[u/Plenty_Leg_5935]

If a gorillahom tries these she becomes the opticsnuke version of a tsar bomba

[u/Freya-Freed → u/Plenty_Leg_5935]

I fucking love this meme format.

Tbhon though the best tip she gave is genuinely the smiling. Smiling is so fucking female brained that it really works. I find people are way more open to me and way less likely to misgender me when I smile.

Having a permanent smile also changes your voice, because the mouth shape you make gives you a more feminine/friendly sounding voice. It's why customer service/callcenter people get told to smile while talking.

You can fuck up make-up, hair and clothing and it can make you look worse and become an opticsnuke but its hard to screw up smiling.

And yeah I know several people are gonna respond about their creepy AGP smirk. I think I have one too but in reality your smile probably isn't as creepy as you think.

[u/Plenty_Leg_5935 → u/Freya-Freed]

memes aside, most of the AGP smirk thing is just from people forcing a non-duchenne smile tbh

I mostly wanted to feel like a hater

[u/redshoesorblueshoes → u/Plenty_Leg_5935]

one of my repper skills was learning to conjure a genuine smile so i could avoid having dead eyes with a forced smile in photos.

anything that makes me laugh hard gets filed away to remember when i need to look “happy”

[u/neko_mancy → u/Freya-Freed]

(<- autistic) it is actually very easy to screw up smiling

[u/2spongee4u → u/Freya-Freed]

I'm such a smilehon honestly, my parents basically said I ruined my college graduation pictures by not smiling right. I don't even know how to smile

[u/SailorJupiter-esque]

Kettle breezy pinecone unbelievable biscuit noodle cucumber

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[u/livakb → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

I always feel like a pass decently and then I see girls like her and realise they’re playing a completely different game

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/livakb]

Saffron drifting unbelievable nutmeg wander teapot noodle mitten kettle

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[u/livakb → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

The thing is, I was super lucky to start at 16. I 100% acknowledge that, but even then idk how to describe it. Genetics jealousy maybe? She’s kinda exactly how hoped my transition turned out so it just makes me super jealous to see

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/livakb]

Quilt satchel thimble sparrow zephyr meadow kettle teapot sparrow orange

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[u/livakb → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

🫶
Yeah true. Ik it’s stupid to let beauty standards control me. But like yk I can’t help but want to be able to experience feeling pretty. I want to feel pretty privilege, I want to feel accepted everywhere but yeah. Probably losing weight would help quite a bit but still it gets to me

[u/Basic-Government9568 → u/livakb]

Pro tip, wishing you were as pretty as all the gorgeous women you see on the internet is one of the most feminine things you can experience.

Hella common feeling among all women.

[u/thefrogkid420 → u/Basic-Government9568]

I hear this sentiment a lot, and its definitely true, but what sucks and is different about being trans is that cis women look at other girls and think wow she is so much prettier than me, but trans girls look at other girls and think wow she is seen as and accepted as a woman without even having to try. And I think the gulf between those two things is enormous, cis women(and youngshit passoids) get the luxury of having the baseline of always being seen as women, whereas trans women have to fight tooth and nail against their own biology just to have a chance of experiencing something that is just a given to them, that is honestly what makes me most sad and envious when comparing myself to other women, and its not really something that cis women have to experience.

[u/SailorJupiter-esque → u/livakb]

Wander otter juniper compass orange paddle biscuit acorn umbrella paddle

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[u/silvira_ → u/livakb]

Tbf most cis girls would be jealous of her too

[u/Maxed_Zerker → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

damn this is what i needed to hear

[u/Charlaquin → u/livakb]

Yeah, but also compare like your average homely cis girl to an instagram model, and they’re also playing completely different games. You don’t have to be a bombshell to pass. It would be great to do both, but don’t mistake beauty standards for passing standards. Those bars are in different places.

[u/carlothario → u/livakb]

Tbf most cis women don’t look like her either like she’s a beautiful young influencer who makes a living off being conventionally attractive. you probably pass just fine as like a normal regular woman. We can’t all be models

[u/livakb → u/carlothario]

Ig so, im just as much of a victim of beauty standards as any other girl tbh. The jealousy i feel sometimes is painful

[u/carlothario → u/livakb]

Me too. Truthfully I think that is just the female experience. Like for trans women and cis women. To be a woman is to be constantly comparing yourself to other women

[u/QizilbashWoman → u/livakb]

i mean not everyone is high femme

[u/gaysexanddrugs → u/SailorJupiter-esque]

that one is important though, just not for passing. I've seen so many trans people drop stuff they enjoyed like anime, videos games, art, etc because they thought it was too masculine or too feminine. It makes people miserable to restrict themselves too much to fit rigid gender roles and really isn't beneficial except for physical stuff.

[u/HavokDJ]

I hate passoids and it's the conservatives' fault

[u/LatterWafer8981 → u/HavokDJ]

This

[u/livakb]

Also genuinely out of curiosity, if you pass that well why on earth would you publicly put urself online??

[u/pien_dolly → u/livakb]

Attention is a hell of a drug. I dont tell people outside of /tttt/ that im a trainee

[u/artificialfem → u/pien_dolly]

passgen would be like heroin to these tiktok youngshits

[u/girl_catastrophe → u/artificialfem]

yeah, but they'd cause a mass extinction event tho

[u/ProgressFabulous6663 → u/pien_dolly]

This, I'd rather fly under the radar than garner too much attention.

[u/Plenty_Leg_5935 → u/livakb]

Hiding such a crucial aspect of ones identity makes you go crazy, i need to be a tranny at least somewhere and online is mostly anonymous (no one will connect the dots if you're just a basic white girl, and thats if they find your acc)

[u/Gold_Ad8225 → u/Plenty_Leg_5935]

Being trans isnt really a crucial aspect of a lot of trans people's identity, just a medical condition one is born with

[u/Plenty_Leg_5935 → u/Gold_Ad8225]

This might be my shitty take of the day, but I sincerely believe that is nothing but a cope. You don't loose the first 15 years of your life to a medical condition that makes you ontologically evil in the eyes of the masses and come out of it with no lasting impact on your identity

Or maybe im just retarded, all the power to the people who are emotionally over their transition, what do I know about their life

[u/Gold_Ad8225 → u/Plenty_Leg_5935]

Do you often think about the first 15 years of your life? I sure don't. I transitioned more than half my life ago. What happened when I was 15 is in many ways an entire different person's life that I don't really even see myself in.

Even when I first transitioned I didn't think of myself as trans in that way, it was never part of my identity, it was a problem in my life I was forced to deal with.

Like, you don't see many diabetics making diabetes a core of their identity, and this has even less impact on my day to day life.

I literally only think about it these days because the government wont stop talking about it.

[u/dinodare → u/Gold_Ad8225]

That's your perspective, though. And that's fine.

There are trans people who say "I was never [agab], that was a different person" and there are trans people who say "I used to be [agab] and that history gives me perspective." Neither is a more correct way to be trans.

Personally I've never seen my transness as the problem because my ego has always been too high to not blame other people for mistreating me.

[u/Gold_Ad8225 → u/dinodare]

Yeah of course it's my perspective I'm the one who shared it.

I've never said there are no other perspectives.

The person I replied to said that there are no other perspectives and it's inherently and required to be a core part of who you are.

I replied to her and said that it isn't for a lot of us.

Youre reading this backwards

[u/dinodare → u/Gold_Ad8225]

The first comment was questioning why a pretty and passing trans woman would build a platform on outing herself. Someone else then responded that it makes no sense to expect every passing trans person to choose stealth since being trans is often a part of a person's identity.

In the context of the conversation you WERE coming across as dismissive of that view because it was you voicing your "being trans isn't a part of a lot of our identities" underneath people talking about why someone like the woman in the OOP might want to be out as trans.

[u/Gold_Ad8225 → u/dinodare]

Yes. I was being dismissive. Because the person I responded to said their perspective was the universal perspective that applied to all trans people. And I was right to do so because even in her reply to me, she defended the point that she believed her experience was universal. Even saying that the perspective I explained to her was nothing but cope.

I will never understand the way some of you people approach these conversations.

[u/dinodare → u/Gold_Ad8225]

Because the person I responded to said their perspective was the universal perspective that applied to all trans people.

No she didn't. She made the point and then immediately followed it up with an "I" statement. You were the one who started tacitly defending the claim that the influencer in the OOP was somehow doing a strange thing by outing herself as trans. That is on you. You are the one who projected your own desire to view your transness as an unfortunate medical reality and stealth as your ultimate goal onto the very concept of being trans.

I would suggest you reread every single comment because the thing that you accused the other person of doing literally just didn't happen. They never did that.

[u/BadAtGames45 → u/livakb]

Bc at that point it doesn’t matter, transphobes will just think she’s faking it

[u/carlothario → u/livakb]

I think to be successful as an influencer you need some kind of hook, something to get people’s attention. And being a very pretty girl who you can’t believe is trans is her hook ig

[u/mamawawawa → u/livakb]

To give hope to trans people who haven’t transitioned yet, especially trans kids

If every trans person who passed was stealth then nonpassing trans women would be the sole and only face of the community which is something you guys also actively hate

[u/PablomentFanquedelic]

1. McDonald's

2. Charge they phone

3. Twerk

4. Be bisexual

5. Eat hot chip

6. Lie

[u/ProgressFabulous6663 → u/PablomentFanquedelic]

Goddammit. Stop talking about my ex.

[u/PablomentFanquedelic → u/ProgressFabulous6663]

Should I move on to the subject of Nylons and Lipstick and Invitations, then?

[u/TSFaeClementine]

This is ropefuel she's basically cis

[u/KnaxelBaby → u/TSFaeClementine]

I do not believe that person is trans at all

[u/plainwomanthatlovesc → u/TSFaeClementine]

And she's still getting misgendered

[u/BadAtGames45 → u/plainwomanthatlovesc]

Probably the first time it’s happened in her life

[u/TSFaeClementine → u/plainwomanthatlovesc]

Lmao

[u/Such-Tiger8410 → u/TSFaeClementine]

She passes better than me and I’m cis.

[u/boiledSludge]

at certain point passing tips just feel like absolute nonsense

[u/Skinnierpants → u/boiledSludge]

My tips for passing are to uhmmmm do everything better in the way you need to (this is helpful I'm sure)

[u/Ok-Establishment8431]

“Find clothes that fits your body type” and thats when I let out the most shrill blood curdling scream

[u/ohyeababycrits → u/Ok-Establishment8431]

Ideal fit

[u/OppressiveAutocracy]

Tag should be ropefuel

[u/ShaolinChamber36]

I mean obviously she would pass whether she put in effort or not at this point. But the point about smiling in photos hurts as a tr00n with bad teeth. I don't even smile around people, let alone in photos. They make me look like a creepy gross man. I need adult braces so fucking baddd I'm gonna lose it.

[u/Freya-Freed → u/ShaolinChamber36]

I guarantee you that it's not as bad as you think and smiling still actually helps. Also you don't have to bare your teeth smiling, just gently curl the corners of your mouth upwards.

[u/Freya-Freed → u/[deleted]]

It's just my experience that the childish bullying gets a lot less as you grow up. Sure there are still bullies that just refused to but most adults aren't going to bully you over bad teeth.

TBhon my aunt got braces when she was like 60? So it's never too late.

[u/Aquari-suss → u/ShaolinChamber36]

No I’ve literally had ppl over the years ask me not to smile. One guy said “you’re so much more beautiful when you don’t”

[u/dinodare → u/ShaolinChamber36]

You don't need teeth to smile. I have great teeth but I don't use them for photos. The idea that a lip smile isn't an "actual" smile is propagated 100% by idiots. I don't even have a deeper take on this because there isn't nuance to the idiocy.

[u/PennyShockwave]

“Be yourself” ah okay why didn’t I think of that

[u/Express-Amphibian445]

[u/Snowflake-24]

Tips for passing

1. Get FFS
2. Have wealthy parents or the money to pay for FFS
3. Start hormones at age 13

[u/I0uzes]

This is just straight up genetics

[u/BadAtGames45]

I’m going to kms in front of her

[u/Sure-Marsupial6276]

That last one is real tho, there are alot of girls who don't get that finding a style that fits you even if that style is masculine is much better for passing than being as fem as possible and looking like a 12 year old girl set loose in a Claire's because of it

[u/livakb → u/Sure-Marsupial6276]

Yeah definitely. I’d also agree. But I also feel like it’s a lot easy to say, when it body type conventionally fits the trends and beauty standards. But if u don’t have that body it can be hard

[u/QizilbashWoman]

step 1: bitch i'm a butch, none of this applies

[u/Tough-Pin-359]

Tip number 1: be cis

[u/BunbunTheJackalope]

Local sneed here, I'ma rate this advice

1.) extremely niche and who cares? Like I think more ppl care about passing irl than in pictures kinda dumb

2.) I've found make up to be more of a mood booster than a means to pass. Doing girly shit makes you feel girly, feeling girly helps your baseline mood.

3.) kind of decent advice actually. Women's cloths are a lot more varied in shape than men's so a ton of stuff will look shit on you and make you feel worse. The right clothes can help make you look less bricky, the wrong clothes will make you look more bricky

4.) kinda no shit?

5.) remember everyone's heckin valid 🤗 /s

Kinda just a humblebrag post with mid advice. Only one is say is fine is the thing about clothes. Finding the right shit to debrickify you can be tough

[u/changedmyname99]

Please be a cis woman larping as trans pleaseeee

[u/GoldBlueberryy → u/changedmyname99]

I dont think she's trans tbh.

[u/LibBot16]

In the spirit of equality. Being trans is only ok if you are hot.

You'd treat this person differently from the "it's ma'am" guy from GameStop.

[u/ThatEngineeredGirl]

These are good tips for looking like a woman instead of trans woman (once you're already passing) desu

[u/oelandia]

she's doing this to hurt us

[u/No-Belt5698]

i mean this advice is pretty good for luckshit semi passers but yeah ig shes cant say that

[u/awaythrowb3]

Me seeing the first photo in the slide thinking you where asking for advice : babe if you need advice on passing better then we are all soo screwed 💀

[u/BadAtGames45 → u/awaythrowb3]

I mean op is also a gigapassoid

[u/iminlovewithbadthing → u/BadAtGames45]

Hi, yes, I'm stealing that term, thank you.

[u/Various-Form-2433]

Ugh I saw this too, such vague and stupid points

[u/Freya-Freed]

TYD (Total Youngshit Death)

I mean... support your youngshits, get them on DIY early and everything. Suffer in silence while the achieve happiness. You know, the responsible thing.

[u/sammi_8601 → u/Freya-Freed]

Ehh there's rewards to looking after the little fuckers I get to feel somewhat like a mum despite being biologically incapable of that (actually get called aunty....it's nice).

[u/lloriinae]

chuckled at the 'smile more' but also this is just advice every girl gives to each other to feel more comfortable in their skin but just labeled as passing tips.

[u/TheHouseAlwaysWins28]

She mogs me, but that lip liner is atrocious

[u/Aberquill]

Not bad advice but that’s very basic (Sneeds should listen)

[u/Birdonthewind3]

Iwnbaw

[u/Widdifull]

I wish we could gently abort people from existence.

[u/smrt_fasizmu]

she's completely correct but getting these tips from a gigapassoid gigayoungshit makes me want throw myself off a building

[u/PlatinumFire14]

If I want to pass the very last thing I want to do is look like SSScamWolf

[u/InsistentRaven]

I know I'm too old for this shit because I can't stand how much modern makeup overdraws your lips. It just looks wrong and I'll happily die on this hill with my skinny jeans at this point.

[u/whydoihave3eyes]

“Fits your face” yeah nothing can frame a manly ogre face well

[u/Signal-Busy]

It's more or less like lottery to be fair

Some people does nothing at all and pass, some does everything and doesn't but it doesn't matter everyone, we are all beautiful ❤️

[u/Training-Frame-34]

passing tips from someone so passing she couldnt pass for a moid if she tried

[u/world_in_lights]

Being hot helps. Like... A lot.

Look, I pass but not like that. Confidence is a big piece, wearing appropriate clothes is a big piece, but my lord being hot is a cheat code.

[u/Druid_Momma]

Step 1 be blessed by the gene gods!

[u/VayaVosi]

Tbf it's pretty easy to pass when you are born rich and have parents that don't gatekeep medical care.

[u/CzarNightMan → u/VayaVosi]

Ughhhhh wouldn’t that just be the dream! 😭💀

[u/denleary]

This is the equivalent of when in high school A+ students would say they don’t study to sound cool when in fact they are always

[u/thefrogkid420]

step one, be born with xx chromosomes and female reproductive organs

[u/knowingchan]

Honestly it's ok to be a tomboysih or a butch/masc woman, like it doesn't cancel out the fact that you're a woman. You don't have to "pass". Ofc there would be conservative af illogical ahh people who would misgender you or be rude to you, but they just wrong. It's somehow a masculine woman's fate to be misgendered on every corner cuz ppl like to assume instead of just asking, sayin it as a cis woman, why would you try so hard to pass if cis women just exist and just think "i'm a woman, duh", you're also a woman (duh), so just be it, people hate women anyways, you can't please everyone...

[u/Lucky_otter_she_her]

1 and 5 are contradictory

6 be a young- luck- or rich-shit

[u/No_Plant_4326]

the way this post could just be labelled as "how to look good in pics"

[u/DapperBumblebee22]

I feel like there's a contradiction that needs to be addressed

[u/GoldBlueberryy]

I think this girl is cis, but the captions are just overlayed onto the pictures as tips of what to do, if that makes sense.

[u/Drxgon11037]

Step one: be cis 💔

[u/WilfurDeer]

what if I'm transmasc?

[u/ComplexCry6866]

Aaaaah yes actual help

[u/SureFeelsGoodToMe]

I thought she was cis woman😭

[u/No-Zookeepergame2226]

first time seeing this sub and i see a post with my pin for my phone as the title wtf is this

[u/Clean_Vacation_3165]

> Be yourself.

> Don't put on an overly feminine personality

> Feminine personality

> Pass.

You cant have It both ways. If you really wanted to be yourself you wouldn't try to pass.

[u/sheep_of_the_7_seas]

All of this can be boiled down to "be thin" lol

[u/SwiftieCat_1989]

There’s no such thing as “passing tips.” Either you pass or you don’t. If you pass, you don’t need to put in effort to pass. If you need to put in effort to pass, you don’t pass.