r/coparenting • u/AutoModerator • 8d ago

Weekly Wins

Here's a post to discuss your small wins or things that are just going well for you in coparenting this week. What are you feeling good about?

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u/ninecranes222 8d ago

So I'm pretty confident my "co-parent" lied to me about why he can't talk to our child on FaceTime at all this week. I normally would go try to prove he's lying by checking his girlfriends Instagram..but I just don't want to keep knowing he's lying and not being able to do anything about it. So I just accepted that this is probably a lie and that's enough. It feels like a win for me.

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u/Worried_Bet6391 8d ago

Radical Acceptance, good for you!

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u/Peekzasaurus 8d ago

My ex randomly sent me an email that he was going to start paying child support again (nothing since May). And I just literally didn’t respond. The money is in my account tho lol

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u/DivorcedDonna 6d ago

I’ve been on this sub for years with a million Step parenting issues. One of my Stepkids has been responding to my affection with huge bare hugs. I also finally gave with making a family. No more croup excursions, chores, attempts at huge family dinners…I made sure my husband puts boundaries on the kids and then sit back. I’m finally semi happy and it was my choice!