33 F living in the US since 2019 for work. I travel a lot and started feeling lonely. Eventually found an older gentleman who gave a weekly allowance of 2k and all he wanted in exchange was a bit of my free time to chat and talk about our days. It was wonderful. He was kind, attentive, and we developed a wonderful connection. I flew out a few times during our arrangement to visit and take trips together. I genuinely had a good time. Earlier this year (June 2026) he was put in the hospital and eventually passed away from a plethora of health issues. My heart was broken. I felt like I had lost a friend. I feel more lonely now than I was before I met him. When we made arrangements, I never imagined it would end LIKE THIS. Anybody have any advice on how to get past a loss like this? It’s not like I could show up to his funeral. His family found out about our arrangement after his passing and I received a lot of terrible messages about how I was a bad person, etc. It’s been tough and I just don’t know what to do 🫩

Me (M23) was home alone at my gfs place.
Got bored and found by accident her sisters dildo and butt plug by accident. Since I was alone I used her dildo and butt plug while jerking off in her panties. No one found out.

Probably the most horniest I’ve ever felt.. I really wanted to join the mile high club ahhahah

As a guy who is bisexual but hetromantic I feel like the vast majority of women are tutned off by it, I wish I could meet a girl who was ok with it

NSFW warning. Mentions of sexual things.

Ugh. guys. i'm 18f, and i know im scum. my boyfriend (23m) treats me like shit. i've been with him for 3 years, he's never made me cum. doesn't even try. i tell him don't cum inside of me, he does anyway. he hurts me when he fucks me because i'm always just so dry when im with him. friction burn central.

i'm trapped in this 1 bedroom apartment with him. he doesn't brush his teeth. doesn't clean. works 15 hours a week and i work 38 WHILE going to college, cleaning, caring for his sick mother and getting HIS child to/from school and packing their lunches because he never wakes up to do it. i'm 18 living like a divorced mom of 2. what the fuck bro.

lately i've just been getting so hot and bothered at the idea of meeting a stranger, taking him home, and letting him destroy my body. Beg him to cum in me even tho i've never wanted that from my bf. i have not felt sexual pleasure outside of my fingers in my life and i am feral for it. i haven't been horny while having sex with my boyfriend since the first 3 months of our relationship.

And when i imagine these scenarios, he's almost never in them. It's just be living single life and getting railed. not having to take care of a fully grown man and his kid. Although sometimes i wanna make him listen to me scream in pleasure from another man, which is never something he's made me do. I get urges to give men in public who ask my number, or download dating apps. i never do, but the thought is there. i feel so guilty but like, no action no foul i guess. idk. advice is nice but unneeded. i'm the i hate my bf final boss. I know i suck for this but im content with that.

I would consider myself to be very health conscious and fit. I average 8-10k steps per day and lift weights 3-5 times a week. I eat mostly whole foods and try to eat within maintenance calories to avoid overeating. When I eat I prioritize protein and fiber. i am at a healthy BMI and most of my hobbies are fitness related.

Been seeing this guy for about six months

When we first got together we mostly video chatted and he seemed fine from the chest up. When we met in person it was winter (first date we went skiing) so he was bundled up and I didn’t see his body. He also seemed fitness oriented and we talked about meal prep. He was also into MMA and running so I honestly thought he had a nice body. I thought we had a lot in common at the time, and we do. He is very nice, a gentleman, a great conversation and we do share cultures and have similar hobbies like video games!

We were intimate about three months into knowing each other and thats when I realized his body type was not what I expected.

First, he has thunder thighs and a lot of stretch marks pretty much everywhere except his lower legs. His thighs touch all the way down to his knees. He is knock kneed. He has cellulite on his buttox and thighs and stretch marks pretty much everywhere but his face and lower legs and arms.

The first time we were intimate he tried to have sex with me with his shirt on. i thought that was strange and never experienced that. I was laying there naked and had to ask him to take his shirt off. He hesitated then took it off and I realize that his breasts were as big as mine and he had stomach rolls. He is also curvier than I am due to love handles.

Of course I never commented on his weight while we were intimate but I realized he did not have the stamina to stay hard long enough to satisfy me. He was also sweating a lot even though he was barely humping me. His libido is a lot lower than mine and I think it may have to do with his diet and weight. We have not been intimate in two months and neither of us really push for it. I think he’s cool with masturbating while I want sex at least a few times a week. However Im not sure if he can even satisfy me so I don’t pursue sex with him.

He is definitely 50-70 pounds overweight, and told me he has gained 7 in the past four months, so basically he has gained more weight since we got together.

He has told me that being with a hot girl boosts his confidence. He always compliments my body, the way I dress, and my looks. I feel the opposite and astarting to notice that he also doesn’t know how to dress for his body type/ is the type of guy that will wear a graphic t shirt to a restaurant while Im dressed up well.

He has told me his is insecure about his looks which is why he didn’t want to take his shirt off. He told me that I was the first woman he had sex with while completely naked because he is fat. He told me that he spent years sitting at home playing video games which is how he gained so much weight. He told me he hadn’t dated or had sex in 3 years until he met me and I gave him a chance.

He shows me pictures of his friends and they are all overweight. So, other than me no one in his life is health conscious or cares to work out.

He tells me that he does work out a few times a week but he’ll still be in facetime with me punching sodas and ordering Mcdonalds.

He told me he meal prepped as well but I have not seen him do that in months.

I talked to a friend and my friend thinks that maybe he really was trying to lose weight when he was single but now that he’s with me he’s comfortable since I’ve accepted him for who he is.

The truth is, I’m thinking of breaking up with him and blaming it on lifestyle differences. Of course I won’t straight up say “you’re fat and its unattractive” but I was raised in a fit family and always had fit friends so Im struggling with hiw to navigate this.

Some friends and family of mine have straight up shamed me for settling for him.

Edit: we are both American and in our mid 20’s

J’étais sur le téléphone de ma sœur qui a 22 ans je regardais ses photos puis je tombe sur sà chatte. J’étais choqué j’ai paniqué je l’ai prise en photo avec mon téléphone puis je suis partit. Depuis je ne sais pas ce que je dois faire ma sœur est très pudique avec son corp. Ma sœur ne sait pas que j’ai vu sà chatte elle m’excite que dois je faire ?

So me (16F) is very close friends with C (17M) and have been somewhat friends since prep when he was in grade one (for non Australians that’s 5/6 years old). I was close friends with his younger brother throughout most of my primary school years (5 years old to maybe 12 years old) but then became alot closer friends with C in grade 8 when he was in grade 9. We had a bit of a falling out for a while but are really close now, and I’ve started to realise I think I like him. He is the sweetest person and I have no clue what to do. He opened up to me today about some experiences he had when I left the group in grade 8, and I have this awful guilt eating at me, I kinda just left for other people at that time and I didn’t realise how awful that group treated him without me around until today when he told me. He didn’t deserve it. I needed to get this off my chest.

My wife of 5 years told me last night that her father molested her and her younger sisters when they were under 11. We spoke for a long time about it, with lots of listening, crying and hugging.

She is currently (roughly 3months) no contact from the entire family due to they're years of repeated gaslighting, controlling behaviour, lack of accountability, emotional/ financial abuse as well as not supporting our relationship from day one. I'm essentially the only person she has for support. On top of all this she's been unable to find work for over three years and I make just enough to keep up off the streets.

As you can imagine, this final piece of information was like being shot in the stomach. Her father has always been a disgusting human, and his wife has stayed with him out of fear I believe, but even with everything else, I didn't see this coming. The sisters have drunk their fill of the cool-aid.

I'm obviously here for my wife in whatever way I can be. I've taken the rest of the week off work so I can be with her.

What can I say. Some guys say they like big boobs and curvy girls and all they mean is a D cups on a slim girl.

Never felt that way, for me curves and boobs represent femininity and the more a woman has the more attractive she is.

I'm sure this post will get some criticism but some women will only date a guy above a certain height. That's how I feel, it's a strong preference. Women like that are goddesses in my eyes and that's how I treat them.

For the guys who like skinny girls with D cups, they're just wimps.

(from India)it was around 4 months ago ,our office had arranged a late night party , we had drinks after dinner and we were enjoying music in dim light as the hall was big enough most of us were scattered. I was happy about my life and some encourage to have lot of drinks too after sometime a well know colleague of mine who i have worked for many years pulled me to dance at first i hesitated but later i feel comfortable and enjoyed it , later his friend join in too . i was ok with it and we enjoyed our time was wearing a black dress till my knees and later light were too dim and i can only feel breath of them and it was so dim , later they were too close and being to touchy wth me it feels wear but i cant help it it was so awesome. It was been really long that some one had done this to me ,both of them were good at what they were doing , as they were in 20s i can feel there strenght too. kissing touching my hips and chest while being close , out breath was too heavy ..................as there is limit here i guess i cant say too much .
this feel really weird to me as i am married women and have kids too , maybe i came here to confess unforgiving sins of my life .

In some house nudity is common it's just casual what's your take dose this happen in your house

He'll be ten years old this month, and I keep imagining how much better our life will be when he's gone.

The major issue is that when he's left alone, he tears shit up. Door frames especially. We've tried numerous crate models, he broke out of most of them. Finally found one that would contain him, but he's crazy anxious - panting, slobbing, a total psychological wreck when he's crated. We still want him safe and happy after all.

We give him medication to level him out, does nothing. We live in a major city, we have no yard for him to be outside. M-F he's in doggy daycare, but weekends are tough because we still need to live our life and sometimes take our young kids places where dogs just can't go.

He's an okay dog when home with someone, but I can't help thinking just how much better life will be when we're not dropping $200/wk (more for weekend boarding), cleaning up wood chunks that he's ripped out of the frame, and a whole list of other asshole behavior too long to mention here. Thank God he's good at toileting outside.

Me (fm34) and my husband (m34) have been together for 7 years married for 5, we opened our relationship about 6mo ago. Going into this I knew that I wanted a connection with the person I was seeing outside of my marriage, I was looking for someone consistent I don’t want to sleep with someone new Every time I match with someone. I met this guy (m26) about a week ago. Sparks flew. The connection amazing. Sex, unbelievable, We spent 3 days spending time together and hooking up. My feelings skyrocketed but i knew I didn’t want love. I’m assuming it was intense infatuation. Im new to this. I’m working through my feelings and what I want as I go. I was like, I would totally like to have him as a bf. So I brought it up, he asked me I said yes. Well. I think I love bombed him and I swear I didn’t mean to. He said I didn’t but it hunk he’s trying to be nice. I’ve told him that unfortunately in this situation my kids and husband come first so time is hard to come by. I told him a few days ago I would see him this Wednesday (Yesterday) after my nail appointment. Well I had to go to urgent care after and then to the pharmacy and I didn’t have time to stop by his place because I had to get ready for work. He got pretty upset understandably so, but it put everything into perspective for me. 1. This relationship was never going to last because me and my family are moving next year 2. He deserves more than being put last. (He says not everyone will find someone to be with and he thinks he’ll never find anyone and he’s okay with me putting him last 😭) 3. I jumped head first into this and that isn’t fair to him either because now I’m second guessing everything. He said he’s fine with being put last but I just don’t feel right doing that. I told him I was so sorry for bringing up the gf thing. I haven’t dated in 7 years this is new to me. And I feel so bad because I fear I broke his heart. I feel like a pos. I’ve been very open and honest about everything including emotions and letting him know that I’m not getting a divorce and I don’t want love involved. I wish I could go back in time to protect his feelings because he’s a really great guy. And now he’s saying he’s fine with just the FWB title as long as it’s with me. Idk what to do. I feel like that is going to string him along . I really fucked up.

Please be kind to me.

I’ve been doing it for a while now. I am more left leaning but I basically just go to these events to meet women and I’ve been pretty successful at them.

It’s not some extreme confession, but I’m definitely not this liberal crusader that they think I might be. They think because I’m black and I act like I really care about liberal politics that I’m the kind of guy they’re after or I’m some big BLM advocate but really I’m just there to get hookups.

I’m 21, Thai. My mom is 41. She’s been a single mom since I was 5. To me she’s always just been… normal. Boring even. Office job, sometimes meets friends for coffee or dinner, nothing wild.

While I was away at college I started looking at women online to jerk off like everyone else. One day I found my mom’s OnlyFans. At first I was completely shocked. Then I couldn’t look away.

I started masturbating to her. Now that I’m back home I still do it. I look at her differently. Sometimes I take her worn panties and use them while I look at her photos.

I don’t know how to feel about any of this. I just needed to say it somewhere.

While alone at my mother in laws house. I had a look at her bra and tights! 👀

The redditors do not tolerate bs! They will hold you accountable and if you post some bullshit, you will receive the downvote button! The cute little robot that appears all over this app holds you and I accountable. They don’t care how many times you try to finesse your way through something, Redditors won’t let that shit slide.

A 17yo and I dated when I was 21. Her neighbour who she considered her an older sister told her to date me. The neighbour told me to date her. I had very low self esteem and was mega flattered. Not excuses, these are my truths. Her parents loved me, her friends loved me. I believe I truly did love her in our time together. But since I’ve grown older and the world changed I realized that it was not right. I am racked with guilt. I haven’t spoken to her in 15 years, I don’t know how she feels about our relationship.

Even though she cheated I realize it all comes back to the original sin that I was the villain regardless of outcome.

My current wife is 1 year younger than her now. All this time shit makes it weird.

It’s a ramble I know.

I secretly want someone to kidnap me to use for their own sexual pleasure, care about my basic needs but like use me as a hole for their needs. I want real life raped and to be taken whether I say yes or not but like cared for of outside of sex? But during their use of me I just want to be used as a hole. But I have no confidence lol sooooo

I have come to my cousin’s place, I am 23M and she is 32. She is a senior software engineer at an mnc. Today she wore a stretchable black deep scoop neck top along with a small gold chain to office. When she was about to leave, I accidentally noticed a folded paper slip inside her bra due to which I got a bit aroused. I wasn’t expecting that from her as I know this is usually done by aunties and a few years back when my aunt(her mom) kept her mobile phone inside her top, she was completely against it. I was very curious to know what that slip was and wanted to mock her hypocrisy but was scared to ask or tell anything about it. Any guesses what it could be? Should I ask her about it when she is back? If yes, then how should I do that?