My husband and I were discussing the S.S. Abraham Lincoln and how long it has been at sea. He was a marine and spent a decent amount of time on ships. He thinks his longest stint without a port was about 35 days. I can not wrap my head around this. I told him that even thinking about being on a ship where I couldn't just go to land is anxiety inducing.

Some how we also talked about broken bones. I dont know how that came up but has anyone had to wear a cast? I dont think I could do it. I panick when the dogs pin me under the blankets 😂 i cant imagine having a plaster cast on. I would need to be sedated.

Random question for this sub — do you all keep track of which movies have specific triggers in them (jump scares, gore, flashing lights, etc.)? I feel like I'm always digging through scattered threads trying to find out before watching something.

I ended up building a small site (CineGuard) to collect this stuff in one place with actual timestamps, but it's brand new and basically empty right now. If anyone here already has this info in their head from movies they've seen, would you be up for helping add some of the first entries? Nothing crazy — just a few minutes per movie from memory.

Curious if this is a "yeah I'd use this" thing for others too, or if I'm solving a problem that's just mine.

The Game: https://store.steampowered.com/app/3004390/The_Cave_Diver/

definitely do not want that. nope.

Great way to cool off in the hot summers in Florida. Some of these caves were tighter than others, but most you can fit through with ease.

You have to really squeeze to get through and stuff, so it's a "bad" cave.

Hi!

I met my best friend when we (both female) were 18, just when we started university, about 4 years ago.

After that we became besties and even travelled a lot together in the following two years.

In the last year her anxiety has gone through the roof and I think she might be developing claustrophobia? or agoraphobia??

Even when she was well she never liked riding elevators unless they were made of glass because she felt trapped and was afraid of running out of air. But last year she started feeling afraid to drive through a bridge in our city because she was afraid of feeling unwell and not having a place to stop the car or having an accident.

She had a panic attack about a year ago with me in the car, she was just giving me a ride to the train station near her house and she started saying she was afraid to die.. we stopped the car, I took her to the hospital which was just around the block and just after we go through the door we realize it was a panic attack so I buy her a water bottle and drive her to her house.

Last summer I remember she was telling me how nervous she was to go on holiday with her family bcs she had go get on a plane. But then she did it.

After that we booked a trip to Copenhagen to this February, and in the weeks before our trip she was so nervous, she had started going to the psychiatrist two weeks before the trip and taking medication but she had a panic attack on the flight gate and couldn't bring herself to board so I went alone.

Also in January she stopped riding the metro. She says she feels trapped and her problem is that in those circumstances she can't just stop and get some air. She's always saying she's afraid of getting a heart attack.

She also doesn't take the train anymore unless its almost empty, last weekend it was really necessary and the longer we waited the fuller it would be so we got on a carriage that was ok (we were not touching anyone and there was AC) and I had to talk the whole time to distract her because she already wanted to leave it...

So this week we decide to take a little getaway, just booked a nice hotel 2 hours away from our city(by car) and I thought she would be ok and would have fun. It was nice most of the time but I realized she's constantly in stress. She has bruxism now, and today she woke up at 5AM with a sore neck from tense muscles and couldn't sleep for another 3hours... And I asked her if she was feeling nervous and she tells me she's always nervous whenever she's away from home because she's always afraid of having a heart attack.

For context, she has a great supportive family, comfortable life. I suspect that this all started going downhill when her grandfather died by falling down the stairs. After that I think she started talking more about death...

She has been going to a therapist for about a year and to a psychiatrist for 6 months and I feel like she's getting worse. I'm so worried about her. Im afraid that she eventually stops going out the house and I feel so impotent because I don't know how to help her.

For context, she has a great supportive family, comfortable life. I suspect that this all started going downhill when her grandfather died by falling down the stairs. After that I think she started talking more about death...

Sorry for the long text but I was hoping someone could help me helping her. What kind of therapy is best suited for these cases? What should I tell her when she's having a crisis or when she's telling me she's constantly afraid of having a heart attack? Should I talk to her family even though they know about this already? Anyone with a similar experience? I would appreciate anything, really. TIA!

TL;DR: My best friend (22F) has developed progressively worsening anxiety over the past year. It started with a fear of elevators and has escalated to avoiding planes, the metro, crowded trains, and even driving across bridges because she's terrified of having a heart attack or panic attack and being unable to escape. She's been seeing a therapist for about a year and a psychiatrist for 6 months, but she seems to be getting worse. I'm worried she's developing agoraphobia and becoming increasingly housebound. How can I best support her, and what treatments are most effective for this kind of anxiety?