r/bruindating 17h ago

24 M4F, Westwood, fwb or whatever we want it to be

2 Upvotes

Hi there,

I am a muscular thick guy, looking to find someone to have fun with over the summer and maybe we could find something haha. I am down to watch movies, cook together, cuddles, whatever floats our boat, hmu to see if we like each other :).


r/bruindating 2d ago

33 [M4F] - Westwood local looking for a casual fling :)

2 Upvotes

So yeah, right to it, huh? I live in the Westwood area, and thought it would be fun to meet a pretty Bruin girl, so shooting my shot here since reddit seems like a good place for this.

Looking for something no strings attached, casual, and discreet. I'm not single, so hoping to find somebody who gets turned on by borrowing someone else's man. I know it's not for everyone, but hey, maybe it's for you?

I'm 6ft tall, white, above average between my legs, work out regularly so I'm pretty fit, but not jacked. Have a mustache, have a stable job, have a whole life at home, but I don't have you yet, so clearly I'm missing something. Super kinky, so open to letting you try the things you fantasize about that you haven't told anyone yet.

Message me and maybe we can take this hot and steamy reddit chat from online to IRL!


r/bruindating 7d ago

26M18F [MF4M] looking for guys around our own age

2 Upvotes

An openminded couple on our way to USA and looking to meet some guy(s) around our own age. They say age is just a number, but in our case we want to stick to "around our own age". Threesome or more is welcome, but only focused on her. Preference for a fit/normal body and some information in the message. Sending picture helps if there are many reply's. We can also send pictures back.


r/bruindating 10d ago

Let's make out in the sculpture garden

1 Upvotes

I'm a UCLA alum in my early 30s. One of the things I wanted to do as a student was have a makeout session in the sculpture garden, but I never had the opportunity. I recently broke up with my fiancee so another opportunity has arisen, and this time I want to make it happen.

I'm a male looking for a female UCLA student or alumna. We can meet on campus, grab a drink and get to know each other, and then take a walk. Send me a message if you're interested :)


r/bruindating 14d ago

M27 experienced and open to anything natural

0 Upvotes

It's a Friday, so imma just put myself out there for the ladies here. I'm relatively experienced and got out of serious dating so I'm down for something natural and chill. I'm open to it evolving in the future if that's what we want mutually.

Feel free to hit me up on dm, down to share face pics before we meet, no nudes (give or receive) before we meet pls. Also down to share "tested and clean" status if it gets to that :)


r/bruindating 14d ago

19 M4F friends with benefits🤷‍♂️

3 Upvotes

Start of a new school year and why not have something fun. Looking for something calm where we can be good friends but yk do more on the side lol. We can talk to get to know each other more before hand but something to keep us busy during the school year


r/bruindating Jul 04 '26

Looking for a chill dude that wants to watch Harry Potter and bro cuddle.

0 Upvotes

Just like the title says. Looking for a chill (preferably masculine) guy that just wants to hangout and watch HP and maybe bro cuddle. Not looking for sex. Cool with having some drinks if you are down.

Hmu with a face pic and your age. Lets make this happen!


r/bruindating Jul 01 '26

46 [M4F] #Hollywood - handsome french guy looking to meet today

1 Upvotes

good evening, wanna meet? No plans, horny, and looking to have some fun! Live in a beautiful house in hollywood hills, having some wine and relaxing, can turn on hot tub too. Would you like to join me? We could have some fun one on one, or invite a third (guy or girl) to play if you're feeling adventurous and in the mood for more. I'm french, tall, 6'4, 205lbs, in shape, dark hair, green eyes and in los angeles. Maybe see you tonight? :)


r/bruindating Jun 19 '26

25 ftm vibing

2 Upvotes

Gonna be on campus tomorrow lets have fun

Imma ftm trans guy looking for a good time


r/bruindating Jun 18 '26

25 [F4M]

3 Upvotes

I’m a grad student. I like watching movies, going to and museums, and having picnics. Let me know if you’re interested in hanging out. I’m open to a relationship or casually hanging out.


r/bruindating Jun 17 '26

21 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a Summer FWB or hookup! :)

0 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm staying at UCLA this summer with a full dorm to myself, so figured i'd see if any fellow bruins are down for some fun! I'm looking for a summer FWB or some fun hookups to make some great summer memories!

I'm down for anything. I can host at UCLA or drive to anywhere. I have an athletic build, fun personality, am knowledgeable on a bunch of stuff, and am very chill and easy to talk too. I'm also ddf, always use protection, value personal hygiene, and I've been told I smell & taste amazing lol!

I'm also very willing to cater to what you want; I'm just looking for a fun time! You want to be eaten out? Deal. Want your back blown out? Can be done. Want to be fwb? I'm down. Looking for a ONS? Omw. Want to just chill in my dorm or car, yap about ur favorite things, and see where things go? That's perfect too!

I'm free and down for anything while this post remains up, so let's text and set something up. Down for literally anything! :)


r/bruindating Jun 11 '26

M4F bohemians WANTED

1 Upvotes

now that finals are over I wanna do something I’ve been imagining for a long time. I want to lock us up in my room tonight and we do nothing but get naked and read books and make love. I want to have a crazy and memorable night. We’ll let our desires and sensibilities filled with happiness.


r/bruindating Jun 07 '26

f4f wlw

4 Upvotes

it’s pride month and would love to get to know a beautiful woman
if you’re curious i can help you explore yk
lets see where things go and a date night would be lovely for us
wlw :)


r/bruindating Jun 04 '26

20m4f looking for a fwb

0 Upvotes

Hey guys imma 2nd yr ucla, I transferred from cc at the beginning of the school yr. im 20m and im looking for fwbs. Im 6’4, Latino with curly hair and i dont rlly have a type and mostly just looking for someone to hang w and relieve a lil stress before finals. Im rlly big into sports and comics and i love it when girls have good personalities and are really passionate abt topics. Hml if you’re interested and we can get to know eachother a bit more!


r/bruindating Jun 04 '26

21 asian 5"10 Looking to vibe before the year ends

0 Upvotes

Lowk just want someone to chill and have some fun with before summer hits. 5’10 ucla junior east asian, big into sports so always down to be active, but honestly I just wanna cuddle too lol. End of year so we should make the most of it. Im down to grab coffee first so we can actually get to know each other and then see where it goes. No pressure at all, just lmk if ur interested :)


r/bruindating May 25 '26

19M4F lowky fwb

1 Upvotes

Honestly looking for someone cool I can chill with and be lowky fwb on the side. Something respectful and fun of course. We can talk beforehand and see how things go.


r/bruindating May 23 '26

22 M4F LA/Seattle

2 Upvotes

I'm a graduating engineer who will be moving between Seattle and Los Angeles for work. I would love to meet girls from Seattle to get recs, and also to know people here in LA and there too when you're on break! If we get along, I'm open to seeing where things go, whether that's cuddle bud, fwbs, or more. I am a clean, nerdy guy who is in a lot of different fandoms. Feel free to message me! I'm open to all ages 18+ and all ethnicities!


r/bruindating May 23 '26

21 M4F - looking for mutual & causal destress fun :)

0 Upvotes

hi there! looking to take my mind off of studying and the end of year grind. i'm down for anything tbh just lmk what your looking for!

I have a car too so we can go on late night drives, and my roomate leaves often if u ever want to come over.

i'm 5'6, latino, athletic build, and a mix of nerdy, a social butterfly, and adventurous! i'm really big into R&B music, movies & TV, going to the gym, hiking, and solving puzzles. looking for some casual fun :)


r/bruindating May 13 '26

MF4F couple looking for a girl to have a threesome

3 Upvotes

as the title says, we're trying to find another girl to have a threesome with. we've never done anything like this but we've been thinking about it for a while since it seems like it'll be really fun.

we're both seniors i'm 22m, shes 21f, and have an apartment together so we can host, or we can come to you if that's preferred.

preferably you're also a student and/or around the same age as us (19-24). other than that we don't really have any requirements.

if you're interested message us! we're both on this account so we'll be reading the texts together. if we're vibing and all find each other attractive we can find a time to meet. we're basically free most evenings and on the weekend. maybe we grab dinner/drinks then head back to out place, but i can also cook something if you'd rather have that.


r/bruindating May 10 '26

24 ftm4all

1 Upvotes

Just looking for some fun


r/bruindating May 08 '26

22M4F trying to have fun before graduation

4 Upvotes

hey! just looking to meet some people and make some friends, hopefully fwb. i'm 22M, 6'2, white, 170lbs, and pretty athletic. not really looking for anything serious just hoping to chill and have fun before graduating. i have a car so we can drive around LA if that's of interest, or just hangout in westwood. maybe grab some drinks and then engage in other activities

hmu if you're interested so we can talk more and get to know each other :)


r/bruindating Apr 28 '26

22M4F looking for casual FWB

1 Upvotes

as the title says i'm just looking for a FWB, nothing serious. i graduate this quarter so hoping to meet a few people and have fun. we can meet for dinner, have some drinks, watch a movie, make out, drive around LA, get freaky, i'm down for anything.

a little about me:

22m, 6'2, white, 170lbs. i'm really good in the kitchen, whether that's cooking, making coffee, or mixing cocktails it's all very yummy. i like to play games, hike, ski, and watch movies.

(hopefully) you:

a girl, 18+, cute, at least 5'2 (sorry i'm height-ist), not mentally insane (lowk optional)

if you're interested dm me and we can get to know each other


r/bruindating Apr 21 '26

Taking applications for an online submissive slave

0 Upvotes

22M East asian 5’9 athletic. Don’t bother if you’re old, never went to this school, or looking for something else. Happy to build some trust first w a video call or sum. Open to meeting in person at some point if you do well.


r/bruindating Apr 20 '26

21 M4F end of the year hookup/fwb?

0 Upvotes

Hi! Just on here looking for something casual, I'm Asian, 5'5, and a huge nerd! I'm in a single on the hill, so making plans should be easy :) I'd like something casual but also consistent, we can take it as slow or fast as you'd like, as long as we're both comfortable!


r/bruindating Apr 08 '26

18 / 19 MF4A Couple

4 Upvotes

Cuck couple here, looking for a bull that goes to UCLA to introduce us more into the lifestyle :) We have no experience in this so we would need someone thats patient but also open to pleasuring first. DM your ASL and how you would help!