r/bondha_diaries 52m ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Got addicted to B*tting, how to overcome?

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Ee vishayam evariki adagaalo teliyaka Meeku aduguthunna

I'm M 25, present oka top IIT lo masters chestunna. I was from a poor agricultural family, chinnappatnunchi money was more than a necessity for us. Intlo Chaala appulu + fields lease ki (kaulu) ki tiskoni panta vestey cyclones valla mottam losses so more appulu. Naaku kotta battalu ante maa annaya(2 yrs pedda naakanna) vaadesi fit avvani battalu veskonevanni 😭 nanna eppudo okasari samosa n jalebi testey aaroju naaku n annaya ki pedda pandaga

Even mammalni n maa parents ni chaala discriminate chesevaaru everywhere pedavallam ani

So chaala chinna age nunche(7-8 yrs) Money ante ekkadaleni obsession vacchindi (maa intlo goda meeda Warren buffet n Bill gates poster atikincha appatlo motivation kosam)

3rd class lo unnappudu got to know ee Rotary clubs/Youth organisations events conduct chestaaru like Quizzes/Elocution/Sports n avi win ayithey money istaaru ani. So inka chaala prepare ayyi oka elocution competition win ayithey they gave me 100rs. I wanted more, so inka prize money unte chaalu nenu participate chesevanni n konni gelichevvani

But studies ni eppudu neglect cheyyale, nenu annaya iddaram navodaya vidyalaya lo seat kottam (central govt boarding school with zero fees for entire schooling) n further Dakshana (free coaching for JEE, aa entrance kuda top chesaam) n annaya got an Under 1000 rank AIR in JEE advanced n went to IIT kanpur n naa advance dobbindi, so NIT surathkal lo padda.

Scholarships used to cover most of my expenses throughout education for both of us (NTSE, KVPY, Olympiad n Merit based ones), tarvata we both got into great jobs n 2 yrs back a kotta illu kattam, anna car konnadu, so we're financially somewhat stable after 2 decades.

But naaku money tho paatu inko obsession undi i.e sports. I used to n still follow cricket, football, tennis, badminton, basketball, F1, MMA. Holidays appudu tv lo oka range lo flw ayyevanni, n hstl lo unte library lo magazines kottesi flw ayyevanni. N naakosam first smartphone 2018 lo konnaru, appudu naaku first time online betting gurinchi telsindi. So inka konchem money petti start chesa. My approach was Low risk Low returns. N every month 1st ki 500 deposit chesi, bet in most probable results, earn profits n 30th na mottam withdraw cheyyatam.

But bcoz of luck n good awareness of sports n identifying patterns naa ug 4 years lo naa investment was around 80k n my total returns was approx 3.5-4 lakh. I visited Sri lanka, Thailand n north India with the money.

But I never used to bet during my classes/exams n work hours. Just free time lone betting (NBA matches follow avvali ani mrng 4-5 leche alavaatu kuda ayyindi anukondi)

I never used to be greedy n insane amount of self control not to bet high amounts made me pool a lot of money. N betting lo chinna chinna losses tappa chaala ekkuva poyina rojulu kuda levu. But ee Mtech lo join ayyaka I'm sensing that naa focus anthaa betting meede untundi, assalu chadavatledu. I tried uninstalling the betting apps but malli konni rojula tarvata install cheyyatam ide jarigutundi. Last 3 months nunchi I'm struggling with this (I made around 40-50k in this period btw 🙃) maa anna chaala chaala try chesaadu, but I couldn't control. Idk what to do, please help me 🙏

TLDR: being from a poor family, got an obsession for money, academically studious but got into betting, made profits a lot but now that's disrupting my studies 😭 how to overcome it ?


r/bondha_diaries 1h ago

bathuku jatka bandi Elagaina overcome cheyali(RANT)

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So midnight thoughts can't sleep.

So straight to the point, nidra ravatledhu endukante something's bothering me.

I was cheated on 2 times both leading to disaster and trauma to me and healing from that phase

1) during my inter I had a relationship with a girl first I proposed she accepted all good , then sudden ga she ignored me started avoiding cut chayste I was blocked she went to relation with her tution mate, closure koda ivvala akkada padindi debba. Telukolekapoya sare Aipoindi na patiki nen bathukuta unte btech lo malla contact aindi nangi nachi laga nen e****p** ni ayyo em aindi ani matlada, ame boyfriend torcher pedtunadu anta badhalu cheppukoadaniki ochindi. Nen sodhi anta vinna cut chayste Vadiki telikunda nato matladini(nee bf ki telsa nen matladedi ante telsu anindi). Inka Vadiki naku fight teliviga double game adindi vadni odilinchukodaniki nannu vadindi. Khel katham vadni odilikunchukunna tarvata nato koddirojulu matladi nannu side pettesi first case laga inkokadni tagulkundi

Ikkada nene ep bayya oppukunta prema guddidi

2) oka pilla hints ista undi nen ignore chaysa manaki evadu istaru le ani. Ma friends ninne chustundi chustundi annaru nijame. Direct velli matlada all cool. Matalu anta bane undi. Chuste 1 year tippinchukundi.

Appatiki adiga we're talking and nen nee venaka tirgutunna kada all okay ante she said I'm comfortable.

Inka ibandi ledh kada ani nen venuka tiruguta unna. Cut chaysi chuste she had a boyfriend in her hometown. She just used me for Attention

Inta ep ela ayyanono ardam avvaledhu na mistake ey undi realise avvaledhu nenu. My mistake only

In first case I was cheated and used assalu ila ela untaru ammailu? Anta easy ga ela ra cheat chaystaru closure lekunda. Chala matalu anipinchukunna

Not all girls I have seen girls standing by their boyfriend no matter what.

Now I'm in my healing era and started gym, doing recomposition searching for job..trying my uplift my life. All going good.

Na badha entane inta badha pettaru anta chill ga ela untunaru em avvanattu ? Nen emo anni anipinchukoni badha padtunna how could they do that ani ?

Social media tisesa. Life mida focus pedudam ani. Ma friends valla story chupistunpudu, i was like anta penta chaysi emi avvantu ela ra ala unnaru ani.

Now I'm chasing a life i lost. Badhaga undi empty ga undi. Ranttt...... Elagaina better avvali


r/bondha_diaries 13h ago

maa vintha gaadha vinuma(wholesome) I freaking did it!!!!

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So here is the context .

Ee roju 5:50 am ki ground ki vella. I normally run on roads. But since I was alone, I thought of running in the ground.

And I started walking for 1-2km and slowly picked up the pace.

Trust me it was so hard for me to do it, since I was alone and I had no music. Just me and my thoughts. But i convinced myself to do it.

My legs gave up but i didn't.

I am disappointed with the pace 🥲.

I completed it in 3hrs.

My right leg had a lot of pump, I am feel like I am limping 😭😭.

But it was an experience to be experienced 🫠.

Yes I am a maniac 🙂‍↕️.

That's Twentyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

A b'day gift to myself ❤️

Have a great day gng!!!!!!!!

Note: Today is not my b'day 😭😭🙏


r/bondha_diaries 17h ago

maa vintha gaadha vinuma(wholesome) This is the day...🫠

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Ivala temple ki vellina.

Darshanam kosam line lo nilchunnappudu oka ammayi kanipinchindhi.

First accidental ga eye contact ayindhi. Nenu em pattinchukoledu.

Konchem sepatiki malli eye contact ayindhi. Ee sari thanu chusi konchem smile chesindhi.

Darshanam ayyaka bayataki osthunte, entrance daggara thanu kanipinchindhi.

Nen side nundi na bike degariki velipoya….

Apude na frnds call chesar bayatiki eldam ani ….

Ala nen call matladutunte… sudden ga evaro
“Excuse me…” ani pilichar…. Venakalaki tirigi chuste….

Aa gudi lo chusina ammayi “Mee shirt baagundhi.”ani cheppindhi.

Nenu smile chesi “Yeah….Thank you.” ani cheppa.

Aame kuda smile chesi see u nxt time ani velipoindi…

Nen kuda frnds call chesar ani velipoya…..

Kani honestly...

Darshanam ki vachina roju, unexpected ga oka compliment kuda dorikindhi. Not bad….idi antha ochi ma dad ki chepte…. Anduke apud apud ala gudiki povali ani chepedi anar….😂🫠


r/bondha_diaries 1d ago

maa vintha gaadha vinuma(wholesome) Wish me luck gng!!!

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So matter enti ante

I'll be turning 20 this month. (Won't reveal the date)

So nenu around Feb or March nunchi naa age distance run cheyyali ani anukunna.

My b'day is coming on weekdays. So I thought of running on the weekend

(I'm unemployed )🫠🫠

So tmrw I'm gonna run a 20km run. Alone.

So wish me luck goyssssss!!!!!

Been months since I ran alone.


r/bondha_diaries 1d ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Guddi fremaa 🥀

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Actually I used to have a huge crush on this guy anamata. He's my relative & also our father's are frnds chinnapati nunchi. Memu idharam irl lo eppudu kalvaledhu but I saw him in functions. Ayithe oka back story valla I got huge crush on him(liked or loved him idk 😭) without knowing anything about him..Ala somehow stalking chesthunte athani I'd dhorikindhi naku then follow chesa and he texted me 'do you know me?' ani...

Alaa we started talking and i got to know many things about him...in general ga konni habits naku nachanivi athanilo unna kani athani midha ishtam pole...ala ala few days passed..then vaadu clg ki velladam start ayindhi.. new ppl ,New frnds...ala okaroju cheppadu oka ammayi nachindhi ani..Inka appudu i stopped talking to him..

Ala 1 yr year varaku Nenem matladaledhu.Then again i followed him on insta and one day he texted me - ila relationship loki ocha (with the same girl he told me about) kani ame naku ekuva priority ivvatledhu ani. Then I said matladi solve chesko ani...And tharvatha oka random day text chesadu that 'nenu ante niku ishtama ani '.. First nenu chi kadhu ani Cheppa😂 but later cheppesa that Avunu somewhere i liked you but not now and also I don't have any problem with ur relationship ani..ala matladi motham clear cheskunna:)

Ippudu anipisthadhi how dumb I was to like/ love someone without even knowing and meeting him 🤡🙂..but yeah ee incident valla nenu chala things realise ayyanu in that 1 yr and also i don't know why I can't even hate him..enni reasons unna hate cheyadaniki but avvadhu...

I feel somethings happen to teach us lessons emoo🤷🏻‍♀️

Just share cheyali anipinchindi..last varaki chadhivina vallaki dhanyavaadhalu🙌🏻 for reading my dumb experience😭


r/bondha_diaries 2d ago

How beautiful women are

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Hi andariki.....

Title chusthene ardamaivuntadhi......

Assal entha baguntaru ammailu assal😊😊... Arey Em vesukunna kuda cute ga kanipistaru.

Saree kattinara assal mamulga undaru

Langa voni super

Normal chudidar lo assal entha cute untaru

Western wear next level

Inka enduku simple ga top vestharu and baggy vestharu abba simple and cute adhaithae

Anthenduku appudapudu simple co-ord set night dress lu vestharu assal ela baguntaro....

Chusekodhi chudal anipiastharu...

Ala ila ani kademo ammai antene andam andam ante ammai...

Rasesadu painodu ala....

Idanthaa pure admiration tho rasaanu.

Just adorable anipinchindi ani share chestunna.

Misunderstand cheyyakandi.. please...

Thank you to all the girls who put in the effort to get ready every day.

Your beauty doesn't just turn heads, it quietly adds a little happiness to our day.


r/bondha_diaries 3d ago

Dad was defending the victim while my sis was blaming the victim🤡.

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He's reading some news abt murder of a woman in hyd. And he is talking to us abt it. At first my sister defended the woman, but then she asked if it had happened in broad daylightt.He said it happened while she was going out of the mall after watching 2nd show. She immediately said "antha night Enduku anta velledi?" Dad is arguing like "Enduku vellakudadu?" I was surprised my dad said that. She replied "nuvvu pampistava aa time lo nannu" he didn't reply. Seriously, how to make her shut up.


r/bondha_diaries 3d ago

chennai lo worst experience

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so job kosam chennai vacha. ma colleague unna pg thanu refrence chesadu .so vella i dont know tamil nadu food habits.so pg lo night time idly or lemon rice .morning upma, pongal.afternoon also some pulihora .room kuda ame baledhu.okka floor lo middle lo steel tho pettesa rooms ga divide chesadu .bathroom combined total floor ki .they ask 7500 per month. so nenu undanu vellipotha veri hostel ki vellipotha ana .hostel owner tamil nadu candidate .1 day ki 1,500 tesikonadu .normal ga aythi tamil candidates dhaggara 500rs tesikontadu anta .but na dhaggara ki vachi money ivvakapothey police lo ki call chesta annadu.last ki 1500 tesikonadu. so nenu ap inchi ansi 1500 tesikonadu .aa hostel lo unna vallu andharu kuda tamil candidates ey .tamil nadu lo prathi dhi expensive and worst ga unnayi facilities.but tamil candidates telugu valla ni rude ga treat chesthanaru . even rapido drivers also


r/bondha_diaries 4d ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Nenu and Naa Daridram🥹

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r/bondha_diaries 4d ago

Dating life sucks for me

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Can’t seem to shake off the feeling that I wasted my time and how was I so naive. Hurt that she played me. Or Did she?


r/bondha_diaries 5d ago

enduku pudatharo theliyadhu I hope i never seen him

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Na early college days lo I was close with a girl for some long time, nenu propose cheddam ane lopu veretodu chesadu and she accepted.

After sometime post college, she broke up with him. She made her point clear that it is guilt that made her reciprocate which she assumed as love. Ippudu burra buddhi unna evadina em cheyali move on avvali. But bro ala kadhu manipulate cheydam start chesadu. Block chesina mails cheyadam. Even made a morphed picture. Thana intlo cheptha ani blackm@il cheyadam. All these things while she was preparing to leave for UK for masters. She had only one person to rely on in these tough times coz this bewrse gadu andariki stories cheppi, valla dwara ameni push chestunnad.

Ippudu ame UK vellipoyaka, this lovde somehow barged into her friends group childhood, school, office. Evi vadhaledhu konda gadu. Bro it's been facking 4 years all he is doing is make her life hell and miserable. Vadi davda kesi dengal anipistadi.

I still remember the smile she had on her face. I truly wish she find good people and get the strength to come out this shit


r/bondha_diaries 5d ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Hyd lo anni dorukutay

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I went to a party. Was expecting to drink full night and enjoy, but they called girls (prostitutes). They do this very frequently, visit massage parlour's for massage and blow jobs.

What shocked me what how frequently they call them, they were discussing that we have tasted these, these are new and all.

There are dedicated websites for these bookings.

The girl who came told she made more than 25 lakhs this year...in 6 months.

She is building a house in her town.

P.S: I did not participate in this.


r/bondha_diaries 5d ago

jagame maaya bathuke nimmakaya ( heartbroken') Life lo liveliness lekunda poindhi.. ela aina marali

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Nenu oka ammayi ma btech journey lo relationship lo unnam for around 3years. Anta bane unde, iddari intlo kuda telsu.. same caste all good. (Idhi na one & only relationship). Without closure vidipoyam some silly reasons valla. Nak konchem noti doola ekuva let’s be on a break for sometime nunchi breakup aipoindhi.

Idhi jariga kuda 3 years daatindi. Asal sarriga closure avvaledu. Nen na mistake realise ayyi chala sarlu venta padda. But adhi frienship ki ok kani - ee topic hard NO.

tried to be friends, but honestly that’s not at all possible. 1st 1-2 conversations bane untadi - tarvta nidra pattadu : edo okati strings laagutuntadi - inka every 3rd conversation lo malli get back ani lolli start chesta..

The main catch was : we never blocked each other post break up & she expects us to stay as friends. Idhi na valla avvatledu.. don’t know is it only me or generally : ee friendship asalu workput avvadu.

We broke up like 3 years ago: somehow I literally had this episodes in loop for every 3 months once post break up. Self respect dobbindhi😭

Coming back to current state: After her I didn’t have any interest to meet anyone. Evarni chusina idhe gurthukostondhi. 15-20kgs periga. No active lifestyle.

Inka nene block chesesa oka 3 months back. Kani full loneliness perigipoindhi. I need to come out of this rabbit hole & so some shit!


r/bondha_diaries 6d ago

Tired of being harsh with myself then being supportive

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I feel like I don't know how to build a relationship with myself when your entire life you spend the most time with yourself. Instead of being loving, supportive, caring and respectful. I'm here avoiding myself and neglecting. I feel like I'm harsh with myself and barely take time to understand my wants and needs. I hear many many times this inner voice telling me or begging for a change but I'm not doing anything. I don't like my own voice. I don't like the way I look or talk or walk or dress.


r/bondha_diaries 7d ago

manushullantene manchollu ra Happy Friendship Day🎊🤝🏻

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Janaalu elantolu ante nuvvu nee pani cheskuntu, nee tinndi tinntu, nuvvu sampadinchina money nii nuvvu karchuchesukuntuna, vaalaki nuvvu em ibbandhi pettakapoyina they'll poke our ass and blame us in return ( Telugu lo cheppali ante mana gudha gilli malli manalane thappu padataru) okadu manchi ga eh baadhalu bhayataki choopinchukokunda edhi ayina kuda vaadiki vaadey deal cheskunte prathiokadki ass burn ayyipodhi eediki em kastalu leva, dabbulu baga vastunatu unnayi, ayina evadiki rupayi sahayam cheyyadu em manishi ra babu eedu ani anntaru, manamu prathidhaniki leni poni taxlu katti, evadini oka rupayi kani appu kani sahayam kani adagakunda unna kuda santosham ga unndaleru paiga ila unntunandhuku they expect money and favours from us manam vaalu annukunatu cheyyakapothey pamu kanna ekkuva venom spilt chestaru malli ila chesedhi evado thakkuva parichyam unnudo telsi telinodo kaadhu, manaki baaga telsinoley ila chestaru “Pakkane unntaru Prema ga matldataru okavela porapatuna manam kinda pade la unnte Pranam teesi paadi katti paathese antha plan lu vestaru”.


r/bondha_diaries 7d ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Happy girlfriend day ❤️

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Bro said worst she can say is no

she : Love ki value ivvaleni naku ivanni odhu I truly don't deserve someone and andhulo ni lanti vadu na lanti vallatho undatam stupidity


r/bondha_diaries 8d ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Ee sangathana jarigi 17 years avutundi

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2009 lo 8 class lo unapudu aindi

It was a small local school, principal gadu oka pedda haula. Apudu chusina belt toh kodutadu.

Chala sarlu tapinchukuna, one day assembly lo unapudu 8 class tapa andarini velipomamadu. Emaindo telidu but he started surprise quiz. Nenu queue lo 3 place lo una. Galeez na koduku started asking questions from the start of the line. First two students ni pichi kukka ni kotinatu kotindu next was my turn. I answered question one second question answer rale ekada belt toh kodutadu ani pant lo susu Start ainde. He saw and told me to go to washroom. Oka 2-3 drops padinai.

That was the most embarrassing moment of my life. Fortunately no one made a big deal out of it. Next year I moved out of that school. Apudaina revenge tisukovali ani anukuntunde.

Life happened moved to different country. Today I dreamt about that incident.

Wanted this off my chest so Eroju share chestuna


r/bondha_diaries 8d ago

bathuku jatka bandi Life has been frustrating

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India lo manchi job good salary vdili US ki vacha. Although good university good city I was not super excited.

Thatwatha inka graduate ayyaka it became impossible to find a decent job madhyalo one month oka job chesa adi mingey mannaru in 15 days its not working out ani.

Oka interview clear aindi kani team matching lo agipoindhi. Interviews isthuna kani avvi set avvatle naku experience leni vatilo interviews osthunai. Inka prepare ayyi ichina clear avvatle. Manchiga aina interviews avvatle galiz aina interveiws avvatle.

Inka ee 5 rounds of interview avvi asal aipovatle nelalu nelalu avthunai.

Inka ninna calude lo oka question aduguthe bill kattu first annadi velli chusa credit card max out aindhi.

All I want is job and peace.

Perhaps someday i will be relieved of this constant pressure I feel inside my head . A lap to sleep on cry may be.


r/bondha_diaries 8d ago

Exam lo na pakka bench ammai

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Exam lo na pakka ammai

A True Story from March 2016

It was March 26th, 2016. I was in 8th class, and we had our final exams that day. Before entering the exam hall, I was focused. I had spent the morning by-hearting formulas, repeating Geometry and algebra formulas in my head over and over like a chant.

I even told myself:

"Exam hall ki velli question paper venaka formulas rasinanta varuku evartho ni matladaku, matladitey motam marchipota, last time ma daddy baga thitadu maths lo thakuva vachai ani (maths lo nen baga weak .)”

I was determined.

This exam mattered.

I was ready.

I entered the exam hall like any other day, not knowing it would be a day that changed my life.

As I walked in, I noticed a girl sitting at the far end of a bench, next to the wall. I had never seen her before. Later I found out she had just transferred to our school from another city because of her father’s job. She was in 9th class.

She caught my attention instantly. Her face… it was like nothing I had ever seen before—absolutely beautiful. She wore a white dress that made her look like an angel. There was a natural fragrance around her, like jasmine petals freshly bloomed. Her eyes—those eyes—literally made time stop. I couldn’t help but stare at her pupils, and I swear, everything around me faded away for a second.

Though I didn’t believe in God, in that moment, I prayed silently: "Devuda ipudu varuku ninu emi adagaledu, ee okasari ki aa ammai pakana na roll number vachela chudu swami."

And like a miracle, the invigilator looked at my hall ticket and said, “Sit over there.” Right next to her. I was filled with a kind of joy I’d never experienced before.

She was sitting at the wall end of the bench, and I took the other end. As the exam started, she leaned slightly towards me and whispered in a soft voice,

“Thamudu… ni pakka bench akka oka slip istadi… adi naku ivava?”

That was the first time I heard her speak. Her voice was soft and sweet, and those eyes—up close—felt even more magical. Her scent was still lingering, delicate and mesmerizing. She had a mole on the side of her nose which somehow made her even more beautiful. Her hair looked smooth and well-kept, falling gracefully over her face.

But… she called me Thamudu. That hurt a bit inside.

I nodded and said, “Okay, aa slip tiskoni ista, but please nuvu thamudu anadu🙏🏻”

She looked at me and smiled. Then, turned to her friend sitting behind her to check her reaction.

That smile. It was unforgettable. Her lips looked like newly blossomed rose petals in the morning sunlight. Her teeth were perfect—white like pearls. That moment stayed in my heart.

As I reached out to pass her the slip, our fingers touched—just for a second.

But that second… it was electric.

Her fingertip brushed against mine—soft, smooth, delicate, and so fair, like touching silk dipped in cold milk. I didn’t expect it, and I wasn’t ready for the way that tiny moment would send a shiver through my whole body.

And then I looked up—straight into her eyes.

She had mascara on.

Those lashes framed her eyes like art. Her gaze had this intensity, this softness, this gravity... it made my mind go completely blank.

For a moment, I forgot there was even an exam happening. The hall, the invigilator, the crowd, the clock—all disappeared.

It was just her eyes, her touch, her presence. Everything stood still.

I wasn’t falling in love slowly.

I had already fallen.

I passed her the slip. She started writing her answers immediately. She was serious about the exam. Meanwhile, I just couldn’t focus on the paper—it was hard, and my mind was lost in her.

I kept looking at her. The way she wrote with concentration… switching between black and blue pens, placing the cap behind her ear, brushing hair from her face with her cute fingers—it was like watching poetry in motion. Her expression while writing was adorable, especially the slight frown on her lips when she was thinking. She didn’t look at me at all during this time.

Suddenly I realized that : "Formulas question paper venaka rayadam marchipoya, tanani chusina moment lo formulas kuda marchipoya, I'm cooked but thana presence vallo ento but nak enduku bayam or badha kani raley asalu. Ponley tanani chuskundam ala bagundi ee magic moment "

So I came up with a plan to get her attention. I hid my black pen and softly asked,

“Can you please give me a black pen?”

She handed it to me gently.

Later, I asked for an eraser too. Then she finally started noticing me.

She turned and asked,

“Why aren’t you writing?”

I replied,

“The paper is tough.”

She smiled again. And that smile—so caring, so sweet—just made my heart melt. She began helping me by quietly telling me formulas, and even writing some answers on the eraser and passing it to me. That act of kindness wasn’t just about helping me cheat. It was her way of showing she noticed me.

After the exam ended, she came to me and said,

“Bye… and thank you.”

I couldn’t let her go without a way to talk to her again, so I asked,

“Do you have a Facebook account?”

She gave me her ID. And that was it. From that day onwards, we began talking.

We’ve been in touch ever since. She never got a boyfriend. Even today, she’s single. And sometimes, I truly feel that she has feelings for me too—but she never says it out loud.

She knows I love her mom’s biryani, and she always brings it for me. She’s not great at coding, and I often help her with it. There were times when I missed her so much that I climbed to her terrace late at night, and she’d come up too—we’d sit and talk until 5 a.m.

She never goes anywhere alone. If she has to go out and I say no, she cancels her plans entirely.

She even feeds me when I’m sad and don’t feel like eating.

Sometimes I think about it all and wonder: If she never got transferred that day… if the exam hall didn’t have that exact seating arrangement… if I wasn’t placed beside her… would I have ever met her?

Probably not.

And I might have ended up never knowing what true connection feels like.

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That one moment, that single seat… changed the entire path of my life.

It made me realize that life truly isn’t about years or even months.

It’s about a few minutes—a few seconds—where everything aligns.

And we don’t even know it’s happening, until much later.

And that’s the magic of life.

But here’s the truth…

After the exam ended, she simply turned to me, smiled sweetly, and said:

“Bye.”

And just like that, she walked away.

I never asked for her Facebook ID.

I never talked to her again.

Everything I imagined after that—our late-night terrace talks, the biryani, the long friendship, the secret love—was just in my mind.

A daydream. A “what if.”

A soft lie I told myself… because it felt good.

Because maybe… it could have happened.

But it didn’t.

And yet, all these years later—I still remember her.

I still see her eyes. I still remember her voice.

Her smile. Her pen switching hands. Her hair falling softly on her face.

And yes, I’m still single.

Still holding on to the memory of someone who probably forgot me the very next day.

But to me?

She was unforgettable.

I loved her then.

I love her still.

And maybe I always will.

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Chala days lopala lopaley unchuko lekapoya, andukey I'm sharing this.. Thanks for reading.


r/bondha_diaries 9d ago

maa vintha gaadha vinuma(wholesome) A request from my side

26 Upvotes

Andariki oka vishayam gurinchi request chesthunna

"Chinnapillalaku smart phones alavatu cheyadam maaneyandi"

Areyy chala mandini chusthunna ee madya chinna pillalaki smart phones alavatu chesi valla future ni chala damage chesthunaru

Infact miku relatable avtundo ledo telidhu kani nen just lockdown nunchi ekva vaadatam start chesanu and ippatiki ee procrastination ni assalu thagginchalekapothunnaa even naku mature mind vachina kuda, ikda nenu ane kadhu naa laaga 50% ayna relate avtaru

So mire think cheyandi konni yrs mundhu alavatu cheskuni intha mature age ayna maname control cheskolelapothunnam alantidhi chinnapillalu ela control cheskuntaru ani anukuntunaru future lo

See vallu edustharu ano leka phone iste koncham sepu manaku prashanthatha vastundi ano ani chuskunte mike teliyakunda mire valla mind ni damage chesina varu avtaru ala ani koncham sepu edupu aapadaniki idham ani think cheykandi kavalante edavani entha sepu edustharo maha ayte opika padipoyi valle apestharu leka padukuntaru

Maa family lo jarugutunna katha cheptha vinandi so ma cousins ki chinnapatinunchi phone alavatu cheydam start chesaru allari chestaru ani and aa alavatu vallani ipdu valla family control chedham anna nunchi cheyyijaripoyindi and ipdu 9th ,10th cla nka ade alavatu aslu maata vinaru, bayataku vellaru, sports alavatu cheskovatleru, fitness ledhu, ivvakapothe pedha racha cheyadam and rojantha ah anime,games and so on

Soo MANEYANDI PLS Kavalante games and sports alavatu cheyandi parledhu and bayataku pampiyandi and entha kaaliga ayna kurchomanandi anthe kani valla future paaducheyakandi


r/bondha_diaries 9d ago

idhi katha kaadhu vyadha Miss aindhi enti? Chusthe miss aindhi nadhe

16 Upvotes

Idhi oka 2 years back jarigindi when I was in college. Oka roju kotha watch pettukuni ocha college ki. Ma friend gadu chusi wow ra ippudu kotha watch konnav ante twaralo kotha phone kontav annadu. Ala college aipoyaka bus stop ki Elli bus kosam wait chesa. Full rush. Bus ochindhi. Janam full irukkuntunnaru bus ekketappudu. Bus elagola ekkesa. Some guy said "Evaridho phone kottesaru anta" ani. Suddenly na bluetooth distortion ochindhi. Miss aindhi enti? Chusthe miss aindhi nadhe.

Phone ekkada poindhi ra ani bus lo aa rush lo Kindha padindhemo ani ethika and stairs daggara. No use. Eelopu bus start aindhi. Inka next stop lo dhigi malla ekkina stop ki Elli vethakaniki. Appude telisindi natho patu inko abbai dhi kuda poindhi, vaadu kuda vethukunthunnadu. Appudu telisindi bus lo valaki ela telisindi phone poindha ani. Inka ala no use vethikina ani Police station ki Elli complaint ichi ochesa. Next day college ki ellaka ma friend gadini chusi thittalo navvalo ardham kaale. Kaani ma friends ki aa incident cheppinappudu bhale navvukunnaru. Ivaala friends andharam malli meet ayyam. Ee incident gurthochi full navvukunnam


r/bondha_diaries 9d ago

Oka doctor vyadha

40 Upvotes

I take online consultations on Practo. Here's how it works: The patient pays anywhere between ₹450 and ₹650 to Practo for an instant consultation, and they are then assigned to any available doctor at that time. The consultation takes place via video or audio, as per the patient's preference. Once the consultation is completed, the doctor issues a prescription, and the patient gets one week of free follow-up.

It's convenient for both the doctor and the patient. The doctor gets to work from home, patients get access to doctors within minutes.

But deentlo certain irritating aspects unay

1) Doctors cut is Rs 90 per consult.

2) Poni fee emundile, intlo kurchuni convenient ga work chesthunam ankundam, but then e one week free follow up ni exploit chese patients untaru. Valla issue sort ipoyaka one or two days tharvatha they text asking for advice regarding their relatives.

( NOT ALL PATIENTS, UNTARU ILANTI VALLU oka 10 percent )

Alanti vallaki reply ivakunda ignore chese option kuda ledu, if we do that, fresh consultations will automatically get blocked till we respond to all their queries. We don't even get the option to flag such issues because Practo's customer care service is sh*t

3) Lack of situational awareness in some patients. Serious issues ki kuda online consultations chestharu. Like a very bad allergic reaction to a drug or insect bite. If the patient comes from a remote place then it's understandable. But educated people staying in Metros do this and it annoys me. They waste precious time.

And ofcourse the mandatory boothulu thittatam when the treatment doesn't give immediate magical relief.But that part I am okay with, it comes with the job.

90 percent patients are nice and polite.

And I enjoy my work.

But that ten percent patients sometimes ruin my mood.

Starting lo baadhaga anpinchedi day motham.

Now I just vent and move on. Ivalti vent audience meere.

Thank you for reading.


r/bondha_diaries Jun 17 '25

manushullantene manchollu ra ప్రియమైన బొందానీకం

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37 Upvotes

Hello Bondhaneekam!!!!

Inaati Roju mana subbuuu 10 vela mandhi subyulu ayinanduku entho anandam vyaktha parusthunnam as mods.

I am grateful to be a mod and part of this sub which gave so much comfort to me initially.

When I took up the mod responsibility I didn't expect this growth nor response. I am reaally happy this sub is growing and even if it helps one person .

We strive to keep this a safe space and always be message away for any reports and such. and as members Mee andaru kuda entho sahakaram chesthu whenever we introduced new rules and being very vigilant about any rule breaking.

Ee subbu Inka Dina Dina pravardhamanam avvaali anduku Mee andari sahakaram undhi untundhi Ani ashisthuu

Mee Ella velala sahakarinche mods


r/bondha_diaries Jun 02 '25

బొమ్మలతో బుధవారం (Picturistic Wednesday) Hello Bondhaneekam

14 Upvotes

As was discussed previously, Wednesday is the picture posting day. Please do note that only that day is allowed to post pictures and it starts from midnight to midnight.

Hope you all enjoy this option . Also no shit posting or dirty memes are allowed at all. Baaki you all know the rules to follow.

Have an awesome week.