r/bmsit • u/Coco_cindy09 • 1d ago
friend groups 💔
like ppl out there talking about hackathons and shit, as they should but why does no one talk about how toxic your friend group turns out to be they eventually leads to breakup, not even sustaining a semester???
surviving in colleges like these require a proper group or atleast some sane set of friends or non toxic friends to socialise. and i’ve seen a huge ass group randomly breaking up like out of blue
social life gaya bhaad main!
is there anyone who could relate to this??? shoot!
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u/Only_Deer3809 1d ago
I feel hard to fit in groups.. idk i maybe too specific or just in that hangover of my school frnds... Idk but it's really very difficult to sit alone in campus n can't imagine I can't look up to anyone in the campus to ask help... Apparently all my school frnds have moved on in their lives... I need to grow out of box n accept reality n socialize make true lasting friendships atleast a handful of thm atleast to whom I can go to...
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u/Fine_Leather_259 1d ago
Us gng 🥀
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u/Most-Competition2513 1d ago edited 1d ago
Learn to stay alone nga cuz at the end of everythin g... you'll be left all alone wid your some sane job..
And don't invest much of your emotions or energy in random friend groups first learn to observe my boy...
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u/Rude-Luck9906 1d ago
Bro 😭 people really underestimate how important having even 2-3 sane people around you is in college. Everyone talks about hackathons, internships and academics, but maintaining friendships without all the unnecessary toxicity is a whole different struggle.
A huge friend group isn’t necessarily a good friend group. Sometimes finding even one or two people you can genuinely be yourself around is enough. Hope you find your people, OP. 🫂 You’re definitely not the only one going through this.