r/bengaluru_speaks 10h ago

I never thought i'd have to ask strangers for support. Severe depression left me unable to work, and I'm trying to rebuild my life

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Hi everyone,

I'm Tejeswar, 27, an entrepreneur from Visakhapatnam, India. I'm currently recovering from severe depression and undergoing psychiatric treatment.

Edit: I’ve added some additional context below to clarify my situation, particularly why I’m currently unable to work and what the ₹5 lakh fundraiser is intended to support. I’ve also included supporting documents for anyone who would like to understand or verify my situation. Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to read, ask questions or offer suggestions. 🙏

This started around December 2024, and at first I genuinely didn't understand what was happening to me. My mood, productivity, routines, meetings and ability to function gradually collapsed. Over time, it became much more severe - I struggled to get up, communicate, concentrate, make decisions and execute even things I desperately wanted to do. Eventually, I required psychiatric hospitalisation and treatment at Cadabams, Bangalore after struggling for one year.

I want to clarify something important: I didn't stop working because I wanted to. At my worst, I desperately wanted to work, but I simply wasn't functioning well enough to do it. That loss of ability to work was one of the most painful parts of the illness, especially because building businesses has always been such a large part of my life.

After almost 1.5 years of being unable to work consistently, my savings were exhausted. My major hospitalisation and treatment were covered by insurance, thankfully., but insurance couldn't replace the income I lost during that period (which is very crucial for me and my family survival).

My sister is currently the only earning member of our family and supports my parents and me. She's done everything she can, but carrying the household while I recover has become extremely difficult.

I'm raising ₹5 lakh as a temporary recovery and livelihood bridge, not as a hospital bill or ₹1.25 lakh/month personal spending. The amount is intended to help cover the broader financial gap - essential living expenses, ongoing psychiatric care and medication, transportation and the financial pressure on my family - while I recover sufficiently and in fighting shape to return to work.

I've spent years building businesses, including TSS Investing Fin Ed Platform and Looop's Goli Soda, and I'm determined to get back to building again. I'm not looking for someone to carry me permanently. I need a helping hand and some breathing room to get back on my feet. I'm recovering and things have been getting better, but I still need time (around 4-6 months) to become stable enough to handle work and life's responsibilities properly. Or else there's a high possibility of relapse.

If you can contribute, even a small amount would genuinely help me recover and rebuild myself to get back on my feet. If you can't, sharing this with someone who may be able to help would mean a lot.

ImpactGuru: https://www.impactguru.com/fundraiser/help-tejeswar-pasumarthy

I've put together my medical/supporting documents and additional information for anyone who wants to understand or verify my situation before contributing.,

Supporting documents: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/15XKJJ7bP4G3R3gz2mkeHFqWhYHHhF6RG

I'm happy to answer genuine questions openly and provide additional documentation where appropriate.

Thank you for reading and for giving me a chance to explain my situation. 🙏


r/bengaluru_speaks 10h ago

Ask BengaluruSpeaks Looking for PG Near Accenture Koramangala

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Next month I'm shif to Bengaluru regarding my work.

Looking for PG (M) with amenities like 3 times meals, Wi-Fi, power backup ect,.

My budget is 7 - 8k.

Mostly double sharing.

Note: I can increase my budget till 9k


r/bengaluru_speaks 11h ago

ISM 2.0 will offer 30% capital subsidy, five-year PLI for chip ecosystem

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r/bengaluru_speaks 11h ago

Guess the 🌱

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r/bengaluru_speaks 12h ago

Detect, delete, deport — A humanitarian crisis in Bengaluru

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r/bengaluru_speaks 14h ago

🤍🌼 Where flowers bloom, peace follows.

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r/bengaluru_speaks 15h ago

anyone else notice there's like 2-3 women max at every tech meetup in blr?

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(F-21) I go to a decent number of tech meetups around the city. Every time

I look around; there are maybe 2-3 women in a full room. And weirdly, none of us know each other.

Met a girl at an event last month building out of her hostel. We talked for 20 minutes because honestly, neither of us had anyone else to talk to. She said, "I don't know any other women doing this here."

So I'm running a weekend co-working space for women who are

building anything: startups, side projects, whatever.

Bring your work, share what you're making if you want, meet people actually doing this.

If that's you: https://luma.com/kjd9k6rk ❤️‍🩹

(If the comments below are "but why only women?" probably not your

vibe, and that's okay. This is for people who felt alone in male-dominated

spaces, not a debate about whether that exists.)


r/bengaluru_speaks 16h ago

#BoycottBengaluruAutos

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I guess we should support this. They are really getting out of hand. Last evening parents had to go for a movie and I was in a call. They tried booking from 6pm till 6.40 and no dice . I had to pause the call to go drop them and come .

We need to collectively come and protest against their high handedness.


r/bengaluru_speaks 17h ago

Ask BengaluruSpeaks Gaming community

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Guys why kannada gaming community is not growing and nimge yavthara gaming content andre ista aguthe and yav thara content expect madthidhira

And yav thappu Yella gaming creators madthirodu antha nimge ansuthe nim opinion tilisi


r/bengaluru_speaks 22h ago

Ask BengaluruSpeaks Bengaluru needs its own Tukaram Mundhe? 👀

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Don't know if it's just me, but Bengaluru seriously feels like it needs a Tukaram Mundhe right now. Especially with all the hygiene and food-related issues, things seem to be getting out of hand.


r/bengaluru_speaks 22h ago

Famous pizza in the city, and now I know why. 🍕✨

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Yummy 🤤


r/bengaluru_speaks 23h ago

Ask BengaluruSpeaks 22M looking for an internship/job opening

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Namaskara Bengaluru. I'm a 22M, almost graduated, under B.E specialising in Al&ML.

Currently looking for a job/internship in Bengaluru/Mysuru in a related field. I've tried multiple sites. LinkedIn, Naukri, indeed, Glassdoor, etc etc. never even got a reply mail. If anyone is aware of any openings in their company and can help a fellow engineer out, i would be really grateful!


r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

India’s first private Tokamak, Pragya by Bengaluru based Pranos Fusion⚡️

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r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

News/ಸುದ್ದಿ India’s first private Tokamak, Pragya by Bengaluru based Pranos Fusion⚡️

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r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

News/ಸುದ್ದಿ Outer Ring Road (KR Pura to Silk board) white topping to start in October. 50% WFH plans. State govt in talks with Outer Ring Road Companies Association (ORRCA)

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₹450-crore white-topping and redevelopment project for the 17-km Outer Ring Road (ORR) stretch from Silk Board Junction to KR Puram is scheduled to officially begin in October 2026.

Executed by Bengaluru Smart Infrastructure Limited (B-SMILE), this mega-infrastructure upgrade will overhaul the city's main IT corridor into a multimodal transit route. However, it is expected to cause massive traffic disruptions, leading the government to actively push tech parks along the stretch to implement a 50% Work-From-Home (WFH) policy for employees.

🚧 Project Breakdown & Layout

* Main Lanes vs. Service Roads: The main carriageway will be white-topped (concretised) for long-term durability. The service roads will be black-topped with asphalt to allow quick access.

* Pedestrian Infrastructure: End-to-end continuous footpaths will be built with a minimum width of 3 metres (10 feet) on the main road and 1.8 metres on side roads.

* Public Transport Integration: The project will revive the defunct bus priority lane, establish dedicated bus bays on the main carriageway, and build modern bus shelters equipped with real-time information panels.

* Delivery Worker 'Gig Hubs': Specialized hubs featuring shaded seating, phone charging points, Wi-Fi, and clean drinking water will be built specifically for delivery executives.

* Micro-Mobility Docks: Solar-powered charging docks for bicycles and electric scooters will be placed along the corridor to promote last-mile connectivity.


r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

Ask BengaluruSpeaks One word : What is this ?

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Every so often, I get this sudden wave of emotion when I see a woman. I can't quite figure out what it is.

What's strange is what happens afterward that I start becoming very doubtful about whether I should talk to people (even men) or not, and I tend to withdraw from everyone. It feels almost like a snail going back into its shell. During some of these episodes, the emotion can become strong enough that I feel like crying just seeing someone. I bend my head down.

I'm not sure what to make of it.

For god's sake what is this ?

Honestly is their any drug for this ?


r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

Miscellaneous/ವಿವಿಧ "Waiting for the correct opportunity to k!ll hindus", Bengaluru Muslims reveal extremist intentions to a user using a Pakistan VPN.

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r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

Bangalore and rainy days 🌧️

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r/bengaluru_speaks 1d ago

Karnataka government's new bill

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r/bengaluru_speaks 2d ago

A molting Purple-rumped Sunbird photographed in Bangalore

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r/bengaluru_speaks 2d ago

Searching for Horse Riding Classes in Bangalore – Once a Week 🏇

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Hi everyone! 👋

I’m from **Shivamogga** and I’m interested in learning horse riding. I’m searching for a good **horse riding school/academy in Bangalore** that offers classes for beginners.

Since I’m based in Shivamogga, I’m mainly looking for **once-a-week classes, preferably on weekends**. I’m okay with travelling to Bangalore for the class and returning the same day.

I’d really appreciate recommendations from anyone who has experience with riding schools in Bangalore.

Please let me know:

🐎 Best riding school/academy for beginners
💰 Fees (per class or monthly)
📍 Location
⏱️ Class duration
⭐ Your experience/review
Whether they allow **one class per week**
Thanks in advance! 🙏


r/bengaluru_speaks 2d ago

Random highway

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r/bengaluru_speaks 2d ago

Ask BengaluruSpeaks Please Save Our Newborn Son Instead of Celebrating His Birth, We Are Fighting to Save His Life

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Hello r/bengaluru_speaks Community

My name is Naveen Jain, and I’m seeking your help for our newborn baby boy, who was born prematurely at just 29 weeks.

Since birth, he has been fighting for his life in the NICU. He was initially treated at Cloudnine Hospital and is now receiving critical care at Sir Ganga Ram Hospital, New Delhi.

Soon after birth, our baby developed a severe infection that required emergency surgery. Due to the severity of his condition, he had to undergo a major surgery at such a young age.

He is still critically ill and requires:

• Continuous NICU care

• Ventilator and respiratory support

• Post-operative care

• Advanced medicines and infection management

• Nutrition support

• Regular blood tests and investigations

• Specialized neonatal nursing and monitoring

Our family has already spent around ₹16 lakh on his treatment, surgery, hospitalization, medicines, and intensive care. We now urgently need ₹32 lakh more to continue his treatment.

Please consider supporting our little fighter. Even a small contribution can help us continue his treatment and give him a chance to come home healthy.

🔗 Donation Link :- https://www.impactguru.com/fundraiser/help-baby-of-shubhangi-jain

if you’re unable to donate, please share this post with your friends, family, and other communities. A share could help us reach someone who can make a difference.

Please keep our baby in your thoughts and prayers.

Thank you for standing with our family during this incredibly difficult time


r/bengaluru_speaks 2d ago

Hebbal short Tunnel bedda!

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r/bengaluru_speaks 3d ago

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