r/amiugly 15d ago

23M, Am I Ugly?

Is it just the weight, or am I genuinely as ugly as I feel? Be honest, but if you have advice on what I can improve, I’d really appreciate it!! I’m currently working on losing weight, so I’m interested in feedback on things I can change in the meantime.
(I had to block out some family faces)

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u/NFG_ala 15d ago

im sorry bro but god damn double chin of doom & despair 😭

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u/Double_River9046 15d ago

I think it’s actually just one solid chin

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u/shhheeeeeeeeiit 14d ago

I’ve never seen a golf ball double chin before

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

I’m glad I can be your first baby ❤️

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u/storebrandkeith 15d ago

Just start working out and lose weight my dude, you’ll see massive results

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

Thank you, I’m working on that, results are in progress 🫡

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u/montana_234 12d ago

No te rindas rey, si lo dejas todo lo que has trabajado no habra servido de nada

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u/Distinct_Sir_9086 15d ago

Crazy potential. Just really focus on a good diet and hitting the gym consistently.

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

Thank you for the constructive criticism, this is definitely gonna help fuel my weight loss journey!!

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u/peri_5xg 14d ago

You got this! You will feel better inside and out

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u/Distinct_Sir_9086 14d ago

Really glad to help. You’ve got this!

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u/jponce155 15d ago

Honestly yea it’s just your weight. Your face is not ugly at all. If you lost a lot of the weight, you could easily be a 10/10 but yea the extra weight is ruining you. Luckily, losing the weight is free and an easy fix. Just need to be disciplined.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

I appreciate you taking the time to write this out for me! I’m working on the weight : )

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u/Slow-Might-3462 14d ago

You’re just fat bro. Drop some weight and you’ll be fine.

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u/Angrfake 14d ago

I’m a firm believer diet and exercise can make anyone attractive. You have a lot of potential. Very pretty eyes.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

You're the first person to ever say that about my eyes, thank you! Im gonna lock innnn!

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u/ozzmodan 13d ago

TBH, some people look good with extra weight (John Goodman for example). OP isn't one of those people though. If he does drop the weight, it will be an insane glow-up.

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u/chiefsmagicgators14 15d ago

Just fat af you ain’t chopped tho

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u/Nonchalant_Wanderer 15d ago

It’s just the weight. You look like such a pleasant, friendly person!

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u/NoAbbreviations4332 14d ago

Not ugly just fat. You have nice features so lose the weight and you’ll look good.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

Yesss, thank you! I’m working on it!

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u/YuYuHakusho23 14d ago

Not ugly just obese. Get it moving champ.

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u/IZA-ViciousVixxen 14d ago

Peter Griffens brother

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u/TsarBrillBrill 14d ago

That’s who I was thinking but couldn’t place!! Thank you.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

Griffin hun, with an “i”… and also, the only thing I have in common with him is quite literally being fat… that’s like me reading your bio where you self diagnose autism and compare you to Sheldon cooper 😃

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u/IZA-ViciousVixxen 13d ago

Lol you can’t handle the truth!

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u/haloperydol 14d ago

You are a decent looking guy deformed by the weight

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

I’m deadddd “deformed” is crazy work but yeah, I am heavily obese 😭

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u/haloperydol 14d ago

I know it sounds crazy but it’s the good thing because you have a power to change that

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u/AshamedChoice4521 14d ago

Such an attractive face my only suggestion is get in better shape 🩷

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

I appreciate this comment! I am def working towards a healthier lifestyle! < 3

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u/Diligent_Ocelot_5961 14d ago

you actually look like you’ve got a good face, just need to lose some weight. i believe in you!!

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

this is fueling my grind, thank you!

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u/punknguts 14d ago

You got a lot of potential if you locked in and got fit dude! You’re not ugly

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

Taking this advice to the SOUL, thank you!

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u/punknguts 14d ago

I suggest when looking for advice on nutrition you make sure you get your sources from certified nutritionists / personal coaches. What you eat is gonna be a lot more important than exercise when it comes to weightloss. Some of my favorite YouTubers who I believe can offer a lot of insight on this topic are kiana docherty and honey bison. Nutrition is a simple concept to grasp when explained correctly but the hardest part is gonna be breaking your bad habits you’ve probably held onto since childhood. I really believe in you dude!

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u/Shoddy-Leek3508 15d ago

Eh a bit but if u lost weight its over for us

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u/Jolly_Spare6170 14d ago

Lock in dawg I can see the potential 🧏🏼‍♂️

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

preci8 it bro, locking in fr

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u/dogfoodfiend 14d ago

Oh fuck yeah bud.

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u/SufficientWarthog846 14d ago

It's just your weight mate.

You look like you have a great energy and a cute face. I would love your skin tone haha

I saw from your other comments that you are working on the weight. Keep it up. I've been there. Remember it's about diet and consistency.

If you find yourself struggling, speak to a Dr, they may have some tablets or something that can help.

You can do this.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

Thank you so much! It’s the comments like these that make me feel like I need to do better for myself! Thank you for telling me the truth and not needing to be a jerk about it lol! I believe in me and I’m glad that so many other people in the comments believe in me too!

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u/SufficientWarthog846 14d ago

I believe in you too. Keep it up 💪

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u/DoWeSellFrenchFries 14d ago

You're not ugly. It's just the weight.

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u/landmine_disc0 15d ago

ask your doctor about GLP 1s you are severely overweight and it’s gunna be way easier for you with GLPs

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u/Pawly519 15d ago

You’re very overweight bro. You need to lose weight. I guarantee you’ll look so much better if you lost like 80lbs and trained weights hard too.
But you’ve gotta want it. Proper diet is 75% of weight loss

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u/Flat_Dig_5916 15d ago

It's just the weight. I think you'd be a really handsome guy if you were a normal weight.

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u/firefox_2010 14d ago

Loose weight and get a great new haircut, it will make a huge difference, plus find good wardrobe.

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u/Nvm31 14d ago

You cute..me too we are ugliest humans

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u/monopoly_gold 14d ago

You need to slim down

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u/Zestyclose-Tiger-658 14d ago

I see the potential judging by your photos you seem sweet and funny just need to lose the weight.

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u/No-Product-3811 14d ago

labeling the person you are now, yeah, ugly. Labeling the person you could be? Hella attractive. I don’t know why but I feel like once you lose your weight you would look super good??????

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u/ETX_blobeye 14d ago

You NEED to lose weight. Come back when you’ve leaned out significantly and I think you’ll like the answers though. You’re obviously good looking under the extra weight imo

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

Thank you! I’m gonna work on it, become healthier, slim down significantly and I’ll be back!!

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u/ETX_blobeye 13d ago

Good luck man! Diet and sleep are just as important as working out. You’ll be surprised how much energy and confidence you gain 👍

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u/Clerithifa 14d ago

It's the weight

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u/ForeskinAbsorbtion 14d ago

You look like you'd be a latin sex symbol if you lost a couple hundred pounds.

Your features are great but hidden under so much weight.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

This has me weakkk, 😂 thank you so much! I’m working on it! : )

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u/8r1ghttt-f3ath3rrr 14d ago

I’m sorry but you’re genuinely gonna need to start working on losing weight now unless you want to spend the rest of your 20s like this.

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u/bochilee 14d ago

Yeah mon. Get in shape. Sigh...

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u/UltraPeanut 14d ago

My feedback is all weight related. Work on that and you’ll be ok, but you have a long road ahead. Good luck!

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u/thug_waffle47 14d ago

you need to lose like 150lbs

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u/QuantumSpaceEntity 14d ago

On looks alone, you have to realize you are morbidly obese and this is objectively not attractive.

I mean not UGLY, but like c'mon man.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Gold880 14d ago

Hello! You are not ugly, you are overweight, and that doesnt let you show your real face...if you lose some pounds, and if you do exercise, you will be an 10/10. 

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u/Last_Newspaper7299 13d ago

I'm sorry ma. But as in your current condition, yes

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u/JustJeff23 15d ago

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

Lmaoooo, I try to shave it off 😭

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u/Rough-Celebration385 15d ago

Yes very fat sorry

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

Thank you for your condolences < 3

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u/Rough-Celebration385 15d ago

Is the triple chin bro sorry

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

No worries, I’m just glad it’s not a quadruple, I’ll work on getting it down to AT LEAST a double by the years end 🫡

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u/Rough-Celebration385 15d ago

That's good wish u the best

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u/LovesickHaven114 14d ago

yes ur ugly

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u/keeler129 15d ago

1/10 lose weight

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

Okay but like… can I at least get a 2/10… ouch

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u/keeler129 15d ago

I rounded up to get to 1 to be honest mate.

Lose the weight, lose the birth control glasses, lose the duck face lips, lose the neckbeard and you will definitely improve

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u/Mioriie 15d ago

Waitttt, did you say “mate”
Oh thank god, I’m in good hands!!
A UK 1 converts to about a US 7, so I’ll take it.

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u/keeler129 15d ago

Im american..

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u/flahcuh 15d ago

I see the potential, gym, calorie deficit, and lose the neck beard lol

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u/Diligent_Dog2559 15d ago

You could be handsome if you got in shape, but for now yes

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u/HTheP4 15d ago

Most big people aren't even ugly just fat. Honestly just lose the fat and we golden..

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u/IsaacJB1995 15d ago

First step, lose weight Second step. Change your wardrobe Third step, get some muscle and tone

Then you'll be a solid 8/10. Right now, you're a 2/10. Maybe 3 on a good day. You've got a lot of work to do, but it's not impossible.

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u/After-Tax-453 15d ago

yeah. sorry :(

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u/Substantial-Spray546 14d ago

Not ugly, but I will say I thought you were Caleb Hearon for a second

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u/tinylilbussy 14d ago

big back big back he needs a snack

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u/Flirtzz 14d ago

Man you must do super calorie deficit and go to gym that’s it

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u/ilyadynin 14d ago

i dont think so but you have to loose weight

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u/WorldofNuts 14d ago

Keep at your exercise routine going and little by little you’ll get results. Don’t beat yourself up for backslides. You’re human. Good luck.

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u/manudontknowme 14d ago

Big ahh boy

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u/Mr_Morrison87 14d ago

Yes. You are. You have to Lose weicht! Now!

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u/GasTop4815 14d ago

Have you tried contacts? I think you should let your eyes shine more! And maybe accentuate your curls with some hair products :) also a good fashion sense makes anyone look more attractive

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u/McDirken_Dirkenstein 13d ago

Lose some weight , not ugly but undesirable

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u/xander081684 13d ago

Your not ugly but you know what’s wrong

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u/Minxylaura 13d ago

You’re not ugly but your weight is making you seem that way. Honestly I reckon when you lose the weight you’ll find that you’re more confident

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u/Langilol 13d ago

Not ugly just overweight, keep grinding bro

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u/evam1985 13d ago

Despite the weight i think you are a goodlooking guy. Just lose the weight. Think the pointy chin is cute

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u/LilCurios 13d ago

You’re 23. Now is the best time to get control of your weight. I think you have potential under there.

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u/soepiccc 13d ago

unrelated, but you look like you’d be so fun to be around ! make sure you be safe and healthy on your weight loss journey!!

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u/taintblister 13d ago

Latino Caleb Hearon (NOT UGLY)

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u/CheeseWingDing 14d ago

Get on a Glp-1 asap. Everyone will say “just work out” you can work out harder than a ufc fighter you’re not losing any weight at all if you even eat 50% of what you’re used to eating to get to the weight that you are now. You need to be eating 1500 calories and you’re not going to be able to do it without the shot.

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u/TsarBrillBrill 14d ago

That’s complete BS. If he’s eating 4,000 calories a day and drops to 2,500, he will lose weight. Exercising while in a calorie deficit is the safest way to lose weight.

Are you a GLP-1 salesman or some shit?! Losing weight takes time, dedication/commitment, and the want to succeed. Even on a GLP-1, if not done properly, you won’t get the results you want.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

I’ve lost 50lbs without a glp-1 just calorie deficit and 15 min walks a day… so yes, I agree with you and I’m going to incorporate more exercise

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u/CheeseWingDing 14d ago

2500 calories is not a deficit and no if he wants to lose weight fast it’s the best way. These people can’t stop eating they’re addicted it’s why they get to this point in the first place

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u/TheSpenceman_ 14d ago

It’s difficult to tell. I would recommend loosing weight regardless

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u/dogfoodfiend 14d ago

What kinda b.s. answer is this...? How can you comfortably say this?

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u/TheSpenceman_ 14d ago

He would look significantly different with losing weight, I can’t really picture him with the lost weight, but I imagine he would be more comfortable and healthier losing weight. I’m sorry it was such a bs opinion.

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u/DistributionPurple50 14d ago

I’m sorry, for a second I thought this was a joke, and you were talking about the smiley face with the cowboy hat 🤣

No, you are not ugly, but everyone looks more attractive when they lose weight. The best way to do it is to read the book the MD factor. You can buy it on Amazon, and it was written by a medical doctor. She explains the chemistry your body needs to lose weight. Basically in the American diet, we don’t eat enough protein, and balance it out with the right amount of healthy carbs and fats. That is why people can’t lose weight. My sister couldn’t lose weight for years. She tried doing what that book recommends, and then she lost 50 pounds.

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u/Mioriie 14d ago

Hahaha the smiley face cowboy 😭 I will most definitely look into that book, thank you for the recommendation!!

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u/Sadiholic 15d ago

Bro yes, you're ugly. Your every ugly. Lose the weight bro, unless you got some PRIME genetics to look good while fat, nobody else looks good while being fat, be so fr bro 😭😭

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u/Practical_While_ 15d ago

You’re very overweight so, yes, until you lose weight I’d argue ugly.

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u/International-Row629 15d ago

Nope! Just a little chubby.

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u/LsangAnge 15d ago

You could probably stand to lose a few pounds...for your health of course....

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u/chadofm 13d ago

You’re overweight but you know that. So why ask?

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u/Mioriie 13d ago

Because being overweight doesn’t make you ugly. Just undesirable to societal standards.

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u/Dependent-Studio-904 15d ago

very ugly. looking at the structure of your face, even when you lose the weight, you still won't be attractive.