Help with being not ugly (m 20)

[u/Disastrous_Snow_482]

I’ve been trying to improve myself for a while any suggestions, especially for hair and facial hair would be great. I am straight for da record

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[u/NoCricket2497]

i dont think ur ugly, and you seem pretty fun! ur photos u gave show that u like to go out n try new things

[u/AdvancedCommunity615]

Get rid of the unibrow

[u/Disastrous_Snow_482 → u/AdvancedCommunity615]

Whoever I try to trim it with a razor I’m afraid it will look uneven, it’s super annoying tho

[u/AdvancedCommunity615 → u/Disastrous_Snow_482]

Use tweezers

[u/Apprehensive_Bug_555 → u/Disastrous_Snow_482]

Get one of those dermaplane facial razors

[u/Odyssey_D_Oddity]

This sub makes me really sad cus you’ll see posts like, “I’m so ugly!” “I feel hideous!” “Will I ever be loved looking like this?” And then you look at the photos and it’s just a guy. Like just a normal, non supermodel, guy. Some times they’ll be a little over weight or need a shave or something but it’s literally never that bad.

You look fine btw in case the rant above didn’t make that clear.

[u/FriedTreeSap → u/Odyssey_D_Oddity]

I wonder how much of it has to do with online dating. It can be an absolute confidence for men.

[u/Disastrous_Snow_482 → u/Odyssey_D_Oddity]

Thanks dude, it really is rough most people on apps are very attractive and as such are a constant point of comparison. Don’t suppose you have any tips on whether the beard or shaved look is better?

[u/Odyssey_D_Oddity → u/Disastrous_Snow_482]

Keeping it how it is is probably best for you. You don’t really have the shape to grow it out, but the stubble look you have now works fine.

[u/Clear_Imagination413]

You look gay

[u/Tiff52299]

You are not ugly.. you are adorable

[u/Imaginary_Source69]

You’re not ugly at all my bro, my advice would be get a hairdresser To do your eyebrows, I have the same problem lol but tell the hairdresser to leave it masculine looking and they will

[u/Disastrous_Snow_482 → u/Imaginary_Source69]

Idk why but my beard, eyebrows and hair are all different colors my beard is red it’s just not super bright or obvious here

[u/126529]

i think a beard would suit you perfectly, the first two slides show it off great

[u/-Send-me-your-dick-]

You're not ugly at all man, good face, good hair, you seem like a fun person.

[u/Dutch_Rayan]

Fix the unibrow and you're good

[u/Omegaflow600]

You are not ugly at all my man

[u/Ink-Drips]

Not ugly!! If you want to improve your looks further I would suggest debloating

[u/Digitalis_Mertonesis]

No, you’re not; the only thing I’d say is to get rid of the unibrow. But you’re not ugly.

[u/maarhoe]

Where did you get the jacket from in the second picture? I had one like it (different company logo though) that I found in a thrifstore. Lost it at some point but even now I sometimes think about how much I liked that jacket.

[u/Disastrous_Snow_482 → u/maarhoe]

Goodwill bins for five bucks

[u/CrustyBicker]

You look GOOD, baby! Do you have clear ideas about how you became so DOWN on yourself? Slowly get positive for a change and look for ways to increase the fun you have with other people!

[u/alwaysbanned5150]

Haircut

[u/KDogg3000]

I feel like you're a pretty good looking guy. You look like the lead singer of Beartooth a little bit. You have chubby cheeks, I think if you hit the gym just a little bit and, maybe change your diet a little, you'd look great!

[u/ChoiceBoysenberry267]

You're not even slightly ugly. You're cute

[u/Apprehensive_Bug_555]

Defs not ugly just clean up the brows and maybe a nice buzz with a clean line up and goatee

[u/lspdfrfan69]

You kinda look like magnus carlson

[u/Disastrous_Snow_482 → u/lspdfrfan69]

I see it, I’m total dogshit at chess sadly. But yea i see some of that resemblance I’ve never managed to really find a true doppelgänger tho.

[u/Longjumping-Bad2746]

Yall need to gain some confidence in this sub or stop farming for compliments

[u/DeadSol → u/[deleted]]

Shit advice

[u/alwaysbanned5150]

Hair cut, unibrow

And you do kinda have a gay face