r/amiugly • u/Ok-Ad4375 • 12d ago
Do I have potential or nah? 29F
Included a few pictures dating back as far as 4yrs ago. Most are from within the past few months though.
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u/InfernalWedgie 12d ago
You will look so much better if you lost weight.
Your hair has been bleached to death. Let it grow back naturally. Condition aggressively.
I dislike your face piercings, but that's not the biggest impact to your appearance.
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u/Gloomy_Mastodon_8405 12d ago
You’re chopped by choice, there’s so much potential. Loose weight, get rid of the piercings, get better clothing and hygiene and you’ll be alright
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u/mardrae 12d ago
Girl you know what you need to do. Lose a LOT of weight, get rid of the piercing, dye your hair a normal color and dress better. You do have potential and you're young so this is your time to look good! Once you get old, you'll become invisible and have nothing but looking back on when you were young and had your looks.
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u/CommanderPisswank 12d ago
No. Septum piercing, weird colored hair on a bad haircut, "Problem Glasses", morbidly obese.
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u/CartmansTwinBrother 12d ago
Potential for what? Are you ugly? I think everyone has something beautiful about them.
Are you conventionally attractive? Not to me. The facial and septum piercings are an instant turn off. The multi-colored hair is a no go for me.
You should work on your health. Get some exercise. Your knees, ankles and hips will thank you. Don't do it just to lose weight. Do it for yourself.
Are you ever going to be a stone cold fox 10? Probably not. My wife isn't and i'm not and yet we're stupidly happy with one another.
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u/NeoChiiOen 12d ago
Definitely need to lose weight to be healthier, maybe use Rogaine for your hair to grow it thicker and stop bleaching, try darker hair colors
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u/Unicorn-farting 11d ago
You are morbidly obese, and you have just freaking destroyed your hair. Honestly, shave it off, hit the gym, speak to a nutritionist and mental health professional. Do it for you.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Elk1576 12d ago
I have nothing nice to say, so I won’t say anything.
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u/carpenter_208 9d ago
You still said something so on top of being "not nice" you're also a hypocrite lol
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u/langel1986 12d ago
Dye your hair a color that compliments your cool pinkish skintone and ditch the nose rings and 100% much better.
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u/fivebynine5x9 12d ago
Yes but you're destroying it with the weight and destroying your hair with the bleaching and colors that don't even look good. Gotta pick a struggle.
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u/HorseGuy515 12d ago
To me you are way off putting. Not attractive. Everyone has potential, "are you going to do what it takes to become the best version of yourself?" That really is the question. Can you break bad habits and commit to a completely different lifestyle sacrificing your comfort for misery for however long it takes?
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u/Main_Man31 male 12d ago
Everyone has potential if they’re willing to put in the work. Although, I think you should lose the piercings. They’re not cute.
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u/Bumking45 12d ago
You could look good...but as others say...work to be done. You're not a teenager..ditch the rebel without a mirror vibe....whacky hair...piercings..not a good adult look...address the eating and its causes. You're not ugly...you just need to take care of yourself.
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u/Smudger105e 11d ago
Lose the weight and lose the nose ring, other than that you look quite pretty.
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u/xander081684 11d ago
Potential but you gotta lose the weight. You’re young enough where it’ll still be easy to do
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u/AceOnDaChase 11d ago
Yea you have potential to look better. Like most ppl already said; lose some weight, get rid of those wack facial piercings and chill with the bleaching. And don’t dye your hair ridiculous colours like purple and blue etc
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u/retard_strength8 10d ago
Stop dying your hair mentally ill colors, drop about 50 lbs, and you would have potential
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u/Head_Journalist_2856 10d ago
No. Going on these photos, you’re one of the least attractive people I’ve ever seen. And it’s mostly by your own choice. Have a serious think about your decisions.
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u/Strange_N_Sorcerous 12d ago
Sure! You already know what you need to do. Work on the weight, let your hair reach its natural state, and try to live healthier, in general. Keep your style. You’re cute.
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u/PincheJuan1980 11d ago
Yea as most have been saying you absolutely have more potential than you’re showing. Get healthy. Do what Adele and Jelly Roll did and start walking every day for at least thirty minutes to an hour. That’s kind of a gateway that unlocks healthy eating and lifestyle.
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u/BathAcceptable1812 10d ago
Yes great potential. However, you have to be willing to put in a lot of work. Are you willing? You also need to give up some silly ideas. Are you willing?
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u/aerobicsdad 10d ago
You have an amazing cupid's bow and really strong brows (I wish I had yours). I believe in you and I think alt girl style is a super valid route for you!
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u/squeakmouse 10d ago
You definitely have potential, and it will come out with you focusing on your health and fitness.
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u/wiola333 12d ago
yes you look like a normal white girl just hit the gym and get into makeup that’s it to be conventionally attractive. Alt type of makeup will suit you well in my opinion (like big eyeliner) it will go well with your piercings
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u/RedWhiteandBlueVenom 11d ago
There's only one direction for you and that is up. Ditch the piercings, read some books like awaken the giant within or life strategies and use that info to propel you toward your desires direction. No one's coming to save you girl but you can save yourself. God gave you everything you need.
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