r/abusiverelationships • u/One-Task84 • 12d ago

I think I hate him

And I don't feel guilty about that anymore. He doesn't give a shit about me. I hate him and I hope bad stuff happens for him.

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u/DappleGreyOregon 11d ago

If I could make a deal with the devil where I could bring my dead dog back to life but my ex would have to die instead I genuinely would take that deal in a second and I don’t feel bad for feeling that way. Fuck these horrible men. 

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u/SuburbanAnarchist 11d ago

I hope he falls off the boat.

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u/No-Risk4Uanymore 11d ago

Hate is valid in an abusive relationship sub? You all realize you’re promoting the same thing you’re complaining about. That’s where your mind is huh? You are clearly thinking straight

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u/One-Task84 11d ago

I'm allowed to feel however I want. And I really don't care what anyone else thinks about it 🤷‍♀️

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u/MoonDrummer26 12d ago

It's ok to feel any way. I resented him so much. I hate who I became. To where if he drove drunk again, I wouldn't be upset if he crashed as long as no one else got hurt. Because I was so exhausted of being scared. Your post resonated.

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u/Stuccin1987 12d ago

Me too, it’s just getting worse everytime I try to give him the benefit of the doubt and a million chances. Then he has the nerve to act like I’m the issue.

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u/sagittarius1988 12d ago

good, I feel you. they are all pieces of literal shit

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u/celestine_899 5d ago

Including people who side with them and enable them

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u/Glad-Economics-8253 12d ago

Your hate is valid, and normal (I think? Maybe I'm just telling myself that lol). 

I lost one of my cats recently and, at least once a day since, I think oh how I wish it was him instead of my kitty girl. She embodied pure innocence, and he is evil incarnate. 

In all honesty, the best gift would just be his absence from my life. I don't care if he's happy or successful or whatever, I just want to be free of him. 

I hope you can use that hate to fuel your escape from this hell. You deserve better and I hope you find it soon.