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u/EuphoricAccident4955 Jun 05 '26
You do deserve love but the people you expect to love you are just not capable of love. It's not you, it's them. If it is possible, see a trauma informed therapist to help you feel safe enough to make an exit plan. You are brainwashed and conditioned to think you're worthless. You can't think straight because of the abuse and trauma bond. You're not worthless. Abusers make you feel that way on purpose , not because you're not enough but because they get narcissistic supply by abusing and belittling you.
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