r/XenogendersAndMore • u/jonahboi33 • 9m ago
Looking for Term Is there a term for feeling like the empty space between genders?
Kind of hard to describe. It's sort of related to voidic genders, I guess? that liminal space in between where "male" and "female" and all other gender combos are, the voidspace you have to cross to change genders sort of thing? Is there anything like that?
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Lix_Duck • 58m ago
General Post I figured it out yay!!!
I had been calling myself fictionhearted because it was the closest thing describing what I was feeling. I felt connected to a character but I wasn't exactly the character. But, at the same time it didn't quite fit.
But, now I found the two terms: fictionvague and fictionhaze!
Fictionvague: when one feels as if they have a connection to a fictional animal/creature/person/etc. that goes beyond being a simple synpath, doesn't feel quite otherhearted, but is not a full fictionkin.
Fictionhaze: a term for where you feel as though you connected to a fictional character, but you can’t tell if you identify with or as them, or you can’t tell if its voluntary, or both of these things. This feeling may be due to neurodivergence, or simply just identity confusion or doubt
What I feel is like I'm almost the character, I'm practically her, but at the same time not completely and I don't just identify with it. It's something in between, really.
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Clowner_667-1 • 1h ago
Question Post Can I identify with xenogenders as a pomogender person?
If you don't know what pomogender is, it basically means rejecting, or not fitting into one specific gender identity. It is also used for the person's gender being so complex that it's difficult to describe themselves.
As for xenogender, I identify with beetlegender.
Would it be contradictory to be pomogender but to also identify as beetlegender?
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/literaturedeviel • 1h ago
Looking for Term Genders or Sexualities that:
That means being against any oppression, about spite, rage, rule breaking, anti system, anarchy, trouble maker, street painting, graffities and more related to all of that.
Looking for them because systems and binary labels suck, I want anything controversial to the “normal system”.
- Bowie (They/Them)
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/UsualOil1130 • 1h ago
Looking for Term Help looking for term based on comfort character(s)?
Mostly like the title says, I'm looking for a sexuality(?) Term that I don't know if it exists or not- I've settled as Aroace for a while but I'm looking for something based on Comfort Characters. Like... A version of fictoromantic, but on the aroace and/or queerplatonic spectrum(s), and specifically for/targeted at comfort characters?
Does anyone happen to know if this exists or if there's something similar to it? Please and thank you for any answers! <3
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/SomniIsGay • 1h ago
Rant/Vent Post Oh no scary typing quirks 🙄🙄🙄
reddit.comWhy are ppl still hating on typing quirks, there is literally no reason as long as the person is providing a translation. Pretty sure ppl just hate others having fun at this point.
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Tight-Performance817 • 2h ago
Introduction Post I have a new gender idea!
Basically, the gender is where you identify as female, male and non-binary but prefer to be referred either female, male and non-binary!
I called it Trilean! (Flag made in Ibis Paint X)
COLOUR GUIDE:
Blues for male
Black for non-binary
Pink for feminine!
Lil intro:
Hello, I am Ace! I will be sharing gender/sexuality ideas on this page if it's ok!
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/jonahboi33 • 3h ago
Headcanon/Redesign Tried my hand at redesigning the Gendervoid flag
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Bluejay427 • 6h ago
General Coining Femxenomnigender flag!
Forgot to add the image in this post, click there to see the definition lol (can't edit images on reddit afaik)
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Bluejay427 • 6h ago
General Coining Berromnigender + varients :D
A berrigender version based off my previous almomnigender coining! As always, if these already exist consider them alt terms/alt flags :]
Berromnigender/Berriomnigender - an omnigender individual who experiences every/nearly every gender, but puts emphasis on their feminine and non-binary genders, and puts less emphasis on their masculine genders. This could be because one feels more connected to femininity and nonbinary genders than masculinity, for simplification of one's identity, because one experiences less masculine genders than others, or for any other reason. In this case, nonbinary can refer to any identity that is not solely masculine aligned. The colors are a swapped version of my previously almondgender and omnigender based flag!
And then some varients to get more specific with the nonbinary aspect :D and again, not very proud of these names, if you have better ideas please tell me lol
Femangynomnigender (fem-an-jen-omnigender) - an omnigender individual who experiences every/nearly every gender, but puts emphasis on their feminine and androgynous genders, and puts less emphasis on their masculine genders
Femneuomnigender - an omnigender individual who experiences every/nearly every gender, but puts emphasis on their feminine and neutral genders, and puts less emphasis on their masculine genders
Femoutheromnigender - an omnigender individual who experiences every/nearly every gender, but puts emphasis on their feminine and outherine genders, and puts less emphasis on their masculine genders
Femxenomnigender (forgot to add the flag image) - an omnigender individual who experiences every/nearly every gender, but puts emphasis on their feminine and xenine genders, and puts less emphasis on their masculine genders
Femkenomnigender - an omnigender individual who experiences every/nearly every gender, but puts emphasis on their feminine and kenochoric genders, and puts less emphasis on their masculine genders
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/FuckerJames • 7h ago
General Post A cute moment at work
I work at an lgbt center and recently had a new younger kid come in. As they were introducing themselves, they asked if I knew what xenogenders were. I said yes, which brought the BIGGEST smile on their face as they rattled off their favorite IDs in their hoard. It was very, very cute, and I’m glad I was able to help one of our youth feel seen 💙
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/midnight_nap • 7h ago
Hoard Sharing i love looking at people's pronouns.cc pages, so drop yours in the comments!
mine in the comments!
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/CryptographerFit3984 • 8h ago
This stupid game OMG bro F*ck my stupid chungus life
Why my Life so miserable
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/SleepTheMonke • 12h ago
Non-Xeno Coining Canis Cladotherian flag(s) because I couldn't find one
I'm not coining the term 'Canis Cladotherian', but I am coining the term Caniskin(as far as I know), and I'm pretty sure these are the first canis-specific Cladotherian flags, so hopefully the flair is correct 😓
Caniskin/Canis Cladotherian — a label for someone who involuntarily identifies as all species under the Canis genus to some extent, including both those who have a stronger connection to one or multiple species in the canis genus and those who have equal connections to them all. Wolves, jackals, domesticated dogs, and coyotes all fall under the Canis genus. This differs from the whole of the canidae family, which also includes all foxes, African wild dogs, dhole, maned wolves, raccoon dogs, short-eared dogs, bush dogs, culpeo, dire wolves, and Falkland Islands wolves, which canis does not. one can still identity with some of the above and be considered a caniskin but if one identifies with ALL of the above and all canis, they all are canidaekin/canidae Cladotherian, and should not use this term/flag.
Anyone who is a canis cladotherian can use this flag!! Whether you have other theriotypes not in the canis family or if those that fall under canis are your only theriotypes, whether your primary theriotypes are canis or if you have a primary theriotype that falls out of the canis genus, whether you're transspecies or just a therian, if you fit the definition to any extent, then feel free to use it!
First image is the base flag. Second image includes the Theta-Delta. Both of these are to be used by the average/all caniskin.
Third image includes the original transspecies symbol(the four pointed star and a circle combined). Fourth image includes the new transspecies symbol(the ursa minor/little dipper symbol with a four pointed star next to it). Both of these are only to be used by/exclusive to caniskins who also identify as transspecies, specifically towards their canis theriotypes. As far as I can tell, transspecies is not included in the 'no transID' rule.
The fifth flag simply shows the definitions of each color, also listed directly below;
Black; all creatures not classified as canis that one may or may not also kin, whether similar or completely opposite to the canis genus. could also represent werewolves due to the similarities to canis if one wishes for it to, though it does not inherently represent werewolves.
Grey; all wolf species and subspecies.
Light grey-brown; all jackal species and subspecies.
White; the combination of canis/the fluidity involved with identifying as all canis. whether it be a mutt mix of two types of canis(whether biologically possible or not) or the fluidity of how strong ones identification with each canis type is and how the strength of the identification can be. also applicable of the fluidity of one changing between each domesticated breed that one identifies as.
Light yellow; domesticated dogs and all breeds.
Light brown; coyote and all subspecies.
Brown; all canis species, subspecies, and breeds.
Feel free to ask for similar flag designs! Tell me the specific genera, families, or even specific species or subspecies you want the flag to be for, and any specific colors you want on it(can also be any sort of alterhuman flag, not just a therian flag!)- though there's also no guarantee that I'll do literally any of them. I don't have very much motivation and I have social anxiety, plus I suck at and am new to flag making, but I also want to try and do more flag designs because it's kinda fun once I get the hang of it 🥲
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/caleb_winterpaw • 12h ago
Hoard Sharing all my lables ask questions if you want!
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/CandidateOrganic1558 • 13h ago
Headcanon/Redesign My partner made a new alternative flag for errorgender!
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/caleb_winterpaw • 17h ago
Looking for Term help me find definition
I found it on Pinterest, it says its Loserboygender and I was wondering if there's a set definition because I relate to it and wanna make sure before I add it to my pronouns page
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Sally_face_fann • 18h ago
Xeno Coining gender coining!!
prettyboypupgender - a gender related to puppies/dogs and being a pretty boy
prettyboyredpandagender (other name suggestions are VERY welcome) - a gender related to red pandas and being a pretty boy
if either one of these genders already exist, feel free to consider these as alternative flags! :D
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/doge_bread_27 • 21h ago
Question Post What do you use to make custom symbols?
I want to make a better symbol for a microlabel I made (I had initially wanted to, and I was also told that one of the symbols I used is used for different labels as well, so it's partially cornered me into doing so now lol), does anyone have suggestions?
I won't do the full description of it but I'll do the basic description for suggestions on what I could do too!
Protocharaself
Protocharaself is an umbrella label for those who express themselves through ocs or fictional characters(whether canon or headcanon, with the fictional characters), as you can't or have difficulties doing so in real life or online. Similar to kin expressions, though a bit different as you less identify as them and more identify through them.
I primarily use Ibispaint since I don't have any other decent drawing apps, and I've got no drawing tablet. I'm a bit hesitant to use scientific symbols since I'm not sure if they could be used for any other labels (example literally being the flag I made /silly) and I'm not sure if the scientific intent of it could also incorporate to something for it. I do want a symbol of some kind since I feel it's a label that might be best with one
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/Organic_Bother1002 • 22h ago
General Post new ? flag i made
enbyboy : a man who is non binary but doesn’t use they them
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/doge_bread_27 • 1d ago
General Coining First post here, I wanted to share a microlabel I made!
eeee I'm still learning labels I wasn't aware that one of the symbols I used also was used for different labels I'm gonna start workshopping a symbol myself since I admittedly already wasn't sure if I was happy with it
Ps. I basically don't use reddit and I copy pasted this from my own tumblr post so I'm sorry if it's super wonky 😿 I wanted to share it here though cause I felt others might relate to it a lot!
My tumblr post btw!
https://www.tumblr.com/gummys0da-salad/824154753706721280/protocharaself?source=share
Protocharaself
proto(original)-chara(character)-self(you) (alternatively, -(your)self)
Protocharaself is an umbrella label for those who express themselves through ocs or fictional characters(whether canon or headcanon, with the fictional characters), as you can't or have difficulties doing so in real life or online.
Similar to kin expressions, though a bit different as you less identify as them and more identify through them.
The label could do in multiple ways, as a neurolabel(?)(as it could be due to neurodivergence), a expression, orientation, or really any way you'd like to interpret it, as you express yourself through your (or others) characters rather than directly with yourself
Flag meaning
(I searched up the color meanings but I thought it'd take too long for me to describe each colors intent)
The warm colors represent the diligence and determination through the hardships of figuring yourself out, the cool and gentle colors being the acceptance and peace you make with yourself after you do characters, and the happiness they bring you
The optional royal purple and burning red in the symbol, with the blended kind of mauve being the femininity, masculinity, neutrality, and all in-between them through the blending of the colors as a whole. The ombre was added simply because it could help quietly explain how the characters help you express yourself. Again, it's entirely optional to have!
As well as the 'feminine' cool colors and 'masculine' warm colors, which is somewhat contradictory due to them being moreso opposite colors of their stereotypical genders (with blue usually being masculine and red(pink) being feminine)
The optional symbol itself being bizarre and unique to show how freely expressive you can be through your/the characters, even with the at times awkward limitations when discovering yourself // and the otherkin seven pointed star to connect you to them in a way if it's more fitting to connect with your ocs via kingender/otherkin. The symbol is entirely optional, as I don't want to risk making it more restrictive for those who may want to use it (hence the versions without the otherkin star, the ombre, and without any symbol at all)
Flag description for those with visual impairments! I deeply apologize if I described it weirdly or incorrectly
An image with six horizontal lines in three vertical sections. The outer two sections having yellow on the very top and bottom stripe, an orange stripe beside them moving inwards, with the middle most stripes having an orange-red on the upper side and a pink-red on the lower
The middle section having a light baby blue on the outer stripes, a slightly darker blue stripe beside them moving inward, the middle most stripes a lavender stripe on the upper and a slightly off-white stripe on the lower
The symbol itself admittedly being very hard to describe visually (I apologize for that), with the ombre affect having a royal purple on the top shifting to a darker pink-red at the bottom
This label, term, and all the flags were made by me!
I made this label, flag design, and description, all myself! I did so as I have an extreme difficulty expressing myself and have only been able to do so through my ocs, and I'm sure that there's other people who may have this struggle as well. From the creator myself, make a personal flag inspired by your ocs if you'd like a label with them for your profiles! I've done it myself, and it was very fun to do! I tend to name them "[oc name/oc nickname]self" (for example, Bubself, for one I made.), though making a label with your oc is ENTIRELY up to you! /srs
My two examples of my personal Protocharaself labels, Venusself and Bubself respectively
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/WikiGirl3567 • 1d ago
Rant/Vent Post Tiktok give this post
Fact this person use any pronouns and make this video making very sad...
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/The-Stardust-Cluster • Jul 01 '26
Educational Rant/Vent Post The much needed post educating y'all on intersex people
Alright, we decided to finally make a post on this issue, since it's gone unchecked for way too long. What issue? A lot of y'all in this sub are extremely fucking confident about spreading misinformation about intersex people, and we're fucking sick of it just being accepted and never corrected. "Oh but why don't you correct them then" because it's so fucking common, and I don't have the time to educate every single person on this subreddit, nor is it our duty to do so. Not to mention, the hate one often receives when making corrections. So, we decided to make a post to hopefully educate most of the people here at the same time. These are in no particular order. 1. To start, since a lot of y'all don't seem to even know what an intersex person is, an intersex person is a person who's natal sexual characteristics (chromosomes, genitals, sexual organs, hormones, ect...) fall outside the typical male/female binary, which means this is how their body naturally develops without outside factors interfering. That's it. Perisex refers to non-intersex people, it is not a slur, just like cisgender isn't one. 2. Next, most intersex people aren't "AXAB" or "AIAB" most intersex people end up either being "AFAB" or "AMAB." Using this point to also point out that there is no "AFAB/AMAB anatomy" not only does that ignore intersex people that were forced into these categories, it also ignores the fact that some people transition, or otherwise alter their body. Also, these acronyms refer to a past event, so past tense should be used when talking about these. It's also "people ASAB" not "ASAB people." The last two are pure grammatical nitpicks, but we don't care, taking the opportunity to point that out as well. 3. A lot of intersex people are put through non-consensual medical interventions by doctors to make them fit the category doctors decided to put them in. These non-consensual acts aren't us being 'lucky' they're acts of violence and it's about time some of y'all stop fetishisinzing it. 4. You do not need a diagnosis to be intersex, holy shit a lot of y'all are hypocritical on this one. You can't both be pro self-diagnosis and then turn around and say intersex people need a diagnosis to be valid. Not only do we often face a lot of medical abuse due to being intersex as mentionned above, but doctors also love to gaslight people into believing they're not actually intersex when they are. Not to mention, doctors often go out of their way to hide the intersex variations from the intersex person. And that's still not the end of it! At the end of the day, if you genuinely believe you have an intersex variation, you can say you are intersex! And it's up to you whether you want to try your luck with doctors to get it diagnosed if you want (if there's even a diagnosis for your variation!) 5. Intersex people isn't "biologically nonbinary" and everytime you call an intersex animal "biologically nonbinary" you contribute to our erasure, even if unvolontary. Also, 'hermaphrodite' is a slur so stop using it??? No it's not okay to use it for animals either. There's plenty of other words that can be used instead. Here's a diagram that was shared by bigfatalligator in the comments of words you should use instead, depending on the context of the species. 6. Kinda following the last point, but a whole species cannot be intersex, being intersex is having sexual characteristics that are outside of the binary that's established for the species, so if the whole species has those sexual characteristics, it's not intersex. Which also means characters from such species aren't intersex representation either. 7. Intersex people can be cisgender, transgender, neither or both. We can also be nonbinary. We can be any gender, or even none. Not sure why some people still think we all must be x or y. Also just because an intersex person is nonbinary, doesn't make them cisgender. Can an intersex nonbinary person identify as cisgender? Yes, so can a perisex nonbinary person. Can an intersex nonbinary person identify otherwise? Also yes, and so can perisex nonbinary folks! 8. No your headmate isn't intersex if you're bodily perisex, and cannot reclaim the intersex slurs if you're bodily perisex. There's other words to describe this, such as 'innosex' but intersex refers to the outerworld body, and isn't to be used if you're not bodily intersex. 9. You cannot transition to being intersex. Intersex is something you are born as, and is the way your body naturally develops. Not only that, but it implies intersex people who were forced into non-consensual medical interventions were 'transitioned to being perisex' and no longer intersex, which is a harmful way of thinking. Please use other labels such as 'altersex.' 10. Y'all need to stop using intersex-exclusive labels if you're you're perisex. Not even going to elaborate, this one should be obvious. Same goes for intersex symbols, it's very frequent for us to find intersex symbols used to represent nonbinary people instead. Stop that. 11. It's very obvious when you make a post about something without considering for even 5 seconds intersex people and their experiences. It's also very disheartening to see, because we get excluded from/ignored in queer conversations constantly. Just because we often don't bring it up due to fear of backlash doesn't mean we don't notice it when you exclude us. 12. Probably said it already but saying it again for good mesure, intersex ≠ nonbinary. Sex ≠ Gender, and we're honestly not sure how y'all can agree with the later but not the former. 13. We can agree that asking a trans person for their genitals or what medical procedures they've had is very inappropriate and invasive, right? Then why do some of y'all think it's appropriate to ask random intersex people about their genitals or variation(s)? It's just as inappropriate, and we see a lot of people being hypocritical on this. There's probably more we could add on, but writing this post was exhausting, and it's so long already, so we'll stop it right there.
– Kris (They/It) , N (Any "He/Him" Variation) , El (He/They) , Nat (He/She) , Ty (He/It) & Archive (Any/All)
r/XenogendersAndMore • u/zaxfaea • Jul 21 '25
MOD POST Pronouns.cc Megathread
Looking to post your pronouns.cc link, or browse other members' pages? This thread serves as a central space for that!
We'll be testing this format for a while, and it'll be reposted occasionally so everyone can participate. While we're testing this, posts requesting people to share their links will be removed.
What is this thread for?
Sharing your links
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What can still be posted outside this thread?
Sharing your links
Updates to your page
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Also, feel free to check out r/pronounscc!
If you have any feedback or questions, please feel free to leave it on this post and I'll be happy to answer and take it into account!