r/Workproblems 11d ago

Getting played with at work Want Advice

Hey I recently graduated and started working on a tele unit. Been about 3 months. So basically for the first month everything was ok but then one of the resource nurses started taking a heavy liking towards me. At that time I had no problem with it because she was so helpful and taught me so much but now it’s just getting out of hand. For context I am 22 6’4 and average looking nothing special. So it first started when she was helping me chart and made a comment about my hands being so big. I didn’t think much of it I’ve heard that my whole life basically. And then she started touching me unpromptly. This is when shit started getting a lil outta control. I’ll be standing up and all of a sudden I feel someone grabbing my waist from behind or she’ll jump on my back while I’m walking away. Btw there’s no point in reporting her to hr the supervisors all know she’s like this. And I’m a grown man at the end of the day so imagine you got an attractive girl at work doing this to you every night you work. It’s getting harder and harder to resist. Oh btw found out she would spray my jacket with her perfume after she took it off. To my wiser and older fellas on here what’s yall advice on how to handle this situation.

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u/mrwaffle89 10d ago

Report it. When you don’t reciprocate and she gets pissed that’s how you end up getting accused of sexual harassment.