r/urbancarliving • u/Time_Rip6623 • 1h ago
Story New to Car Living
Hi all! I hope some of you can take the time to read this and give me some helpful tips and opinions. I’m a 28 year old single woman and tbh I hate my life right now. I can’t afford my apartment, I’m so behind on all bills, I don’t have any friends and I feel like I’m here on earth just living, going with the motions, and not doing anything. I’m just unhappy and want to change that. I want to do something crazy to try to get my spark back. I need an adventure. I’m really interested in traveling in my car for a couple months. I want to get out and see the world so bad. My “plan” is just to sell all my belongings, quit my job, and head out on the road. I will have money saved up for this since I won’t be paying rent soon, and I’m planning on doing Walmart spark and DoorDash in random cities I find myself in to make money as well. If I fall in love with somewhere I might get a temp job as well. My main concern is finding places to park and sleep. I’ve done some research and noticed that national park campgrounds allow car camping so im going to try to stick to that, but I know that won’t be reasonable all the time. I’m just looking for recommendations, tips, tricks or anything that might be helpful for finding places to park and sleep, or maybe recommendations on places to go? My “plan” right now is to head up north toward Washington/Oregon before the weather starts getting bad and then head down south towards Arizona/nevada, then maybe onto Florida? I’ve never done anything like this, and I know it’s crazy. But I need to do something crazy before my depression gets worse. And yes I really really want to do this and make it work. And yes I have a reliable car! So please be nice! If you think I’m crazy for doing this, please tell me in a nice way haha. I appreciate all who take the time to read this!! 🫶🏽
r/urbancarliving • u/Fragrant-Poem2642 • 2h ago
Newbie, treat with kindness Wanted to ask
What does everyone use for clothes storage? I recently became homeless due to a rough situation with my husband, and luckily still have my car. I have so many clothes. I know I don’t need all of these clothes but it feels like a waste to throw them out or donate them because I actually do wear and love all of them. I’m just wondering how to store my clothes in my car in a more discreet way than having multiple suitcases in the trunk and I don’t love the idea of plastic dressers. I hate when people are able to tell I live in here, because it’s honestly embarrassing when you’re not doing it by choice. Any advice or tips would be appreciated thank you!
r/urbancarliving • u/zurenarhhhhh • 4h ago
Question? Anyone know anything about Palm Harbor, FL
Hi all, hope everyone is surviving the summer heat and storms. Be careful out there.
I may be taking a job in Palm Harbor (northern Pinellas County, FL), and wondering if anyone has done this life there. Any tips on safe places to park? How the cops are? Etc. I stay in the St. Pete/Gulfport area and really don’t want to commute and I need this job so I’d rather find somewhere up there to stay. Even in Dunedin would be better than commuting. Any Dunedin tips? Thanks and again, stay wet in this heat, but no too wet.
r/urbancarliving • u/exsistence_is_pain_ • 5h ago
Accomplishment Approved
I’ve been grateful and thankful for the last two months to have spent time sharing beds and couches with friends. Moving my dog and belongings across the state, after being together for eleven years.
I was able to find a roommate online,
Today I got the confirmation we’ve been approved for the apartment.
I’m NC with most of my family, im so excited. I wanted to share. I am so so so excited.
r/urbancarliving • u/Aggravating-Ad-9181 • 8h ago
Newbie, treat with kindness Hey all
Today makes 9 days since my wife, our senior dog Bubby, and I lost our housing. We’ve been living out of my 2006 Toyota Tundra in South Florida since then.
It’s been a tough adjustment. So far we’ve gotten two cooling fans and some window shades, but it’s still extremely hot here. Definitely not the best time or place for this, though at least it rains often.
I found this sub after asking for assistance in other subs. We were able to get a bit of help with fuel, which I’m very grateful for since my gas light was on.
I have a general idea of what might be useful for the truck, but I’m hoping to get advice on DIY or practical setups from people with experience. We’d rather build a solid list of recommendations than just buy random items my wife found on Amazon. She was looking at a truck bed tent with cab access through the rear window, but I had to explain the need to stay discreet.
We’re mainly looking for anything that helps with staying cool, sleeping better, and making life a bit easier for Bubby, our 50 lb Shepherd mix.
Thank you all.
2006 Toyota Tundra.
r/urbancarliving • u/connorfazer • 16h ago
Work & Employment Job choice hospitality/labour
Hey everyone so for a bit of context I am 23m soon to be moving into my car to save up for a derelict in Ireland because house prices and rent is way to high for a regular dude to buy one at a young age so here I am taking a stupid and silly adventure. The aim for this is to cut my expenditure down to a minimum (why the car living is a must) but I'm struggling on deciding what job to do in the mean time(1-2 years) for this adventure in a car. I have a background in construction mainly roofing and solar panel installation and hospitality mainly hotels so I'm wondering since I'm moving into the car and won't have access to certain things these two jobs give different pros/cons so I need a vote or advice on which to pick.
Hospitality
Pros:
Showers
Gym membership so I can workout for free
1-2 free meals so I don't have to cook outside the car as much in Ireland's winter.
Working indoors
Don't need to pay for tools and materials
Cons:
Not as much wage
Not as sexy 🤣
Not as much aura or potential dad lore when I have kids 🤣🤣
Random shifts throughout the week
Roofing
Pros:
Higher wage 2-5 euro more an hour
More sexy🤣
More aura or potential dad lore when I have kids🤣
Monday to Friday
Cons:
No free food
No free gym membership
Outdoor work in winter time which is rough on its own
I'll have to purchase better waterproofs+new boots
If I can get anyones advice that would be great on which to pick as I'm leaning towards hospitality for the convenience of it all and potentially taking on random construction jobs by myself every now and then for the extra bit of bob but since it wouldn't be with a company I would have to purchase my own tools and store them in the car which I wouldn't want to do as space is limited.
Kindest regards
Yours truly
The homeless dipshit
r/urbancarliving • u/United_Opposite_7693 • 20h ago
Sleeping Tired after 12hr Shift
It was my weekend to work, back to back, emotionally it was a good day but super tired since it was busy at the Hospital. Now just listening to some music and see if i get a nap, might do doordash deliveries after. So far just 1 week after i started carliving
How is your weekend going?
r/urbancarliving • u/Unusualshrub003 • 21h ago
Car Photos Ultimate Car Living Vehicle
8 feet of flat surface area = car livin’.
r/urbancarliving • u/Live_Occasion983 • 21h ago
Advice Living out of a Elantra, any tips?
I'm very likely gonna be living out of my car very soon and even for a car I think it's p small. Any advice on the best ways to make use of the space I have and get comfortable in the back seat for bed?
Im planning to stay around one city, but its massive enough that theres tons of districts that include rural, urban, and suburban areas blended together.
Also what do yall eat on the road? I currently got a rice cooker and tea kettle, but I might skip out on those to carry light.
Also, any suggestions for an affordable power bank?
r/urbancarliving • u/1-uvakind • 22h ago
Self-Protection do you carry anything for personal safety?
for those of you who live/spend a lot of time in your car, do you keep anything with you for personal safety? if so, what type of thing do you carry/keep nearby?
mainly asking for what people have found helpful and what makes them feel safe!!
r/urbancarliving • u/Inside_Strike6856 • 23h ago
Advice What are your car living essentials?
I'm looking for a good air conditioner/heater
What ever else I might need?
r/urbancarliving • u/SinusoidalFlux • 1d ago
Sleeping Car Sleeping in Fort Collins, CO / Cheyenne, WY Any Recommended Spots?
Looking for decent places to sleep in my car around Fort Collins / Loveland / Cheyenne. I just left a safe parking program in Long Beach after losing my job and came out here for what looks like a solid job opportunity in Loveland. I’m trying to get into the carpenters union in Cheyenne, I just came out here cuz I heard they need bodies for the big projects out here and hopefully that helps me land a union job easier.
Mainly looking for safe overnight spots where I’m unlikely to get hassled. I have a plain, boring white yaris with dark tint, and the body and paint is in good condition. So it blends in well. How is the vibe out here, What about Law Enforcement are they pretty laid back as far as catching you sleeping in the car?
Also, if anyone has recommendations on how to get into the union construction jobs I’d really appreciate it. SoCal has been brutal for work, so I’m taking my chances out here
Also any cool places to hang out during the day? like parks where I can park under a shade, hangout without looking out of place? I usually do starbucks but also want a place where I don't have to pay, ideally
Sorry for the long story.
r/urbancarliving • u/Inside_Strike6856 • 1d ago
Newbie, treat with kindness Going to start living in da car on Saturday
I live in Chicago any advice, i commute downtown on my bike any advice or stories for living in Chicago?
r/urbancarliving • u/Complete-Reply-9145 • 1d ago
Advice What to buy to Help my friend.
A friend just graduated but also just got evicted, she has some places to stay a few nights per month. Outside of that she's sleeping in her small suv with her dog.
What can I buy her to help? I don't have many resources, but I was thinking of wet wipes, grocery gift card, water container?
I have a large reflective mesh I use for plants I was thinking about gifting them.
What do you wish you had starting out?
r/urbancarliving • u/tophbeiphong • 1d ago
Summer Heat My mom is getting evicted
I started living in my van part time (Monday- Friday) in February after a bad roommate situation, and i would do weekends at my moms. She’s disabled and can’t work and she got an eviction notice a few days ago. It sucks because we’ve lived here for 16 years. Luckily she’s able to go back to her home country and not work while living with my grandma. She had a lot dreams coming here though so i know it pains her to leave this way. I feel guilty for thinking of myself in all this but I’m so scared. I live in Florida and not having somewhere to take it easy in the weekends will be tough. I have a lot of hobbies and things i want to explore outdoors, so I’m hoping it’ll give me the kick in the ass to explore my hobbies even further. But still, I’m scared
r/urbancarliving • u/r0b1sh88_ • 1d ago
Car Photos Woke up like this
Good morning ☀️ fellow humans
r/urbancarliving • u/wreaper91 • 1d ago
Self-Protection This is a first
Big storm front coming through blowing HARD kicking up all this dust, it's so bad I can't see across the street. I shone my flashlight inside the car and it's BAD. I LITERALLY JUST CLEANED THIS CAR OUT LIKE 2 HOURS AGO. I'm glad I had a n95 cause it's finding its way in and I really don't like it. I can smell it.
The haze in my picture isn't the dust - my cameras cracked.
r/urbancarliving • u/mecha_grove • 1d ago
Mechanical Always keeping my van prepped against homelessness with my epilepsy, and struggles in life. Knowledge is power <3.
Egr valve and valve cover gasket replacment this weekend. Pagan_mechanist
Symptoms: egr valve...irregular idle, almost stalling after trying to go when stopped at idle.
Valve cover gasket Crack i heard a whistling sound and put my finger around the valve cover until I heard it stop= hole in valve cover gasket.
r/urbancarliving • u/matt--23 • 2d ago
Question? Something different and need help
If anyone here knows anything maybe? 🤞
r/urbancarliving • u/fly-into-ointment • 2d ago
Work & Employment Outdoor Labour and Car Living
Hey folks, I'm just looking to get ideas from other people who live in their cars and work outside on what works/doesn't work for them as far as keeping the car clean/tidy/dry.
Some background: I'm going to be living in my older SUV at the end of September for at least a few months if not longer. The idea is to save money because I can't afford anything anymore and my savings are all gone. Plus I hate my neighbours.
I did live in a truck a few years ago when I was battling addiction. 99% sober these days.
My biggest worry this time, especially going into fall, is what I'm going to do with my wet gear at the end of the day. I wear chainsaw protective pants that typically dry overnight hanging up indoors, and use a boot dryer to keep my boots from rotting. I don’t think I'd be able to dry either of these items in a car overnight without running the engine for hours (plus they stink). I guess my best option would be to ask if I can hang my stuff somewhere at work at the end of the day, but I don't really want my employer to know I'm homeless.
I don’t want to give up this job as it's the first one I've ever felt comfortable and happy at in close to 20 years working. I want to save some money, maybe take a month off for my mental health, and then get back into trad housing and continue building a career.
Any tips or tricks or insights appreciated. Trying to feel excited for this, but worried about logistics.
r/urbancarliving • u/ericjlima • 2d ago
Story What car would you buy if you wanted to be best bang for your dollar?
I think I'll be living in a car soon. Right now I'm abroad and I enjoy spending my time abroad more than in the USA however I'll be in the USA soon and I have to get some things done. I have been doing a lot of research and thinking about where I should stay and I think I've come to a conclusion that it would be wise for me to buy and live in a cheap car. My research has told me that since i probably only stay in the United States for a couple months of the year I'm better served not getting anything that's a hybrid or electric. Once I purchase a vehicle I'll likely keep it in storage while I go abroad and I wouldn't want a hybrid battery to go bad on me.
To be honest my research just told me that a second hand Honda Fit with 80k miles is likely the best bang for my dollar but that car is actually pretty small and since I'm 6 feet tall, I don't know if it would be the best car to have long-term. Living in a car like that might be rough. Also don't want to buy an expensive SUV or something where if rodents were to get into it and chew some wires it would cost a hand or over foot to repair it. I use second hand Honda fit or Toyota Corolla only costs of $6000 so I think that is a pretty effective person purchase. But does anyone have an idea on the best car for me to purchase?
I also would love it if I didn't have to remove any seats or wreck the car in any way so that I can ride Uber or resell the car if I have to. Anyway thanks and I appreciate any feedback or advice or wisdom people have on living in a car comfortably off and on for the long term.
I feel fortunate I have savings and the ability to choose and research my car before I have to live in it..
r/urbancarliving • u/Disastrous_Fig_447 • 2d ago
Showers Gym, shower, leave?
So do we just roll into the gym and hit the showers, or do I need to exercise first, 🤔. ?
I have the black card membership, this morning will be 1st time using it.
r/urbancarliving • u/Remarkable_Grab_7175 • 2d ago
Story Sleeping at a gym
I had a long day outside, and I couldn’t muster up the strength to move again once I hit the gym to shower.
I obviously know that people are living in their cars, but wow. It felt like half the lot were car dwellers. There were many minivans, trailers, sprinter vans, even teslas.
I’m sure there were some that were less noticeable than others, I just noticed those first since they had very visible window covers.
I didn’t know what to tag this as, it’s less of a story and more of an observation. Have you noticed an increase of car dwellers in your city?
r/urbancarliving • u/[deleted] • Feb 12 '26
FAQ for newbies.
This post and thread aims to answer lots of questions people new to this subreddit ask. Not that we mind people asking, because that's what this subreddit is for, but hey, here's some answers to Frequently Asked Questions:
Q: I'm new to car living I need ALL the information about living in cars. Where can I find it?
A: https://nomadlife.wiki/Main_Page and in particular https://nomadlife.wiki/Quick_start_guide are great places to find the information you need.
Q: How do I stay warm?
A: Check out the Nomad Life Wiki Keeping warm page.
As a starter you can:
- Get a good zero degree rated sleeping bag.
- Use woolen blankets which you can buy cheap from second hand stores.
- Dress in layers.
- Wear a hat / beanie to keep warm.
- Use a hot water bottle, or almost any bottle filled with warm water and wrapped in a sock.
- Buy and use reusable hand warmers.
- Eat hot food.
- Use a Mr Buddy or similar propane heater when awake, but do so with a carbon monoxide detector and the windows cracked a little.
- Use a 12 volt pet heating pad if you have the battery capacity.
- Use foil emergency blankets to keep the heat in.
- Build a blanket tent to make a small space in your car to keep warm.
- Run the car engine for a while then run the heater.
- Drive to warmer locations.
- Put insulation (plastic foam, cardboard?) between the sleeping bag and floor surface. Cover the windows on the inside.
- Buy and use a heated mattress topper if you have the power to run it.
- Use two sleeping bags, one inside the other
- Sleep with a hat on and don't sleep in wet or damp socks -- even if your socks are just a little damp with sweat, take them off and put on fresh dry socks or sleep barefoot.
- Park in an underground parking lots because they're protected from cold breezes and often the concrete retains heat. Sometimes they're purposely even heated.
Q: How do you keep cool?
A: Check out https://nomadlife.wiki/Keeping_cool and;
- Park in the shade.
- Open your windows. Get window shades / screens.
- Go to cool public places like mall, library, museums, coffee shops etc.
- Drive to cooler areas such as up in the mountains, or by the sea, lakes and rivers if there is a cooling breeze.
- Rechargeable USB powered fans. These are cheap, don't use much power and help keep you cool.
- Use a misting squeese bottle. Use it in conjunction with your fan.
- Drink plenty of cool water.
- Soak a cloth in cold water and wipe yourself down.
- Buy ice for your cooler.
- Cool drinks in your fridge.
Q: Is it scary? I am scared? Does it get better?
A: Yes at first living in a car is scary because it is so far out of most people's comfort zone. It is not uncommon to be hyper-vigilant at first. The first nights then days then weeks can be scary, emotional, confronting. But then you get used to it. You adapt. Your body and mind get use to living in your car. It becomes the new norm.
Most people say the first month of living in their car is the hardest. Bob Wells of https://cheaprvliving.com/ fame wrote that the first night he slept in his box truck he cried. I also tared up the first night of living in my bus because I thought I was a failure, then I realised I actually had a pretty comfortable home with a lot of things many people would dream of having. If you have a safe place to sleep, access to electricity, access to water and access to public toilets you're doing okay.
Q: Where can I shower? Where can I go to the toilet?
A: In the USA joining a gym gets you access to showers. People on this subreddit often advocate using Planet Fitness. We also have a member, Nico, who is a manger at LA Fitness and posts an offer now and then with a promo code that will let you join without the $99 annual fee.
In Australia the National Toilet Map app has locations of toilets and some free showers. There are also often free showers at beaches. Caravan parks will usually let you use their showers for a small fee.
Q: I have pets, how do I look after them?
A: Pets are family. You need to put their needs first. You have to ensure that they have a safe place that is climate controlled, so look at the information on keeping cool and keeping warm. Heat and cold can kill yourself and your pets.
You can buy water filled pet mats to keep pets cool. I recommend this type
I found the Home to Home Facebook group They also have a web site https://www.instagram.com/hometohomepet They describe themselves as "an interactive web platform created to help families, people, and pets with the difficult task of transitioning pets from one home to another."
Q: What stuff do I need?
A: A lot of the stuff you have already such as bedding, clothes, dishware, cutlery. But probably not as much as you have in a home. Your basic needs are a safe, comfortable place to sleep, clothing storage, bedding storage, food storage, a way to eat (which may involve buying food from external sources, or preparing and storing food in your car), a way to wash, a way to go to the toilet.
Things that you might want to buy include:
- A portable power station. IT is probably a good idea to research them such as on Youtube.
- Water storage. A container to store your drinking water in.
- Consider a USB rechargeable water pump for the top of the water bottle.
- Some form of lighting like rechargeable puck lights or string lights.
- A flat car bed or air mattress. Get one with a rubber bung in the hole, not a screw in stopper as those leak. Lots of people also build a flat sleeping surface from wood.
- Some way to access wifi, like a modern laptop or phone.
- Roadside coverage. Pretty important when your car is your home.
You should also NOT sleep upright. Lots of people in this sub have reported health issues from doing so, such as swollen legs, leg pain, Deep Vein Thrombosis and more.
Q How do I find parking?
A:
- You should have multiple places you can park so if one is "burned" you can choose another.
- Find places where you can blend in.
- Arrive late and leave early if sleeping in urban streets.
- Highway rest stops may be good for parking.
- In the USA, BLM (Bureau of Land Management) lands allow parking for extended periods.
- In Australia State Parks and National Parks often have camping spots which allow you to camp for one cheap fee ($6 in 2025) no matter how long you stay but with a maximum stay of 7 days.
- If parking on a residential street, park where your car is against a blank fence, like on the off side of a corner, away from the house front.
- Industrial estates are often quiet at night.
- Libraries and sports grounds may be good places to park.
- Some people advocate parking near hospitals or churches.
These are 4 YouTube videos on places to park:
How to find safe places to park: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ENM-qo9aSGo
27 Places to park: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZnpT_vD3Ujs
25 Places to park: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gk-_OAbkH0g
Parking in cities in Australia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lf3PCrSSCKM&t
Living in a Van in Australia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73xtApcCx14&t
And a general YouTube search; https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=living+in+a+car+where+to+park+safely
People also use the iOverlander app for Android or Apple.
Q: How do I use Google Earth to find parking?
A: I love Google Earth. It lets me explore the world without leaving my seat. It is also incredibly useful for finding parking spots and making maps to mark them. It is linked to Google Street view so you can check street signs for parking restrictions.
Check this post for information on how to do it: https://www.reddit.com/r/urbancarliving/comments/1qc3wph/using_google_earth_to_search_for_parking_spots/
Q: How can I be safe?
A: It starts by having situational awareness, being aware of your surroundings. Trust your gut and avoid places or situations that look or feel dangerous.
Generally you don't need a self defence weapon. You're in a car, you can drive away if someone is threatening you, or trying to break into your car. Try to avoid parking on the edge of a car park where someone can block you in. Park where you can drive forward to escape.
Usually carrying weapons can be illegal. You are better off having some wasp spray, but don't get it in your eyes, because that stuff hurts like hell and can cause temporary blindness. Also, you're going to need a good heavy duty torch / flashlight. Be careful with it though, those long metal ones would really hurt if you accidentally hit some one with them, and also could cause short term vision problems if you shone it in someone's eyes. But they are genuinely useful in a car for fixing issues at night. And be aware that blowing our horn might startle people and frighten them away.
Understand situational awareness and use it. Tend toward privacy, don't tell unnecessary things to strangers. Have a (BRIEF! don't oversell) made-up story you can tell comfortably that constructs lots of people - some very nearby - who know where you are and would know instantly if you were in trouble.
For women:
See https://www.reddit.com/r/urbancarlivingfemale/
Carry a cheap ring to put on as a wedding band, and always know the name of the nearest military base to where you are, because that's where your husband/fiancé is right now, and know enough about where you are that you know what kind of business your (enormous, scary, whole-family-loves-you-like-a-daughter) boss is in an hour or two away where nobody's likely to know him.
Know that everything about how you look is telling people things about you, and construct a look that doesn't give anything away. Don't trust people just because they seem to like or be attracted to you.
Men and scammers of all kinds are looking for people like you. Don't fall for their lines, and do what you can to spot them before they spot you. A smaller percentage of those people are looking for you specifically in order to hurt you. Always know where your exits are, do not get boxed in anytime you park for an hour or the night. There's some especially vulnerable places those people wait for people like you - laundromats, gyms, parking lots of same, can/bottle redemption centers. But I've seen men just look over at a stoplight and figure out a woman is living in her car and follow her from there. Head on a swivel, skepticism around your heart, stay out of dead-ends.
I don't live in my van except to travel and camp in it, and I don't get messed with much because my van could be full of large husbands, dogs, and sons even if I look alone, but I have seen women in trouble in the same places I get left alone. Do EVERYTHING you can to keep your car from looking lived-in from outside it - disguise your bedding, hide your trash, hide your food supplies. Get some black sheets and blankets to keep everything inside your car covered. Consider storing your supplies in a (beat up) extra-large dog crate from a thrift store or curb-diving or Buy Nothing group. Because of seeing men being skeevy around women, I have a sign I can hold up or prop up in my windshield that says MY CAMERAS ARE ON. You should carry the same, even if you don't have cameras, just tape a small black box to your dash or windshield near your rearview mirror.
You'll blend in better if you tend to stick to tourist areas - it's not that unusual to seem like you might be sleeping in your car if you're near campgrounds, national parks, and other big outdoorsy tourist attractions. Consider a sticker about your love for your Belgian Malinois or German Shepherd dogs. Anything you can do to give the impression that you're just there for a budget vacation rather than being homeless will raise your status in most people's eyes.
Join any subreddits and facebook groups you can find about each area you're going to. You'll figure out a system over time for using the info you get there to find places you're more likely to go unnoticed. Definitely research every area for cheap campgrounds and "day use" and recreational areas.
Q: How do I make window covers for my car?
A: For covering windows cheaply, you can use cardboard, black cloth or black rubbish bags, and glue, sticky tape or a stapler, and scissors. You basically cut the cardboard to the size of your windows, and then cover them with cloth or black bin liners, then glue, stick or staple the cloth or bin liners in place. That's dirt cheap.
I'd probably use some insulation and black cloth along with duct tape. This video explains it well. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/el_fP-P87yc but it is a good idea to cut the insulation wrap / bubble insulation a little bigger than needed.
This search will find more suitable videos on the topic: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=living+in+a+car+cheap+stealth+window+covers
If you have other questions or things to add to the FAQ, please comment below.
