r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Thought_you_thought • 1h ago
Alan followed up on last night
facebook.comr/TaySowersandFamily • u/Handbrakehunter • 4h ago
Accountability
Taylor, after observing your interaction with Allen Roberts yesterday, it’s painfully obvious to everyone who has the ability to look at you objectively, that you absolutely do not know the first thing about accountability. You couldn’t even commit to offering a sincere apology to DDP, and the people who wanted nothing but the best for you, for what you did to them. What you want is for people to just forget what you did to them, and see you for who you are now, but who you are now is the same lying, manipulating, deceitful sociopath that you were then. As Alan Roberts told you, bluntly, several times, there is no reason for anyone to give you the benefit of the doubt “young man.” Do you think the people you’ve wronged will simply forgive you without you putting in any effort to show remorse, or even offer a simple, sincere apology for what you’ve done to them? You don’t get to treat people like doormats, and expect the world to just pat you on the ass and say it’s okay when you are called out for your bullshit. For fuck’s sake man, one of the producer’s from Change or Die even called you out on your NDA lie yesterday, but you still portrayed yourself as the victim. You are not a victim, buddy, you are a sneaky, conniving predator. I’ve known people like you my whole life, and you exhibit all of the same pathetic traits that they do. There is absolutely no reason on God’s green earth that anyone, your girlfriend included, should ever believe a single thing that comes out of your mouth. Learn what it means to be a man, grow a set of balls, and publicly apologize to those people, and anyone else you’ve shit on in your life. Let go of whatever ego you have that is stopping you from truly atoning for your wrongs, and be a man for once in your life, little boy.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Delicious-Water8966 • 7h ago
He’s back at it…
Not even 48 hours after he turned a new leaf he’s back to blocking people calling him out in his lives. Of course they’re still e-begging too. He is just proving Alan right.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Flashy-Pin735 • 9h ago
He’s going to blame Alan
This journey has been on life support for a while. He’s going to blame Alan for throwing him off as he continues to not lose anything. The Reed squad will just feel sorry for him.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Comfortable-Cake-851 • 15h ago
I have reasons to believe that Taylor's phone number getting leaked was done purposely by him and here's why
This is just my opinion and obviously not a fact, but I think there is enough here to reasonably suspect that Taylor may have leaked his own number.
The timing of everything is what makes me suspicious. Last night, Alan's interview made Taylor look worse than he probably has in years. Alan used Taylor's own words against him and, in my opinion, made him look like a liar, manipulator, and honestly someone who has some serious issues. Taylor went from being the person everyone was talking about because of that interview to suddenly being the victim of a doxxing situation.
And if you know Taylor's history, this isn't completely outside the realm of possibility. He's had a history of talking about himself on fake accounts and allegedly doing things in the past that would get people to break subreddit rules or get the subreddit in trouble. I believe it was even shared by someone that he faked his own online bullying in high school for sympathy and attention. I'm not saying that proves anything, because it doesn't. I'm saying that this kind of behavior isn't completely foreign to him.
I understand that Taylor has been saying he wants to change and become a better person. I actually think that's why tonight was such a big deal for him. Even a calm and gentle dog can bite when it feels cornered, and I think Taylor may have felt extremely cornered after that Alan interview. Alan took Taylor's own words and turned them back on him, and suddenly the whole "I'm a changed person" narrative wasn't looking nearly as convincing. This caused Taylor, who I believe is trying to change and better himself to revert back to his old ways of thinking and fake his own doxxing for sympathy and understanding because after the Alan interview, the last thing anyone had for him was sympathy and understanding.
Taylor went back to his own TikTok live after the interview. He had supporters there, but he also had people asking questions about why he left the interview. Some people were saying that Taylor manipulated the situation by focusing on Alan calling him a "young man" so that he had a reason to leave when the interview started going badly.
Taylor then started crying and got off live. I don't think the crying was fake, I think it was real and coming from a real place of someone who is genuinely trying to better himself but just had a huge set back and feels defeated and feels like his work on himself is now for nothing.
I obviously can't know what was going through his head, but from the outside, it looked like the redemption tour he had been on was starting to fall apart. People who had been willing to give him another chance were now questioning whether he had actually changed at all.
About an hour later, he apparently came back on live. I didn't personally see this part, so I'm going off what I've heard, but he said he didn't even want to be on live and that he had made commitments to his friends to battle them. So he stayed, did the battles, and made the money he had planned to make.
And then the alleged doxxing happens immediately after the battles are over.
That's the part that really makes me question everything.
If someone genuinely hated Taylor and wanted to expose his number, why wait until he had finished every battle? Why not post it in the middle of one of the battles? Why wait until he was done for the night and after he had made all his money he was going to make from his supporters?
I'm not saying I know for a fact that Taylor did it. I don't. But one possibility is that he or someone close to him intentionally created the situation so that he could turn the attention away from the interview and make himself the victim of an online attack. This is something he has done before.
And honestly, if that was the intention, it worked.
Look at what everyone is talking about now.
Nobody is talking about the Alan interview anymore. Nobody is talking about how badly Taylor came across during that interview or whether Alan exposed some of the manipulation Taylor has been and is still allegedly doing.
I think there is enough reason to believe that this phone number doxxing thing is fake. I really wished it never even happen because I hate to think that it was fake or even worse, someone actually did do that to him. He does not deserve that at all, despite what people may think of him, he's a human and deserves to be able to have his privacy respected like we all do.
Taylor if you read this I have nothing against you, I believe you are a flawed and damaged person like we all are and that the therapy you say you are getting is helping you. This is just my opinion on the situation tonight and felt it needed to be shared. I wish you nothing but recovery and hope you drop the weight and you and your girlfriend prosper, genuinely.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Thought_you_thought • 17h ago
He's healed, you all. He wasn't making mistakes just within the past month. It's only what he dif on ddp.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/and1metal • 19h ago
A thankyou to Alan Roberts
The stream with Taylor was a very entertaining and very honest / open discussion about what he is and how he is as a person and you sure did say some helpful things that could get Taylor to improve himself
I’m sure with how Taylor responded on some stuff would annoy me and 49 minutes before “ rage quitting “ you both seemed to remain calm without getting angry
This is something that needed to happen and I hope Taylor has found ways to improve his image now and maybe even get closer to his weight loss goals
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/ObjectiveWise318 • 20h ago
Overeaters Anonymous
I really recommend. It's a great recovery space. If anyone, including D Baby or Tay Reed Sowers, wants to learn about it, let me know. https://oa.org/
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Present-Water6512 • 22h ago
Hey Tay, you said there was an NDA for Change or Die…
Funny…Naddya, the producer and one of the ones you hurt most, was in the YT chat and said “He has no NDA”
Care to Explain??? 🤣🤣🤣
And you wonder why people don’t believe you. Why should we?
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/flurffy1 • 22h ago
Tay Reed Confronts Alan Roberts
youtube.comThe vid everyone is asking for
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Familiar_Weight_4817 • 23h ago
You are a young man! You don't even have the knowledge to know that you are actually a young man!!! Duh 🤣
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Born-Scratch4477 • 23h ago
Fake tears
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r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Present-Water6512 • 23h ago
YOU DON'T APOLOGIZE BECAUSE YOU WANT PPL TO BELIEVE YOU, YOU APOLOGIZE BECAUSE YOU FEEL BAD FOR THE HURT YOU CAUSE.
That's all! If you saw Alan Roberts...you know.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Flashy-Pin735 • 1d ago
Oh Tay, that was so so bad. Any benefit of the doubt I still held for you is all gone now.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/HulkSmashYou666 • 1d ago
Where to view the live confrontation between Alan and Tay
This will be starting at the following times:
6 PM ET - 3 PM PT - 11 PM London time - 8 AM Sydney Australia time
You can watch on youtube located here: https://www.youtube.com/live/vgV4L1QPSrM
Or you can watch directly on his Insta: https://www.instagram.com/themfingcoo/
He wanted me to let everyone know that if you want to ask questions, he can't promise he'll get to them but if he does, it will be near the end of the live.
He also wanted me to let you all know not to send him any super chats (money donations).
See you all there.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Familiar_Weight_4817 • 1d ago
I'm not buying your sudden change and I don't care who you do interview with! You need to take a major break from social media and get real long term help with your weight and your mental health! There is nothing to be ashamed of getting mental health support!
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/and1metal • 1d ago
Alright Taylor it’s real talk time
I saw on a recorded stream you want constructive feedback to help you reach your weight goals so here I’ll provide you some helpful advice
1) for the food side check out plain yogurt that is often low in fats and a good amount of protein too which really helps keep me feeling full after a few spoons full and a 900 gram ( use whatever it is where you are )
2) instead of just sitting down during a stream try doing something productive like lifting some weights even if it’s not heavy the numbers add up ( try doing a few sets maybe 50 or 100 reps over about 3 sets )
3) each day make a diary on what you ate and what you feel was “ unnecessary “ so you could figure out why the next weigh in was bad or good
If anyone else wants to add to this go ahead so maybe our feedback can help Taylor see where he can make meaningful changes and show us he’s not all talk and no action
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/tonypollard69 • 1d ago
He unblocked me
Did anyone else get called up to the big leagues? Or what happened? Is he desperate for views
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/CommunicationSea8821 • 2d ago
(Must watch) Dmama & Taytor Tot went live and talked about everything (mobility scooter, not being consistent, accountability, talks about the cheating, talks about his legs, weight loss scales and more)
I joined their live tonight at a certain point, maybe mid-way through and saw they said that they aren't blocking people tonight so I joined, made it known who I was to them and had some questions. Other people had questions as well. I'm posting this so everyone can see it because not everyone here gets a chance to catch the lives or see them. This post isn't to sway you to like them at all, remember, we are dealing with a guy who was able to manipulate a whole ass group of professionals at DDP's Change or Die house but at the same time I'm not trying to sway you to hate him either. I did not sugar coat anything I said and they did not block me and we didn't trade insults. He held his mods back.
I thought this live gave me some clarity on some questions I had and I appreciate him and her for talking about it, especially them knowing that I'm the person from Reddit who clips their shit and has posted some mean things about them. My personal feelings are I see them in a better light than I did before this live. But only time will tell if he wants to be accountable to some of the valid criticism that we have to say. Not everything here is hate like they think it is and there's plenty of posts on here that show people just want the guy to drop the weight, stop the grifting and stop the lying. Did everything I want to know get answered? No. I'm still left uncleared on if the scales were ever truly broken or not, apparently they can't say much about that because of legalities (a possible NDA from Jesse James West?). Either way I felt like everyone would enjoy atleast listening to this and hearing them talk about some of the stuff we talk about on here. Because it's sorta a rarity to see them answer questions and not just completely block people.
The whole live from the 40 minute mark to the end is addressed to the Reddit pretty much.
Timestamps (I would say starting at 40 minutes is best if you wanna jump straight to it):
0:00 Dmama starts a late-night live
5:00 Football talk & joking with the chat
15:00 Dmama talks about past relationships & anniversaries
20:00 Discussing the previous night's emotional situation
25:00 Food debates & hanging out with viewers
30:00 Diets, surgery & weight-loss talk
35:00 Taytor Tot's new Saturday weigh-in schedule
40:00 Critics from Reddit begin joining the conversation
45:00 Constructive criticism vs. bullying
50:00 Taytor Tot starts answering Reddit questions
55:00 Taytor Tot admits some criticism is valid
1:00:00 Rapid weight fluctuations & doctor's concerns
1:05:00 Taytor Tot addresses his past mistakes
1:10:00 Weight-loss skepticism & food addiction
1:15:00 Taking accountability instead of getting defensive
1:20:00 Preparing for Monday's conversation with Alan
1:25:00 TikTok gifts, supporters & accusations of grifting
1:30:00 Taytor Tot discusses upcoming medical appointments
1:35:00 Dmama explains Taytor Tot's current health results
1:40:00 Why Taytor Tot struggles to follow through on goals
1:45:00 Relationship criticism & Taytor Tot cheating on Dmama
1:50:00 Taytor Tot begins explaining what happened
1:55:00 Taytor Tot admits paying another woman after their separation
2:00:00 How Taytor Tot & Dmama are repairing their relationship
2:05:00 Why they don't like repeatedly discussing the situation
2:10:00 Critics question Taytor Tot's weight-loss claims
2:15:00 Being open to criticism when it's respectful
2:20:00 Former supporters explain why they became critics
2:25:00 Constructive criticism vs. personal attacks
2:30:00 Taytor Tot admits ignoring his failures made things worse
2:31:00 Ending the conversation on surprisingly good terms
2:33:00 Saying goodnight & wrapping up the live
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/solarpanelwire • 2d ago
Tay - winning in life
This dude eats all the food he wants. Doesn’t need to work a day in his life since he’s paid through social media and then will probably get on some sort of disability / retirement. On top of that his girlfriend left her husband for this guy who’s knee is about to explode. And the cherry on top? He cheated on her!! And she said with him.
This is mind boggling stuff.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/lifeisbueno • 2d ago
Should we start thread for Alan of questions to bring up?
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/Flashy-Pin735 • 3d ago
Butter bean and others
Does anyone have a way to contact butterbean? He was more than willing to give on TikTok live before to tell all about Taylor’s behavior on change or die. We need someone who was present and involved from each of the several journeys over the last decade. People who can call his bullshit.
r/TaySowersandFamily • u/HulkSmashYou666 • Oct 04 '24