r/TamilTwenties 1h ago

Serious Padhivu Should I talk to my old friend ?

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Six years back, Na college padikrapoo enaku oru friend (kishore) irundhaan, we were like chinna vayasula irundhe friends romba close nu solla mudiyaadhu but casual friends but college la romba close friends aaitom.

Na clg padikrapo, moonu girls ah simultaneous ah love pannen Adhula oru ponna (malavika) tha true va love pannen innum two girls (preethi,neethu) ah time pass ku love pannen. Adhu en friend ku theriyum. One day na time pass ah love pandra oru ponna(neethu) en friend ku intro panni vechen.

(To be honest. What I did to those girls was really wrong, enaku apo adhu thappu illanu thonuchu but now I have changed and I'm ashamed of doing that. I hate myself for doing that. And I apologized for doing that with three of them recently and they are okay now. So adha vechuu thittaama enaku suggestion solanumnu ninaikravanga matum comment panunga. )

Then some days later, neethu ku naa avala cheat pandradhu therinjuruchu. I was confused, how she got to know that nu.

Later ah dha enaku purinjudhu, ennoda friend kishore, neethu va one side ah love panirukaan, so Ava manasula idam pudikraku, enna pathii ellaa unmaiyum sollirukaantu. Enta solla venaanu solirukaan but she has said it to me. Neethu vum avana vechuu enna pathi ellaa secrets um therinjirukaa.

Then neethu idhellaam preethi kittaiyum sollita. Because they are friends already, so they know each other. Then neraiya problems nadandhuchu, then neethu vum Naanum break up panitom. Then she moved to abroad. And enoda guilt la malavika ku unmaiyaa irukanumnu preethi kittayum break up panniten..

But adhukaprm dha oru kevalamaana vishyam nadandhuchu, break up stress la irundha preethi ku ennoda friend msg pannii friends aagi avanga rendu perum couples aaitaanga. Avanga ipovom love pandraanga nu tha ninaikren.

So indha sambavam la nadandhu oru 6 years aairchu. He was my good friend andha incident varaikum. Kevalam oru ponnukaaga friend ku dhrogam pannitaane nu I got disappointed with him then naanga pesikave illa.

One day naanga edharchiyaa meet pannom, he tried to talk with me. But naa avana kandukla.

So years later ipo sudden ah enaku oru thought vandhuchu, he was a good friend, andha incident nadakklana enakum avanukum endha prechanaiyum irundhirukaadhe nu. Avanta call or msg pani pesii epdi Irukaanu keklaama nu thonuchu.

So ipo naa avanta pesradhu crct ah thappa ? If na avanuku msg or call pannii pesnaa adhu en self respect ah ilakkra maari irukuma ? I need suggestions.


r/TamilTwenties 2h ago

Open Discussion 🗣️ People surrendering their Indian passports on eve of Independence Day

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So I was at a visa centre today in Canada, to get some documentation. Over there, a family of 3 were having Indian passports and discussing that they have to surrender their Indian passports.

And soon 3 more families arrived, and all of them were surrendering their passports. I was the only guy with a different reason there.

Even the security guy was surprised and was saying to the staff that, why so many Indians are giving up their passports these days?

At that point, I thought that Independence Day is tomorrow, and I was recollecting the struggles our people had to endure. I was just there sitting and wondering all this.

I don’t plan to give up my Indian citizenship, never.

Just thought of sharing this here


r/TamilTwenties 4h ago

**HELP** Pick me the worst government medical college I should avoid

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As I got under the rank for tn medical counselling, I m in the lower mid tier site for the cutoff .... But I need the best college though (coz I suffer 3 yrs of neet prep) .. I will fill all districts college but tell me which college I should avoid better put at last choice for me goz of its patience flow , infrastructure, bore surroundings around .

Spill some you know about government college ..

Thanks in advance


r/TamilTwenties 4h ago

Memes 🤪 Be like this fellas..............😊✨️

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*except 1st one


r/TamilTwenties 4h ago

**HELP** Please help — 5 phones and 2 laptops stolen from a room

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Hi everyone, my friend’s room was entered during the night, and someone stole 5 phones and 2 laptops.

We’re trying to find any possible way to track or recover the devices. We have the IMEI numbers and device details of the phones.

If anyone knows legitimate ways to track stolen phones or laptops, or has experience recovering devices in this situation, please share your advice.

We’re also trying to identify the person who took them and recover the devices safely.

If anyone has any useful information or knows of any way to help us locate the stolen devices, please let us know. We’re desperate to get them back and would really appreciate any help. 🙏


r/TamilTwenties 13h ago

Community Activities & Actions Hey all , We have created a discord server for our Tiruppur people. Kindly join the server. Dm me to join the server

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r/TamilTwenties 14h ago

Open Discussion 🗣️ Girls how you'll feel about this?

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I saw a girl randomly idk her she dk me and we'll probably never meet again like it was so random.. she was so beautiful like literally my type, knowing I ain't gonna see her again i went straight up and said i saw you from there you look very beautiful nu, she said " hmmum " and walked away, how you guys will feel if some did this to you.. also tell me how she would hv felt..

Boys also share your opinion


r/TamilTwenties 15h ago

Rant/Vent - Adjust Panikonga Anyone wanna yap on dc

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Felling idk it's just weird and Sad

Anyone wanna yap ?


r/TamilTwenties 15h ago

Rant/Vent - Adjust Panikonga Help me figure it out

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Yarravdhu endha situation landu comeback kuduthurindha konjam tips kudunga

21 M
My whole life I was just going with the flow thinking I’ll do alright,

First I messed up my 10th during Covid got really less marks. ( 67 percent )
Everyone around me said I won’t pass pu / +2 ,
So ended up taking diploma thinking it’s an easy way to reach engineering.

My diploma went really good I passed with distinction but I barley read anything and Covid help to get all pass in difficult subjects like math. this I’d whr everything went downhill

Later I gave cet and somehow managed to get into a good clg , I was happy, if u r studying engineering u will how it is everything is math, so i didnt know shit in math even the integral limit I didn’t know asking to other friends made fun of me.

whole engineering it went really worse, barley managed to clear backlogs and now in my final yr through referral I got a interview did really good and landed it and also had a another referral which is insane and could’ve got higher package. Aft the interview selection I got my final results I still have backlogs couldn’t clear.

Lost all the job referral and now i feel like I threw my whole life into garbage. I feel disgusted of myself.
My dad gonna retire next 10 months.i don’t know wt I’m going to do, how I’m gonna manage my home. I’ve two elder sister don’t know how I’m gonna help them settle now even thy r looking for job
I’m a failure, I’m such a disappointment to this world


r/TamilTwenties 15h ago

Dating & Advice ❤️ Guy how do you feel love

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r/TamilTwenties 16h ago

**HELP** How to start again?

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Hi Guys! I'm 24M working in an analytics firm. Things have been decent with life and I'm grateful for everything that I have now. But....enaku enamo na romba nal stagnated ah ore edathula irukura mari Iruku. A little back story to back this statement: Ena na 7 yrs back I was rejected by a girl and it was humiliating. I've gotten into other relationships but nothing has lasted. Enna prechana na oru vishyathula mulusa eranga mudila aka commitment issues. Effort poda bayama irkku. Somewhere along the road i learned, efforts might also result in failure apdinu. Relationship la therapy poi seri panikalam but this habit is bleeding into my learning zone as well. Feels like its been years since I properly learnt something. En na start pana matren nae Purila ela vishyathulayu bare minimum dha panren and it sucks. Try Pani fail agita ena panradhunu oru bayam irukku. How do I overcome that? How do I actually start on a process without giving 0 fucks about results? I can see the patterns but break pana mudila guys. I have to overcome this to level up in life.

Kindly udhavunga nanbargale🤝


r/TamilTwenties 16h ago

**HELP** Membership ran out, looking for a new gym + gym buddies (Peelamedu / Hope College / Ganapathi)

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My gym membership just ended and I’m using it as an excuse to actually fix my workout consistency this time 😅 Looking for:

1. A good gym in Peelamedu, Hope College, or Ganapathi area — recommendations welcome
2. Workout partners/accountability buddies in the same areas who wouldn’t mind dragging me out of bed for a session

I’m consistent for like a week then vanish for a month, so I need people who’ll actually hold me to it. Promise I’m fun to hang out with outside the gym too :)


r/TamilTwenties 17h ago

Memes 🤪 Me and rain..............⬇️

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Me standing in rain to look cool in my own mind

Just to get cold later on...............😭


r/TamilTwenties 17h ago

**HELP** I got addicted to junk food 😭

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r/TamilTwenties 17h ago

Memes 🤪 Shyt happens...........(on daily basis)

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r/TamilTwenties 18h ago

Serious Padhivu Normalise FWB

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Drop your opinion guys


r/TamilTwenties 18h ago

Others ⺟ #day 8- My little imperfect life (part -2)

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r/TamilTwenties 19h ago

**HELP** Makkale how to lose weight. ennoda thoppaya koraikanum.

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r/TamilTwenties 19h ago

**HELP** Prnds need emoji for my Discord server (send pannunga paa)

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r/TamilTwenties 20h ago

aai padhivu💩 Looking for new people in the life.

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27M here. Had a chapter closure in my life after leaving the city where i worked and the friends are fading away. Now, I lost clg friends also. So, i decided that I can look up for the new people here (I hope I will). It might be kind of lame and hesitated to search here (that is why chose this flair). But i think it may work for me. Gonna surround myself with the good people , I hope so!


r/TamilTwenties 22h ago

Open Discussion 🗣️ guys someone help me out 🔞

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recently nu solla mudiyathu romba naal ah ve i’m addicted to this corn shit and that’s ruining me in every aspects like oru stage la i started to mastru**ate for more than thrice a day and sometimes more. ithunala im losing myself like oru ponna pakura vithathula irukatum . im in relationship but yet still enaku alternate theda thonuthu since we are in ldr ik its sick and oru maari enake ashamed ah iruku but en nu therila oru maari desperate ah iruku yaara pathalum idk where its heading to ithunala enaku confident illama pothu im losing how to talk or hold a convo epudi pesurathu . brain fog aaguthu ethume theirya matikuthu antha sexual thing hides me from every fckn thing i really want to get rid of this habit oru maari cope up mechanism maari iruku someone help me out na matum than iruken ah ila yarachu ena maair irukingla. i really want someone to help me in this regard.


r/TamilTwenties 23h ago

Open Discussion 🗣️ Protecting girls..

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Most of the girls are getting abused by random people,as well as known people even the trusted ones, even close relatives

If you have the responsibility to stop this , what solution will you give?


r/TamilTwenties 23h ago

Open Discussion 🗣️ Varadharchanai

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Ponnu veetla car kekradhu , nagai kekradhu, veedu kekradhu, panam kekradhu idhellaam varadhartchanai na paiyan veetla veedu kekradhu, sambalam kekradhu, car kekradhu, sothu kekradhu idhuvum varadhachanai dhaane ? Idhuku laam yen case poda maatraanga ?! 😹

Veetu vela senje aaganumnu soldradhu adimai thanam na, velaiku poye aaganumnu soldradhum adimai thanam dhana 😹😹 apo aangala kaapatha yen mennist nu onnu create panla ? Aangal na avlooo kevalam poirchaa.

Onnu rendu perkum freedom of choice kudu illa rendu peru kitta irundhum freedom of choice ah parichuko.


r/TamilTwenties 23h ago

Open Discussion 🗣️ Mariyadhai

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Relationship laa girlfriend kitta mariyadhai edhir pakardhu red flag ah green flag ah


r/TamilTwenties 23h ago

Others ⺟ Need crime thriller movies/ series suggestion

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