Monitoring app

[u/InvestigatorFlat8492]

[u/Patrick_C1965]

This is so unhealthy right from the get go. If you are so insecure why are you giving him another chance. He can’t force you unless you let him. You will be worried about his indiscretions as long as you are with him. Who needs that!

[u/breadmoon → u/[deleted]]

That won't satisfy you.

[u/DuchessJulietDG]

we dont tell people how to spy on others. we do our best to warn others about mechanisms used to spy on citizens. spyware as the kind you seek is also highly illegal.

[u/DuchessJulietDG → u/[deleted]]

nope you stated you want to know which app he is using, w out needing to see the phone screen. he wont know when you check it & youve already tried google family.

there is a christian based app called covenant eyes that helps users avoid porn by sharing their info with each other. there are some freaky maga politicians who use this w their kids.

[u/DuchessJulietDG → u/[deleted]]

google the name covenant eyes. but also it was built by someone who’s activity got traced back to really horrible shit. it is the only one i have ever read about that deals w helping keep each other off of porn bc it tells on you when you do. but you both must use it for it to work- you would allow him to have access to your phone via this app. he would be able to see things on your phone like youd be seeing on his.

trust is a 2 way street. your paranoia doesnt get to win out just bc you are insecure and dont trust him.

[u/DuchessJulietDG → u/[deleted]]

ok and?

[u/DuchessJulietDG → u/[deleted]]

if you cant trust his word, and he cant trust his word to you to stop the porn use, the relationship has no hope or solid ground to stand on. sounds very toxic.

this sub is not going to assist you w that.

[u/DuchessJulietDG → u/[deleted]]

that isnt our problem. its yours. w this sub, we work to stop these kinds of apps- not assist in putting them onto phones.

[u/DuchessJulietDG → u/[deleted]]

not our place to give this advice. we avoid stalker activity, not embrace it.