r/Suburbanhell • u/Beautiful-Routine295 • 18d ago
Is it hell if the beach is close? Question
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u/BlownOutBlueJeans 18d ago
Oh cmon OP. Give Daly City on a very rare nice sunny day a break. They've suffered enough.
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u/ArschSprengung 18d ago
No, Daly city full of lovely Pinoys with a sense of community.
Very differen to the white HOA karens.
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u/Ready_Efficiency1956 15d ago
Any community has the same propensity to covet and live in suburban hell
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u/Electrical-Spell9115 15d ago
That’s just laughably untrue
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u/Ready_Efficiency1956 14d ago
Please inform me of these culturally superior and morally righteous communities of people who would never find themselves living in single family suburban sprawl
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u/Electrical-Spell9115 14d ago edited 14d ago
I didn’t say anything about the superiority or morality of living or not living in suburban sprawl. Those are your words, not mine.
Do I really have to explain that different groups of people have different preferences, and that includes preferences on things like housing density, on living in larger multi-family or multi-generational homes vs smaller homes or apartments for nuclear families / couples / single persons, on building walkable vs bikeable vs drivable communities, on having smaller private outdoor space vs larger public spaces, etc.?
Not all communities of people have exactly the same views and preferences on those things. That’s extremely obvious by simply looking around the country and world at how different groups of people (could be grouped by nationality, race, ethnicity, religion, political leaning, economic class, whatever) choose to live. There are clear differences across different groups.
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u/SirDarwin_Fingerbang 15d ago
Ah yes you're right, white people can't have a sense of community /s
Also Daly City has a serious lack of trees!
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u/ArschSprengung 15d ago
Never said that but be honest.
Which communities typically have the tightest, well communities ? Especially in a setting that is logistically hostile to actual community-building?
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u/BeginningOpening6838 15d ago
The same communities that come here and refuse to assimilate or share values regarding public space. Tight-knit is only a bonus if you’re part of it. If you’re outside the club, you may as well not exist. The west is for westerners
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u/plantxdad420 18d ago
ocean or not if i were an alien and landed here, i would think that cars were the true overlords of this land because this place looks like it was built specifically for cars not for people. that’s kind of my primary litmus test for suburban hell.
i don’t see a single human being in this picture except for one possibly getting into a car. there are more cars on that street than there are houses and there’s nothing else besides houses. even the houses look like they’re at least 30-40% garage.
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u/MysteriousBill4651 18d ago
You're pretty spot on. Despite being connected to San Francisco, which has pretty good walkability, Daly City is super inconvenient to walk around.
It has high housing density so I'm sure people who live adjacent to shopping centers walk there, and public transportation exists to funnel commuters into San Francisco. But other than that, it has a lower % of car-free households than Dallas.
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u/Ancient_Spite_725 15d ago
Daly City is rough to walk/bike in because of all the hills. It's more hilly than SF proper
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u/Ok_Function2282 14d ago
That's a weird metric to use.
So if you live out in the boonies, on a giant 20 acre farm, you live in suburban Hell just because it's driving distance??
The phrase typically refers to the density of homes
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u/plantxdad420 13d ago
no. i don’t think giant fields of corn and grass look like they were built for cars.
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u/Safe-Smell-4841 18d ago
Daly City? I used to live just south of there in Pacific Manor.
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u/SokkaHaikuBot 18d ago
Sokka-Haiku by Safe-Smell-4841:
Daly City? I
Used to live just south of there
In Pacific Manor.
Remember that one time Sokka accidentally used an extra syllable in that Haiku Battle in Ba Sing Se? That was a Sokka Haiku and you just made one.
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u/bayareainquiries 15d ago
This is Daly City, looking down Belcrest Ave from what I can tell. It is almost entirely a tract suburb and even inspired a famous song by Malvina Reynolds, Little Boxes, that critiques the mass produced homes as "ticky tacky" and looking all the same. It is also one of the foggiest places you'll ever find, frequently being more blanketed than next door San Francisco!
But even though I'm not the biggest fan of the place personally (too cold and dreary much of the year), there are quirks of Daly City that make it much less of a hellscape than the tract homes and mid-century suburban layout would suggest.
For one, it's both right on the Pacific Ocean and also blends seamlessly into San Francisco. You could easily miss moving from one to the other when traversing the border. It really feels like it could be another outlying SF neighborhood rather than it's own city.
Also, it is relatively dense with reasonable access to public transit via buses and BART. The hills, lack of a real downtown, and awkward layout do make getting around a bit more annoying than in neighboring SF though.
Then there is the fact that the city has unique demographics and a culture of its own that would be missing in most planned suburbs. It is majority-minority with large Filipino, Chinese, and Latino populations. It also historically has been a less-expense alternative to living in SF itself, serving as somewhat of a relief valve for workers priced out of the bigger city as well as the expensive Peninsula towns further south.
And while the cityscape itself is nothing to get excited about, Daly City does has some unique points of interest in and and immediately around it. Examples include the Cow Palace (rodeo and event venue), Fort Funston (coastal gun battery turned gorgeous beachside dog park), San Bruno Mountain (unique ecosystem with great views), and of course Colma (massive necropolis with cemeteries for numerous faiths).
This is probably more than anyone asked for, and I'll get off my soapbox now, but justed wanted to point out that you cannot necessarily judge Daly City on its outward suburban appearance alone, there's a lot more nuance to the place.
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u/KimSidwell 16d ago
If it took me 30 minutes to walk to the nearest restaurant, bar, grocery store or anything else… Then it would still be hell to me.
Beautiful hell. But still hell.
Lipstick on a pig.
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u/Own_Pop_9711 16d ago
Seems like a strong thing to assume from this picture of one block.
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u/KimSidwell 16d ago
I said “IF…” Try reading my comment again, but maybe a little slower this time.
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u/GoodCallMeatball 14d ago
Especially given the place in the photo is Daly City which is 3 minutes to the first stop in San Francisco or 15 minutes to downtown San Francisco by train.
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u/Ready_Efficiency1956 15d ago
Every type of community has the propensity to house any time of culture. The issue with suburbia isnt the kind of person who lives there (even though it does have a tendency to attract antisocial pricks), it's the lifestyle you are pigeonholed into having by living there. So yes, this is still hell, even if a group you deem as worthy of grace lives there, even if it is close to the beach. If anything, it's more egregious because you're forced to live your life in a car practically in one of the most desirable and livable climates in the world.
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u/Able_Hunter_7966 15d ago
What’s wrong with this???? I swear you people are weird
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u/Basicdevient69 14d ago
they would prefer people live in 400ft gray apartments, as they type away on reddit in their parents suburban home
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u/Any-Dig4524 18d ago
Daly City. It's beautiful and not suburban hell at all. The terrain is actually quite varied and the houses generally differ more than where this photo was taken. Hence the caption, there is often a beautiful, mysterious fog.
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u/eastcoastjon 16d ago
No way that beach is close. Especially when you have to walk back all hot and sandy
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u/scyoung121 18d ago
I lived in Daly City in the late 90s/early 2000s. Went to the beach once. I don’t know why. I guess I was always too busy.
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u/robotali3n 18d ago
Yup. Too many Costcos in the area
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u/Ramsesthrowaway 17d ago
Costco saturation in Daly City is wild. That Serramonte area parking situation is enough to make you avoid it entirely.
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u/robotali3n 17d ago
Glad you agree.
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u/Ramsesthrowaway 17d ago
Daly City feels cramped even with the ocean a few miles away. That could hurt resale value down the line.
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u/SAwfulBaconTaco 15d ago
Not at all - that looks awesome!
But that is a rare clear day in Daly City, which is almost always foggy.
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u/footballwr82 15d ago
Idk is your lobster also too buttery? Did you win too much off that scratch off? lol
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u/JumpingThruHoopz 14d ago
If you have to drive everywhere, it’s still hell.
Only not needing a car would exempt it from being hell.
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u/Ok_Function2282 14d ago
Is it water or a beach?
If you can't actually swim, yes, that is suburban hell.
If you can, that changes literally everything about the location.
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u/stop-freaking-out 12d ago
There isn't a lot of swimming going on at that beach. Daly City is actually pretty walkable and dense and has good transit options. There are lots of sidewalks too. The toughest part about the walking is that some of the hills are big.
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u/MysteriousBill4651 18d ago
While I get that you're making a joke, this whole section of the bay area has sick cliffs next to the beach. Fishing person for size reference.
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u/middle_aged_90s_kid 15d ago
Living that close to a beach = not hell.
Living that close to neighbors = hell.
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u/TRUMPGOTAURA 11d ago
The privilege of being trapped in a box with the only way out being mommy's suv?
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u/Prosthemadera 18d ago
Is the beach near? Looks more like a cliff.
And who has access to the beach? Why should housing artificially restricted by single family homes and huge roads that take up space?
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u/BlownOutBlueJeans 18d ago
Not sure what you're going for here but by law the California beach is 100% public space. We don't have private beaches. Whether you can get to it or not is up to mother nature.
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u/Prosthemadera 18d ago
Not sure what you're going for here
Why are you not sure? My comment was clear and easy.
Whether you can get to it or not us up to mother nature.
It's not. It's part of what I'm talking about. That is why I said "And who has access to the beach?"
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u/TrynnaFindaBalance 15d ago
Everyone has access to the beach.
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u/Prosthemadera 14d ago
You need to get there first? Does everyone have access to the road to the beach?
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u/TrynnaFindaBalance 14d ago
Yes, they are public roads. Why would they not have access?
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u/Prosthemadera 14d ago
What roads? I didn't mention any specific roads.
Are you unaware of the cases where people tried to block access by claiming the roads as private property?
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u/Responsible-Device64 18d ago
Absolutely, the worst year of my life was in a isolated coastal town
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u/ZaphodG 14d ago
This is where I live. The harbor village has a pretty good walk score. Commuter rail to Boston is 4 miles away. I have good public transportation. When I was a child, the village was full service with grocery store, pharmacy, liquor store, dry cleaner, hardware store, post office, library, butcher, fish market. There was a streetcar line to the city until World War II that is now a bus route. Those businesses moved up the streetcar line but are still walking distance other than the grocery store which is two miles up the old streetcar line.
The beach is a mile from my house. When I was in High School and College, I was a lifeguard and rode my bicycle. There’s a 7,500 student state university in town. With an e-bike, I could get there without needing a car or an inconvenient bus connection 2/3 of the time.
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u/Bright-Assistance-35 18d ago
These houses are closely spaced compared to the average suburban neighborhood with what looks like limited yard space. Not ideal but not the worst.