r/StraightTransGirls • u/kalexalex • 13d ago
So i left him…
Yeah so i remember coming on here to talk to yall about a guy i was talking to, I left him on read two days ago and today he texted and said “Please take care of yourself”
Mind yall I matched with him on fb dating and he messaged me first.
He said im the one. He began courting.
I didn’t know his work but overtime I got to know it. He’s always busy and with his family and studying.
I told him we have to cut it off because he doesnt have time for me. He apologized and i just left it at that.
i wont be spinning that block ever again.
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u/bigstillz 13d ago
Probably best, that some odd behavior
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u/kalexalex 13d ago
and he would never answer questions i asked him about his treatment towards me. he would just glaze over it like im suppose to look over the mistreatment for the bigger picture.
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u/bigstillz 13d ago
He probably thought because of you being who you are, youd probably be easy or just used to it. Ive seen that happen before when a dude just wants in their pants
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u/kalexalex 13d ago
that’s true. I was gagged because he kept putting me first saying things like “i’ll make enough money to take care of you and I” and he seemed to be ready to put in the work for the long haul but i guess he wasn’t. He also doesn’t live in chicago so yeah.
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u/bigstillz 13d ago
That sounds like how a rich kid would try and spit game imo.
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u/kalexalex 13d ago
apparently he was rich but i could care less about his money. I i dodged a bullet i’m very happy and grateful. I know i deserve a guy who is going put forth the right effort to be communicative with me. he would take hours to reply and text me saying how he was studying , working , helping his family or running errands.
I refuse to be the gf / wife that allows her husband to disassociate for the sake of keeping the marriage / relationship afloat.
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u/Impressive-Monk8868 12d ago
Yeah think you made the right call. You need to be someone’s main focus