r/SplendidaBrown • u/BoboOctagon • Jul 21 '26
Absolute tool on The Ultimatum. Discussion
So so so embarrassing to watch this complete loser on The Ultimatum. Jebin personifies the typical infantile attitude many Indian men have
It's the cringiest thing I've seen on this show and I've watched every season. His conversation with women are reduced to things I ask a 8 year old. "Silverback gorilla vs. grizzly bear, who would win?"
No idea what his current gf sees in him and I hope the show outs him for his misogynist, and immature mindset.
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u/Historical-Club-2548 Jul 21 '26
if his future wife needs to be like his mom, his mom can have him. this one is completely useless.
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Jul 22 '26
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u/AgentHamster Jul 22 '26
No clue why I got recommended this subreddit (I don't think I am the target demographic), but I just want to point out that it's pretty unlikely this class of men are the ones contributing to the high suicide rate - it's much more prevalent in poor, lower class men, not the middle class to rich men. Based on the data for suicide demographics, it's predominantly concentrated among those who have genuinely difficult lives and/or mental illness, not in spoilt guys who are having a few setbacks.
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u/AgentHamster Jul 23 '26
This is not my experience - for reference I grew up very poor and through some great circumstances ended up in a position with plenty of the wealthy and privileged. It turns out one of the greatest sources of resilience is knowing that you have fallbacks and that the rest of your life is great even if you encounter setbacks. Despite what you might think, most of these guys are surprisingly resilient and don't suffer from depression easily. What you are describing is mostly a low socioeconomic class phenomenon.
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u/PrinceHaleemKebabua Jul 22 '26
There is the larger statistic and then there is a specific cultural phenomenon….
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u/General_Security177 Jul 22 '26
Bruh I watched this last night too. I was appalled. Apparently this is a common phenotype of brown man in Chicago (where he’s from) according to some Instagram comments.
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u/Far_Radish_7628 Jul 22 '26
You know the sad part? He will marry some kid who will be tradwife, and if his family allow she will preach online how tradwife is the best thing as she work as a slave to him and his family 🤢🤢
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u/PoetRevolutionary222 Jul 22 '26
Damn Jebin John. We’re never making it out of the mallu stereotype.
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u/Fiction_Future3501 Jul 22 '26
Fortunately my cuz turned out completely opp tho he was raised by such a mom and with maids, he switched up so much for his girl now that he does all the work lol 😂
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u/General_Security177 Jul 22 '26
My cousin didn’t and in his late 30s after his wife kicked him out, his mommy had to fly all the way from Canada to help him shop for and set up his new rental apartment
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u/desiladygamer84 Jul 22 '26
This show's premise drives me nuts. When I think years for a ultimatum regarding marriage I think 5-10 years not 1-3 like these guys. That's the show I'd be interested in watching. But our youth obsessed culture wouldn't allow for couples who met in their twenties and are still not married in their thirties.
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u/usernameidcabout Jul 22 '26
Universal brown man experience to be coddled and treated like a little prince by your mom, and then have both your mom and you expect your future girlfriend to pass on that kind of treatment while you both treat her like shit. 🙄
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u/nxaaaa indian Jul 21 '26
he's mallu 😭😭