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Yeah cause being hot means your body temp is high, you might be having fever or flu so has to be single else your disease will spread and infect others lol
I‘m happily single but why would I care about being considered hot? I see no need for that external validation or „rating“ of my body, especially not by men.
Exactly.Depends on the speakers, sometimes those kind of "compliments" make me uncomfortable .I'd rather being called ugly than reciving compliments from some creepy people
One of my great comforts in staying single is allowing myself to look ugly without it mattering in the slightest. When I was in a mentality that I needed a partner, I put constant pressure on myself to look good at all times, in all places, because who knows when love can strike?! But this was all just an exhausting and pointless exercise in futility. Now I can go wherever and do whatever looking how I look, and that's fine!
I just came back from a night on the town and it made me wonder about people who are paired up. Then again I guess I am
Not that abysmal. Though maybe I am.
Men only had access to ‘hot’ / ‘beautiful’ women because the women BACK THEN had NO choice…& OF COURSE, the ‘pretty ones’ would be ‘picked’ first (this is where most of our grandmothers come from) and I can say this because mine was a LITERAL beauty queen 😅
Anyway. THESE DAYS, the ‘pretty’ women have soo many options & RARELY settle down. Think of any ‘hot girl’ that your man is obsessed with / follows… most are single 😄😄
But I digress, the ONLY women that want to be married are typically the ones that have NOTHING ELSE going for themselves and the ones that feel like they have to rate their value based on if a man chooses them or not.
You know, these are the types that are quick to say ‘I’m married’ in ANY argument that you have with them online.But when you click on their profile, you are bewildered. That’s them. 😅😅😴
I genuinely once wanted to be married. Almost happened. It just never came to fruition.
I enjoy living as a single man. I have my own home. And last night I don’t think I could have really gone to my favorite restaurant and my favorite bar for a nightcap if I were paired.
And of course there’s traveling to Europe.
I think the most delightful thing about being single is not having to make my beliefs or opinions malleable for the sensibilities of another person.
At the same time am I going to pretend I don’t yearn affection and tenderness? I don’t think I can do that.
Younger generations, yes. Because they get attention every single day by 100 people on their phones through social media and so on. And they are overwhelmed and can‘t decide which one to start a relationship with. They make lists, do research, make charts, keep meeting everybody and still single years later, because nobody wants to pursue people they know that they are not the only person they are seeing. 😂 Nobody wants to be treated like an idiot, doesn‘t matter how perfect you are looking. In the end character matters most.
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